#dick is panromantic demisexual

[echosbento]

My boyfriend and I were talking about how each of the batfam make a good allegory for different queer orientations so y'all getting the list <3

Bruce: closeted homosexuality, despite the skin tight leather I actually did wind out settling on the idea that Batman is the het masking and Bruce is the true queer self

Dick: out/open homosexuality

Cass: aromantic allosexuality or transgender

Jason: demisexuality

Tim: bisexuality

Steph: pansexuality

Damian: aromantic asexuality

Duke: heteroromantic asexuality

Note this does NOT equate to my actual headcanons for their orientations, that's in the tags, it's about the way I associate their stories with the way people see and/or experience different queer/lgbt+ orientations. Reblog with your own thoughts on how you think their stories could be allegories for diff queer identities if you want! If you're cooler than me you could put some reasonings, instead of just the horrifying realization that they might've been right when they said Batman was the hetero to Bruce's homo

[arabian-batboy]

Anyways, Dick, Barbara and Tim are all Bi. Difference is that Dick and Babs are the chad “oh yeah, they can get it both ways!” kind of Bi while Tim is the loser “wait, he can get it both ways??” kind of Bi.

Jason, Cassandra and Damian are all Asexual. Difference is that on top of being Ace, Jason is also Demiromantic while Cassandra is Panromantic and Damian is Aromantic.

Meanwhile Stephanie is Pansexual and Duke is Demisexual.

Goodnight.

[tyungelic]

★ txt lgbt headcanons from me, a lesbian who’s correct about everything always

(based off of @elaichoi’s brilliant post about whether or not the members would take dick)

this post is made all in good fun and not to be taken seriously as a sexuality analysis these are based mostly off of me and my girlfriend yapping in discord all day

enjoy!! (or don’t idc)

★ SOOBIN

this is a straight cis man who watches anime

probably gets off to badly animated big anime titties that look like water balloons

would probably kiss a guy once and be like … nah that’s not my thing

the best guy to come out to bc he’ll just be like “oh cool congrats”

★ YEONJUN

this guy loves kissing on his homies!!!!

male version of those straight girls who makeout with their girl friends at the club after two vodka sours

most likely straight with some gender wizardry going on

would probably clock you as gay before you even come out but will still be nice about it (he’ll text you about how he knew you were a fruit the moment you first met)

great person to go to pride events with

★ BEOMGYU

THIS IS A GAY MAN SORRY LADIES

he’s literally on korean gay twitter what business would any straight cis man have on gay twitter cmon now

has probably been in a situationship with a guy that broke his heart and changed the trajectory of his life forever (gay canon event)

if you come out to beomgyu he’s gonna be like “really???” all sarcastically and make fun of you but then give you a big hug and say he’s proud of you

★ TAEHYUN

probably bisexual with a female lean

loves older women and men his age that he can throw around like a rag doll

found out what pride month was and immediately started doing extensive research (looking up am i gay quizzes and taking all of them)

yet another good person to come out to, he’d say he’s happy for you and then says he hopes you don’t get into a relationship before he does

another good person to go to pride events with he would pick up on voguing really quickly and start housing mfers

★ HUENINGKAI

lord of the gender the most gender person to ever exist

would probably go by all pronouns

likes to experiment with labels

sexuality-wise i see him as demisexual and panromantic he just seems like he wouldn’t want sex with someone unless he was infatuated with them

good person to come out to i feel like he would be so kind and listen to you gush about your crush for hours (this is the talk and talk the night away he’s referring to in bfm txt version)

okay that’s it thanks for reading!! and remember…

[batfam-my-beloved]

Peak Batfam Character Design Headcannons

Bruce Wayne

• Jewish/Japanese/English (Idk where I saw it but someone drew Martha and Thomas Wayne and headcannon Martha as a Jewish Polish immigrant and Thomas as half Japanese half English and I really really love that headcannon) [Edit: it was @not-another-robin ]

• Stubbly scratchy

• Thicc thighs (save lives 🙏🥵)

• Under bite

• Scars all over

• Sharp features/high cheek bones

• 5ft 5in (we support a short king 🙌)

• Wide set sholders/back muscles of the ✨️gods✨️

• Has a scar right that goes through his left brow

• Pierced ears that he got when he was a teenager and going through his "goth" faze (let's be honest it still hasn't ended)

