#multigender system

[adhbabey]

the multigender system experience is like identifying with genderqueer experiences outside of/contradictory to your body. Like cause you got alters who are not the same gender as the body... and you're like... why do i relate to transfem and femboy type experiences when the body is afab...? its cause your alters arent all cis, honey. nor are they all female. some are guys. and some exist in a feminine body, and therefore have an interesting male-centered genderqueer experience because they're guys who are also girls. external wise... we look like a girl, but on the inside, its not the same thing.

And for some systems, they see themselves as transmasc bc of that. Some male alters will have dysphoria in a different body, and that's okay. And they identify that way.

But for me, in my system, guy alters often see themselves as cis, so when those guy alters end up experimenting with gender, or relate to characters or people online who have feminine traits while being a guy, or have a feminine body while feeling amab, it can get really messy in here.

And I think to singlets/non-systems, that's an experience nobody really knows about. Even binary systems don't really get it. But we are multigender because we are sometimes multiple genders at once, multiple alters fronting at the same time, or an alter in a unique situation that makes them inherently genderqueer.

So shoutout to genderqueer, multigender, and nonbinary systems. I'm in your boat, it's weird to have a contradictory identity, but it's also kind of freeing. It's freeing to not really have to be binary and have to stick with one way of being. If I'm nonbinary, I can virtually do, and be whatever I want.

[ratbastarddotfuck]

By the way, if we really want to decouple sex from gender (which we do, right?), y'all need to stop telling multigender people that they can't call certain aspects of their gender trans if it maybe aligns with their gender assigned at birth as given by a total fucking stranger when they were a baby.

My trans identity is multigender. inside that, I am a man, a woman, nonbinary, and a variety of flow states between. Every single aspect of this is trans. My man parts are trans, my woman parts are trans, my nonbinary parts are trans.

I once saw someone say "You shouldn't call yourself a trans woman if you're an afab girl. you can call yourself a demigirl, but not a trans woman. that word's not for you." but is demigirl not a trans identity? What if that "demigirl" wants to be a demiwoman? What if she doesn't want to let a stranger dictate how she labels her gender, again? Does she not have the right to identify herself as a woman with a trans identity?

I'm a woman with a trans identity. I'm a man with a trans identity. We call these kinds of people trans women, and trans men, respectively. It does not take anything away from anybody else to utilise language in this way, in the same way that it does not inherently take anything away from cis men and womens' genders for trans people to exist.

I find the hostility I've encountered absolutely unwarranted, and it feels like most of it stems from some caricature of an idea of what I am rather than an honest and open minded attempt to understand why someone would identify this way - a feeling that, I'm sure, is familiar to any trans person who has tried to explain themselves to a person who already had a hostile concept of trans people to begin with.

A lot of this discussion about AFAB transfems and AMAB transmascs is being had by intersex advocates who are often detailing how AGAB tells you far less information than perisex people think about someone's life experience, and you should really be fucking listening to them about this. If you are a perisex queer person, you need to be listening to intersex advocates YESTERDAY. But they are NOT the only people in this realm - multigender people exist, and we have every right to call our genders trans, because they fucking are. I'm not suddenly cis when I'm woman-mode, that would be absurd to assume. I'm still trans, and a woman, at the same time, and I should be able to say so without facing backlash from my community. That shit fucking hurts. We are people who have gone on often long and difficult journeys to find our genders, just like most trans people, and the fact that we are so constantly talked over and talked shit about and harassed about the words we use to discuss our relationship with gender is just so sickening honestly.

Change your hearts or die mad, because gender freaks are going to keep doing gender freak shit forever, and the only thing you can do about it is enforce social shame and bioessentialism. Not a good look, and it won't work forever.

[theorchardsys]

Me: *gazes wistfully into my mate's eyes* My mate: *gazes wistfully back* The bus driver: WOAH WOAH WOAH NONE OF THAT DO THAT WHEN YOU GET OFF

[caeliangel]

bigender and/or trigender microlabels list/flags/terms ?? please.

