#acespectrum

[genderqueerdykes]

asexuality is not an inconvenience. it isn't a burden to change your conversation topics to avoid making a sex repulsed asexual feel uncomfortable or unsafe. it isn't about you if an asexual romantic or life partner does not want to have sex. it's none of your business if an asexual person has frequent sex, or makes money off of their body or sexuality. it's not an attempt to manipulate you when an asexual/aceflux person has fluctuating levels of sex favorability, neutrality and/or repulsion.

someone else's asexuality isn't about you, it is not inherently overstepping your boundaries. forcing the asexual person to cope or deal with things that make them uncomfortable or go against the way they want to live their lives is overstepping their boundaries, and people need to accept this.

[individualentityinverydeepburrow]

[traceyshortfilm]

You already know what time it is

#WeeklyMemeDump

[loversplayground]

Consider us influenced! Victoria Barron Art designed this acronym breakdown of LGBTQIAP+.   ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜

pc: @victoriabarronart

[greedyourokld]

Queer HQ, Episode 1.

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For all the beautifully handsome bowls of spaghetti left out in the sun today, I see you - and yes... you deserve that nap!

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See pinned post for more info about these gorgeous goofballs!

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[qbdatabase]

10 Trans Romance Titles Welcome, suitors, lovers, and secret admirers! Here are 10 Romance books with transgender and nonbinary characters to help get you started on the Trans Rights Readathon 💗🧾💗

[deckofmanyaces]

Our DM @welsh_webster isn't a Dungeon Master no no no

They are a Demisexual [insert M word here] ♠️

(it's a different one each episode)

[antikosm]

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL ASEXUAL DAY, CREATURE FEATURES!!!

[acelosangeles]

Check out our newest issue of ACE ON ACE, Ace Los Angeles's monthly newsletter, out every last Tuesday of the month! ✨

Want to learn more about International Asexuality Day, aces in media, recent essays by ace people, and more? Link below!

We started a newsletter this year with updates on any new Ace or aro articles, new asexual and/or aromantic characters in media, new ace and/or aro events, and more. 

[thisliminalspacedaydreams]

Being ace for me is like, 90% I'm so glad no one bothers my peace of mind and tries to touch me in a sexual way, and 10% pining over hands in my hair and fingertips over my wrist and wanting you to crawl inside my bones like there is no middle ground.

[genderqueerdykes]

aromantic and asexual people are not inherently "miserable" or "unhappier" than other people. we are not "missing out" on something- if we do not experience these feelings to begin with, we have nothing to "miss out" on. the only time that aromantic and asexual people are miserable is when we are forced into relationships or forced to believe we "need" to be in one to be complete. destroy this argument in your mind- aromantic and asexual people define our happiness. we are not inherently miserable, we are doing just fine

[gomitatsu]

QPR (Queer Platonic Relationship) help

I want to get into a QPR, but I have no idea where to go. Does anyone know if there are any sites or anything that's good for aro/ace people looking for QPR? Especially spaces that don't make you pay to talk to people like a lot of dating apps. DX

[traceyshortfilm]

Hi all, thank you SO MUCH for staying tuned! 💜 I know we haven't been as active as usual on this account, but even though life has gotten extremely busy, we still have been planning behind the scenes, and monitoring all the news in the Ace community. 💖

[takenbystomachache]

Greetings!💜🖤🤍

My name is Shaoni Ghosh and I am currently pursuing M.A. in Applied Psychology in Calcutta University. As part of my dissertation, I am conducting a research to understand the impact of Microaggression faced by individuals from the ACE SPECTRUM or ASEXUAL SPECTRUM on their Psychological Well-being and Distress, Mental Health issues, Perceived Self Concept, Attachment and relationship issues

If you are-

1) Indian

2) Between 20-40 years

3) Self Identify as a part of the Ace Spectrum/Asexual Spectrum

I would be very grateful If you could spare 10-15 minutes from your busy schedule and fill the form. Your participation will help increase the visibility of the community in Indian research. All information will be kept confidential, and will be used for academic purposes only.

Click on this link to proceed:

For any further query you can reach me at- ghoshshaoni99@gmail.com

Thank you!😊🫶🏽

[greedyourokld]

All I want for Christmas is Cake.

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Like this design, want it on a Christmas card to send to a loved one, or just keep for yourself?

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Grab yours on my Etsy shop. Link in bio x

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[icarus-the-arospec]

Aromantic Things

Scrolling through romance posts on instagram and I’m realizing that I still want all the “romantic” things, just without the romance. I want to be super close with someone, I want platonic “dates”, I want to hold hands, I want to cuddle and watch movies, I want to do meaningful gestures for each other, I want to know and be known, I want to do all these things. I don’t know if I will ever find it without the other person attaching romance to it.