#multiple systems

[liongoatsnake]

We hate how the plural community on Tumblr has devolved into a space where you feel compelled to check a profiles and pinned posts on every blog to see what they do/don't support before feeling comfortable reblog a thing they made.

Like, we just want to reblog haha-relatable or ouch-mood posts about being a system, not worry what stance the original poster has on something.

- Damian (he/him/his)

[thecreepycrawlersss]

being plural means a headmate pulling you into headspace to cuddle with you and help you go to sleep because of your& insomnia

being plural means smiling and laughing at a joke one of your headmates made, or having witty banter with them as you make a meal that you'll both be able to enjoy

being plural means a headmate going "its okay, you don't have to do this, i can do it" and you thanking them because yeah, you cant do that, and thats okay

being plural means thinking about your headmates when buying new clothes, or seeing a shirt or pair of pants for sale and going "they'd love that !!"

being plural means making one of your headmate's simplyplural profile, and spending lots of time perfecting it so that it fits them to a T

being plural means knowing you aren't alone

being plural means knowing that your headmates, your friends, your family, are always there for you

being plural means love.

THIS POST IS INCLUSIVE OF SYSTEMS OF ALL ORIGINS !!! DO NOT BRING SYSCOURSE ONTO THIS POST.

[the-divine-machine]

Is it really?

[kaboom--bitch]

Treating your headmates like separate people isn't worsening your condition by default by the way. Treating them with respect isn't making you dissociate more. Final fusion is a fine thing to try and achieve, but people need to understand that functional multiplicity is a thing you can work to achieve in therapy too. Please stop pushing the idea that you need to treat your headmates like a disorder or curse in order to heal. You can be happily multiple if you want that.

[genderqueerdykes]

btw 'syscourse' and plural infighting isn't accomplishing anything. back in the late 90s and early 2000s, the only communities and resources for plurals that were widely available were for and by non-traumagenic systems. the only people who were advocating for normalizing and accepting plurality on a large scale were non-traumagenic systems. if you did research into plurality 10 - 15 years ago, most of the results that came up would have been experiences written by spiritual and natural plurals.

many people at the time were expressing their dislike of forcing every single plural to identify as if they had trauma- many found this insulting to themselves, and rightfully so! no one should be forced to identify in a way they don't agree with just to rightfully be a part of a community they already occupy. this obsession with "you can only be plural if you have trauma" has only come about extremely recently. i found out about plurality through the otherkin community. i was actually told about DID by someone in the spiritual plurality community. people don't seem to understand that most non-traumagenic systems have respect for traumagenic systems and don't gatekeep their spaces to prevent us from entering.

older plural spaces on the web like healthymultiplicity accepted all plurals. the goal of the community was to show that you can live as plural and not have it be a tragedy or something to "fix". if anything, folks with dissociative disorders owe a LOT to non-traumagenic systems for pushing to normalize plurality without implying that we HAVE to integrate our headmates and try to stop being plural. a huge part of the early online plural community was there to push that plurals can and do live happy lives and shouldn't view their plurality as a bad thing

it's not going to make singlet society see us in a better light. it's not going to get people to understand plurality better. it's not going to get us better mental health resources. it's not going to improve the quality of care for dissociative and traumagenic systems. all you're doing is bullying someone else that you don't understand simply because you don't agree with them.

you're not going to recover from your trauma or understand your own plurality better by denying the existence of other types of plurality. you're not "making the community safer" by gatekeeping. telling other people how their brains work is policing their identities. whether or not you want to accept it, if you forcefully kick endos out of plural spaces, you are the cop you claim to hate.

fighting with people on your own team will never net you a victory. to every other dissociative and traumagenic system: endos are on your side. you are wearing the same jersey. you are made of the same flesh and blood. enough. come together to share your similarities instead of fighting over differences. celebrate the diversity that plurality offers. don't take someone else's identity personally. someone can share the space with you without having to match exactly how you identify. diversity is what makes a community thrive.

[emhoover]

This is my fan translation of Kairi Seidouitusei Shougai no Chiguhagu na Hibi by Tokin! I love this manga so much. It’s a wonderful autobiography about DID and a representation with a tone we don’t usually get in English. Tokin-sensei gave me permission to translate the prologue and share it with an English audience because I know so many people would want to read it! I am not going to translate the entire text, but I do really really want to encourage people to submit it in this month’s Seven Seas interest survey!! Please help support Tokin-sensei’s wonderful work!

(Submitting with the Japanese title I wrote above or a link to this post would be best for clarity, my English title is not a literal translation)

[thetransfemininereview]

My new essay about the interconnections between transmisogyny and pluralphobia is live right now! It's titled "Transfemininity and Dissociative Identity Disorder: An Undertheorized Intersection," and you can read it here ✨

[twiigthetwiink]

my online class is asking me to create an "alter ego" for an assignment. little do they know that

[luxlitemidnight]

This Just In!

The characters in my head are no longer living there rent free!

They have gained sentience and are now expected to contribute.

[skullrift]

being frontstuck feels like a free trial version of being a singlet except it’s cluttered with ads.

- 🥀

[polyplurallol]

Can y'all send some images that you relate to plurality in any ways? We're making a banner and want that kinda stuff! Can be jokes or serious whatever you think. We already put the plural rings and a small joke so ye

[ancientpersacom]

If the future isn’t plural, real people suffer more than they already have.

[sanjipussyindulgence]

bingqiu have the most complicated, multi-layered top/bottom dynamic ive ever seen. they're up to next level 5D faggot shit.

shen qingqiu constantly compares luo binghe to a maiden. he's canonically turned on by luo binghe crying. luo binghe is called a masochist MULTIPLE times and likes when shen qingqiu both hits him and praises him. they switched from a student/teacher thing to straight up pseudo incest like halfway through the third book. shen qingqiu is internally homophobic and sees bottoming as demeaning.

you'd think shen qingqiu would be the obvious dom/top with all that in mind... except he's such a weirdo he treats bottoming like a sacrificial act! and he takes the bullet so his husband doesn't have to instead!! even though luo binghe would eat that shit up!!! and also his dick is so huge it literally killed shen qingqiu once!!!! what's wrong with them!!!!!

[chiwosays]

shoutout to other disabled people with constant and debilitating pain, people whose pain can't fade into the background or be ignored throughout the day.