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You guys wanna know when the things I wished for, hoped for, visualized and manifested actually started to appear to me, to become my reality? When I understood and learned how to ENJOY THE PROCESS!
Let’s yap a bit… ;)
Us as immediate people in an immediate society end up focusing entirely on the results, we only see the things we wish for as results, as finish lines. What we fail to do is see the start line and the path that leads to the end.
I don’t want to sound corny, but it’s really all about that Hannah Montana movie song “The Climb”. We only think about how fast we will get there, how life will be when we get there, how happy it will be when we get there. Well, here’s the thing: if you’re not happy and grateful throughout the way, don’t even expect to be happy on the finish line. Our goals are not essentially what make us happy, they’re proofs of our capacity and work. What actually makes someone’s life happy and amazing, is the way that person behaves and conditions their mind WHILE chasing all of these dreams. It’s all about your methods, it’s all about your feelings, your reactions to the world, the way you act towards people. Don’t think you’ll be happy and achieve the greatest things when you live your life and answer to the world bitterly, in a rush, not paying much mind to it.
I know this is obvious, but just so that no one is confused and comes for me after: I’m not saying every day is going to be incredible, I’m not saying that you’re not allowed to be sad, angry, uncomfortable, jealous, disgusted. These are all perfectly normal and human emotions, and everyone should feel them—it just shows you’re alive. This concept of being 24/7 happy and grateful and “Oh my God, everything’s incredible all the time” it’s just not sustainable nor healthy (+, obviously, not real). What we should do, instead, is allow these emotions to be felt, and then act upon them understanding why they’re there and how we can soothe them, or make them a little less strong. For example, understand where your anger comes from, is it truly someone’s fault, why are we feeling it. Not block it, not try to stop it from being felt—but understand it. And then, after thinking (even meditating, if you like) about it, let it go, and let it be felt still, if you think it’s the right thing. Don’t ask too much of yourself always, sometimes we really just need to scream for a second on our pillow or shed a tear in our room. It’s perfectly alright and also healthy!
Have fun, make friends, create good memories with these friends, study, live your life to the fullest. Meet new people, go to new places, discover new music, books, art, movies that make you feel something. Laugh with people you love, create memories through pictures, do some risky things, you don’t need to always be so careful about everything. Some lesions make us stronger. And while you’re doing everything else, manifest your dreams, work towards it, put in the effort, visualize, believe you’re worth and destined for that, acknowledge you already have everything you need to get there and that, actually, you are already there.
Learn to actually live your life on the way to your dreams, not just survive the path. When you look at life with gratitude and love, life looks back—and you’ll feel it.
As always, you’re free to agree or disagree with me on the various topics I talk about. It’s my own experience and the way it’s been for me. Feel free to also share your stories on comments and/or reblogs! I’ll love to see it.
That’s it for today’s yapping session. Love, Seiko ♡
♡ borders credit: @anitalenia
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HOW TO MINIMIZE PHONE SCREEN TIME
Most peoples phone screen time is extensively high due to the amount of time used on social media, streaming apps, games, etc...so here's how to fix that!
SET GOALS AND LIMITS
Determine how much time you want to spend on your phone each day and set limits using built- in screen time management features.
DISABLE NOTIFICATIONS
Minimize distractions by turning off unnecessary notifications or using "do not disturb" modes.
CREATE PHONE FREE ZONES
Designate specific areas or times where you won't use your phone, such as during meals or before bed.
REMOVE UNNECESSARY APPS
Delete apps that you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through or that don't serve a valuable purpose in your life.
FIND ALTERNATIVE ACTIVITIES
Replace phone usage with other activities you enjoy, such as reading, exercising, or spending time with friends and family.
SWITCH OVER APPS
If you have some apps you would like to use but find yourself using them a little too much, if you have another device that you don't use as much such as an Ipad, add those apps onto there to minimize usage of those apps that increase your screen time.
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Thewizardliz mindset
Liz's mindset is one focused on self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-love. Liz believes that we deserve the best and that we should be content with myself, she loves herself and she knows what she wants. She takes time for herself and doesn't let other people's opinions control her life. Liz also emphasizes the importance of changing your thoughts to change your life and she focuses on personal growth. Liz knows her worth and doesn't let the criticism of others get to her, she loves herself and has confidence in herself.
so how to have her mindset?
1-start taking care of yourself: give yourself love and attention, take time for yourself to take care of yourself and take care of yourself physically, mentally and emotionally.
2-develop good self-esteem: learn to accept and value yourself. Compliment yourself every day in front of the mirror. Don't settle for less than what you think you deserve.
3-more authentic self: don't let the criticism and judgments of others hold you back, don't be afraid to be yourself and stay true to yourself.
