#nonbinary plurality something

[vulpixisananimal]

WHERE ARE WE?!

Achievement Get!

[disgorgedfoetus]

Hojo:IF YOURE NOT CAREFUL THEYLL THINK UR A FEMALE‼️💢 SEPHIROTH WILLIAMS THADDEUS HOJO ARE U LISTENING TO ME UR SWAG WOULD BE TOO LOUD THEYLL KILL U

Sephiroth: woagh,,i wonder whatd my girl naeme wouldbe……

[official-linguistics-post]

Hi! I've seen that you use they/them pronouns and I totally don't want to do an evil "you have to choose one" thing but i wanted to ask, do you have any preferences for what pronouns to be used in languages that do not have they/them?

My language is fusional & has grammatical gender and sometimes I talk about this blog to my fellow linguistic-ish friends and I always go either with "The person who runs that blog recently wrote[fem] ..." or "The human that made[masc] this... "

And I usually try to omit pronouns (tho "the person who runs that blog" becomes a mouthful and normally would be a "she") but I wonder if maybe you have preferances about that?

We don't really have a they/them here and most nonbinary folks use it/neopronoun (because "it" looks like masculine in other cases AND like feminine in plural so i think people either use gendered ones, something like herhim, or that one made up by sf author 20 years ago...) so that's doable too, beside the standard she/her and he/him

I hope this wasn't read as disrespectful and I can obviously keep going as I did (tho maybe you have preferance for being a she/her person or he/him human?)

hang on i need a second to process being Perceived [modem noises]

ok we're good. thank you for asking, this is a super interesting question!! without knowing the language myself, i'd probably default to whatever nonbinary/agender people in the language community use most often – "it" seems appropriate for me from the way you've described it, but even just swapping up gendered pronouns is an acceptable compromise!

[whereserpentswalk]

Body swaps are commonplace. It's been that way for awhile. They first figured out the method to do it during the second world war. And it was a key way that spies infiltrated enemy nations for much of the cold war. Though by the late nineties it was so commonplace that most people would swap at least once in their life.

Sometimes the very poor, if they were young and fit and attractive, would sell their bodies to those who could afford them. There's laws cracking down on permanently swapping bodies for money, but it still happens just in subtler ways then it did in the 2000s. A young healthy man in need of money might find himself swapping with a rich old man for a small fortune, as a sort of deal with the devil. Useally under the assumption that he'd get a better body for himself someday.

Of course, there's more mundane and temporary ways people swap bodies for jobs. Actors for example, almost always use body swaps to get the right look nowadays. An good, well trained actor will be swapped into someone with the right look for the part when they get on set or on stage, and then swap back when they clock out. Militaries do the same thing, swapping their best trained soldiers into the bodies of their strongest and fittest, useally having a separate "trained core" and "body core".

Of course, if someone dies while they're swapped there's no getting your body back. There's rumor of an aged Shakespeare trained actress who body swapped into the body of a young model for a movie, who deliberately orchestrated the death of the model while she was in her body so she could permanently take her body as her own.

Body swapping has also done wonders for the trans community. Most binary trans people don't even try to medically transition anymore, as swapping with a trans person of the opposite agab is the easiest way to transition. There's also subcultures on the more nonbinary and gender fluid side of things who trade around bodies with eachother, modifying them as almost a sort of shared recourse. Of course, none of this has made bigots more accepting, if anything people are even more paranoid that someone they're talking to could have been born into a different sex now that people can so perfectly transition.

Racial issues have also been changed by body swapping. There's controversy amoung both the openly racist and the anti racist over if and when it's ok to swap with another race, and being in another race's body makes you that race. Not to mention there are some people of color who try way too desperately to swap into white bodies, and then the vast plurality of those communities who consider it a sort of treasonous act. Quite recently the son of a South Korean billionaire payed nearly two million dollars to have a body he got from a British expat, causing the country's government to officially condemn paid body swaps.

It's also made crime harder the trace. It's very hard to prove you did something even if there's video evidence of you doing it, as it could easily be someone else in your body. It tends to be when the powerful get caught for crimes this is a good enough excuse. Though for the poor it's often been used to explain why they're being changed for crimes committed by people who looked nothing like them, or crimes that happened when they were confirmed to be in another place.

