#Unmetered

[merm-aac]

also shoutout to people with medium/higher support who have unmet needs. i think some people think if you have higher needs you automatically have all the support you need to function which is not true.

[howifeltabouthim]

'I've spent my whole life on my hands and knees, clamoring for crumbs of love. I don't know if there will ever come a time I am not hungry for it.'

Sasha Peyton Smith, from The Rose Bargain

[sadclowncentral]

hello! different anon but still a crushing-on-friends related ask. i'm wondering about your experience with remaining friends with someone you had a crush on (and/or the other way around) (assuming that both parties were/are aware about said crushing). like i guess the friendship and bond inevitably changes afterwards but does it also modify the closeness and and or..... i don't know exactly, just curious of how you personally navigate(d) this type or situation

sorry if this is turning your inbox into a relationship advice dump &feel free not to answer ofc!! thank u :)

my view on this might be unhelpful but i truly and deeply believe that to love and to be loved is never shameful or insulting and this whole idea of having to hide out of embarrassment or fear is poisoning the brain. some of my friends are in love with me. some i am in love with. some of us are compatible some are not. some are just as happy now as they could ever be just existing next to each other instead of together. it does not matter life on this one earth is so short why would it matter. i refuse out of principle to have complicated thoughts about beautiful things.

[loveyourlovelysoul]

Gentle reminder that you don't have to reply to people immediately. You can take your time, especially if you feel overwhelmed by them, their message or anything else going on in your life. You can tell them something like "I'm sorry I need to stay alone at this moment, I will answer you as soon as I feel better mentally". You don't have to answer them immediately so to not upset them: what about you being upset and maybe even frustrated? What if this feeling made you answer the them rudely or harshly, to lash out on them even if it's not what you wanted to? And it all would make it worse on you and make you feel guilty? You can avoid all this by simply talking about your needs openly. Take time for yourself, it's okay. Everyone goes through bad stuff, everyone takes time off from it all. You can do that too. Be nice with you.

[idleminds]

[pentapoctopus]

☀️ WIP Weekend ☀️

Make me write!

Thanks to the @strangerthingswritersguild, I'm new to this but am psyched to participate so here we go!

Rules: send me an emoji in an ask, and I'll write 50-100 words from that WIP.

Literally no limits, I'm on vacation AND sick in bed so there is literally not a thing in the world I can do right now other than write.

Works to choose from (all Steddie):

🎭 What Did You Think We Were Doing: my longest WIP, featuring fake-dating, miscommunication, and a second-chance romance. I need to update this months ago but since breaking up with my boyfriend, writing this particular story feels like actual torture but I just want to finish it because I still love it

👿 Fuck Me Like You Love Me: a random little tumblr ficlet that people really seemed to like. Enemies to FWB, or is it?

🏅 Unmet Needs Forty Ways: Sub Eddie enlists the help of life coach Steve after breaking up with his lifestyle Dom disrupts all his routines.

🍾 Wedding DJ Eddie: Steve attends a wedding shortly after proposing to his long-time GF and getting rejected and dumped. Not on AO3, but maybe someday!

⚫ Untitled Counter Stalking fic: DDDNE, extremely dark, irredeemable characters, Dark!Eddie hates Steve but stalks him to satisfy his curiosity, but finds he's bitten off more he can chew when Dark!Steve quickly becomes obsessed with stalking him right back.

No pressure tags!

@beingmissbatty @hbyrde36 @pearynice @turinspeachjam @sourw0lfs @tinytalkingtina @little-annie @helpimstuckposting @machtaholic @kikidoesfanfic @vthx @eyesofshinigami @miraculousmultifan @puncertainty @nureyevsins @stellarspecter @queenofshenanigans @augustjustice @felixir-of-moths @devondespresso @vegasol @maxfandoms @yesdangerpls @mission2mordor @penny00dreadful @lightoftheseraph @medusapelagia @soaringornithopter @marvel-ous-m @shares-a-vest @cloudsurfing42 @acidicbarkbeast @bl00dofgrapes @madaboutmunson

[the-batblog]

Imagine a Halloween party where Jason walks in wearing a Discowing costume (including the wig) and Dick is right behind him with a bucket-head Red Hood costume (complete with tuxedo and cape).

[thepeacefulgarden]

[raining-anonymously]

[ID: Digital drawing of Carl Karl, Monty Monogram, Vanessa Doofenshmirtz, Stacy Hirano, Jeremy Johnson, and Candace Flynn from the torsos up. Most of them are smiling, but Vanessa has a flatter expression and Candace is looking up with slight confusion. end ID]

the Teens my beloved. they’d be an unstoppable autistic power friend group

[edisacornball]

You know that tumblr post that floats around every so often that's like "If you feel like everyone hates you, sleep. If you feel like you hate everyone, eat. If you feel like you hate yourself, shower." ?

I don't feel like we really talk about what it means when you have nowhere to shower or sleep and nothing to eat. Because that's what it means to be homeless. You get stuck in a constant loop of feeling like everyone hates you, you hate yourself, and you hate everyone. And there isn't really much you can even do to fix it, because you just don't have the means to take care of yourself.

And then people will complain that homeless people seem so angry and bitter. People will refuse to help someone because that person isn't acting happy and cheerful enough for them.

I don't have some pithy, feel-good advice to wrap this up and make everyone feel better about the whole thing. Just. If you can get rid of the hate feeling for even a few hours, take a minute to be grateful for that.

And be fucking nice to homeless people.

[edwinas]

Unmet: A Neurosurgeon's Diary dir. Yuki Saito & Motohashi Keita

[soundleer]

How many asks do you have? Bet you'll answer with 3 digits

triple digits is indeed the amount thats been sitting in my inbox

excluding duplicates, i have like. over 300 rn. holy shit—

[idleminds]

[pentapoctopus]

Last Line Tag Game

Rules: put the last line you’ve written, then tag as many people as there are words.

Thanks for the tag @wheneverfeasible!

I will have to edit this line to nix the mixed metaphor but here's what we're working with for now. (One guess who this is about.)

He looked like a wet dream, a commercial for croptops and the era of getting your dick sucked in the YMCA bathroom.

22 is so many especially given I don't have many mutuals on Tumblr so no pressure!!

@beingmissbatty @munson-slutt @infinite-orangepeel @eddywoww @miss-bushido

@mackierose95 @hbyrde36 @rabidaly @abyssus-86 @giverjoe

@hammity-hammer @finalmoondragon @stevieschrodinger @ahoystevee @scoops-aboy86

@sp0o0kylights @thorniest-rose @steddietogo @hawkinsbnbg @bluehydrangeabush @bramble-berries @thisapplepielife @gayjinkies

[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

[thepeacefulgarden]