4-completely change your mindset: adopt the mindset if it's possible for others it's possible for me and a queen doesn't chase, she attracts. replace your negative thoughts with positive thoughts. meditate, read personal development books and listen to podcasts.
5-become more selfish: put your happiness first, put yourself first without feeling guilty. learn to say no to things that do not correspond to your values.
6-identify toxic relationships and put an end to them: become aware of toxic relationships that drag you down or are toxic for your well-being emotional. it could be people who manipulate you, who criticize you or something else. identify these relationships and consider taking steps to detach yourself from them.
7-start to establish boundaries: learn to set clear boundaries and to follow them enforce respect. identify the behaviors or situations that bother you and determine what you are ready to accept or not. communicate your limits and stay away from situations that do not suit you.
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i encourage you to take a couple of minutes to ground yourself and find your breath.
#mental health care#mental health#healthy mind#healthy soul#healthy body#positive#self love#positive mindset#heal#self care#meditate#zen
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just because...
... others seem to have larger problems, it doesn't mean your problems are any smaller.
your struggles need not be ignored or minimized. just because others are struggling, doesn't mean that you can't.
your issues need solutions too. your worries are not you being dramatic. you deserve love and attention. you're worth it ✨
#positively positive#positive affirmations#mental health#daily affirmations#affirmations#self love#self care#love yourself#mental health tips#mental health support#friendship problems#positive mindset#mindset#healthy mind#mindfulness#open minded#relax your mind#thinking positively#think positively#negative thinking#positive thinking#thinking#positive life#positive reinforcement#positive#positivity#body positive#positive quotes#positive mental attitude#positive thoughts
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People who argue against the idea that “Beauty is skin deep”, aren’t actually thinking about beauty. Hear me out.
 There’s “Beautiful”, “Hot,” and “Sexy”
Hot is the main thing most folks aspire to be. You’re gorgeous , and absolute 10, everyone wants to be affiliated and is instantly attracted to you because your visuals hit them like a bullet. This is what makes people believe that they can live life on easy mode( i.e. “pretty privilege”, face card”, etc) because if all they are is a visual knockout & the rest more or less does itself.
Sexy is a skill, a combination of charisma and confidence. Visually, you could be a 3, but the right charisma & confidence can boost you up to a 7. People are so enamored with how good you make them feel and how well you flirt, they don’t even notice or care that you’re not as hot as your stunning counterparts.
You can be Hot and Sexy. Both are a potent combination and what many folks envision when they hear the word “beautiful”; someone who is not only a visual knockout with folks clamoring to be around them but, has the charisma and confidence to own every room & those within it just by being there. But that’s not what “Beautiful” actually is.
What happens when you age and all of your visual features start to fade? What about your personality? Are you a good person? Is your mental health in check? Do you manipulate others or are problematic? What about your daily habits? Do you take care of yourself?
BEAUTIFUL cares less if you’re three or a 10 visually. It’s the way you carry yourself, the way you treat others, the kindness you have, your goals and aspirations. It’s the work you put into how you take care of yourself mentally, physically, and emotionally. It’s the wisdom & humility you’ve accumulated in your existence to shape who you are & the way you share your aura with others so they can see the beauty within themselves. Beauty stays with you long into your years, makes your partners, friends and loved ones see you with the same wonderful lens. When you come up in conversation, it makes someone describe all the positive internal parts they fell in love with first, while the physical attractiveness is given, but as an afterthought. “Hot” and “Sexy” to some extent avoids showing flaws whenever necessary to maintain an image. “Beautiful” embraces all of that & understands it’s an important part of you.
This is what folks don’t think about when they come to the argument that beauty is, in fact, skin deep. It involves the totality of a person, which most of them can’t conceptualize because they mostly allowed media to convince them that being hot/pretty/sexy is the equivalent of being “beautiful” as those people seem to get all the benefits for simply existing. And while, yes, a fatal flaw of our monkey-brain wiring is that we, as a society, tend to favor those who are visually appealing or can charm us, at the end of the day we most treasure those who have a wonderful soul, beautiful deep down. Our best friends, family members, mentors & partners can never hold a candle to those “hot” people.
Because Beauty is skin deep.
#long post#beauty is skin deep#beautiful#my thoughts#positive#healthy mind#life lessons#real life#beauty#hot#sexy#attractive#wisdom#musings#pretty privilege#my 2 cents#important#thoughts#self love#queue are so beautiful to me
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Man sacrifices his health to make money, then he sacrifices his money to recuperate his health. He is so anxious about the future, that he doesn't enjoy the present. And he lives as if he's never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.