It's all so commonplace now. Most people have a signature way of dressing, and often a type of mask they wear over their face just because it's easier then relying on bodies to identify people. You're used to knowing people who used to have different bodies for whatever reason. You know a pair of fraternal twins who grew up swapping with eachother so often they don't even really think about whose body belongs to who. You know someone who swapped bodies in his freshmen year of college with his ex boyfriend and never saw his original body again. It's just how the world is now.

[skyedancer2006]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE!!!

Wanted to draw something of a bunch of our characters to celebrate ^^

Characters and flags under the cut!

From left to right:

- Aster (he/him): has the MLM/gay flag on his cheek and is holding the Aplatonic flag

- BT!Kieran (any pronouns): has the xenogender flag in its tail

- Sol (drei/drem): wearing asexual and nonbinary bracelets, and has the fictosexual/fictoromantic flag wrapped around dreir arm. Also has pins of a theta delta (therianthropy) and the plural rings symbols.

- Acryl (they/them): holding the objectum flag, and their apron has nonbinary colored paint splatters

[mayaoftheflowers]

Hey, y'all! I’ve been working on coining a new Hebrew word for a culturally specific Jewish transfeminine identity, and I wanted to share it + get feedback from Hebrew speakers (!!)

The term is נַעֲוָרָה – Na’avarah.

It’s a feminine noun based on the Hebrew root נ־ע־ר, which is related to youth and awakening (as i understand it)

The idea is to mirror other culturally specific identity terms like Hijra or Muxe, but in a way that’s grounded in Hebrew and Jewishness. Something that could be used both personally and communally, with a sense of spiritual or cultural meaning- not just “trans woman” in Hebrew, but a specific transfem Jewish identity (and also explicitly inclusive of nonbinary transfem Jews)

Plural would be na’avarot (נַעֲוָרוֹת)

It's not in use anywhere else as far as I can tell, and it should fit Hebrew morphology, but I still want feedback just in case

Potentially na'avar (נַעֲוָר) could be a transmasc equivalent

Also, thank you to @springstarfangirl for help with this!!

[starstickerzzz]

The amount of time I’ve had to remind people that they has always been used as both a singular and plural pronouns is so silly, like. If you don’t know the gender of a person you say they???

Like if u see someone lost something you might say “oh I hope they get that back” or something like that. Like it’s been a thing before people wanted to use they as a pronouns for themselves?????

It’s already been used as a singular pronoun when u refer to a person that u don’t know the gender of so why is it so hard for people to use it on purpose it comes naturally in certain situations they just don’t want to cuz they suck 💀 im not nonbinary btw but i know how to use common sense and respect other human beings. Happy early pride everypony :)

[everyhouseishaunted]

Remus Lupin

Age: 16

Pronouns: He/They

Sexuality/gender: unlabeled, probably on the Aro spec, for sure on the Ace spec - unlabeled, some type of nonbinary, generally masculine leaning and prefers masculine terms.

Likes: Books, Stars, watching way too much TV in one go, sweet things, photography, music

Dislikes: Boring books, most fruits, having to wear shoes, being cold, feeling out of control.

Other info: super picky eater, hates boring books, would rather read something fast-paced, likes to cook, drinks water or tea almost exclusively (or occasionally some sodas)

(send in character asks!!)

People who like me for some reason:

- @im-not-drowning-you-are he's just a weirdo like me <333

- @sirius-ly-awesome loml <333

- @bat-b0y-barty where did they even come from

- @prongs-plural he's alright i guess

-@redwearingred the only sane person i know

-@rosie-evan taught me how to take good photos

-@hopein-dorasboxx

This is a Roleplay blog for the character Remus Lupin from the Marauders fandom (I do not support Jk rowling at all)

all replies are in character unless otherwise specified

Out Of Character:

not me projecting on this

picky eaters who hate having to wear shoes and boring books, cant decide a label for themselves for the life of them and eat way too many sweets for the win!!!

My main blog is @bralnwashed

i am 16, and will not be participating in smut or other adult topics,

I go by they/them

you can find other info on my other blog

if you have any questions, send me an ask or message.

[monster-match-if]

hi i was just wondering what species is mc? why no nonbinary options? & why aren't all contestants ro options?

I just realized I have 20 something unanswered asks here 😵‍💫🥴 MC can have custom pronouns, I answered a bit more here. But keep in mind the verbs will not be set to plural for they/them. This is purely for my sanity and lack of time to code. I barely have time to write as it is. MC can only have male or female body, again, just because coding a mix and match will take me longer to code. MC is human. mostly Will be able to turn into a vampire/werewolf, but it will probably be very late in the game. why aren't all contestants ROs... cause I have other plans for them 😂none of which is good💀 Also because realistically, it would have taken me forever to write so many RO routes. but also because I need people to kill hehe

[yourfaveisintersex]

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS!

