#multiromantic spectrum

[zzwebkinzz]

you know what? i like you. *shows you all my wirt icons i made out of sheer spite*

[deltarune-au-domain]

Free Ralsei Pride Icons!

Free to use Ralsei pride icons! You don't need to credit but it's nice if you do.

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[tr3ns-d3ath-d3ity]

"LGBTQA+ is one of the most accepting communities, you're not being targeted by other queer people!! 😤​😡​"

Aight, time for the list of things related to my queer identity I've been yelled at for by other LGBTQA+ people (for context: I am an oriented aroace, trans, queer, and polyamorous dude):

・Being a trans man.

・Identifying as queer/calling myself queer.

・Saying that gay And mlm are two different things, just like wlw and lesbian are two different things

・Saying that trans women are women.

・Being attracted to men.

・Not being attracted to women and people on the genderqueer/nonbinary spectrum.

・Being oriented aroace.

・Not being monogamous.

・Talking about genuinely loving men.

・Being aspec and having npd (quote the girl who yelled at me for that: "your npd made you aroace, you're just to selfish to commit to genuine love lol.").

・Not being lesbian.

・Not being pan.

・Saying that I support mspec gays/lesbians because it’s not my place to judge other people’s identities just because I may not fully understand them.

・Saying mspec, the multi spectrum, or multiromantic/multisexual (to include ply, pan, omni, bi, neptunic, uranic, and every other pluralian sexuality) instead of just bi.

・Saying that nonbinary people can present themselves as masculine, androgynous, neutral, or feminine as they want, and still be nonbinary.

・Literally just. wearing green eyeshadow????? (quote the person who yelled at me for that: “t hat's a lesbian color, bro, you're literally appropriating lesbian culture by that.")

・Presenting masculine.

・Using he/him pronouns.

・Referring to the D-Slur as tThe D-Slur (y'all want me to say a slur I can't reclaim?????).

・Saying that the og polyamory flag (the blue-red-black one with the yellow pi symbol in the middle) looks neat.

・Not using any of the new polyamory flags because I prefer the blue-red-black + pi symbol one.

・Asking if there’s a word for nonbinary people who are exclusively/only attracted to other nonbinary people.

・Hating non-men who fetishize achillean relationships.

・Being specifically Half-Asian and queer.

・Writing books about exclusively queer men/non-women, mostly to cope with trauma stuff (apparently if your writing doesn't consist of a trillion sapphics, two gay fathers that get three seconds of screentime, and the occasionally non-human nonbinary person, it's automatically bad writing???? Okay damn. Sorry for focusing on my own experiences, I guess?).

・Not necessarily wanting to get married or have a romantic/sexual relationship.

・Shipping two characters in a queerplatonic way instead of a sexual/romantic one.

・Headcanoning a popular fandom character as aroace.

・Mentioning aroallo people.

・Saying that straight asexuals and straights aromantics are LGBTQA+ since that's what the A stands for.

・Not being T4T (I just wanna love men in peace fuck off with your "but cis men are horrible!! 🥺🤢😱 Limit yourself to trans men because I said so!! 😤🤬🤬"-Bullshit).

・Using someone’s neopronouns.

・Supporting xenogender people.

・Headcanoning a canonically lesbian character as trans female.

・Saying that I want more representation of achillean, aroace, trans, and asexual men in media.

・Asking asking someone who knew I used he/him pronouns to not refer to me with they/them (like, girlie, that’s called misgendering).

・Mentioning that women can be aroallo.

・Saying that people who don’t label their genders/sexualities can be LGBTQA+ too.

・Saying that two pan women I know in reallife dating each other aren’t lesbians because... they’re both pan?

・Mentioning that queer men should always be welcome in queer spaces.

・Saying that amab nonbinary folks can be lesbian.

・Wanting to go on T.

・Jokingly referring to my tiddies and my pussy as boys.

And last but not least,

・Saying "people", "y'all", "esteemed guests", or "everyone present" instead of "ladies and gentlemen".

I dunno, homie, I actually do feel a little targeted here.

[itsoktocallmegay]

(Please do not respond to this post if you don’t support any of what I discussed. Just block me.)

Ok, so I’m going to make a post about my abrospec questing because I’m trying to explore it but am having trouble figuring out what label fits me best. And, yes, I understand that I don’t have to use any specific label, I just want to look at what’s out there.

