#nonbinary trixic

[nb-amourous]

Nonbinary language is awesome! It's amazing! Enban, xenic, diamory, maverique, abinary, neopronoun, androgyne, trixic, duosex, enby, exorsexism, ceterosexual, salmacian, there are many such examples of beautiful nonbinary vocabulary.

Our language gets held down and smothered by binary people who call it "cringe" or "weird" or "gen z/alpha" or "artificial" or "too new". All language is created for purposes! Everything has a start, everything was once new.

Use our language! Make it common, make it normal, even if it's only amongst other enben. Don't let exorsexists demoralise you into letting our nonbinary vocabulary fall into obscurity when it's objectively amazing. Erasing a community's language removes their culture, removes their visibility, removes their identity. Don't let exorsexists remove your identity. Our language is not weird, our language is not too new. It may be obscure but with common usage, it won't become obsolete.

💛🤍💜🖤

[zero-templates]

𝒞 。 Miscellaneous flag graphics﹒001

fraysexual﹒frayromantic﹒nebularomantic﹒boyflux﹒girlflux﹒fluidflux﹒toric﹒androsexual﹒androromantic﹒trixic﹒gynesexual﹒gyneromantic

— requested by @icrayonz ﹠ @beclight﹒like and reblog to use, no credit needed : read my pinned before interacting or using

reposts allowed with permission and credit﹒don't claim as yours﹒don't repost on tumblr﹒25 x 16 pixels﹒pixel flags

[chrysalis-the-butterfly]

A woman of colour is dating an enby with a prosthetic leg and Tumblr couldn't be happier!

[allwomenjointhe4bmovement]

There's no such thing as an "asexual lesbian"! All lesbians experience BOTH s3xual and romantic attraction. The term you're looking for is Homoromantic Asexual.

You can't say you're nonbinary and call yourself a lesbian. You'd just be admitting that you're a woman. Lesbians are WOMEN! The term you're looking for is trixic.

Learn to use correct terms. Words have meaning!

ASEXUAL - A term used to describe someone who does not experience sexual attraction towards individuals of any gender.

LESBIAN - A term used to describe a woman who is both sexually and romantically attracted to solely other women.

Therefore, YOU CAN NOT BE BOTH AT THE SAME TIME!!!

If you're an asexual woman and still feel romantic feelings for only women, then the term for that is Homoromantic Asexual, NOT "asexual lesbian"!!!

That's just basic English, that's how words work, that's how adjectives work, that's how labels work. It's not about being "valid" or joining 2 completely different things together and chanting "we exist" when people call you out. It's not about "gatekeeping". It's not about being "exclusionary".

This isn't saying lesbianism is only about s3x. It's just about using your common sense! That's literally it!

[trixic-culture-is]

we're trixic, of course our identity is constantly used to justify hate against nonbinary lesbians.

we're trixic, of course people erase that trixic is neither inherently monospec nor mspec.

we're trixic, of course our label is totally unnecessary.

we're trixic, of course we're told we should just call ourselves lesbian or sapphic.

we're trixic, of course people think we're women-lite and forget that abinary and masc trixics exist.

we're trixic, of course we're beautiful.

[voidxfantasy]

my art thang for pride. take all the pride flags from my labels and make them into some fellas

[goth-brushbug]

Ramblings about fem/masc alignments and labels

So, to my understanding fem aligned reffers to female aligned genders and masc aligned refers to male aligned genders. (Personally, I really prefer to say men/women aligned). And I'm very confused when people, for some reason, use those labels to describe gender presentation? Gender identity and presentation are not the same

Another thing I'm seeing among the community is forcefully assigning those labels on people. Not all sapphics/lesbians are women aligned! I don't consider myself women aligned, and I would like to use the sapphic label without the feeling that I'm being misgendered. I'm not aligned to any binary gender. I know there is also trixic label that specifically describes nblw attraction, but that's not the point... This experience feels a bit lonely? There are nonbinary lesbians who also do not consider themselves women aligned

Sapphic label brought me comfort, and I don't wanna drop it tbh. But I'm feeling kinda forced to with the alignment thing that lots of people in the community are applying...