#new perspective#self contemplation#how do you feel#every day life#what is life#why are we here?#healthy living#healthy mind#society quotes#humanity quotes#how to live#government corruption#money quotes#contemplating life#spiritual quotes#life quotes#life reminders#change quotes#motivational quotes#freedom quotes#life advice#quotes to think about#destiny quotes#human intelligence#human potential#human history#past present future#learn from the past#depression help#wake up
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#positivity#happy twerk#happiness#self concept#beauty#dream life#motivation#inspiration#self development#self love#self care#healthy habits#pinterest#daily routine#confidence#healthy lifestyle#matcha#friendhip#healthy mind#flowers
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If only I had enough words to describe how good God is to me —
#love#heart posture#poetry#open heart#healingjourney#relationships quotes#relationship with god#conversations with god#yahweh#ressurection#easter sunday#healing#bible#God is#love is#god is love#relationship goals#healthy boundaries#healthy mind#healing heart#love is beautiful#love everyone#god is good#god is my refuge#christianity#write the story 365#write the story#books and libraries#authors#writing community
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☆*:.。. Category is: IDEAL BOYFRIEND! .。.:*☆
These are my personal affirmations specifically for the things I want to attract, feel free to adapt to your reality!
I am worth of someone who I love dearly and loves me back just as much.
I deserve a partner who’s absolutely and entirely in love with me.
I am worth of a relationship in which both people add in each other’s lives, in which there is respect, admiration and care.
I deserve a partner who’s compatible to my beliefs and aspirations, and supports me even in the subjects they don’t really understand about.
I am worth of someone who brings light to my life, makes things easier instead of more complicated, lets me be myself and allows themselves the same.
I deserve a boyfriend who’s not afraid to love me and understands the complexity of a serious relationship.
I am worth of a relationship that has all the cheesy and corny things from romance movies every now and then.
I deserve to feel truly loved and to be looked at with the “look/eyes of love”.
I am worth of a boyfriend who’s my type both visually and personality-wise.
I deserve a love that’s easy.
DISCLAIMER: I am NOT manifesting Haku Shota himself! I am using him as visual examples on the moodboard since both his looks and personality are great representations of my ideal type!
#manifestation#law of attraction#law of assumption#loa tumblr#affirmations#affirm and persist#self concept#self confidence#self love#manifesting#self development#pro recovery#beauty#healthy mind#successful
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Essential Oils
Basil oil: focus
Clove oil: energising
Wintergreen oil: stress/tension relieving
Tangerine oil: cleansing
Rosemary oil: concentration
Chamomile oil: calming
Peppermint oil: ease stomach/headaches
Lemongrass oil: positivity
Lavender oil: sleep, relaxation
Grapefruit oil: uplifting
Frankincense oil: peace
Rose oil: lifts mood
Eucalyptus oil: clear breathing, opens chest
* Just a general cheat sheet – there are so many more different oils and uses for them :)
* Look for “100% natural oil” on the bottle to know it’s not mixed with harmful chemicals.
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Infinite peace is infinitely within the present 🕊
#inner peace#inner wisdom#inner journey#inner thoughts#present moment#mindfulquotes#healthy mind#mindfulthinking#mindfulmeditation#heart expansion#personal expansion#spiritual expansion#spiritual growth#spiritual life#spiritual journey#spiritualawareness#spiritual development
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one reason why you may not feel relaxed after doing nothing is because you keep stressing about something you need to do.
you didn't start studying for your exams on the weekend and just laid around doing nothing? and you still don't feel relaxed? could be because you were stressing and shaming yourself the entire time.
in order to purely rest your mind, you need to not stress about anything. let yourself be free for a day or two, eat whatever you want without worrying about it, take a break from replying to people if that overwhelms you. just take a proper break and don't worry about the consequences. then and only then will your mind feel like it's gotten some rest.
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be reminded that nothing is permanent, and we often need to go through something uncomfy in order to flourish. time heals everything!
#mental health care#mental health#healthy mind#healthy body#healthy soul#heal#positive#positive mindset#self love
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you are defined...
...by no one thing.
your job performance, your relationship status, the number of friends you have, your income, the way people talk about you, your knowledge and skills are all variable.
all these aspects of your life can be changed by others and yourself. however, something that nobody else can change except for you is your intent.
stay true to yourself. see your worth in who you are at a foundational level. do you want to do and be good? then, it's all good ✨
#positively positive#positive affirmations#mental health#daily affirmations#affirmations#self love#self care#love yourself#positive thinking#positive#positive mindset#healthy mind#mindset#love your life#love yourselves#daily life#real life#life#anxious thoughts#sleep thoughts#positive thoughts#positive life#you matter#be yourself#you are valid#trust your intuition
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