#trans neutral

[thestyleofblackneutrality]

Grills will always be gender neutral, my dear.

[justdavina]

OMG!!! I'm so in love! This is one of the most beautiful trans girls there is!

[gay-----pisces2]

its kind of sad that if I, a trans man, decide by my own free will to wear a dress, I have to specifically tell people that I'm not detransitioning. Trans men, boys, mascs, and neutrals can wear feminine shit. Just because we want to be fem doesn't make us suddenly not trans or faking it or whatever the fuck else.

we get to decide how we identify.

not the clothes we wear.

and not you.

[sirenium]

transphobes calling trans people confused for their gender is just a cover up for the fact that the transphobe is confused. I know you cannot fathom the complexities of my gender, but that's not my issue lmfao.

[genderqueerdykes]

btw if you feel like you totally don't fit inside of the masculine-feminine binary, you don't have to accept that, either. you can live outside of the masc/fem binary, just like the man/woman, male/female, etc. binaries. some people just arent masculine or feminine and that's okay. some people are both masculine and feminine and that's okay. some people experience fluidity between the two. some people are something else entirely and that's okay.

if neither of them describe you, you don't have to be masculine or feminine. that is a binary one can step outside of as well

[milo-by-the-fishtank]

Doing a survey here. I had a thought and I want to see demographic data now

Here is some explanation on what I mean by the options I have provided 

Had your ability too formulate opinions striped-being called ‘pick me’, ‘ bootlicker’, ‘suck up’, been told you hold this position because a man told you, you are doing it for sexual favors or attention from a man, or any other way that strips you off your ability to hold a position without the influence of a man.

Misgender-implied/or stated you are a cis man, implied/or stated you are a trans man/masc, forcefully put into a gender or sex categories will do not identify with, stated in any way you’re not trans

Harassed-sent hate mail, sent death threats, sent spam, sent gore, threatened in any other way, you know the drill

Malgender-had your gender affirm within a negative association(ie ‘she’s a trans woman that’s why she’s a bitch’, stuff along this line)

Sexism & Transphobia-intersexism, transmisogyny, exorsexism, misogyny, and basically any other form of sexism or transphobia

Other forms of oppression and discrimination-racism, ableism, homophobia, reinforcing colonial/white supremacist ideas, again you know the drill 

 Attention:

If it’s none, please comment none, when I make the tallies you will be added. I’m an idiot and forgot to add that and a check results 

[enby-art-creations]

I AM MORE CREATURE THAN MAN OR WOMAN 🏳️‍⚧️💛🤍💜🖤🏳️‍⚧️

[mogaimagic]

QUEER PRIDE DIVDERS 2

Transfem

Transmasc

TransNeutral

TransAndrogyne

Multisexual

Bisexual

Pansexual

Polysexual

Enbian

[angelfacemjj]

“You no need to be androgynous” bitch, idgaf I WANT TO be androgynous, because it's literally the coolest shit ever.

[dusk-the-cat]

People saying “People are acting SO over dramatic over the election! It’s not that big of a deal, it’ll barely affect my life!” piss me off so much.

Like yeah, good for you that you’re so privileged to the point that tr*mp won’t affect you. But don’t be fucking delusional and think that this is a privilege that everyone has.

[thestyleofblackneutrality]

the few times in history when gender neutral fashion was easy and everywhere.

[justdavina]

Such a cute gurl!

[zyk0-z0mbc4tzxx]

ITS TRANS VISIBILITY DAY🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥🏳️‍⚧️💥‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

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I LOVE YOU ALL MY BEAUTIFUL GENDER QUEER BABIES

[xxpunkbovidxx]

Reminder that being trans is not a political topic and we should all punch thick-skulled asshats who say it is to exclude trans voices 💖

[genderqueerdykes]

I saw your post about AMAB Enbies and how non-binary isn’t a monolith and wanted to say I appreciated seeing it. As a 25-year-old socially anxious, autistic, and ADHD AMAB enby person, it’s hard for me not to feel like a lot of trans and LGBT spaces treat me like a fox in the henhouse, especially when there are physical attributes I can’t change, like my height and build, and how “manly” things like my hands and face are. I can’t exactly change my facial structure, nor do I think it’d be authentic to myself if I did or could. (Apparently, it’s a problem to have a well-kempt and styled beard?)

Unfortunately, when I interact with the local trans community, most conversations circle around whether I’m planning on medically transitioning or “getting some work done.” I don’t feel like I have something to transition to; I just need to work on improving my physical and mental health. They also often ask if I’m happy with my style/aesthetics, which I’m not. But it often feels like a catty jab because, one, who has the money for a professional boy-mode-ish wardrobe, a boy-mode/family-safe wardrobe, AND a gender-affirming wardrobe? There is some overlap between those three concepts, I know, but still… I can’t wear a tank top, fun/crazy button-up, and a pair of khaki booty shorts in an office setting, or god forbid, around parents or certain friends. XwX

A lot of my autistic and ADHD tics were “corrected” in harmful ways that have made me more restrained and subdued to a point where my excitement might seem a bit disconcerting at times. I used to talk with my hands a lot and fidget a lot, but since it wasn’t something “good boys” did, the behavior was “corrected” by my parents and the community I grew up in. I’m always kinda anxious and paranoid now in groups of semi-strangers that I’ll make a major faux pas and everyone will hate me or dogpile in correcting me.