This post is long. Just so you know. Prepare to do a lot of scrolling and reading.

"Who are you?"

My name's Judas! I'm also called the Choir System, since I have polyfragmented DID. We use he/him pronouns collectively, but you can use plural they/them if you're referring to multiple parts in our system.

I'm an intersex adult who semi-randomly decided to make this blog after getting out of the shower one day, and now make low-effort edits of people's headcanons and of canon or coded intersex characters as a hobby when I have downtime instead of bedrotting on YouTube or Reddit or something. I'm more than happy to talk about my personal intersex experiences on this blog, but if you demand my diagnosis you owe me $20 USD and I'm not kidding I will genuinely respond to you with my PayPal link. Fund my testing because I don't know for certain either lol.

Some of my interests include art— both traditional and digital, roleplay (and writing as a result), cooking & baking, sewing, music, and photography. I tend to get interested in more niche stuff as well, but that's the main gang of hobbies. I'm familiar with and invested in media such as Persona, Yakuza, Homestuck, ENA, Fear & Hunger, The SCP Foundation, Disco Elysium, Darkest Dungeon, FNAF, Danganronpa, and Invader Zim. Just to name a handful of IPs I like in a decent capacity. I have a special interest in adult cartoons as well, but this paragraph would get stupid long if I talked about all the ones I like.

I'm both physically and mentally disabled, and I'm currently a cane user. I won't go too in-depth on my disabilities, but TL;DR chronic pain and balance issues, hard of hearing due to auditory processing disorder, proudly & obnoxiously autistic, a colorful assortment of mental illness, and dogshit memory because dissociative amnesia. Be patient with me and please be as specific as you can and need for your requests, because I really dislike any vagueness. I'm a genderfluid cistrans man (cis nonbinary, trans boyflux[man–neutrois]+ agender. Sometimes butch lesbian on top of that but it's all rlly complex this is just an abridged version), and you can check out my full queer hoard here on pronouns.page (link)

Now let's actually get to the frequently asked questions below the cut. I've droned on long enough making this half a proper introductory post.

"What is intersex?"

Intersex describes the natural state of an individual's physical body. Congenital sexual characteristics (or lack thereof) that are either seen at birth, spontaneously develop ("spontaneously" meaning your body just Does that, such as during natural puberty), or wouldn't otherwise be discovered without testing (such as atypical sexual chromosomes, or internal imaging discovering genitourinary structures/organs that aren't to be expected), and don't fit neatly within the binary expectations of "male" or "female".

Obviously this is surface-level, and just how I would explain it in the most concise way possible. However I feel it is important to add as well, what intersex is NOT; it is physically impossible for humans to be born with both a fully formed & functioning penis and vagina. This is known as "bigenitalia" or "dualsex". While there ARE intersex people who you can say have both a penis and vagina, one or both structures are either underdeveloped and/or not typically functioning. In that same vain, it is not possible for a human to simultaneously be able to impregnate and become impregnated, because both states require two completely different hormonal profiles to function properly.

Species' who have or are capable of the above are also NOT INTERSEX by default. While these individuals CAN be intersex, as described above naturally developing sexual characteristics that are "out of the norm" for one's species, there can not be an "all-intersex species". This has multiple names (no, the H-word is not acceptable even in a scientific context, stop using it), but it can be called cosexual, monoecious, or gonosimulistic. "Dichogamous" also exists for species' who produce one gamete, and then produce another later in life (like clownfish!).

For more information, and variations/traits you could headcanon characters with, check out the below hyperlinks!

Intersex FAQ by InterACT (link)

Intersex Table of Contents by The Transgender Dictionary (link)

Intersex Variations Glossary by InterACT (link)

intersex.wiki Main Page (link)

"Intersex" from the lgbtqia.miraheze.wiki (link)

Wikipedia's Intersex Variation List (link)

"Am I intersex?"

I can't tell you if you are or not for sure. No one can, really. You might think doctors could, but they can only really give you a diagnosis that may or may not be correct. Hell, you might not even be able to tell because not all variations are symptomatic and you only find out later in life by accident during some imaging or testing.

