#partner system

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[lefluoritesys]

So, this is a bit of a different post than usual, it doesn't directly relate to systems, but I really gotta share.

So, our partner system and us, we sleep on VCs. Main reason being, it just feels safer that way and feels like we're closer to each other. And we have like... a 7 hour time difference (to put it in perspective, their 10am is our 5pm), so we can also soothe each other's nightmares if we have them.

And yesterday was a pretty stressful day for us. As well as, we just felt sleepy and couldn't get anything done due to that. I was regressed, and they were still sleeping, it was almost 5am for them (almost 12pm for us). So I unmute my mic, and I call one of their alters who I see as a parental figure and who wasn't even fronting at that time. Wakes up, immediately fronts, asks me what's wrong, and I tell them that I want to be lulled to sleep. Cause I'm small and sleepy, but I want my mum to help me fall asleep. I am also apologizing cause they have work in a few hours, and I'm waking them up, not letting them sleep... and I get the "no apologies, baby, you're so small, of course you want your mum to lull you to sleep."

And we had another ex-partner system before that who told us, very explicitly, that we're foolish for trying something with our partner system, all because of a minor inconvenience that they didn't like (and that I won't bring up). I didn't listen, for the first time ever stood my ground... and so I went from a system who claimed that giving us any reaction to anything we send or are passionate about was "not something they were taught" (to the point where talking to them and talking to a wall made no difference), to a partner system who is willing, and encouraging us, to wake them up at night if we need them for literally anything.

So like, romance, friendship, QPR (queerplatonic relationships) are cool and all, but will they wake up in the middle of the night because you need affection? Cause ours will. And that's probably our biggest flex. /semi-ref

(@the-soup-system)

-host

[psiirockin]

Our vampire DID sona on a little date with our fiancee! Mace made me add him LOL.

[the-novaburst-system]

These fuckers are all so fucking annoying. The body has school. We're 18 (In May) so senior. But close fucking enough to an adult.

WHY THE FUCK ARE PEOPLE IN SCHOOLS SO FUCKING DISRESPECTFUL?!

@the-voidspace-system DUNCE FACE HOLD ME BACK-

-Katsuki

[the-bar-sinister]

We are a fictive plural system, and we write a lot of fanfiction about our source media. 

We also have a partner– also a fictive system– who is our writing partner.

When the circumstances are right, writing fanfiction based on our source media with our partner system allows us to write twice as fast, or faster, than we would be able to on our own.

When the circumstances are right.

Here's the thing.

Imagine that the brain is a computer, and that a complete identity (in this case a fictive) is a single program installed on that computer.

In these terms, our computer has about 30 different programs installed on it that can be used. And our partner system has another 30 completely different programs installed on their computer.

If we're writing a fanfiction scene that involves one character who is a program installed on our own hardware this is about as easy as breathing.

Opening one of these programs on our computer gives us access to all the memories, emotions, impulses, preferences, desires, reflexes etc of the character that the program belongs to.

Running one program on the hardware requires very little in terms of processing power (and is in fact, mandatory for running the computer at all. If the computer is running, it's running at least one program just to interact with the world.)

However, let's say we're writing a scene that involves two characters– both of whom are installed on our computer, and not on our partner's computer.

We have two choices. 

We can laboriously open and close each program as we need it, so that we're only running one at a time. This however, depletes the computer's battery power, tends to throw error messages, and sometimes just fails entirely.

Or we can open both programs and let them run concurrently at the same time. This drains battery power too– but less than opening and closing programs repeatedly However it also uses a lot of processing power. It slows down the computer as the computer has to devote resources to both program's behavior at the same time.

Every time we need an additional character in our system for the scene, we have to open another program. This uses additional battery power and processing power. It slows every task down even further, and if you open enough programs, the brain ceases to be able to handle it, starts throwing error messages, and might even overheat.

However, if we're writing a fanfiction scene that involves one character from our system– one program from our computer, and one character from our partner's system– one program from their computer– then we essentially get to network our computers together and run two programs with no slowdown.

Writing two character scenes where one character is on our system and one character is in their system is ridiculously easy to the point where it feels like magic. And even adding more characters is easier, because splitting four programs over two computers is easier than running four programs at once on one computer.

But of course it becomes logistically frustrating– because the characters we want to write together aren't always distributed in the most beneficial way between systems..