BIGENDER MICROLABELS & TERMS

Bigender system : a group of genders that describes a bigender individual’s experience. It covers some bigender microlabels.

UNDER THE BIGENDER SYSTEM! (Can all be found on the bigender system page)

Fluid :

Bigenderchange : a gender in the bigender system in which one has two genders that they are fluid between. It is also an umbrella term for all fluid bigender folks.

Bigenderswap : A gender in which one has two distinct genders that that they are fluid between. One who is bigenderswap does not experience any genders in between their genders nor are they both at once.

Bigenderscale : a gender in which one has two distinct genders that that they are fluid between. One can be either gender or a mix of the two genders, but never fully both.

Bigenderlean : A gender in which one has two distinct genders that that they are fluid between. One can be one gender or a mix of the two genders, but never the other or fully both.

Bigendermix : A fluid gender in which one has two genders, but rather than them being distinctly separate, they are mixed or intertwined and the ratios are fluid.

Bigenderblend : A fluid gender in which one has two genders, but rather than them being distinctly separate, they are mixed or intertwined and the ratios are fluid but one gender will always outweigh the other no matter the ratios

Bigenderadd : A gender in which one has two distinct genders that they are fluid between. One can be either gender or both, but never a mix. Both genders, even when the individual is both, are separate.

Bigendersum : A gender in which one has two distinct genders that they are fluid between. One can be one gender or both, but never the other or a mix.

Bigenderboth : A gender in which has two genders, but how they experience both genders is fluid. One can be both or a mix, but is never either gender separately.

Bigenderpair : A gender in which has two genders, but how they experience both genders is fluid and one gender always outweighs the other. One can be both or a mix, but is never either gender separately.

Bigendershift : A gender in which one has two distinct genders that they are fluid between. One can be either gender, both, or a mix of the two.

Bigenderside : A gender in which one has two distinct genders that they are fluid between. One can be one gender, both, or a mix of the two, but never the other one.

Static :

Bigenderstatic : A gender in which one has two genders that are both static; an umbrella term for all static bigender folks.

Bigendermeld : A static gender in which one has two genders, but rather than them being distinctly separate, they are mixed or intertwined.

Bigenderratio : A static gender in which one has two genders, but rather than them being distinctly separate, they are mixed or intertwined and one gender outweighs the other.

Bigendersplit : A static gender in which one has two distinct, separate genders rather than any sort of mix.

Bigendersize : A static gender in which one has two distinct, separate genders rather than any sort of mix and one gender outweighs the other.

Others :

Bigenderfluid : Bigenderfluid, also known as bifluid, is a subset of genderfluid and bigender in which one experiences exactly two genders, and is separately fluid between the two.

Bigenderflux : Bigenderflux is a term under the multiflux umbrella that describes those who experience two separate genders but both genders fluctuate in intensity.

Bigenderfluix : Bigenderfluix is a bigender, genderfluid and genderflux identity in which one identifies as exactly two genders that fluid, as well as fluctuating.

Bigenderdox : a bigender identity that is in itself a paradox; that is paradoxical, contradicting, and/or reverting, etc.

Bigenderthing : a thinggender related to being a thing and being bigender.

Abigender : a gender that is both agender and bigender, or is somewhere in between those two identities.

Abigenderfluix : Abigenderfluix is when someone has two distinct gender identities of which one or both may be fluid and/or fluctuate in some way, though generally or at times there is a vague perception of and loose connection to one or both gender identities.

Panbigender : being both bigender and pangender; being bigender as a result of being pangender (and/or vice-versa: being pangender as a result of being bigender); experiencing all bigender identities available to them; feeling fluid or midway (in)between both bi-gender and pan-gender; being simultaneously and/or separately bigender and pangender; or experiencing two pangender identities.

Alephic : a term for identifying as a bigender but also nothing at the same time, sort of in genderapathetic “my genders whatever” type of way. In the same category as apeironic! The flag was based on my apeironic flag redesign.