• Mainly sticks to wearing classic black/diamond studs

• Secretly misses his long dangling edgy earings

• Panromantic demisexual

• Autistic /OCD/PTSD

• Pls let him ramble about his special interests 🥺👉👈

• Romanian descent

Dick Grayson

• Built but lean

• Very flexible

• Lovely tan skin

• Cute dimples

• The prettiest dark blue eyes you ever did see

• ✨️Nice ass✨️ (obviously)

• Long leggedy legs

• Floofy mullet hair

• Tall boi 6ft 3in (exactly 1 whole inch taller than Jason and it infuriates him 😋)

• He had to get braces at one point and it was the worst time of his life (drama queen 🤭)

• Low key a fuck boi

• He still sweet tho 😘

• His stomach is an endless black hole

• This ain't no lie this boi is bi bi bi

• Adhd go brr 💨

Jason Todd

• Latino Jason for the win baby! Specifically Mexican because I'm projecting 😋

• Built like a shit brick house

• Sturdy but soft like a weight lifter

• No six pack only tum tum 😤

• 6ft 2in (1 inch shorter then Dick and hates it 🤣)

• Stubbly scratchy (like his dad 🥺)

• Thicc thighs that can crush heads (also like his dad 😅)

• Also is riddled with scars as well, mainly bullet wounds

• End the debate: he has heterochromia one blue and one green eye

• Crooked nose from constantly being broken

• J scar on the cheek (do NOT mention it)

• His eye sight is shit but he refuses to get glasses

• He caved once started have trouble reading without getting a headache 🤓

• Panromantic asexual

• PTSD cuz this boi gots ✨️trauma✨️

Tim Drake

• Vietnamese/Irish (cuz I said so 😤)

• Long lean Built

• Floppy hair with a middle part

• Tooth gap ❤️

• Has one (1) singular dimple on his right cheek

• When not on the clock as Robin he is clumsy and always covered in bandages

• Scraped knees and elbows

• Cuz he was a Skater boi and said no I ain't wearing a helmet

• ✨️Skater boi aesthetic✨️

• Also a gamer boi

• Yes he got the cat ear headphones 🐈 😻 🐈‍⬛️

• His eye sight turns to shit over time cuz he's always on the computer

• Yes he got the hipster glasses 🤓

• Bi disaster

• OCD go brr 💨

Damian Wayne

• Arabic

• Lean muscle like an MMA fighter

• Hopes to hit a growth spurt soon but he will still end up short just like his daddy 😈

• Lovely dark skin

• Very sharp features (like his dad)

• Beautiful green eyes (like his mom)

• Long slender nose

• Teeth and ears are slightly pointed due to his demon blood

• Under bite (it's genetic at this point 😋)

• Neat clipped spiky hair

• Prides himself in not having as many scars as the rest (sign of strength in combat)

• Nonbinary/Gender Queer

• Asperger's Syndrome

• His special interests are anime, animals, and swords

Cassandra Cain

• Chinese decent

• Ballerina body with a bit more muscle around the arms

• Ballerina feet (they hurt 🥺)

• Nice olive skin

• Cute round face

• Hands have lots of little scars and bruises

• Selective mute

• ASL and Chinese sign language✌️

• Bob hair cut with an under cut

• Wanted to peirce her ears when she saw that Bruce had his pierced

• They get matching earings ❤️

• Pan 💖💛💙

• Joining Jason in the PTSD and trauma club 😗✌️

Stephanie Brown

• Hungarian decent

• More square around the shoulders

• Stacked like a classic boxer

• 3 ears piercings on each ear

• Dirty blond hair reaches a little passed her shoulder blades

• Also has had braces at one point

• Nail polish is always chipped

• Has fought several people at 3am behind a Waffle house

• Bi icon

• Low key has anger issues but is going to therapy for that now 😗✌️

Duke Thomas

• African American

• Classic athletic build (like dorito)

• Large thick hands (so that he may hold the people he loves 🥺❤️)

• Square jaw line but also soft around the edges

• Short clipped hair with his little zig zaggies shaved on the side, sometimes he changes up the design when he feels daring 😘

• Ears stick out a little (very cute 😍)

