#nonbinary spectrum

[hamster-princess3]

in honor of pride month heres the story of how I found out i was trans (more or less,)

(also ik its still may but its like next week so idgaf)

Younger me: “Im gonna do research on trans people and the trans experience so i can be a good ally”

“hm thats neat some of this describse me”

“oh”

“well shit”

[chxrrie-bxmb]

hey homies if youre trans (whether its ftm mtf or trans nonbinary spec, we dont discriminate here) and struggle to shower please dont beat yourself up about it

dysphoria is a bitch and a lot of the times it leads to depression, body dysmorphia, incredibly low self esteem, sometimes even anxiety. please try your best to take care of yourself but also dont be too harsh on yourself if your dysphoria makes it hard to stay squeaky clean sometimes. i get it, i really do ❤️

stay safe out there girlies broskies and peeps ❤️❤️

[shk0lstun-flagz]

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Hyperqueer/+HYQ+

Or Hyperlabeled / +HYL+

User of multiple microlabels. Using many labels because you feel like your identity is just broad and it’s important to you to be specific. This label can be a way to shorten your identity, to show that there is more to your queer identity

-repost with slightly updated def / flag design-

[vveezlebub]

ALSO HAPPY PRIDE MONTH BABES!!!

If you see this post I’m wishing a happy pride month tooo:

Lesbians (my incredible non men loving non men)

Gays 🏳️‍🌈 (my awesome non women loving non women)

The bisexuals ™️ (you spectacular men and women and everything in between lovers who can’t pull either I’m bi and single btw)

Pansexuals (you swag humans who adore people so fully)

Asexuals (and I’m talking bout the full spectrum, the demisexuals, the greysexuals, the cupiosexuals etc etc!!! YALL DESERVE YOUR REP !!! AND YOUR GARLIC BREAD)

Aromantics (SAME WITH AROS!!! FULL SPEC, demiromantics, greyromantics, cupioromantics, aegoromantics etc etc!!! AND MORE GARLIC BREAD)

Transfemmes (you gorgeous gorgeous girlies and some girlish’s who I truly must bow down to)

Transmascs (you handsome handsome boys and some boyish’s who are so everything)

Genderfluids (you shapeshifters, i love ya)

Nonbinarys (gender constructs, who are they? Y’all are stars!)

TRANS PEOPLE IN GENERAL 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

AND ALL THE QUEERS and SWEET ALLYS <3333 happy pride month my loves

[enbycrip]

Binary gendered people, can I please ask you, if you are writing or creating anything - from homebrew campaigns to published media - and you are thinking about nonbinary rep, not to *only* do it as with someone who is some form of shapeshifter?

Yes, there are complex and interesting questions to be raised about how perceived gender shapes a person’s experience. Yes, a lot of nonbinary folk *empathise* with amd see ourselves represented in shapeshifting characters - and what this is categorically NOT is a request to try to block nonbinary spectrum folk from playing shapeshifters, whatever that means in your setting.

But in real life every nonbinary spectrum person out there lives with a meatsuit that in fact stays very much the same.

We might get moments of serious euphoria by playing with presentations that massively shift how we *appear* to others; that give us a little bit of the potential experience as shapeshifting. But at the end of the day we are still stuck with a meatsuit that in fact does *not* meet the very narrow skinny white young abled idea of what seems to constitute Socially-Acceptable Attractive Androgyny, nor change effortlessly to meet fluid changes of what would give us euphoria or prevent dysphoria. Most of us live constantly with misgendering and denial that someone who looks like us could be different from the man or woman they read us as.

And if your only attempt to represent nonbinary folk is to do with physical shape, you are really misrepresenting not only the nonbinary spectrum experience, but saying a lot of things about gender that are not accurate and, frankly, playing into a lot of harmful ideas the cis still hold about gender.

You might not guess the huge joy you give me whenever I meet a huge hairy muscled nonbinary person, or fat curvy nonbinary person, or a nonbinary wheelchair user, or older nonbinary person, in fiction, but it’s very much there.

(YMMV. I do not in any way speak for all nonbinary people. No, this isn’t only about Double Trouble.)

[scarlicbread27]

like 90% of my problems would be solved if i could just shapeshift

[thecornerofegg]

Fuck gender, I'm doing my own thing

[the-original-cock]

I've been thinking, and I am considering the labels demi-panromantic iculasexual cassgirl. idk why but having labels is kind of nice

[bunneclair]

“You know me better than anyone.”

a little piece on what being bigender and aro means to me :))

my friend described my identity as being kind of like a Steven universe fusion and I think maybe that’s the best description of it I’ve ever seen? Lol. I have two genders and they’re in love and nobody else can love them like they love each other. I feel like while usually gender and sexual/romantic orientation are separate things, mine are very intertwined in each other. My identity is heavily rooted in my healing and ability to love myself a certain way and if describing that as a Steven universe fusion makes more sense then I’ll call it as it is, LMAO

[tis-i-said-the-fly]

as someone who identifies as girlflux, I put on a skirt for Thanksgiving dinner, and it immediately felt wrong and I had to take it off, but today when I put on the same skirt, it felt perfect.

everyday is different and everything is made up :)

[shk0lstun-flagz]

Pangender Flags

Pangender

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Demipangender

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Pangenderflux

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Pangenderfluid

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Offpangender

+ an identity in which one feels closely represented by the pangender identity/description, but is not actually pangender // (2) an identity where one feels closely represented by every gender in one’s own culture/experiences but is not said genders - coined by me ?

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[necromimetics]

can’t stop thinking about my friend’s cishet partner who said last night that he doesn’t think anyone is the same gender. god-tier take.

[deikochan]

[thecornerofegg]

The most annoying thing there is is when you send an email to someone you don't know very well talking about someone you do know very well who happens to use they/them, and so naturally you use they/them for them in the email but when the person replies THEY USE GENDERED FUCKING PRONOUNCE THE ENTIRE DAMMED EMAIL. CAN YOU NOT READ??!!

[dusk-the-cat]

My parents being upset about me calling myself Max reminds me of that one “I consent” meme.

[yournonbinarypal]