So, usually I feel like I’m on the multispectrum, and my romantic attraction is almost always mspec in some way, like bi, pan, poly or omni, or even just multiromantic, while my sexual attraction can fluctuate into the monospec spectrum as well, and sometimes I’m mostly sapphic or mostly achillean and have a connection to the terms lesbian and veldian. Usually I feel somewhere on the aroace and never feel fully alloromantic or allosexual. I also am fluid between aspec orientations, like demiaroace, repciroace, greyroace, cupiorose, and orchidrose.

My tertiary attractions are also usually aspec, except for my aesthetic attraction. I am very much alloaesthetic. My aesthetic attraction is actually stronger than most alloaesthetics tbh. Is there a label for really strong, queer aesthetic attraction, now that I’m mentioning it? My aesthetic attraction tends to fluctuate along with my sexual attraction but feels for on the pan-bi-omni spectrum. My other attractions tend to fluctuate between different aspec orientations, between pan and omni, and between sapphic and achillean.

My attraction can also fluctuate with my gender to be queer in some way, like nblm/mlm towards men or queer wlm towards men, nblnb, and nblm/wlw or queer mlw. I tend to feel same gender attraction though, but at times it does feel like queer different gender attraction. But, my attraction is always queer in some way.

[flag-mashups]

what does "mspec" mean? i havent heard of it before

thanks!

Mspec is short for Multiromantic/Multisexual spectrum!

This is used to refer to anyone who experiences romantic and/or sexual attraction towards multiple genders!

Examples:

Biromantic/Bisexual

Triromantic/Trisexual

Quadromantic/Quadsexual

Panromantic/Pansexual

Polyromantic/Polysexual

Omniromantic/ Omnisexual

Abroromantic/Abrosexual

[mogai-sunflowers]

What are m-spec lesbians? I keep seeing hate towards them and I don't understand what it means

they’re lesbians who are on the multisexual and/or multiromantic spectrums! like bi lesbians, ply lesbians, pan lesbians, and omni lesbians! they can be abro, SAM, both, or neither, and may just be using lesbian to prioritize their queer attraction to women!

[poll-stuck]

Character Information Masterlist:

Character One:

Name: [First Name] [Last Name]

Age: 10 Sweeps

Species: Troll

Gender: Woman

Orientation: Aromantic Spectrum + Asexual Spectrum

Height: 5’8” / 1.73m

Hair: Split Dye + Dyed Tips

Horns:

Blood Color: Jade

Class:

Aspect:

Lunar Sway:

Other:

Character Two:

Name: [First Name] [Last Name]

Age: 8.5 Sweeps

Species: Troll

Gender: Non-Binary

Orientation: Aromantic Spectrum + Asexual Spectrum

Height:

Hair:

Horns:

Blood Color:

Class:

Aspect:

Lunar Sway:

Other:

Character Three:

Name: [First Name] [Last Name]

Age: 11 Sweeps

Species: Troll

Gender: Agender

Orientation: Aromantic Spectrum + Asexual Spectrum

Height:

Hair:

Horns:

Blood Color:

Class:

Aspect:

Lunar Sway:

Other:

Character Four:

Name: [First Name] [Last Name]

Age: 12 Sweeps

Species: Troll

Gender: Genderfluid

Orientation: Aromantic Spectrum + Lesbian

Height:

Hair:

Horns:

Blood Color:

Class:

Aspect:

Lunar Sway:

Other:

Character Five:

Name: [First Name] [Last Name]

Age: 11 Sweeps

Species: Cherub

Gender: Woman

Orientation: Multiromantic Spectrum + Asexual Spectrum

Height:

Class:

Aspect:

Lunar Sway:

Other:

Character Six:

Name: [First Name] [Last Name]

Age: 10 Sweeps

Species: Human

Gender: Agender

Orientation: [Romantic] Asexual Spectrum

Height:

Hair:

Class:

Aspect:

Lunar Sway:

Other:

Character Seven:

Name: [First Name] [Last Name]

Age: 10 Sweeps

Species: Human

Gender: Multiple Genders

Orientation: [Romantic] Asexual Spectrum

Height:

Hair:

Class:

Aspect:

Lunar Sway:

Other:

Character Eight:

Name: [First Name] [Last Name]

Age: 11 Sweeps

Species: Cherub

Gender: Man

Orientation: [Romantic] Multisexual Spectrum

Height:

Class:

Aspect:

Lunar Sway:

Other:

Character Nine:

Name: [First Name] [Last Name]

Age: 11 Sweeps

Species: Troll

Gender: Genderfluid

Orientation: [Romantic] Heterosexual

Height:

Hair:

Horns:

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Class:

Aspect:

Lunar Sway:

Other:

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Hi! Could you give some info on how mspec works? I know very little about it and would like to know more! I’m pretty bad at researching and tend to need to fall on direct human communication to learn things ^^;

So, "mspec" is just short for "multisexual/multiromantic spectrum." It encompasses all orientations that involve attraction to 2 or more genders. So things like bisexual/biromantic (bi), pansexual/panromantic (pan), polysexual/polyromantic (ply), omnisexual/omniromantic (omni), etc. would fall under mspec.