• Also has pierced ear that he's had since he was 8yrs

• He to gets a matching set with Bruce and Cass ❤️

• Over bite

• He is an ally and very supportive 💕

• His lips are chapped cuz our boi gots ✨️Anxiety✨️ and is always chewing on them

[str1ga]

ᴠᴀᴍᴘɪʀᴇꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ᴋɪʟʟᴇʀꜱ. ᴀᴘᴇx ᴘʀᴇᴅᴀᴛᴏʀꜱ ᴡʜᴏꜱᴇ ᴀʟʟ-ꜱᴇᴇɪɴɢ ᴇʏᴇꜱ ᴡᴇʀᴇ ᴍᴇᴀɴᴛ ᴛᴏ ɢɪᴠᴇ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴅᴇᴛᴀᴄʜᴍᴇɴᴛ. ᴛʜᴇ ᴀʙɪʟɪᴛʏ ᴛᴏ ꜱᴇᴇ ᴀ ʜᴜᴍᴀɴ ʟɪꜰᴇ ɪɴ ɪᴛꜱ ᴇɴᴛɪʀᴇᴛʏ. ɴᴏᴛ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴀɴʏ ᴍᴀʀᴋᴇꜱᴛ ꜱᴏʀʀᴏᴡ, ʙᴜᴛ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴛʜʀɪʟʟɪɴɢ ꜱᴀᴛɪꜱꜰᴀᴄᴛɪᴏɴ ᴏꜰ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇ ᴇɴᴅ ᴏꜰ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʟɪꜰᴇ. ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴀ ʜᴀɴᴅ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴅɪᴠɪɴᴇ ᴘʟᴀɴ. -- ʟᴏᴜɪꜱ ᴅᴇ ᴘᴏɪɴᴛᴇ ᴅᴜ ʟᴀᴄ

private mutually exclusive vampire multimuse. written by bee. primarily written in the first person. mature themes present 21+ only.

heavily affliated with: @agedrot @benefeco @fyllakas @maramcna @faebloods @badwo1f

promo. memes.

RULES AND MUSES:

ONE . The first rule of my blogs will literally always be don’t be a dick. I don’t have time for it. You don’t have time for it. Just don’t do it.

TWO . I don't have any triggers, but if you do please let me know!! this blog will contain a boat load of triggering content including but not limited to gore, violence, and mature situations. I generally don't tag triggers unless I'm asked, but I tag things with NSFW when it needs to be.

THREE . I do practice mains and exclusives, because sometimes you just click with people and that's ok! I will follow duplicates of MY muse, but unless it's a friend, I generally won't follow duplicates of exclusive muses.

FOUR . This blog is limited to interactions with mutuals. i always follow back / follow first if i feel like we can write together. if i haven't followed you back after a few days, it probably means i won't be following back to write. for the sake of my profession (i'm a high school age educator) i will not be following back anyone younger than 21.

FOUR CONT. While i do not follow back younger than 21 because i feel icky if you're young enough to be my student, my messages are always open if you ever need anything! if you need an adultier adult to talk to about something i can always try to be that for anyone. i know how important trusted adults are.

FIVE . This blog will be mostly private. I'm here for a good time not a long time. If you want to write with me, the best way is to DM me and say yo bitch let's RP.

SIX . My name is bee. i'm 32 years old. i've been writing on tumblr for like 10 years and rping in general for over half my life. i met my significant other through rp. we just moved across the country so i could go to rabbinical school. obviously i'm super busy but i love making friends!

CREDITS . so far everything on this blog is made by me! including the PSDs.

MUSE LIST

all muses are canon divergent in some way. if there is a link on a character's name please click it for more info.

TWILIGHT

caius of the volturi coven. over three thousand. appears twenty-three. aromantic demisexual. single ship with @agedrot. fc: sam reid.

felix of the volturi coven. two thousand. appears twenty. single ship with @fyllakas. fc: jacob elordi.

bella swan. twenty-five. aromantic lesbian. note: heavily au. series takes place while she is in college and living with her dad. she grows tired of waiting for edward to turn her and instead @agedrot turns her after eclipse. no kids. only written as a vampire. fc: naomi scott.

jasper hale of the volturi coven. one hundred. appears twenty. demiromantic pansexual. note: heavily au. stolen from maria by caius and not carlisle. is sent to the cullens to spy on them. returns to the coven with bella. fc: timothée chalamet

THE VAMPIRE CHRONICLES

louis de pointe du lac. over one hundred. appears thirty three. homoromantic homosexual. mostly follows amc canon. fc: jacob anderson.

