#grayaro

[thebirchtreesmightbewatchingme]

 Aromantic | Demisexual | Greyromantic

Asexual | Demiromantic | Greysexual

Originally I wanted to do just the ace one to give to a friend but then I remembered @internet-ghost did a thingy where fae drew a bunch of different prideflag ghosts which was a pretty fun project apparently so this is a collab now. There might be more pride flag cake slices in the making i don’t know yet we’ll see.

If there’s any specific flags you’d like to see as cake slices let me know and I’ll pass it on

Because this is a sideblog I can’t respond to your comment directly but yes @castiel-holmeshasthephonebox you can totally use one of these as your icon if you want to

[lunarhorrors]

hello!! i made these two flags to use as alternatives for the greyromantic and greysexual flags! feel free to use them :)

[aroaceconfessions]

You know, sometimes I think that I am, in fact, broken. Because how come I long to be loved like those beautiful poetries and romances I read, like, desperately... At the same time that I'm unable to return it? I've searched for it on multiple people, but I give up when I realize how selfish I'm being when I couldn't feel something towards them. I just loved the idea of love and being loved, not them. Then the only things that I have left is art and the consolation that "at least I have my best friend, my family", but they're finding this type love themselves and building their families. I try to get comfort on the fact that "as a single person with no partner and kids I will have more freedom and money", but idk... Sometimes I just wish I had someone to hold me, to kiss my face and say beautiful words to me. And "AroAce" is far away from being a known expression in my country, imagine "queer platonic"... Sorry for the long self pity rant. I'm just incredible sad these days.

Submitted July 9, 2023

[intersexfairy]

what does it feel like to drink ace respect juice and have so much swag

it feels so great i love being acespec and respecting my ace peers <3

and i am also arospec and respect my arospec peers!

and! and! aspecs who arent acespec or arospec! i see you and i respect you! <3

(click here to see some examples of non aro/ace aspec orientations!)

*the asocial page doesnt define antisocial well.

[amr2002amr]

romanctic attraction is thinking someone is cool, pretty, amazing, etc. and passionately desiring romantic things with said person and having this warm spark in you or butterflies in the stomach when you think about them or hang with them and desiring entering a romantic relationship with them. These feelings persist regardless of comfort level or compatibility. I am grayromantic and I have only experienced romantic attraction a couple times so I know what it feels like.

If you don't know, ask yourself, do you passionately want to do romantic acts with said person you're interested in, would that bring you fluffy joy and wonderous thrill or does simply being friends with them (or somewhere in between or any other tertiary attraction level) feel way better of an end goal to your passionate desires?

[will drop the term qpr, queer platonic partner/relationship here for your use if you don't know it already]

[palatteflags]

Day 22 of pride month!: Wintercore Gray Aro!

Want a moodboard? Send an ask! -mod Jay

[cristallun]

Happy valentines day for all aromantics!!

Remember u are valid no matter what others says, being u just aro/non-sam aro(hey that's also me!), aroallo, aroace, demiaro, grayaro, or any other micro label 💚💚💚

[flag-mashups]

Grayromantic + Aplatonic + Graysexual + Transmasc =

(Please read pinned post before interacting! <3)

Grayromantic - Someone who experiences romantic attraction rarely.

Aplatonic - Someone who does not experience platonic attraction and/or someone who lacks the desire to form friendships with specific people and/or someone who finds forming friendships in general as difficult due to nerodivergence or trauma.

Graysexual - Someone who experiences sexual attraction rarely.

Transmasc - A not binary trans person who presents more masculine.

[pupstarz]

🌌🧃🌌

🧃♠️🧃

🌌🧃🌌

🪐✩°｡⋆⸜ 🎧✮🏹⋆⑅˚₊⸜ 🍃‧₊˚✩彡 grayar0mantic ztimb0ard!1 // grayaromantic stimboard!1

[rainbowmewz]

the struggle of being grayromantic is only falling for one singular person and being obsessed with them til the end of time

[ithriel-coins]

grayaroelven!

a gender in the genderelven system related to being grayaro and being elven.

[ID 1: A genderelven flag with nine equal horizontal stripes. From the outside to the inside the colors are: Grey-navy, grey-green, green, light green, white. On top of the flag there's an icon of a white circle with a black border. Inside the circle there are six overlapping circles that form a flower like shape, with one circle in the center. All of the circles are empty, with a black outline. End ID.]

[ID 2: The same flag, with a starry sky overlaid. End ID.]

etymology - grayaro + elven.

requested by @bpdhoardic

[sewergirlsadness]

The one guy I ever liked died.

The one girl I ever liked started IDing as heteroromantic.

F in chat for my love life.

And solidarity to my fellow wlw greyromantics who's only girl crush turned out to be a straight girl.

[aroaceconfessions]

(tw for very romantic discussions)

i asked my boyfriend if it bothered him when i talked about being arospec. we've been dating for about 5 years now, he's known i was arospec since before we started dating, as of rn i believe he identifies as 100% allo, and i fully intend on marrying him someday. so i worry that when i talk about being arospec - when i use aroace as a blanket term (because i'm 100% ace and somewhere on the greyro spectrum) or call my favourite characters arospec or whatever - i worry that he'll think it means i don't love him, that he'll think our relationship means less than it does.

i expressed this worry to him. he said "baby, i wouldn't care if one day you realised you were 100% aro. you'd still be my baby."

...have i mentioned i'm going to marry this man? because i'm going to marry this man. he knows exactly what to say to make me melt. i've never romantically loved another person so strongly in my entire life

Submitted March 31, 2023

[tiredpoets]

A excerpt about my perspective on romance as someone aspec.

It seems for me I have ordered the same food every time at a restaurant.

And everyone has ordered something different.

They ask me why I stick to it,

and I say:

“I don’t want something I paid for and didn’t end up liking.

I don’t wanna waste my time on eating out and dining.

I want to eat my food in peace.”

but I stare at the menu a lot.

And god, French toast looks delicious sometimes!

I think it would be too much for me if I ate anything else, though.

But you know... if you offered?

I’d probably take just a teeny nibble.

Just to try it.

Hey, don’t tell anyone but-

Secretly, I dream of eating buffets.

[amr2002amr]

I'm a romance positive greyromantic individual.

[palatteflags]

Knight/Sword based Subtle Gray ace and Gray aro moodboard with the name Claire, also with subtle flag (with knight) and subtle sword symbol! ^^ For an anon~ Hope you like the look, if you need me to take the names of the flags off, feel free to ask!

Want one? Send an ask~ -mod Jay