#trans questions

[kiyana3692]

Thought on girls built like This?🍆

[baileyjayy1]

If I unveil this present 🎁 will you suck it?🍆

[sugarclarice]

Long time no selfie 🤳😻

[that-bisexual]

REMINDER THAT THE WAY YOU PRESENT YOURSELF HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR GENDER!! You could look like the most feminine person on the world and be a boy. It doesn’t matter. And also even if you prefer to dress like your agab you could be trans/nb/gq/ag/etc. or if you dress different from your agab you could still be cis. The way you dress is gender representation not your actual gender. Clothes shouldn’t be gendered at all but that’s a whole different topic. I think realizing that no matter how I dress my gender won’t be affected is something that helped me a lot with my self discovery. Now I’m not saying to dress different than your gender I’m just saying if you’re questioning focus on how you feel not the way you like to look (although that can be helpful too it’s all about the specific person!!)

[angrydefendorsuit]

Would you fuck me raw?🥰😍

[cyanomys]

Are there any other cis-identifying women out there who want to get top surgery? What is your experience?

Here's mine ...

Ah yes, June, Pride month, the time every year for me to ponder if the fact that I desperately want to cut my boobs off makes me trans....

But like!! I feel like a woman!! I just feel like a woman that doesn't have boobs!

Boobs were never part of my mental map of myself, they're like this unwanted limb that doesn't belong to me??

Obviously that's some kind of dysphoria but....I feel like a woman, or at least a sort of queer, gender-nonconforming woman. I am asexual (I think), so I want to say it could be related to that, but it feels reductive and incomplete as an explanation on its own.

In fact I am so certain I am a woman because I actually identified as trans nonbinary for a year and wore more masculine clothes and went by they/them because I thought that my chest dysphoria meant that must be the case, but I "detransitioned" because it didn't feel right (I am Not A TERF and very pro-enbies everywhere, it just was not me). Tbh I am significantly more secure in my identity now than I ever was before that time.

Also it fuckin sucks because binding is *literally* the worst possible thing for me, health wise. Makes my gerd, asthma, dizziness, and anxiety worse. I still wear light compression tops or tight sports bras a lot of days but can't tolerate it always. It's miserable.

And don't even get me started on how the hell I would pay for top surgery. Fat chance my insurance would cover it when I say I'm not trans and mine aren't even that huge to begin with so the typical reasons women get breast reductions (back pain etc) don't apply.

Wondering if anyone out there feels similarly.

[ritzy-dream-boy]

YOU. TRANS PERSON. ANY OF YOU. ALL OF YOU.

what are some things that give you euphoria? things that make you happy to be trans? absolutely anything about your gender that makes you experience joy. tell me.

[real-hottopic]

Question to any trans folk who find this. (Or anyone who can help)

I'm questioning and looking in the mirror kills me. (I'm AFAB). Part of me feels so wrong when I hear my name or see my body. It makes me want to cry. Idk if i should go to doctors because my mom isn't the richest, and my dad isn't transphobic exactly, but im scared to talk to him about it. To make it worse, I'm in Florida, and I'm scared what could happen to me or my parents if I tried to talk to therapists or doctors about it. I don't own binders, and I'm too scared to try other methods. I'm scared and I really need support. The internet and my mom are the only reliable support I have in this

[kiyana3692]

Do you wanna see what under my bulge

[kuroonir]

Genuine question for puertorican trans people... HOW?

I'm puertorican and I can't for the life of me find a way to start hrt (though even if I did I don't think I'd have the money but that's besides the point)

Like I don't know if posting here will get me answers but hey might as well try! Please I you have started hrt and specially if that's in Puerto Rico reply or send me a dm, teach me your waaaayyyys.

[khaire-traveler]

I'm going to add a "read more" option here because the following discusses potentially gender dysphoria triggering content. I'm asking a medical question (I will obviously double-check the legitimacy of the answer I get, don't worry) about being AFAB and getting rid of a certain monthly curse.

Since there are lots of fellow queer people on here, I wanted to ask a question related to medical gender stuff. My doctor kind of sucks about being informed on transgender issues, and the Internet has a gross bias in informative articles where it often refers to the reader as being female, which makes it difficult for me to research this. This is a weird question, but here goes nothing:

Does anyone know of any ways to get rid of menstruation medically forever? I used to be on Testosterone but had to stop, and when I stopped it, menstruation came back with a genuinely alarming vengeance. It's gotten to the point where it's not just about gender dysphoria anymore; I straight up cannot handle going through this every single month for however many years until menopause. I'm apprehensive about birth control because I've heard many mixed things about it, and honestly, I want a guaranteed way of getting rid of menstruation forever and ever. I do not even want the chance of it returning. Any and all advice is appreciated, and please feel free to share personal experiences!

[lvl8warlock]

Can I be a trans man if I still want to be cute and feminine occasionally? I never have a problem with men being cute and feminine but I'm worried people will say that it means that when I do it as a trans person that it means that I'm just a woman.

[doctorpigmd]

Hello trans brothers. I have some questions for you. I am a gender questioning/exploring cis man and I was really wondering how you guys interpret the positive traits of masculinity. The root of this question comes from being raised with some misandrist(?) undertones in my teenage years. For example according to this world view men are always some type of threat. Nearly every close woman presenting friend that I’ve had has sat me down and explained to me how they have been harmed by a man before. Sometimes I remember these stories and look at myself in the mirror and just wonder how they can even feel comfortable with me in the room. Sometimes I feel like my body scares people. I even had a classmate recently tell me that my basic appearance reminded them of their stalker. And while I am honored that they eventually did feel safe enough to confide this in me and I recognize how hard it must have been for them all, I really gotta double down and keep track of how their stories are affecting me. I am not those men. The entire reason they confided in me in the first place is because I don’t strike them as those men.

I guess what I am asking is:

Did misandrist viewpoints ever come up during your transition?

What positive traits appealed to you about masculinity?

Do others find safety in your masculinity?

What are some masculine rituals that you do that confirms your gender identity?

How can I, a cis man who has already been mistaken as a transgender man (i take this as a high compliment btw) by at least two other people learn from your experiences to gain more confidence as a man?

[talishere]

Hey does anyone know any good trans tape and binders? I'm a ftm guy and recently came out I have enough money to get some of the more expensive stuff since my dad owes me birthday money and I already have some money of my own I heard origami binders where good I have been looking at the transtape™ brand tape but I want something that lasts and some binders from what I've heard don't really work since I'm fat and stuff lol