"Intersex" is more of a sociopolitical identity (in my opinion) than a strictly biological one, and you aren't obligated to openly call YOURSELF intersex even if you undoubtedly would fit under the label. I do encourage people who are questioning if they're intersex or if they should use the label, to at least toy with it or related ones such as extersex (link), quoisex (link), or mesosex (link); but you aren't obligated to share your intersex status if you don't want to.

"No but really, how can I tell if I'm intersex?"

Again, I can't tell you. Both because it's a personal thing, but moreso because I'm not a medical professional. You're more than welcome to toss questions about yourself in my askbox (I'd prefer if you headed to my main account just to keep this blog clean, but it's not a huge deal) for me to speculate on because I HAVE hoarded a good amount of information in my head, but I cannot diagnose you.

I humbly direct you to the below hyperlinks for more information on your questioning intersexuality.

InterACT's official Discord server "InterSpace" (link) [Only for intersex + interquestioning people who are 13–29 years old!]

I Think I May Be Intersex by TIGERRS (link)

ARE YOU INTERSEX? A zine by versegm (link)

"Does [X] condition count as intersex, and could I submit a headcanon with it?"

Simple answer? Maybe, and go ahead anyway!

Complicated answer? What counts/doesn't count as an intersex variation, given if it isn't widely accepted by the intersex community as one already, can vary from person to person. Generally, if it's in the Intersex Variations Glossary by InterACT as linked above under the "what is intersex" question, I'll happily post it without question. There's a handful of variations not listed there as well that I'll post similarly without argument.

Conditions requested that aren't widely accepted as variations themselves by the community will be tagged under "#intersex adjacent variations". This does not mean "this is not intersex", it means "this may or may not be considered intersex depending on who you talk to". Generally, if it can cause intersex traits, and could mean the character headcanoned would fall under the spectrum of natural sex variance somehow, I'll likely accept it under that tag(s).

"[X] isn't an intersex condition!"

Be constructive with your comment or shut your mouth. There are real people who have the variation you claim isn't intersex, and find support in the community regardless because their experiences fall under, or are adjacent to, other intersex people. Yes, even ones I MIGHT NOT PERSONALLY consider intersex variations. Even if you disagree, be tolerant. What may not be considered an intersex variation today by the community's standards might be tomorrow, or vice versa. Malicious exclusionism is a death sentence to liberation.

"Can intersex people identify as [gender]?"

Yes. Intersex ≠ gender identity. The only reason they might not be able to identify as a certain gender is because it's culturally-exclusive, i.e. two-spirit.

While some intersex people feel their intersexuality and its traits influence how they see their gender (intergender identities), or even seeing just "intersex" as their gender identity, not all of them do— a lot don't, even! Intersex people can be cis, trans, non-binary, cistrans, neither cis nor trans, or multiple of these catagories. Same way perisex people might identify.

"Are perisex/endosex/dyadic/non-intersex people allowed to send in requests?"

Of course? Same way a cishet person could headcanon a character as queer. Do whatever you want forever. Bare minimum don't be stupid about it, but that applies to everyone and everything.

"How do I send in a request?"

Bare minimum just drop the character's canonical name in my inbox— either in full or a nickname that's commonly used for them and will show results. Ideally with the source name as well, especially if your blorbo is more niche and doesn't show up easily with a Google search (or DuckDuckGo, since that's what I primarily use. But I'll pop on Google if I'm struggling to find your fave). It's kind of a challenge to do this wrong somehow.

"I don't like/agree with this post!"

Okay? Make your own post. Or send in your own request.

"Can I request a headcanon of a character if you've already posted them?"

Yes, absolutely! Multiple interpretations are cool as hell. And it's bound to happen anyway— we aren't a roleplay space where characters get "claimed".

Do note that duplicate requests might not "fit" with the previous posts, be it different imagery edited with the flags, the cropping/sizing is wrong, or other errors that make it visually different. I delete the images from my camera roll after I'm done with the initial request since I have a life of my own and I have too many images as-is lmfao.

"Are original characters allowed to be submitted?"

Unless you've managed to publicize them out in the world and they could reasonably be called a canon character somewhere? No, sorry. If you send me stuff about your intersex OCs though (be it a post you made that I reblog, or you're just infodumping in my inbox), I'll add it to my page.

"Can you edit this flag(s) in my request, please?"