Anyway, thanks for letting me ramble in your asks. I just wanted to say thank you for speaking out because some of us are afraid to. ^^;

hey i just wanted to say thanks for sending this ask! i really appreciate it because it irks me that people just participate in this behavior and act like that's what's to be expected or right. it's not okay, and i'm sorry you have firsthand experience with this, but i absolutely do not blame you at all whatsoever. it's fucked up that a lot of spaces for people who fall outside of the gender binary are beginning to police AGAB which is just. absolutely outrageous behavior from a community that is supposed to embrace and celebrate diversity in identity and how we experience gender outside of the binary...

but instead toxic people become obsessed with the biological sex binary. i don't know how to put it any other way than it is transphobic as fuck to say you don't feel safe around an entire group of people with/born with one specific genitals. their genitals have nothing to do you with you! nothing! those are their genitals, leave them the fuck alone! this is LITERALLY the "we don't give a fuck about AGAB" community and bioessentialists and transphobic queers are loudly and proudly excommunicating anyone from the community who was born assigned male at birth or has a penis in general.

i'm sorry to hear that people are so uptight about your body and physical appearance. the thing is that we are supposed to be embracing diversity in our bodies and appearances and experiences but yet they see someone who is... tall? or has a defined chin? or an adam's apple? or dense muscle tissue? or facial hair, like you mentioned? and suddenly they're... a threat? what the hell is this? it's transphobia, that's what it is!

you shouldn't have to transition if you don't want to. the thing about being non binary is that you presenting that way, especially if it's how you want to present, is literally challenging and stepping outside of the gender binary as we know it today. you are not required to go over the top and be the most femme person to have ever walked the earth. you're not required to have surgeries done or take hormones or dress different or change your voice... you don't have to change anything about you that you don't want to. that's one of the core principles of the trans community and we are letting down such a massive part of our family by behaving this way.

you really hit the nail on the head by bringing up your tics. i am so sorry that you have to deal with that worry- a LOT of people who are hostile toward amab transfems, trans women, and transfemmes in general target them specifically because of their mental health and/or neurodivergence. i've noticed this in person, especially if the amab non binary person in question has a loud voice and doesn't notice or has hearing damage and has to speak loudly, if they have tics as you mentioned, if they talk a lot or enjoy long conversations, if they try to explain... anything, people will target them for being "hostile" or for "arguing" when they're doing nothing wrong

people have gotten too comfortable in calling people with these features, especially people with deep voices, facial/body hair and penises, make someone "scary" or "dangerous". people are literally gladly applying radfem logic to the nonbinary community and not questioning it. radfems are attempting to rope in nonbinary afab people as they view them as "confused women," so the more we support this behavior, the more we lose grasp on our own family and community. we can't allow people to think this is okay behavior

i don't understand why people are okay with cis butch women but not okay with butch or gender non conforming transfems, trans women and amab trans people. i despise the notion that amab and intersex people can't be gender non conforming. why is gender non conformity reserved for afab people? has everyone forgotten (or patently ignored) the rich history of amab non binary and gender non conforming people we've had over the many decades of recorded history throughout our community in this modern era?

amab people should be allowed in these spaces, because there are just as many ways for amab people to step outside of the gender binary as there are afab and intersex people. everyone is capable of stepping outside of the binary for their identity and nobody has the right to police what that looks like. nobody. if one genuinely has trauma being around people of certain body types, seeking some type of therapy is crucial, because this is projecting one person's specific trauma on to an entire group of people, and it's spreading like wildfire and becoming the default in these spaces

this is not an attempt to derail, but rather to point out that this affects ALL trans people: fearing these traits in any person of any agab affects trans men, transmascs, intersex people, and other trans people in general. someone can have these features for a variety of reasons. also, if we're leaving out trans men & mascs, and we're leaving out trans women & femmes, AND we're leaving out AMAB people in general... how the HELL is that a trans community? there's no community to be had there whatsoever! that's an echo chamber! that's a radfeminist belief breeding ground!

we cannot let radfems and transmisogynist let nonbinary spaces become "gender non conforming women, afab trans people and people with a vagina only" spaces, because at what point, why are you calling it the nonbinary community? people need to be brutally honest and call those spaces women's spaces, or EXPLICITLY tell people that they are made only for people assigned female at birth. that wouldn't be ideal but it would at least make this transparent so people would know to avoid that and possibly start up their own safer spaces for ALL trans people

leaving out amab trans people no matter how they identify means your space is not safe for ALL trans people. it needs to be safe for every trans person no matter what they were assigned at birth. we are failing a huge portion of our community for no reason other than for people to project their trauma onto a group of people that haven't hurt them. we can't let down our family like that. it affects us all. we are stronger together and the nonbinary communities become more nuanced and develop better resources and enable all trans voices as opposed to 1 very specific type of trans person

thank you for this ask, sorry for such a long winded reply but i am so sick of people being awful to amab trans people in general. you deserve to be able to be non binary openly and talk about it with other queer people. i hope you're able to find safer spaces to be who you are, you deserve that just like any other queer person. you don't deserve to feel like you're walking on eggshells the entire time you're around other nonbinary people because you were assigned a different sex at birth, and you have different genitals than they do... that's literally antithetical to transness as a concept and queer community on the whole

you don't have to adhere to a strict binary just because you are amab and trans, i hate how people tell you and other folks in your shoes those exact things. you know who you are, you are a non binary person, and i hope more people begin to challenge this behavior and speak up for others, because this is literally not queer community. this is petty infighting being influenced by transmisogynist politics that does not belong. that has nothing to do with queer community, that is an attempt by radfems to disassemble our community at every possible level.

please for the love of god stop giving them that. it's hurting us all

[shk0lstun-flagz]

Alterhuman-Trans

For any alterhumans who are also trans

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