BALDUR'S GATE 3

astarion ancunín. two hundred. appears thirty nine. panromantic pansexual. rouge/ranger. deeply not ascended ever. fantasy as well as modern verses. fc: aaron tveit.

TRUE BLOOD

eric northman. two thousand. appears twenty five. panromantic pansexual. i'm here to right canon wrongs. fc: alexander skarsgard.

[roboraindrop]

Here are my f/o sexuality headcanons for Pride Time :3

Dick - Panromantic Demisexual

Jigen - Bisexual trans man

Warp - Refuses to label anything, is who he is and likes who he likes

Toshi - Biromantic Asexual

Fonzie - Distinguished Pansexual

Oswald - Cis, with Schrodinger's Sexuality; He both is and is not straight. He doesn't understand sexuality tbh but he will absolutely go to pride w me and support my identity vocally (':

Dan - Disaster Pansexual

[xxlordalexanderxx]

GET TO KNOW THE MUN!

Name / Alias: Slurku

Are you over 18? Yes / No (21+)

– W R I T I N G –

Are you selective about who you write with? No (anyone) / Semi (most people) / Yes (some people) / Highly (few people) / Private (mutuals only).

Are you selective about who you follow? No (anyone) / Semi (most people) / Yes (some people) / Highly (few people).

If your muse is canon, how much do you adhere to canon? Not at all / A little / Some / Mostly / Strictly / Not Applicable.

What post lengths do you write? One-Liners / Single-Para / Multi-Para / Novella / All of the aforementioned.

Do you use icons and/or GIFS? No / Gifs / Icons / Yes / Sometimes.

Do you write on other platforms? No / Yes I dick around on discord but nothing serious and only with my close friends.

What level of plots do you write? Unplotted / Open-Ended Plots / Semi-Plotted / Fully Plotted Epics / All of the aforementioned

How quickly do you usually respond to threads? Very Slow (more than a month) / Slow (3-4 weeks) / Average (1-2 weeks) / Fast (less than one week) / Very Fast (less than three days) /

What types of themes do you like? Adventure / Romance / Fluff / Angst/ Violence / Tragedy / Domestic / Family / All of the aforementioned

WHAT GENRES DO YOU LIKE? ( Feel free to add! ) High Fantasy / Supernatural / Science Fiction / Historical / Horror / Comedy / Romantic / Drama / Action / Smut / Adventure / Espionage / All of the aforementioned

Are there any themes you’re uncomfortable writing on your blog? (Not triggers) No / Yes / Sometimes

Do you have any triggers? How do you request it tagged? I don't have any triggers. No

– S H I P P I N G –

What types of relationships are you open to? Romantic / Platonic / Familial / All of the aforementioned

What types of pre-established relationships are you open to? Romantic / Platonic / Familial / All of the aforementioned/ None I like chemistry

Do you have OTPs? No / Chemistry Only / Yes

Do you have NOTPS? No / Yes.

What is your muse’s sexual orientation? Heterosexual / Heteroflexible / Bisexual / Pansexual / Homoflexible / Homosexual / Demisexual / Sapiosexual / Asexual / Still trying to figure it out / Depends on the muse you’re asking

What is your muse’s romantic orientation? Heteroromantic / Heteroflexible / Biromantic / Homoflexible / Homoromantic / Panromantic / Demiromantic / Sapioromantic / Aromatic / Still trying to figure it out / Depends on the muse you’re asking/

Are you comfortable writing smut? No / VERY Selectively / Yes (Selective just because I do know some minors follow me and I gotta keep an eye out for who shouldn't be touching stuff that stuff)

How early in a relationship do you ship romantically? Autoship / During plotting / After a couple IC interactions / Several IC interactions / Slow burn / Plot dependent / Never / ???? If it happens it happens

Are you open to toxic ships? No / Selectively / Yes / I am not sure

Are you open to problematic ships? No / Selectively / Yes / I am not sure

Are you open to polyshipping? No / Selectively / Yes / I am not sure

Are you an exclusive shipper? Never / Sometimes / Yes / I would be open to discuss it

Does crack shipping ever happen? Nope / Yes / depends

Tagged by: @viviskull ⭐

Tagging: This is a long one so do if you want, steal.