Sure! Just be mindful though if you're asking for about four (4) or more flags/identities, since it could start to look cluttered on the right side. I always keep one half of the image for the intersex flag because... well intersex-centered blog, and Morgan Carpenter's flag only really looks good if at least half of it is visible somehow. If you ever want Natalie Phox's intersex flag (link) or otherwise just want your images to look different, just ask. I just serve the people here with my shitfucked Medibang edits.

"If I add an image(s) of my requested character in my ask, could you use them in your post?"

God please yes I'll kiss you on the mouth if you made my life easier (Exaggerating)

You can also ask I use images from specific iterations of the source, such as an older movie or newer game or something, for example. I'll try my best to accommodate. Of course if you added them yourself I'll be jumping for joy about being able to be lazy lmfao. Please don't ask for fanart edits unless I can give credit to the artist somehow.

"May I use your edits as a profile picture? Do we need to give credit?"

Yeah, go right ahead! Use my edits for whatever you want. Giving credit to me is welcome (either to this blog or my main @ridibulous), but you aren't obligated to do it.

"Could you add a queue and/or inbox counter in your bio?"

I've thought about it pretty hard, but no. Pain in my ass to manually update, and I think it kinda defeats some spirit if you know where you are "in line" so to speak. You're more than welcome to ask the amount of posts in my queue directly from my inbox, though.

"What do you consider as canon, canon-coding, and intersex coding?"

Canon: The most reasonable conclusion is that they are intersex or have an intersex variation. This can include the source material or a creator of the source material going "X is intersex" OR "X has [condition accepted as intersex]". Either or can also heavily allude to a condition as wording doesn't have to be perfect and specific to understand "yeah the creators were intending this character to be intersex".

Canon intersex coding: Nothing is said outright nor were the creators potentially intending the character to be intersex, however based on experiences the character goes through, someone could reasonably interpret "hey this character could be intersex!". Kind of vague, if you could imagine them being canonically intersex it probably goes here.

Intersex coding: May or may not have outright references to potential intersexuality, or just has experiences that, while not explicitly apart of, do ring true for many intersex people. Such as not fitting in gender wise and having struggles related to your percieved gender and/or gender identity, physical issues, being othered, experiencing medical abuse, etcetera. Very vague catagory also, so don't be shocked if this + above flip-flop a bit.

"Are characters from NSFW/18+ sources allowed?"

Generally, yes? I've already posted many headcanons from sources that are gorey or violent since I'm more receptive to them, but I'll squint and treat the more sexual medias on a case-by-case basis. If they're not reprehensible (no positive representation of pedophilia, rape, beastiality, etc.) and I can find an image(s) of your requested character that is SFW, I think we'll be fine. All sexual or particularly NSFL sources will be tagged as "#18+ source".

This blog is at least PG-13, basically. I make jokes in the tags about being physically attracted to some requested characters sometimes. I swear, a lot. And well, intersexuality will make you think of sexual characteristics because... duh. Penises and vulvas will be talked about here in an informational context. Tread with caution and look away if you don't like it.

"Are transintersex(*) headcanons allowed?"

No. This blog is anti-radqueer if we're gonna have any niche tumblr discourse opinions here. Fuck off.

(*I'm not describing nor excluding the reclaimed label (link), just the bullshit one by perisex radqueers)

"Do you know you're marked red by Shinigami Eyes?"

Well aware. The application, and the single person behind it who keeps people marked as red or green with zero oversight, is intersexist towards intersex people and their experiences should they not align with perisex ideals or comfort. Among a laundry list of other issues such as anti-transmasculinity, exorsexism, and racism (and marking people, who are affected by these or speak about them in the trans community, as red), just to name some I know off the top of my head.

"Why do you use the four-stripe transfem & transmasc flags?"

The creator of the popular transfem & transmasc flags explicitly excluded many intersex experiences in the posts for said flags. Naturally, because this page is centered around intersex existence and hell I'm someone who doesn't align perfectly with perisex expectations of transition, I don't fuck with that, and the four-stripe flags seemed like the best option. I'll always add alternate variants with the popular flags in the posts however, because some intersex people use those flags anyway and who am I to deny that.

"Why do you not add image IDs in your posts?"

I'm trying to keep this blog low-energy for myself and treat it as a hobby in editing images and throwing them someplace for people to enjoy, especially since when I DO write image IDs I tend to be detailed (because well... that's kinda obvious why right?), thus the energy thing. Plus I'm just a stickler for keeping my posts looking "clean, neat, and short". I know, it sucks, I'm sorry, I really don't have much good of an excuse in my opinion and I'm wholly aware of that. To bridge this gap, I reblog any IDs I see folk add to my posts under the tag "#image id included". I do try to be vision-accessible in other ways as well, such as adding "link" in parentheses after hyperlinks.

