#multigender folks

[rouge-the-bat]

wlw blogs with "men dni" and mlm blogs with "women dni" are the worst btw. like okay way to show u dont give a shit about multigender people

[demonic-shadowlucifer]

happy easter and trans visibility day to the trans and nonbinary christians who: -feel comfortable within both their faith *and* their identity. -found out they were trans *because* of christianity and/or God -have just recently converted to christianity -just came out to their community and was welcomed by said community -recently left a toxic church and are now comfortable expressing themselves because they left said toxic church also happy easter and trans day of visibility to the trans and nonbinary christians who: -cannot come out or transition due to their 'community' being unwelcoming -don't feel safe or welcome in the church because of transphobia -were forced back into the closet by their own 'community' -are questioning their gender identity or their faith -are considering leaving christianity entirely -are dealing with internalized transphobia -have transitioned but is considering detransitioning due to bullying/harassment from their own 'community' -are deconstructing their faith

it's easy to assume that being trans and christian is contradictory, but that's just not true. God loves you, Jesus loves you. You don't need to be "saved" from being trans or nonbinary, because God *made* you that way. God made us in His image, and he created your trans identity. <3

[amagicalmoonlight]

Shout out to all the multi gender people out there who are tired of being told how they can and can’t label their sexuality!!! It suck out here but we ball

[textk4kira]

This blog is run by a biracial transmasc demigirl 💗

Looking for other bigender, transmasc, or aroace folks to follow!

I reblog mainly trans related and Death Note content.

[multigenderswag]

Shoutout to multigender people who are straight, especially multigender people who are just straight as opposed to being a straight lesbian/straight gay. The discussion around multigender sexuality is growing, which is great, but a lot of it seems to focus on multigender gays/lesbians, and I kind of wish we acknowledged straight multigenders more often. We're slowly learning that multigender men can be lesbians and multigender women can be gay men, but we also need to remember that multigender women can be straight men and multigender men can be straight women.

[badolmen]

bi/pansexual people 🤝 bi/multigender people

“All sex with me is gay sex.”

[icannotgetoverbirds]

saw an exclusionist post so here's a reminder

specifically in reference to transmasc lesbians and trying to draw lines in the sand on who can and can't claim the lesbian label, about how being a lesbian is exclusive of loving men, with someone referring to the people they're attempting to exclude as "fandom gremlin transmascs and neo-mogai crazies."

I don't have the spoons for a proper response but i do feel like i need to make something clear.

on this blog we support fucky genders, fandom gremlin transmascs, and neo-mogai crazies. reblog if u love ur fellow fandom gremlin and neo-mogai crazy queers.

[trailmixtime]

multigender people are so cool. they're like. collectors. except instead of collecting things like cups or stamps they collect genders. and i think that's very cool of them

[echidnana]

also happy pride month to all the ppl who get shit from their own community, y'all don't deserve that + deserve to be safe. excl.usionists get fucked

[roboqueercore]

I think if ppl had less strict internal rules for what people are allowed to experience then maybe we'd have much more meaningful conversations about things like ableism, queerphobia in its many forms, etc. but I've noticed that a lot of people seem very hung up on this and it's kinda upsetting

[genericsparklefurry]

in my "go fuck yourself" era of dealing with transphobia directed at multigender/fluid/fluix trans folk

[void-star]

Sorry I just love trans people

[genderqueerdykes]

if you genuinely believe that trans men and cis men are enemies and need to be pitted against each other: you drank the terf juice.

if you believe that pre transition or never transition transfems "look too threatening" or "too cishet" or "unsafe for other queers to be around": you drank the terf juice.

if you misgender butch trans women and multigender transfem lesbians and remove them from lesbian spaces: you drank the terf juice.

if you police transfems and call them "loud," "aggressive," "mean," or "rude," just because they have deep voices or high testosterone bodies: you drank the terf juice.

if you genuinely believe that all men and mascs need to be barred from entry into non binary, lesbian, and other queer spaces: you drank the terf juice.

if you genuinely believe all cishet men are inherently queerphobic, evil, and dangerous to be around: you drank the terf juice.

if you genuinely believe trans and cis men are inherently violent and dangerous because they're men: you drank the terf juice.

if you genuinely believe that cis-passing trans men aren't queer and/or don't belong in queer spaces because they look and sound "too cis" or 'threatening': you drank the terf juice.

if you genuinely believe that anyone who is AMAB and/or has a penis is inherently violent: you drank the terf juice.

if you genuinely believe it's okay to profile strangers to assume they're cis or het (or ANYTHING): you drank the terf juice.

literally ALL of these things are terf ideologies and actions. in order to accept ourselves and be accepted, we must accept that just like how our identities are not inherently violent- neither are cis and het folks'.

blaming cis mens' gender instead of their actions and behaviors for their dangerous and queerphobic actions removes the responsibility from the individual man. that was one man who did something wrong.

hold that individual person accountable for their actions and leave their gender and/or birth sex out of it- they're irrelevant to the situation.

making trans women, intersex trans women, transfems, nonbinary people, genderqueer people, etc. uncomfortable by policing how they look and sound is not the way to go. policing transfems and preventing them from queer spaces is not the way to go. policing trans men and mascs and preventing them from entering spaces they belong in is not the way to go.

excluding queer men and mascs from the communities they rightfully belong in isn't helping anyone. cis gay men need community. cis asexual men need community. cis aromantic men need community. cis polyamorous men need community. genderqueer, non binary, and gnc cis men need community. cis bisexual/mspec men need community. trans women who are also men need community. trans men need community. intersex men need community. the list goes on.

community means working together, not fragmenting ourselves off into the tiniest micro pockets imaginable for the sake of "Safety". running afraid from every. single. man and masc you encounter will not keep you safe- femmes and women are capable of abuse. we cannot fall into this "woman good man bad" trap. being afraid of a group of people wholesale doesn't help you heal from whatever trauma you have. it's going to keep you scared for the rest of your life. it's best to move on and stop judging strangers for features they can't help or didn't ask for.

[restless-cadaver]

it is so disappointing the amount of queer people, especially those i know irl, who claim they are the biggest advocate for other queer folks in the community and yet "agree to disagree" with me when i talk about my experience as an mspec lesboy. do you know how rich the history is of trans men and multigender folks in the lesbian community? do not create an entirely new binary in a space where there was not supposed to be one. queer spaces have already collectively agreed enough that gender is extremely flexible and its easy to blur the lines of. can we please do the same with sexuality? they interconnect and intertwine so constantly, there are infinite experiences one may have in any community or any label they feel best fits them. fuck you if you dont let people be who they are. "it's transphobic and lesbianphobic!" no, it isn't. what's really transphobic and lesbianphobic is the shit that you just pulled out of your ass about some "non men loving non men". anyway happy masc lesbian week fuck yeah we love you lesboys ❤️🧡🤍🩷💜

[solarishashernoseinabook]

"We need more weird queer people" you folks can't even handle multigender people