Also, side note that I feel pretty unwelcomed by the cis lesbians as a nonbinary individual-they are clinging to the whole female alignment way more trans ppl

[emberdragon240]

To further add to my profile update I also headcanon Mothigan as sapphic and Mihaly as trixic

[mestric-diaries]

so, what is mestric?

the term mestric was coined here and in short, it describes any attraction or partnership involving at least one nonbinary person.

in other words, mestric is anything that isn't binary-loving binary.

in other other words, mestric describes attraction, partnerships and more that don't fit the binary view of either gay or straight, due to the involvement of one or more nonbinary people.

in other other other words, mestric unites people whose orientation, attraction, partnerships etc. are erased due to the erasure of nonbinary people. mestricism opposes the idea that all attraction, partnerships etc. involving nonbinary people can be easily put into a gay or straight box, as specific mestric labels and identities are often erased or rebinarised, although gay and straight mestric of course exist.

mestric can be a specific identity, a descriptor for attraction, partnership and action and an umbrella term for an entire community and set of experiences.

the term mestric functions similarly to the word gay in that it can describe all of these things.

mestric as an identity/orientation label: nonbinary people attracted to nonbinary people, nonbinary people attracted to binary people and binary people attracted to nonbinary people can all claim a mestric identity. the label mestric may be used alongside other orientation labels. examples: a binary woman attracted to nonbinary people may identify as mestric. a nonbinary achillean might also identify as mestric. an enby who is attracted to other enbies might identify as both mestric and enbian.

mestric as a descriptor for attraction: attraction can be considered mestric regardless of whether someone actively identifies as mestric or not. examples: a panromantic nonbinary person may not claim a mestric identity, but their attraction to binary people is mestric. any attraction to nonbinary people is mestric, regardless of what orientation label someone uses.

mestric as a descriptor for action: mestric can describe actions, regardless of orientational label used. examples: two nonbinary men having sex with each other is mestric sex. a woman kissing a nonbinary person is a mestric kiss.

mestric as a descriptor for partnerships: mestric can describe partnerships, even if none of the partners identify as mestric. examples: a woman married to an agender person is in a mestric marriage. a maverique, a bigender person and a man dating are in a mestric polycule.

here are some of the most common mestric orientations:

enbian: nonbinary people attracted to nonbinary people

toric: nonbinary people attracted to men

trixic: nonbinary people attracted to women

astroidian: men attracted to nonbinary people

maedic: women attracted to nonbinary people

now you might be asking: "isn't that the same as diamoric?" well spotted, it is quite similar, however with an important distinction: the coiner of diamoric said that while binary people can participate in diamoric activities, they cannot identify as diamoric. with mestric, binary people are free to call their orientation mestric. the person who coined diamoric also said that diamoric specifically centres nonbinary people attracted to nonbinary people as the only group who should use diamoric as an orientation label. mestric does not specifically centre enbians, it doesn't centre any specific mestric experience but rather unites all experiences of alienation from the binary view of gayness vs. straightness. nonbinary people attracted to binary people and binary people attracted to nonbinary people are just as welcome to call their orientation mestric as enbians. this means that, in some ways, diamoric is similar to mestric, but overall it's more specific than mestric and more similar to enbian.

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Mestric Lesbian Pride Flag

Mestric: a catch-all term for all orientations, attractions, partnerships or similar involving non-binarity (e.g. nblnb, nblw, wlnb, mlnb, nblm, wla).

Lesbian: queer attraction to women (QLW/WLQ); a label for being gay for women; umbrella term for nonmen loving non-men (NMLNM/faunic/daunic); or homo sapphic/WLW (women who like women).

I used to use "diamoric lesbian" (x; x; x; x) to mean this. However, diamoric is mostly used to mean attractions experienced by non-binary people and descriptor of relationships involving at least one nonbinary folk. "Mestric lesbian" would include lesbienboric aptobinary primlunic women (binary maedix/wln), for example, along with non-binary lesbians (i.e. gaibians, trixians, lesbienbies) as well as some cenelians, iridians, and enbians

[threadednovelist]

Haley's for the gals and Leah's for the enbies.

[lgbtq-userboxes]

[themaveriqueagenda]

maverique loving [gender] symbols based on this maverique symbol

maverique loving men (mvlm)

maverique loving women (mvlm)

maverique loving agender

maverique loving androgyne

maverique loving neutrois

maverique loving xenogender

maverique loving maverique (mvlmv)

[lawofcollage]

These are the trixic (nonbinary loving women), toric (nonbinary loving men), and enbian (nonbinary loving nonbinary) pride flags!

Trixic, toric, enbian

[trixic-culture-is]

happy omni awareness day to omni trixics!

[romanananan]

its hard to find a label for myself that also reflects how i feel with my complicated gender identity and describing my sexuality is even harder knowing im nonbinary + genderfluid (and a lot of other things too).

how do i even describe my attraction to others?? is it m/w/nblm/w/nb?? or is it something else completely???? what am i even feeling in the first place??? does it come from a place of genuine attraction or am i just faking it????