[enchantingruinscandy]

Sharing my batfam sexuality headcanons bc why not?

Babs is a bi lesbian. I don't make the rules

I haven't really headcanoned Steph as anything specifically but she is definitely wlw of some variety

Cass is a lesbian

Damian is aroace

So is Jason but he has a qpr

Dick is grey ace and either panromantic or homoromantic

Alfred is aroace

Bruce is homoromantic (with a kind of demiromantic attraction to women) and hes demisexual

I haven't headcanoned duke as anything yet but if we're lucky he'll get hit with the ace-ification beam too

[nerdybirdboy]

DOSSIER CHEAT SHEET

LEGAL NAME: Timothy Jackson Drake-Wayne NICKNAME[S]: Tim, Timmy, Timtam, Timber, Timberlina (and a lot of other Tim-names), Robin, Red Robin, Mister Sarcastic, Alvin Draper. DATE OF BIRTH: 19 July GENDER: Male PLACE OF BIRTH: Gotham, NJ CURRENTLY LIVING: Gotham, NJ SPOKEN LANGUAGES: English, ASL, Spanish, German, French, Russian, Cantonese and Swedish (yes, I added the last one since I speak it myself). EDUCATION: Some High School. HAIR COLOR: Black EYE COLOR: Dark blue HEIGHT: 139-160 cm (4′7″- 5′3″), 47-55 kg (103.6-121 lbs)

FAMILY INFORMATION

SIBLING[S]: Biological - none, adopted - Dick Grayson, Jason Todd, Cassandra Cain, Damian Wayne. PARENT[S]: Jack & Janet Drake (deceased), Dana Winters-Drake (stepmum, deceased), Bruce Wayne (adoptive father). RELATIVE[S]: None CHILDREN: None PET[S]: None

RELATIONSHIP INFORMATION

SEXUAL ORIENTATION: Demisexual, panromantic RELATIONSHIP STATUS: Verse dependent, but main partner is Emilio Rosali in most verses. SINCE WHEN: Since... some time ago?

Stolen from: @thefastestaround

Tagging: Anyone interested. Please tag me so I can read if you do this

[rickktish]

Batfam Alphabet Mafia headcanons

Bruce

Bruce is pansexual/panromantic, uses he/they pronouns but is too shy to actually tell anyone for the longest time.

Batman is bisexual/demiromantic, uses he/it pronouns.

Will not elaborate under any circumstances.

“IT’S THE BAT!” Is such a gender euphoric thing to hear while swooping down on your enemies guys you have no idea

Dick

He/him lesbian?

Panromantic polysexual?

Gender???

No answers. None.

In practice? he/him pronouns. He refuses to inconvenience those around him even slightly by asking them to try using anything else.

“What do you mean i wouldn’t be inconveniencing anyone? No, I don’t feel inconvenienced switching pronouns for others. No, you don’t get it, I don’t want to make anyone uncomfy.”

In truth? Gender neutral pronouns make them feel uwu. They also have she/her days— rarely, but it happens.

If dangled over a shark pit without access to batshark repellant and forced to choose, would probably identify as a genderfluid pan with polyamorous leanings. But only very reluctantly.

Jason

He/him pronouns but in a very gnc way, like yes, he uses he/him, but damn if he doesn’t look good in a dress, you can’t stop him

He has actually never been emotionally attracted to a woman. Sexually he’s not picky, but emotionally? Does not see the appeal.

Demiromantic.

Cass

Does not object to she/her pronouns but neither does she actually possess a gender

Dislikes he/him and has vaguely uninterested feelings toward they/them but will not be offended.

Attraction is... not a concept she feels she fully grasps. Best guess is on the aroace spectrum? She just doesn’t feel confident on the idea as a whole.

Currently can comfortably call her relationship with Steph a qpr, but that might change as her understanding evolves

Tim

Genderfluid nonbinary. The gender spectrum has very minimal extremes, never fully one direction or the other, but the position on the graph does move around on the daily.

Demisexual biromantic.