"Why do you put an asterisk after pronouns sometimes in your posts?"

If a character's headcanoned identity & appearance don't match, basically. Such as a character who's a presumed cis woman in source and the request says they're transmasculine, or vice versa. It's proactive to try and prevent any smartasses who insist I'm not using the right pronouns, or something. I just make the funny image edits, I go with whatever pronouns the requester uses in their ask and I'll default to they/them (or the canon character's assumed pronouns) otherwise.

"Why aren't religious characters from the source not allowed? What does that mean, what counts as parody?"

I made a Jesus from The Bible post and I got some folk up in arms about it. I'd rather not deal with the shitstorm again, moreso because it took a mental toll on me. And something could be said about disrespecting people who believe X individual is real even when you don't believe the same (which is my case, I do not hold Christian beliefs current or past).

Parodies mean giving the character a degree of seperation. So Jesus (and the various other religious figures.) from South Park is fair game.

"What if I have other questions?"

Toss them in my inbox, my notes, or message me directly, either on this blog or my main, I don't really care right now. If I get questioned on the same thing often enough—or I feel it's important information to be answered— I'll add it to this behemoth of a post.

[the-bar-sinister]

Fandom History | Media Literacy | Anti Censorship Whump | Self Ship | Villains, Monsters & Criminals Polyshipping | Shipcest | Age Gap | Enemies to Lovers Fandom Old | Fictive System | Fictionkin

-

Bad person alert! This account is run by bad people! If you don't like bad people don't follow this account!

-

Our drawings are for our own entertainment only. We do not take commissions or trades. You are free to repost our drawings or use them in any non-commercial way (avatars, phone backgrounds, etc).

Frequent tags:

Selfship

Villain f/o

whump prompts

blog updates

friend mail

villain posting

drabble

fanfiction

our art

Archive of our Own account

👉 he/they | queer | married | adult | elder millennial

👉 plural | fictionkin (serious/spiritual) 

👉 Muti shipper | Poly shipper

No DNI we block at will 🫡

Please do not send us asks about babies, pregnancy, or raising children.

Source fandoms: Resident Evil, Final Fantasy 7, One Piece, Metal Gear, Marvel Comics, Persona games, Slayers anime, GTA V, Great/Ace Attorney, Homestuck, Danganronpa, Fire Emblem Three Houses, Urusei Yatsura, Digimon, Girls Frontline, Steven Universe, Pathologic, Jem & The Holograms, Peter Pan, Welcome to Demon School, Disgaea, Sherlock Holmes media

non-source fandoms: Invader Zim, ABC’s Lost, Twin Peaks, Silent Hill, Star Wars, Star Trek, Lord of the Rings, Vampire Chronicles (books), Doctor Who Labyrinth, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Final Fantasy (4-6, 8,9), Pokemon, Black Lagoon, Miami Vice, Bioshock, Bioshock Infinite, Prey 2017, Dishonored, Call of Duty, Red Dead Redemption, Frankenstein, the Strange Case of Doctor Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, Gargoyles, Fallout New Vegas

Favorite genres: horror, mystery, thriller, noir, crime fiction, psychological thriller, supernatural horror, sci fi horror, gothic lit

Shipping, plurality and squick explanations under the cut.

Our ships: We are a polyshipper and a multishipper. We ship multiple characters together in the same context, in the same relationship, in the same fics etc.

A "ship" for us does not equal in OTP or an ideal relationship. We use the word "ship" to denote any romantic or sexual relationship between two characters, even when that relationship is unhealthy, toxic, twisted, and bad for one or both participants. Ships are a narrative tool, not something aspirational. 

Plurality: We are a plural system– many people living together in one body. We have been plural since we were children, and we have been blogging about our plurality for 15+ years.

Please do  not use psychiatric or pathologizing terminology for our plurality. We do not refer to ourselves with terms like DID, alter, or introject, and our system members do not have defined roles.

Our preferred terminology is: plural, system member, and fictive.

System members tend to sign or tag posts and refer to one another with a two emoji 'signature' rather than a name. Unsigned posts are understood to be a product of multiple members or a joint consensus. 

squicks / tropes we prefer to avoid

non-con of any kind (but especially underage non-con and non-con incest) 

pregnancy & babies (especially as the joyful and expected result of a romantic hetero-presenting relationship)

nonbinary or trans characters deciding it's better for them to perform their assigned gender at birth

Characters submitting to the will of a lawful aligned god.