TRIGENDER MICROLABELS & TERMS

Sorry I couldn't find a lot!

Trigenderfluid : Trifluid is a gender identity in which one is fluid between three genders. For example, one's gender may be fluid between female, demigirl and non-binary.

Trigenderflux : Triflux (or Trigenderflux) is a term under the multiflux umbrella that describes those who experience three separate genders but all three fluctuate in intensity.

Trigenderfluix : Trigenderfluidflux also called trigenderfluix and trifluix is an identity under the multigender umbrella in which a person feels three distinct gender identities, which they fluidly slide between, while also fluctuating in intensity.

Tripolygender : one who is trigender, but has more than three genders. one may feel three genders the strongest, prefer the bigender label, or otherwise feel that they are trigender while technically having more than three genders.

Tripangender : being both trigender and pangender

[jamiieeez]

Pt.4 Genders in the GenderAlien gendersystem[link]

IntersexAlien

A gender related to being intersex and alien, related to intersex aliens, your gender is an intersex alien, etc. Exclusive to intersex people.

IntergenderAlien

A gender related to being intergender and alien, related to intergender aliens, your gender is an intergender alien, etc.

GenderqueerAlien

A gender related to being genderqueer and alien, related to genderqueer aliens, your gender is an genderqueer alien, being genderqueer but in an "alien" way, etc.

MultigenderAlien

A gender related to being multigender and alien, related to multigender aliens, your gender is an multigender alien, etc.

BigenderAlien

A gender related to being bigender and alien, related to bigender aliens, your gender is an bigender alien, etc.

TrigenderAlien

A gender related to being trigender and alien, related to trigender aliens, your gender is an trigender alien, being trigender but in an "alien" way, etc.

Quadgender

A gender related to being quadgender and alien, related to quadgender aliens, your gender is an quadgender alien, etc.

QuintgenderAlien

A gender related to being quintgender and alien, related to quintgender aliens, your gender is an quintgender alien, etc.

HexagenderAlien

A gender related to being hexagender and alien, related to hexagender aliens, your gender is an hexagender alien, etc.

PolygenderAlien

A gender related to being polygender and alien, related to polygender aliens, your gender is an polygender alien, etc.

PangenderAlien

A gender related to being pangender and alien, related to pangender aliens, your gender is an pangender alien, etc.

GendernonconformingAlien

A gender related to being gender non-conforming and alien, related to gender non-conforming aliens, your gender is an gender non-conforming alien, being gender non-conforming but in an "alien" way, etc.

[redtail-coins]

So we have faunian and faunetian and faeian and faerian and florian from the genderfluid fragment system but for static multigender people but we didn't have as many so I made like a whole ass ton enjoy. This will 1000% be split into different posts so check the notes!!

Florian root:

[Image ID: 5 flags with 5 vertical stripes each. Colors for the first, in left to right order, are: dusty green; pale yellow; white; pale yellow; light warm orange. Colors on the second, in left to right order, are: teal; pale lime; white; pale yellow; light orange. Colors on the third, in left to right order, are: teal; pale lime; white; pale yellow; light warm orange. Colors on the fourth, in left to right order, are: deep fuchsia; dusty pink; pale pink; white; dusty turquoise. Colors on the fifth, in left to right order, are: blue; dusty sky blue; pale sky blue; white; dusty salmon red. End ID.]

Floretian: A static multigender person who's genders can be anything other than masculine, binary man, or binary woman. They can experience feminine genders, neutral genders, xenic genders, and outherine genders, among other non-binary, non-masculine alignments.

Florerian: A static multigender person who's genders can be anything other than feminine, binary woman, or binary man. They can experience masculine genders, neutral genders, xenic genders, and outherine genders, among other non-binary, non-feminine alignments.

Florenian: A static multigender person who is neither a binary man or a binary woman, however their genders can be masculine or feminine among any other alignments.

