#authentic femininity

[theluckygirlblog]

The Quiet Power of Vulnerability: Why Being Soft is the New Strong

We live in a world that rewards toughness. We’re taught to armor up, smile through the pain, hustle harder, and keep our emotions in check. For women especially, there’s a subtle pressure to be “strong” in a way that often means suppressing softness, hiding our hearts, and never showing the cracks. But here’s the truth: real strength isn’t found in the absence of vulnerability—it’s found in the…

[wickedzeevyln]

Skin

Character is ageless and as such the essence if beauty. Her face could have been a gown for a magazine gracing a newspaper stands’ catwalk, laminated under a gloss. Only if she tried. Skin, golden glazed not even the sun is worthy to touch, sculpted cheekbones where her lips hang as they drape down to a smile. She had what the world defined as beauty. If she wore something that screamed for…

[glowup-princess]

ʜᴏᴡ ᴛᴏ ɢᴇᴛ ɪɴᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀ ꜰᴇᴍɪɴɪɴᴇ ᴇɴᴇʀɢʏ

Embracing your feminine energy involves connecting with qualities such as intuition, creativity, empathy, and receptivity.

Engage in Creative Activities: Paint, dance, write, or craft are creative endeavors that foster self-expression and connect you to your creative essence.

Practice Self-Reflection: Dedicate time to introspection through journaling or meditation. This helps you stay grounded and in tune with your inner self.

Connect with Nature: Spend time outdoors, appreciating the beauty of the natural world. Walking in the park or sitting by a body of water can enhance your sense of peace and receptivity. citeturn0search3

Embrace Stillness and Rest: Allow yourself periods of rest and relaxation. Embracing stillness enables you to receive insights and rejuvenate your mind and body.

Cultivate Receptivity: Practice being open to receiving—whether it's help, compliments, or opportunities. This openness nurtures your feminine energy by balancing the act of giving and receiving.

Nurture Relationships: Invest time in building and maintaining meaningful connections. Engaging in deep, empathetic conversations fosters emotional intimacy and aligns with feminine qualities.

Honor Your Emotions: Acknowledge and embrace your feelings without judgment. Allowing yourself to experience a full range of emotions enhances emotional intelligence and authenticity.

Let them treat you like the princess you are <3

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[lesbianjackies]

hold my hand and say it with me: jackie taylor is not a femme

[theblackfemininesociety]

The Authenticity of IT Girls ✨

💎 Be Your Own Muse.

🏷️ zoewrrld

[uncanny-tranny]

Begging, begging, begging people to stop associating aging and femininity in men/masculine people as Wrong and Predatory. Femininity has no age limit.

To any feminine man, masculine person, or really, anybody who needs to hear this: Your femininity deserves to be recognized and celebrated. Aging is a natural and unique part of life, and you don't have to sacrifice your femininity for fear of being "too old" to be accepted or seen as charming. You are already charming.

There is no limit to being who you are. No matter what you're told, you still deserve to completely claim yourself.

[sk-lumen]

Say it with me.

I am done with toxic people.

I am done being taken for granted.

I will no longer tolerate disrespect.

I will no longer tolerate manipulation or emotional blackmail.

I am done making sacrifices for people that only make me feel anxious and unseen.

I am done chasing opportunities that do not align with my authentic self.

I am done bending over backwards just to fit into a box that never served me.

[succulentsiren]

Learn how to flirt and tempt naturally. Sex appeal is best worn, expressed and indulged in, when it comes from a place of authenticity.

The Seductive Personality🍒

[frothy-commissions]

I really love the idea of transmasculine Bede just waking up before the gym challenge and deciding that this is it. Lile what better way to introduce himself to the world than to become champion and as male. So he starts becoming more aggressive and arrogant, especially to someone like Hop who comfortable in their own body (maybe not with themselves, but with their gender at least) and presenting as a man would in his eyes. He starts rejecting that he still likes pink and feminine things, and tries so hard to disassociate from it...

Until Opal take him in and suddenly he is confronted for the fact that he's still pink, and he still likes pink. Confronted with the fact that faries, pink, and softer things don't negate his identity as a man. He doesn't have to be aggressive to affirm his masculinity; he is still him. And it's almost freeing for Bede to be the fairy gym leader, to be dressed in pink, to show the power of pink, but as Bede. He finally gets to fully be himself.

[feminiel]

Wednesday, 18 September, 2024

To be a good provider means being able to see someone for who they truly are and, accordingly, provide for them in a way that supports their authentic self. Someone may be a provider, but they can be unconscious of how to truly see you. When a provider is unaware of what makes you you, they will provide in ways that are neither nourishing nor fulfilling. On the other hand, if someone provides consciously, they will see you and be able to support your true being, your mission, and your destiny.

If we want to find and attract providers of this kind, I believe we first need to work on knowing who we truly are. We cannot find conscious providers if we don’t know what we want, need, and desire for ourselves. We need to see, recognize, and connect with our higher self.

Providers can be friends, associates, parents, significant others, business partners, and other types of relationships or connections. It can also be you.

If you want good providers, be a good provider for your true self first. When you know your authentic self, you are more aware of how others are providing for you and how you are receiving from them.