Parental control and discipline being shown as narratively positive and correct 

characters giving up their careers and aspirations and 'settling down' when they fall in love

prophecies that are unavoidable and/or narratively depicted as inherently good and just

characters following the life-path set out for them by their parents/following in their parents footsteps

filial duty and filial piety in general

pretty much anything to do with traditional family structures, gender roles, and lawful aligned religion, honestly

wing whump / characters having their monstrous or inhuman traits harmed

monstrous or inhuman characters becoming human (especially when presented as positive)

soul destruction / soul death

characters being metaphysically kept apart for all time

any kind of 'conversion therapy' or metaphorical conversion therapy (especially being portrayed as positive)

We are: 

non-christian | magical practitioner | chaotic neutral

polyamorous  | largely aplatonic

trauma survivor | abuse survivor

Weird | Freakish | Monstrous

[the-bird-brains]

Me: I know trans people feel like they're in the wrong body and should be in x but like is it really that odd? I mean I'm disabled of course I hate my body.

Realizes I'm trans nearly a year later.

Me: I don't get nonbinary, I mean what does it mean to not be a guy or chick?

A year later realized I was trans ftm, then years after genderfluid.

Me: otherkin? What's that?

I "knew I was a cat in a past life" as a kid and years after hearing about otherkin relearned about it and therianthropy.

Me: DID is a thing that exists.. but no way I've got something like that, I'll research it though for x and y reasons.

I'm plural (not with DID) and have been for QUITE some time but severely doubted it even after researching a good few times.

Me: soo therianthropy and otherkin..ing(?) isn't just about having past lives of being an animal/fictional character but being them in the here and now like system headmates are [insert species/character here]? Okay then...

i am a pony... well for now, could go back to being a formless biped eventually...

Anyways this was just a post from me, Indie, pointing out a good few times I'd questioned/not properly understood things and later found I'd fallen under them. I have a very odd "I don't get it it's dumb" then x time later "ohh, I was dumb.." habit. Not all of these were "that's dumb" to me many were "what do you mean that's a thing?" both as a question of 'wait really' and also 'how does that even work'. Idk basically if I question things for too long I essentially adopt that thing into my being/realize that thing is very familiar to me personally.

[religiousqueer-culture-is]

welcome!!

asks are open!

This is a culture blog for religious queers of all kinds to share their experiences!

this includes all queer identities, including religious specific ones, xenogenders, good-faith labels, m-spec, aspec, contradictory labels, and many more!

This also includes all religions, including Christianity, Islam, Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Sikhism, paganism, polytheism, and pantheism of all kind. All religions are welcome here; no kind of hate is

when starting a submission, start with something along the lines of “religious queer culture is…” or if you want to specify a religion/label, like “queer muslim/christian/hindu/etc culture is…” or “religious sapphic/nonbinary/etc culture is…” feel free to! I will allow sign offs :]

as a very important note!!! There is only one mod!! I will try to get all submissions in but I can make no promises!

also very important!! The mod running this account is a sex-repulsed asexual!! Please do not submit nsfw. Any and all nsfw submissions will be deleted

yet another note because apparently this is needed. No. Hatred. Against. Religions. Here. Any. I don’t care.

claimed sign offs will be marked here —

some stuff about the mod under cut!

names Shai, and I go by he/it!

plural (Shai is our collective name)

I am Jewish and a Hellenistic polytheist!

I myself am queer: aroace and ay’lonit, questioning intersex. That’s all for simplicity

physically and mentally disabled; please be patient ^^

alterhuman :]

Pro-Palestinian Jew </3

[hermitw]

I'm done overthinking Sukuna's pronouns I think ultimately the take is something like

why does it matter to me? thats for other people to deal with, I don't talk about myself in the third person.

like Sukuna is already so criminally misunderstood, that the concept of having an accurate pronoun (and it be respected) is just so fucking absurd bc who would respect that and why would he care?

but also there's the way Sukuna expected Jogo to know about his fire CT, and Sukuna being a poetry nerd, that there probably is some pronoun heirarchy at least subconsciously.

but also he pronouns would feel the least vulnerable and Sukuna is a traumatized hypervigilant bitch. or maybe it would feel better to be called something new, not associated with anything in the past.