Florettenian: A static multigender person who's genders can be anything other than binary men, fully masculine, or binary women. They can experience partially masculine genders, feminine genders, neutral genders, xenic genders, and outherine genders among other non-binary alignments.

Florentian: A static multigender person who's genders can be anything other than binary women, fully feminine, or binary men. They can experience partially feminine genders, masculine genders, neutral genders, xenic genders, and outherine genders among other non-binary alignments.

Fructian root:

[Image ID: 3 flags with 5 vertical stripes each. Colors on the first, in left to right order, are: dusty magenta; pale orange; white; pale green; pale blue. Colors on the second, in left to right order, are: desaturated red; dilute orange; white; dusty green; sea blue. Colors on the third, in left to right order, are: desaturated red; dilute orange; white; pale green; pale blue. End ID.]

Frictian: A static multigender person who experiences masculine, feminine, and nonbinary genders, but their femininity is amplified

Frectian: A static multigender person who experiences masculine, feminine, and nonbinary genders, but their masculinity is amplified

Froctian: A static multigender person who experiences masculine, feminine, and nonbinary genders, but their nonbinary genders are amplified

That's 8 of 10 images allowed and I have no 2 flag sets so that's it for this post check notes for more (if none I am working on it)

[our-multigender-experience]

Hi. I’m currently questioning maybe being multigender.

I scrolled through the questioning tag on a couple multigender blogs. I got to try out the label. Try out different pronouns. But I don’t feel like I can.

I’m a headmate. My job is to approximate the host as best as possible. To take over when I can’t trust them to be alone with the body, and to pretend to be them. I don’t feel like I’m allowed to use my own pronouns, experiment with my own presentation. The host is a binary man, so that’s my job too. To approximate that.

I don’t know. I feel kind of powerless.

you are 100% allowed to have your own identity and accept being multi-gender regardless of what the host identifies as or you have to act like when in front.

Despite being a singlet, I'm aware things can get tricky especially with the extra masking systems often need to use, but you are your own person and as such are free to express yourself as much as anyone else. If it's possible for how your system currently works, i'd suggest maybe communicating with your host over this???? I feel like maybe that could have the potential to help or at least give you someone to talk things through with.

[corporateuserboxes]

"This ___ is prismahoarder"

Prismahoarder A xenogender identity in which one's gender refracts into a large spectrum of identities, like a prism refracting light, causing one to hoard terms to fully describe the spectrum of their identity.

prismahoarder coined by epikulupu

[coffeebean-transmasc-experience]

What does it mean to be amab/coffee bean transmasc, and why might an amab individual identify as transmasc?

To be amab transmasc simply put, is just that, someone who was assigned male at birth, but feels transmasculine in some way. This includes intersex individuals as well. Identifying as transmasc when you're amab typically indicates a unique experience with masculinity that is difficult to otherwise describe.

Someone who was afab may also use this label due to being intersex, agabpunk, a system, etc. People assigned afab or intersex should not be excluded, as this label includes any and all people with unique and otherwise unexplainable relationships to their transmasculinity.

There are many reasons someone might identify as coffee bean transmasc, including, but not limited to:

The individual may be intersex, labeled as or raised as a different sex than male, making them feel trans. Some may feel a disconnect from masculinity because their physical bodies are not what people would describe as masculine/male, or they are not typically seen/recognized as male.

The individual may have transitioned to or came out as another gender, before realizing that they actually are still male/masculine to some capacity, whether partially or fully.

The individual may have questioned or misunderstood their own gender identity for a period of time, making them feel disconnected from masculinity in some way.

The individual(s) may be plural/a system with transmasc alters, even though the physical body is male. There may be other experiences with being plural/a system that makes the individual(s) experience masculinity in a unique way.

The individual may be alterhuman or nonhuman, whether fully or partially, making them perceive their masculinity/maleness differently than how humans would. There may be other experiences with being nonhuman/alterhuman that make the individual connect with masculinity in a unique way as well.

The individual may be multigender, being male or masculine along with other genders.