Steph

Genderfluid but only rarely really; predominantly a she/her with the occasional theyday thrown in for spice.

A disaster bi in the most intentionally chaotic sense.

Duke

Genderfluid, but with all the extremes that Tim can’t grasp. Took all the gender when Tim and Damian weren’t looking.

Girls are pretty and Duke likes them a lot. Boys are bleh. Not outside the realm of possibility, but it would take a really special guy.

Damian

Agender he/they.

Gay. Just. Deeply gay.

Being gay for Damian means being unintentionally attracted only to men and agender people

This has turned into an ongoing joke among the batsiblings, waiting after Dami admits to having a crush for that person to come out as agender. It’s happened like three times, he still claims it’s coincidence but none of the family believe him

Babs

AMAB she/her. Batman year one involved Bruce rescuing Gordon’s infant son, after all— and idc what people say about Jim’s serial killer son, whatever, Babs has only child energy and I refuse to believe she has an older brother. Serial killer gordon can be younger than Babs but not older.

83% confident she’s straight, but it’s still technically shaky ground.

Alfred

Cis, spent the better part of his years as both an actor and a member of british intelligence as the company bicycle for both professions

Has vast and unknowable power and managed to keep Bruce completely unaware of his romantic or sex life whilst growing up

As an adult he has now made a game of flirting with anyone around his age he encounters while in Bruce’s presence

Has had an emotional Something going on with Leslie Thompkins since Bruce was like 12 but neither of them can find the time to define it and so Something it remains

[profecional-dreamer]

heartstopper was good but like

for a cast of queer characters they didn’t match super well to my experience with queer groups. it’s so clean. 

in my friend group we had:

ace demigirl who loved dark academia and had body issues

genderfluid omni-ace polyam aro-something dsmp obsessed nerd with body issues (me)

straight girl whos dating the demigirl’s ex bf and has body issues

the aro girl who everyone’s had a crush on at one point

agender dick head who refuses to tell me his birthday (my ex)

vaguely-conservative biromantic that calls every fictional character her child (who i’m in love with) (we aren’t discussing it)

straight girl who’s catfished mulitple boys on insta and has terrible social anxiety. 

artsy she/they who’s infinitely better than everyone else here

nobbinary/trans guy whos two years younger than us and dresses like a fucking circus clown (makeup included)

honestly IKSW and OLS do a much better job.

Oo Oo I’m gonna add to this now that I have new friend group (moved)

blue hair spilt dye plus sized panromantic demisexual who uses they/them, is emo, and is taking like nine APs

Ace lesbian questioning aro plus sized girl who has autism adhd, and like seven other things

Autistic person who changes their name once every two months and can’t decided on a label besides “not boy”, stunning singer and my best friend in the world

panromantic girl who doesn’t have any mental illnesses, im friends with her mum, she realized she was gay this year, she has chickens

bi girl who I’ve been platonically married too for a while now, has a fucked up family life and is the grade below us

and me, murder and gay podcast obsessed omni lesbian, gender-fluid whore who is generally, as far as I can tell, the loose canon of the group!

good omen and Hannibal are awesome queer tv shows with really fun and just, chill rep

[kandikidnep]

Intro post time lets go

-DID system, main posters on the blog are three nepeta fictives and various alternative teens

-They/Them/Neos collectively

-Adult

-Physical artist of many different forms. Crochet, sewing, kandi, embroidery, prop making, costume designing, fashion, puppet making, yarn making, doll making, the list goes on really. I see a hobby and pick it up without second thought rlly

-special interests: Cosplay + Music/Lyric writing. I cant write my own lyrics but ill be damned if i cant analyze someone elses.

-Dni endogenic systems or people who believe in system hopping. I am not going to go out of my way to be a dick because of your experience, but I personally don’t see any science behind it and would rather just not interact at all.

-other DNI: im a nonbinary panromantic demisexual polyamorous witch who likes neopronouns, xenogenders, is a furry and a kinnie. If you dont support any of the above, block me. I dont care, im tired of fighting. Hate will be blocked and deleted without interaction.

-that stuff aside, feel free to send me asks and dms!