I can also see Uraume asking Sukuna, and being told "just use whatever you want idc".

I think Sukuna would also fuck with "it" pronouns bc of his edgelord "I'm a curse" defense mechanism. which is kind of funny bc he'd like the separation from humanity (since it puts him in a position to be feared) yet is always protecting humans and exorcising curses, when it's up to him.

if we rly want to overthink it, i have drafts of Trans Woman Sukuna evidence pile and also Sukuna has DID, which the vague plurality of "they" can feel really nice for, though it varies by alter and system (I know several nonbinary trans people whose alters vary by gender but they just go by he or she pronouns, so this could mean nothing but it's real to me) so I can't say. tho I am back to my default hc of Sukuna as a nonbinary person without gender, just does not vibe with or give a fuck about it.

OH BUT THERE'S ALSO different pronouns, like for "I" in Japanese 🫩 I forgor

edit: found the post with Sukuna's pronoun use in Japanese and some of the trans woman evidence (I think there's even more so I'll make a fuller coherent post sometime).

[azulcrescent]

Friendly reminder from an absolute baby system over here: it is impossible to fake something without knowing it. Those are antonyms. It is, however, possible to be wrong about things. If you some day decided you were actually nonbinary, or genderfluid, or whatever, would that make all your efforts towards being a woman suddenly invalid? Nope, not even slightly.

In short, faking it is not cool, but being wrong is 100% morally neutral. You’re allowed to be wrong. And if there’s nothing wrong with being wrong, there’s nothing to lose by accepting your plurality until/unless you find something that fits better. I’m paraphrasing heavily from what another system had to tell us in private asks before we were willing to share publicly, but I think I’ve done their words justice. You’ve got this, regardless of how many people that “you” actually refers to 💗

- Miriam

Tenk qq. TvT Im very secure in my transness but not that much in my plurality so this helps.

[atsoine]

a plurality bingo off syscringe but i tear it apart:

"leftist/politically passionate" yep guys, an entire half of the american population must be faking. because they care about politics and human rights.

"nonbinary" that! is sexism. you are discriminating based on someone's gender. its also transphobic. why are nonbinary people inherently sysfakers to you? unpack that.

"have a tiktok" hundreds of millions of people have tiktok. this point is like "has reddit" or something. having a social media app that the majority of people walking around the world have means absolutely nothing.

"identifies with lvl1 autism and not aspergers" so... identifies with the up-to-date diagnosis? aspergers as a diagnosis doesnt exist anymore. lvl1 autism is the... accurate diagnosis for that presentation of autism. youre just an idiot.

"too old/too young" any age! guys, anyone of any age is faking! this is dumb and catches quite literally every person ever.

"has/had a partner system" has dated people. shockingly, systems and plurals do get bitches. that is, in fact, not a sign of faking. does your loneliness make you feel more valid?

"2slgbtqia+" this! is queerphobic/transphobic. why would a group of people historically susceptible to abuse be exempt from developing a CDD? why would a group of historically abnormal and stand-out people be exempt from identifying as plural?

"plus size, coloured hair, white" so only skinny, natural-coloured hair having, POC people can be systems? strange metric but go off i guess.

"neopronouns/neoidentities" congrats on a third transphobic box! man you people really do put up a good argument against being transmeds. /sar

"likes a specific type of fashion" dont... we all? everyone has a fashion style they gravitate towards and prefer, weirdo. "is a human being" would be more specific, honestly.

"comorbid" its a medically backed fact that people diagnosed with DID are, on average, diagnosed with 5-7 comorbid conditions. but we all know you people dont like to listen to science! who am i kidding?

"witch/spiritual" antitheism, wowzers, this could be a bigot bingo card if you really think about it. only atheists can be systems!

"conventionally attractive/unattractive" ....so... everyone...? literally everyone can be catagorized under "conventionally attractive or unattractive" lmao??? "is a human" ahh box once again.

"late diagnosed autism, adult autism, high masking" so lets just exempt huge swaths of autistic people for... no reason! only autistic minors can be systems LMAO, no adults!!!!

"OSDD" and thats just a diagnosis. your bingo box is literally "has the disorder." brilliant.

"gen z humour" this just in, gen z is now exempt from being plural! "gen z humour" and its just a gen z person adhshkash. only millenials and boomers can be systems!!!!

"gatekeeper alters" <- a very well documented alter type. you may as well have put "fits the historically documented DID presentation" while youre at it.