Cishet aspecs are queer.
Cishet aromantics are queer. Cishet asexuals are queer. Cishet aplatonics are queer. Cishet afamilials are queer. Cishet anattractionals are queer.
Aspecs are queer as hell and excluding them only isolates queer people from their community.
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Scientist and slight cryptid based aromantic moodboard~!
For an anon!! Hope you enjoy! ^^
Want one? Send an ask! -mod Jay
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talking to allos is insane because they'll say something that is completely different from your experience and be like "yeah that's normal though"
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Acespec and Arospec pixel divider pack #1 (Free to use)
Happy Pride 2024! I'll be making more Acespec and Arospec divider packs as the month goes on so make sure to send in a request for the flag(s) you most want to see! Here's the first batch!
Asexual
Aromantic
Aromantic Asexual
Aromantic Asexual (V2)
Apothisexual divider
Apothiromantic divider
Aegosexual
Aegoromantic
Demisexual
Demiromantic
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For anyone who’s aspec and doesn’t know what term to use for someone they like because “I don’t know if it’s a crush or a squish or something else” then worry not and use my chosen term: POI which stands for Person Of Interest. It’s literally just someone you’re interested in in some way and I generally don’t specify which way I find them interesting because eh sometimes I don’t know and it’s easier to say POI. It also makes them sound like a murder suspect or something if you’re into that lol
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Pride Flag Series 2024: Green Mountain Skies
Aromantic Flag!!!
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First aspec pride poll of the month!
(for poll purposes pick the label you identify with most)
Sorry if the aspec abbreviations on some are weird. I had to make some up.
Happy pride month to my fellow aspecs! Remember that your attraction/lack of attraction is just as valid as anyone else!
-dread
As always reblog to spread <3
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I really need someone to sleep with. Like literally hold and sleep and wake up next to. I don't want to date you or anything. Just be a friend, be a roomie.
Let me listen to your voice, let me count your heartbeat and let us drift off oversharing.
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Actually, been thinking about something, posting this before I head for seepys
Reblogs help for spread, thank you!!
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aesthetic attraction is so weird sometimes like no i don't want to date you or even talk to you i just want to admire your beauty from far away and hope you don't take it as me hitting on you. /gen
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[id: a light pink userbox with a hot pink border and hot pink text that reads “this user loves the concept of love but hates amatonormativity” on the left is an image of the love letter emoji /end id]
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"Validity" should not have to be given. "Validity" should not have to be declared by the majority. "Validity" is a made-up qualifier and positions whoever is outside that label as having needed to give approval for someone to exist and take part. I am not "valid", because I was already here. We were already here, approved or unapproved.
Every microlabel, allospec identities of all kinds, the loveless, the aspec-allos, everyone who has ever been the subject of debate or been accused of making us all look bad; the stereotype, the asshole, the mold-breaker, the discourse topic, and the invisible. Validity is sold to us to put down some as pending approval and lift others as the gatekeepers, to pit us against each other to pick each other apart.
Don't seek approval. Just be.
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Acespec and Arospec pixel divider pack #2 (Free to use)
Happy Pride 2024! I'll be making more Acespec and Arospec divider packs as the month goes on so make sure to send in a request for the flag(s) you most want to see! Here's the second batch!
See the the first batch here!
Greysexual
Greyromantic
Lithosexual
Lithromantic
Aceflux
Aroflux
Alloace
Alloaro
Aspec
Arospec
Fraysexual
Frayromantic
Suggestions, tips, and requests are welcome!!! I don't do any NSFW but I'll create for any fandom. Feel free to use this for something if you want. A like, reblog, or follow if you do would be appreciated!
~Parker
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Learning about the split attraction model for me was a game changer when realising I was ace. It made me appreciate that there were other types of attraction and what I was experiencing was actually aesthetic. It also means that I can completely separate the asexual side of me from the aromantic side of me. Even though my sexual and romantic orientations are the same, I see them as two separate identities. I don’t know why but the asexual part has always felt more meaningful to me but maybe that’s just because it was my first-born identity
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Science/Scientist based Trans, Aro, and Ace moodboard~ ^^
For @meow-wow-meow-wow :) Hope you like how this looks!!
Want one? Send an ask! -mod Jay
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