Being in your receptive energy means being aware and conscious of the energy that someone gives to you. I also believe that when you are conscious of how you receive, you will be able to discern what is given to you in a conscious way.

Being a conscious provider is an intention—an intention to give in ways that help someone grow, flourish, and align with their true self and power.

Consciously receiving means embodying your authenticity and higher self so that you can believe, allow, trust, and have faith that you will accept only what you truly deserve from your providers.

If you are someone who didn’t receive from provider figures in terms of quality of your true self, it can create mistrust and disbelief around receiving (and around what you are not receiving) from others and potential future providers. It can also create feelings of undeservingness, blockages around being your true self, and confusion about seeing and recognizing who you really are, which can lead to a loss of the self. ~ @feminiel

[serenagaia]

“I love being me, it pisses off all the right people.”

[theblackfemininesociety]

IT GIRL AURA ✨

🏷️ shaniachristinad - via. instagram

[strawberrytallcakee]

sometimes I feel like a lily blooming in the meadows soft mornings, when the sun is just about to rise. other times when the full moon is high and shines bright; I bloom again, alone in the heaviness of the night.

an escapable love I have for the ability to balance in my soul, both darkness & light.

[fallen-white-rose-petals]

When I examine my artwork with the eyes of a psychoanalyst, I often see themes of isolation and loneliness and when I check in with myself, I see me as needing space for myself due to enmeshment trauma and a desperate part of myself showing an inner desire for a sense of self and individuality, which begs the question, who am I then? Where does self end and Self start? Most of my life I've felt very frozen in my body and its why I am drawn to the arts and self-expression, where honesty and truth is the warmth that I need to melt this capstone of ice. Thus, I use whatever I can such as social media to use for my own benefit where venting and flaunting my own deepest thoughts for everyone to see gives my ego that's trying to keep me safe by hiding, not much room to hide. I find this action is very left-hand path where I'm using the taboo for a purpose of healing and not escapism into another box of definitions like a lot of intellectuals do to sound smart to a less well-read populace. Alot of people find me very egoic, but they don't understand the avenue I am coming from where me being so detached from my body and emotions, always being on hyper alert mode has made me feel unsafe, where now due to my spiritual practise I feel at home in my body. Now most of my day is spent in a deep peace and reverence for all creation as I am realizing that everything is divine - even my perception of the material plane that seems separate to my physical sight but is actually all interconnected only if I gave myself time to look deeper. I'm finding myself less and less looking around for answers and trusting myself to be shown things when I need to be shown them, and so the truth and self-honesty are the pillars I often return to in my prayers at night where I talk to myself silently in order to flush out any suppression through the day as we are living in a very suppressed climate of humans that are very unhappy and feel powerless to do something effective about it. This healing is not winning the lotto, or some get rich quick scheme that a lot of people like to use to plaster their lives together to make as if they are keeping up with the social norm, but I know through deep experience you can never hide or run away from self and often it's a blessing to metaphorically die at an early age. Its why I think a lot of wise souls incarnate into hardship early on because it gets them questioning at a younger age so that when they are in their prime, they can actually enjoy it fully by not having insecurities that are hiding underneath that they are trying to mask.

Now I don't mind at all being by myself, because I have built the faculties to actually enjoy my animal humanness with its divine organs of perception, where God takes a much fuller apprehension then just my projection of what I think and what society has told me about God to be. And also, I enjoy the company of others as I am not trying to dissect them out of fear but allow them to rumour wherever they are and meet them halfway as I also have a will of my own that I need to attune to, to make my own life have meaning and direction.

Ove time through tantra my body of self - melts into the Self of all existence where different gears snap into your world view that you learn to tread with like riding a sailboat, which gives me a feeling of importance and value in the world, as the world turns on ideas and people are the engine of those ideas and my job is to make us more aware of these ideas, instead of just following blindly because fawning feels safer. This is an acrylic painting done by me Roche Pienaar called alone time. 18.5 x 21cm - 290gsm paper

[aphroditeslore]

Love yourself enough to pursue your dreams and aspirations - you are the only one that can take action towards the life you dream about ✨

[agirlunfilteredsblog]

STAYING TRUE TO YOURSELF

Hi girls!! First of all, I want to say thank you so much for ALL the love and engagement you all have given me in this recent days, I am eternally grateful for it all. Anyways, today we will talk (very quickly) about how to stay true to yourself, in an age where everything is forcibly fake and disingenuous.

I feel like one of the biggest misconception we tend to have as individuals is assume everyone around us cares about what we say and do 24/7. This could not ne further from the case. Nobody cares if you’re walking in a shitty outfit most times or if you’re hair is up or down.

Do things that bring you joy. Things that make your aura shine its brightest. Reflect on what your desires are, and accomplish them. Don’t be scared to affirm what YOU want for yourself and never feel guilty about it. When you start acting according to your own will, people will notice you, but for all the right reasons. Your true self will always and forever be the version of yourself that will garner the purest, rawest energy. Take life one step at a time, each step being a thought-out step of where you want to go and be.

So much love,

A girl unfiltered 💋