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#i was an eldest sibling
smiggles · 2 years
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Some anons have been saying that they don't like your personality or whatnot but I actually really admire how you so easily and aggressively(affectionate) defend your boundaries? You seem unapologetic about who you are and ready to defend what you believe in and as someone who tends to be, despite my best efforts, a pushover/people-pleaser and easily shaken by stuff like anon hate, it's actually pretty inspiring. I'm curious if you have any advice as to how you managed to be that confident or if it's just natural/experience? Been loving your art as well
Man. I feel I could ramble on this for awhile but I'll start with something very important When people on the internet hate you for whatever reason just remember
They do not know you
They hate their idea of who you are The version of you that exists in their head is not real. It is not you.
People can only gather small snippets of a person, especially if its only via text posts, and they stitch together these fragmented pieces expecting it to be an entire personality.
These people will never meet you. They are not important. YOU are important. Your friends who truly understand you are important. Your health is important. You cant please everyone but if you know that you are not hurting anyone then you have nothing to be sorry for. You could legitimately be the nicest, most docile, most people pleasing human ever and someone, somewhere will hate you for it. No single being can be universally loved. But you can love yourself unconditionally. Despite your faults, your cracks, your future mistakes. Youre the person who will be with you for the rest of your life. So love who you are. Youre the only you in this world.
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melmov · 6 months
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I cast: curse of the eldest (can’t ask for help)
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eso-terrors · 6 months
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Hunter hasn’t gotten a proper break since the squad left Kamino the first time… I feel like he takes care of everyone but forgets about himself, typical eldest sibling in crisis mode :((
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bamsara · 3 months
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I don't need to have kids when I'm an elder sibling with a 14+ year age gap between us and absent/busy parents. When was the last time you got a fresh toothbrush. What happened to your knee. The fuck you mean you don't have a swim suit. Get in the car.
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More of my favorite Prudes <3
Alright, left to right, top to bottom:
1. I just get the vibe that Grace has beef with Richie specifically but for no discernable reason ("Richie, the whole point is that it's in the dark!" + "No, this is where you GROW UP!") and the second the sentence popped into my head I had to draw it. Also consider how goddamn funny the image of Grace pulling bleach and gloves and a bone saw out of her backpack is because holy shit did she have a contingency plan
2. I think that Pete saw Ted as the coolest big brother in the world right up until the exact minute he introduced him to Steph and suddenly Ted had the power to be very embarrassing in front of Pete's friends. (He would be used to this, as this is standard older sibling shithead behavior, but he's never had friends for Ted to tease him in front of.) I do think the Spankoffski brothers are really interesting, especially with what an asshole Ted is. In Abstinence Camp Pete does seem to really look up to him. Ted does not hide the fact that he's a massive prick, so the fact that Pete sees him as a positive figure implies that he's one of the very few people that Ted actually tries to be a good person for. Makes a lot of sense too, the age gap between them is massive, so Pete has no way of knowing the kind of sleazy shit Ted does, he's just the cool older brother to him. Also heheheh I did the funny meme
3. All her brothers got one so I gave Webby a humansona. I don't know why she ended up looking like 90s Gwen Stacy but I kinda like it? I was going for classic straight-a student, not quite as frilly as Grace, but very academic and cute. I also think that Webby should be allowed to be a little cosmically horrifying as a treat (watching her casually fucking evaporate Willabella was so unnerving and cool, I would love more of that.) She lets herself be soft and gentle for Hannah's benefit, don't want to scare a little kid after all, but she exists far beyond those... Limitations.
4. Ok this one is highly inspired by a series of drawings by @samglyph , the concept of Ghost Ruth and Richie took my brain captive. So go show them some love!!!!!
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deadtiredghost · 2 months
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they're siblings ur honor
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finemealprompt · 5 months
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DP x DC Prompt #12
Dick was used to being teased about having a thing for red heads. If you look at his romantic relationships, it would support that conclusion. Raya, Cheyenne, Starfire, Barbara, not to mention the men he's dated.
But he swears he's not interested in Jasmine Fenton just because she's a red head! She's really smart, she works in child services, and she is never bothered when he has to suddenly leave. She's truly amazing.
Perhaps he should've found it suspicious she wasn't bothered when he had to run off suddenly. But he was just so grateful to find someone who had seemingly unending patience.
When she came to his apartment with a bloodied teen, he realized there was more to Jazz than he ever knew.
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ronanxing · 9 months
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i like to think they enjoy watching tv shows together
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punkeropercyjackson · 7 months
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"It's cringe to make older sibling characters also parental figures to their younger ones,they're not like that irl!"Tell me you're not an eldest sibling without telling me you're not an eldest sibling
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bruciemilf · 2 years
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Dick is the kid who stubbornly leaves Bruce on read for months if his dad says ONE thing he doesn't like. Jason is the kid who'll obsessively check his phone to see if Bruce returned his " Morning, fuckface" text with his usual " Good morning, son. Love you" and WILL freak out if he doesn't get the ❤️ attached to it
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varpusvaras · 30 days
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Time travel AU where Dick travels back in time to a point where he's just starting out as Nightwing, and he spends exactly five seconds panicking about his situation before his brain latches to the single thought of MY BABIES!!
And so Dick speedruns adopting all of his siblings before Bruce can even see them once
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hey-hey-j · 9 months
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girl help I'm getting attached to my overly specific Trolls headcanons
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yo-yo-yoshiko · 1 month
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Idle doodling tonight while we wrap up Revice... (I'm a little obsessed with all his t-shirts...)
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olrinarts · 3 months
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there was presumably a time when all of the bishops actually liked each other, at which point i can only assume the three brothers were peak 'boys will be boys' [derogatory]
shamura choosing not to add the red, green, and blue crowns to the kill count is a sign of love
headcanon heights used here (leshy is not a child he's just a short king). drawing bishop narinder was fun as hell too
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explodingstarlight · 2 years
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weaponizing your newfound "youngest" child status
everyone go read @snailsnaps fic "Alpha Stage"-- de-aged Donnie is giving me LIFE
👉 something of a sequel to this
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deesi-academia · 7 months
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business idea: support group for older siblings who do NOT know how to fix the plot
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