The individual may be genderfluid, being male or masculine only sometimes.

The individual may be only partially male or otherwise disconnected from traditional masculinity, while still being male/masculine (demiboy, boyflux, nonbinary man, neoboy, etc.).

This is by no means a full list, there may be many more reasons for an individual to be coffeebean transmasc, but those are some examples and reasons of why one could be a coffeebean transmasc. None of these experiences are "wrong" or invalid, there is no "right" way to be coffeebean transmasc, and each one's individual experiences and journey should be respected. As long as the term is used in good faith, no reason for someone to identify as coffee bean transmasc is any more or less valid than any other reason.

[ratbastarddotfuck]

oh my goddddddddddd I love being a manwoman boygirl fagdyke femmebutch and I love spending time with other people like me it's so fucking rewarding!!!!!!

[beingcultureis]

Multi+ demi+ a- gender culture is having 3 genders and only having 1.5 genders at the same time

Trust me, we understand just how weird gender is 😭

[caeliangel]

⸺﹒bigender system flags redesigns ⨟ requested & also my own will

Alternative flags for the bigender system labels.

In other, the flags are:

Bigender system flag

Bigenderchange

Bigenderswap

Bigenderscale

Bigenderlean

PT. bigender system flags redesigns. Requested & also my own will. Alternative flags for the bigender system labels. In other, the flags are: Bigender system flag. Bigenderchange. Bigenderswap. Bigenderscale. Bigenderlean.

[corviddusk]

About Me

Hello! I am hoping to just find a bunch of interesting stuff in niche communities, more queer areas and groups, and some form of acceptance!

This account is a hub account!

@dusknoir-whump

@duskcourse

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Gender

Cistransfem

Nonbinary Intersex Woman

Sexuality

Oriented AroAce

Polyamorous (Non-monogamous)

Identity

Adult

Graphic Designer

Mad, Neurodivergent, Cripple

Ball of trauma

Mixed (White/Native)

Interested in otherkin

She/They/It/Fae

System (DID)

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[happyxchaos]

i'm technically bigender but both of my genders are man. i think its funny. i'm guy²

[corporateuserboxes]

"This ___ is polygender"

Polygender A gender identity in which one experiences multiple gender identities, either simultaneously or varying between them.

[our-queer-experience]

I’m not sure if there’s any rules on your profile i tried looking for them but couldn’t find them, so I don’t know if you’re giving advice, but I decided to ask anyways..

So l'm a Trigender AFAB and I have a boyfriend (Cishet.). Since I'm Trigender I personally identify with both being a female, male and non-binary. However this is where the situation gets awkward. I love my boyfriend a lot, but he insists he's straight and dating me is not 'Gay’??

But it causes me to feel dysphoric as I get dysphoric when I remember that I am born a girl and look like one (It makes me feel uncomfortable with my body when l'm not looking all three.) If you get what I'm saying? (Sorry if it's confusing)

He also uses strictly She/Her pronouns with me (I use He/She/They/It plus Neos.) and calls me all sorts of feminine things. I do Like feminine compliments and titles! However when he insists he's straight even though I'm not JUST a girl it makes me feel bad. I don't want to break up with him and I worry about making him uncomfortable if I ask him to call me gender neutral things or masculine things. So is there a way I can stop feeling this dysphoric feeling?? Or at least subdue it..

(Not sure if you like sign offs for anons but if you do I claim these two emoji's lol: -🌷🫧 as I feel like I'll be asking a LOT of questions here.. sorry if this was stupid, I’m not the smartest LMFAO)

hello anon! that sounds like a difficult situation, i think the best step is to tell your boyfriend this. explain to him how gender and dysphoria works for you, and why his treatment of your gender makes you feel bad and how he can change. i’d say your boyfriend needs to get better at dealing with gnc and genderqueer identities rather than you learning how to ignore your dysphoria. don’t worry about making him uncomfortable- if you don’t like how he’s treating you, even if it’s minor, you shouldn’t feel bad about communicating that.