Follows back from crookedfxntxsy

[myotp-ruinedmylife]

stranger things characters' sexualities

because i'm that obsessed by now apparently

robin: lesbian, duh. also she/they

steve: disaster bisexual who needs to get dicked down yesterday, preferably by eddie. also low-key genderfluid

eddie: he/they male-leaning pansexual (because he did have chemistry with chrissy and i will not deny it! but i do think he leans more towards men)

billy: that man is a deeply closeted homosexual and you will not convince me otherwise. (also fuck harringrove)

max: he/she bisexual, i am not taking any criticism

lucas: doesn't really think about labels but as his partner(s) is genderqueer he definitely isn't straight

el: they/them panromantic asexual (also elumax supremecy)

mike: bisexual but has no fucking clue. (also not a huge fan of byler as-is; no offense to byler shippers but will deserves way better than current!mike. give him a few years to grow up and they may work tho)

will: he/they gay

dustin: token straight, but he's a huge ally and often bemoans his lack of queerness

jonathan: biromantic demisexual

argyle: he/she/they pansexual

nancy: bisexual badass

barb: i recently read a fic where she's a sapphic demisexual and now i can't see her as anything else

hopper: will never tell anyone (except maybe joyce) or label it but he definitely slept with at least one other soldier while in vietnam

joyce: bi but doesn't really realize? because it never really came up but when all the kids start coming out and explaining all these labels she'd be like 'huh, that sounds strangely familiar' also low-key she/they

murray: that is a gay man. also fuck yes ship him with alexei they deserve each other

[patroklides]

as a disclaimer, while these are the (romantic) ships that i am most interested in for my muses, this does not mean i will ship with every version of these muses, nor does it mean that i won't ship things that are not listed. if you want to know if i ship something else, shoot me a message and we can discuss it!

bold = favorite ships! these are usually ships that are canon or have significant canon support. (these are usually fine to send shippy memes without prior discussion.)

italics = ships that i am currently writing with other partners, but am open to writing with duplicates!

**starred** = ships which i am extremely selective about. these will require both extensive out-of-character discussion and in-character development, but they're ships i very much enjoy when done well!

strike through = ships i am currently writing with other people and am not looking to ship with duplicates.

FIRE EMBLEM (FÓDLAN)

EDELGARD. / sapphic; extremely selective about m/f ships.

ships: **byleth**, dorothea, bernadetta, constance, **claude**, **lysithea**, **marianne**

NOTPs: dimitri, hubert, rhea, hilda

HUBERT. / bisexual; strong preference for men.

ships: ferdinand, bernadetta, shez, **sylvain**, **byleth**

NOTPs: edelgard, petra, shamir, lysithea

DOROTHEA. / bisexual; strong preference for women.

SHIPS: petra, edelgard, bernadetta, annette, leonie, **ferdinand**, **ingrid**, **yuri**

NOTPs: sylvain, felix, lorenz

DEDUE. / panromantic, demisexual.

SHIPS: dimitri, ashe, petra, mercedes, shez, **byleth**, **claude**, **sylvain**

NOTPs: ingrid, felix, hilda

FIRE EMBLEM: TELLIUS

SOREN. / gay

SHIPS: ike, skrimir, **stefan**, rhys

NOTPs: any women

MICAIAH. / bisexual, preference for men.

SHIPS: pelleas, jill, nailah, **zelgius**, **sothe**

NOTPs: none of note

DRAGON AGE

ANDERS. / bisexual, preference for men.

SHIPS: hawke, nathaniel, **fenris**, **dorian**

NOTPs: any templars, current or former. additionally, i will not ship him with templar-supporting hawkes or acknowledge the "rivalmance" path unless we are VERY, VERY close ooc.

MARIAN. / bisexual, preference for women.

SHIPS: isabela, fenris, **merrill**, **anders**

NOTPs: sebastian, varric

DC COMICS

DICK. / bisexual, preference for women.

SHIPS: barbara gordon, midnighter, koriand'r, **helena bertinelli**, **wally west**, **raven**

NOTPs: donna troy, slade wilson, stephanie brown

BRUCE. / bisexual, no preference.

SHIPS: minhkhoa khan, clark kent, selina kyle, diana prince, **talia al-ghul**, **harley quinn**

NOTPs: barbara gordon, jim gordon, poison ivy, the joker

LEX. / bisexual, preference for men.