And that's why some of our fanfiction takes a long time to write and sometimes it comes out really fucking fast. 😂

[theinhumanesystem]

RIP to all the Alice Dyer fictives who just found out their Sam Khalid fictive bestie is their ex

-Alice🏳️‍⚧️

[wanderingpeonies]

symbol | no symbol

system pairing & pairpluric relationships

(partner) system pairing is an event between partner systems that involves 2(+) members splitting / forming in their respective systems very soon after one another, or otherwise sharing an important moment with eachother.

these individuals form a close and committed bond with the other, that may take the form of any platonic, queerplatonic, romantic, etc. relationship. it can seem as though the partner systems are "pairing" headmates together, like bluetooth devices.

the system members between partner systems who experience this could be called system pairs, partner pairs, bonded pairs, or paired members/headmates/etc. they can also choose any other label that feels best for their relationship.

system pairings are not limited to 2 individuals. all language used to refer to these types of partnerships can be modified to fit different relationships.

attraction and/or relationships (platonic, qp, romantic, alterous, etc) between paired members can be called pairpluric. this can be given specifiers, such as pairromantic, pairplatonic, pairqueerplatonic, etc.

this term was coined by peony gardens. we are pro-endo and inclusys. all systems are welcome to use this term however it may apply.

[pluralprompts]

Prompt #1,607

System A is cuddling with their partner system when they switch to a normally prickly and aloof headmate. However, they put up with the cuddles to make System B happy.

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[marcidcollective]

being a system is so funny cus why is William Afton kissing Bo Burnham 💀

[thelovesicklostones]

[didosddinfo]

Partner Systems

There are multiple definitions for partner systems, but here are some of the most common uses for it:

• Two systems who are partners in any capacity.

• Two systems whose alters are all mostly partners, with exceptions for conflicting sexualities and littles, and those who don't even know they're in a system.

• Two systems who have one pair or more alters in a relationship, but not the majority.

• To refer to a system another system is dating (aka, "I'm the Info System, and my partner system is xyz")

Generally, the term 'partner system' can means a relationship (platonic/romantic/ect) that involves one or more parties being systems. It's a very fluid and individual term, and it's best to clarify what specific perameters are meant by 'partner system,' especially when you are looking to enter a relationship with another system.

[korya-elana]

My dog was shooting a commercial this past weekend so I went home for my dad’s birthday because it was only a couple hours away from them.

I’m learning that my experience as a DID System with my family, as opposed to home with our partner System or at work as a “singlet” is … very, very different. And it’s both affirming and makes me question everything.

One of my biggest triggers is having my boundaries crossed because I wasn’t allowed to make any until I was in my late 20s. It’s still very new to me and I don’t take it well when I’ve managed to stiffen my spine enough to put down boundaries only for them to be trampled anyways.

The System already felt different than normal. Apparently we’re much more covert around my family. I couldn’t really feel anyone around while we were there. Basically just me up front and that’s rare.

Well the big trigger happened and I’m still not really sure what the hell happened? I know I started shouting about how it wasn’t ok my boundaries had been swept aside. But then I think Alice fronted and started shouting too? But she didn’t have her accent at all which has *never* happened to my knowledge. And then I was in the spare bedroom isolating and our partner System was leading us out for a walk. After that our youngest was co-con and upset but able not to take full front? Which is super super rare.

Idk. This shit is so complicated. As soon as I think I have it figured out, the universe changes things up.

And to my wonderful, wonderful sibling who may see this post or not, you are always welcome to ask us who’s at front or if it’s not Em. We’ll always answer honestly to the best of our ability ❤️

[lefluoritesys]

@the-soup-system, we've been exposed, we gotta hide-

Even Tumblr noticed.

-host

[r0ttingsystem]

We're close to hitting 1 year and 2 months with our partner, and we realized how much they've helped us realize our true self

HyperMasculine trans man? They helped us realize we're transneutral/transmasc and helped us feel okay with our fem side

Singlet? They helped us realize we're a system

Very 'high functioning' autistic? They helped us unmask, which made us realize that were FARRR from 'high functioning'

Just 'stupid with emotions'? They helped us realize we have BPD and HPD

Physically abled? They helped us realize that all the 'weird us things' are actual symptoms (aka our legs going numb, losing balance out of nowhere, having to pause while talking a step because either froze up or lost balance, everything hurting all the time)

Idk where this post was going but we love them more then life itself<3 @bunnysiren

[jvpiterstears]

good morning and happy valentines day tumblr,

our partner made this for us.

-🪝