[neopronouns]

can do a flag for fluctuating between biromantic/multiromantic monosexual and monoromantic bisexual/multisexual? if there isn't. you can base on these:

https://varioriented-pride.tumblr.com/post/629326732424544256/mono-multi-spectrum-terms

https://julietianboy.tumblr.com/post/713228359010746368/id-a-flag-with-seven-horizontal-stripes-in-the

if you want to coin a label, feel free.

queued!

[flower-petal-pansexual]

This one is for all abro, multi, fluid, pluralian, heteroflexible, homoflexible and other uncommon mspec people because when most people make a post to make mspec people feel better it’s almost always bi/pan/ply/omni! We are beautiful and deserve more recognition! We are here we are queer get used to it!

[shinpikurage]

Jellyfish Pan flag

Jellyfish Pan or just Jelly Pan is for someone who's have a connection with jellyfishes (Just liking It, Kinning, Hyperfixation, etc. Anything is fine!) to jellyfish of any kind! (Inspired by "Jellyfish Gay" I saw on @nemegai account on Instagram!)

Flag Meanings

Panromantic - A pink and purple flag with the original pan flag, the other colours represent love. This jellyfish is either a Chrysaora Quinquecirrha or a Chrysaora Fuscescens (Don't quote me on that! I don't really know lol)

Panromantic - Another Panromantic flag, the colours represent attraction to multiple genders. The jellyfish seen to be a Cyanea Lamarckii! (Again, i'm not really sure!)

Pansexual - The normal and most known Pan flag! Since this one looks like a drawing, I don't know what It could be, but i'm thinking Cubozoa while swimming

Note: I'm using this because of my name, Jelly. I really like this name and It's one of my favorites, and i've been learning about jellyfish slowly ever since!

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Dioxian Pride Flag

Dioxian: an orientation label for when the user switches between jutian and romion or are both simultaneously. Basically, “I like boys in a straight way and girls in a straight way”. User may be non-binary and/or use other labels.

Mixing dio- from dionian and -xian by @hexian-info​​. Jutian (jution/jutien) is a word for an mspec straight woman (julietion) and romion (rorien/romien or romian/rorian) an m-spec straight man (romerion).

It’s similar to omnistraight but not necessarily genderfluid. Can be also used by multispec rivereans. -Ap

[pansy-byke]

M-spec defined by bi-pan library, a very cool resource for all your bi/pan/ply/omni/fluid/non mono etc literature needs

[themogaidragon]

Demiaroace Panromantic pride flag combo

Demi- An a-spectrum orientation where one does not experience attraction to a person until they have developed an emotional connection to them. There is no guarantee that this attraction will develop after an emotional connection is formed, but it is required in order for attraction to be possible.Some demi people may choose to further define their orientation in terms of genders they are attracted to (demipanromantic, demihomosexual). Others do not find this necessary, or feel that they have enough experiences of that form of attraction to figure out who they’re attracted to.

Panromantic : A panromantic person is a person which is romantically attracted to all genders, without preferences.

Do you want me to do one for you ? Just ask !

[imoga-pride]

Hewwo! Sorry for asking a question that is probably obvious/been answered before in advanced. Is there an 'm-spec' pride flag? I think I've seen something else that's the same--plural something maybe? Thanks for any help!

There are multi- flags but not specifically for multi- spectrum (mspec). But I can make one if you request.

A plurian flag

And a pluralian one

[mogai-sunflowers]

Hi ! I saw ur bio saying that your m-spec sapphic,, I’m not really knowledgeable on that term, can you please explain it to me? /gen /nm /lh

hi there! thanks for asking, m-spec stands for multisexual/multiromantic spectrum, meaning being attracted to more than one gender! and sapphic is a word for being queerly attracted to women, meaning attraction to women that isn't straight which includes queer women, non-binary people, and genderqueer men/non-binary people! so it means that i'm queerly attracted to women (since im a girl) and i also am attracted to multiple genders (in my case im pan-omni)