SHIPS: clark kent, lana lang, mercy graves, **bruce wayne**

NOTPs: the joker, and i probably wouldn't ship him with lois outside of a clark/lois/lex ot3 just bc lois doesn't deserve that

STEPHANIE. / bisexual, preference for women.

SHIPS: cassandra cain, kara zor-el, jason todd, harper row, **tim drake**

NOTPs: dick grayson, damian wayne

BARBARA. / bisexual, preference for men.

SHIPS: dick grayson, dinah lance, jason todd, kara zor-el

NOTPs: bruce wayne, tim drake

HARLEY. / bisexual, preference for women.

SHIPS: poison ivy, bruce wayne, selina kyle

NOTPs: the joker

THE LOCKED TOMB

HARROWHARK. / lesbian.

SHIPS: gideon, ianthe

NOTPs: any men

PALAMEDES. / bisexual, no preference.

SHIPS: dulcinea

NOTPs: none

[nightfoxproductions726]

Can We Stop Forcing People to Come Out When They Aren't Ready?

I know this isn't my usual content, but this popped up on my feed this morning on Twitter and it has left me thinking about some personal experiences. Especially, now when I came out bi and nonbinary to my boyfriend and our friends. 

But first thing first - stop forcing people who aren't straight to come out when they aren't ready. Also, to fans, you have no right to this information. This applies to YouTubers who don't want to show themselves (which is an entirely different subject, but applies here. Those who don't want to show themselves don't owe you anything either.)

I didn't come out until I was ready. No. This is wrong. It's more like I didn't identify with my sexualities (excluding Bi. I didn't know what Nonbinary, Demiromantic, Demisexual, or Panromantic were until I revamped my Twitter account and started following LGBTQIA accounts. Along with doing book research for several characters who don't identify as straight) or didn't come out until I felt safe (I was around family who literally hated me the day I was born because I wasn't born with dick. Sorry. I'm not mincing words today.) 

Excluding the Demiromantic, Demisexual, and Panromantic, I'm now met with 'why didn't you say anything sooner?' Because I couldn't. 'I always thought of you as a woman' Just because you saw me in feminine clothes, doesn't make me a woman or I identify as such (kind of hard to do when your flip flopping parents wanted you to behave like a boy and wanted you to be a girl they saw fit.) 'Are you going to become trans down the line?' No. And that's a childhood trauma story and a half on it's own. 'I've never seen you with another woman before. So, I'm unsure if you're Bi.' Grr... 

Ok. Here's the thing - a person can still be nonbinary regardless of how they dress or the pronouns they use. Also, to dispel a myth - a person can be nonbinary and not identify as trans and trans doesn't mean they identify as nonbinary*. *Some trans do identify as nonbinary too and they are just as valid as anyone else. 

When it comes to being Bi, a person is still Bi regardless if they've been with the same sex or not. People are/should still be able to feel however they feel and shouldn't be judged for it.

Just let people live and stop forcing them to come out when they aren't ready. Especially actors, actresses, and everyone else in between. No one owes you this information.  

[risky-r]

FAQ

What is your name?

I keep my name private for a reason. You can call me Risky, R, or any gender-neutral or masculine nicknames. If I get to know you better, I might tell you my name through DMs.

Where do you live?

This is also something I’d like to keep private, but I’ll tell you that I live on the east coast of the United States.

What is your relationship status?

I am single, monogamous, panromantic, demisexual, and looking. I don’t really think I have high standards, I just have preferences. One of which is that you live relatively close to me, which I doubt I’ll find here. But if you wanna try your luck and slide into my DMs, you’re welcome to do so as long as you’re not a dick.

What is your role?

I’m a switch, but I’m definitely more on the subby side. I do like the idea of being a soft dom, but when I’m frustrated, I can be a little more rough.

What are your kinks as a sub?

Bondage, boots, breeding, light cnc, degradation, dirty talk, exhibitionism, gags, humiliation, impact play, knotting, masochism, mommy/daddy !titles only!, omorashi, orgasm control, petplay, praise, sensory deprivation, somno.

What are your kinks as a dom?

Bondage, humiliation, orgasm control, praise, sadism, voyeurism.

What are your limits?

Ageplay, beating, detransition, feedee/feeder, feet, feminization, incest, misgendering, pregnancy, raceplay, scat, sissy, tickling, vomit.