#proud genderfluid

[koihanwrites]

happy pride month !! (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

[alexs-life-is-a-bit]

some of you need to wake up and realize, the government does not want to make life difficult for us. they want us GONE. "these laws aren't fair and are leaving out ____ group" they don't care. they dont care about our discomfort, they dont care about accidentally harming other groups. they want to make things so bad that people stop transitioning. they want to make it so difficult for us that we slowly lessen, and lessen, until there's so few of us that they can completely wipe us out. DO NOT GIVE IN. PLANT YOUR FEET DEEPER. we need more trans people now than ever. do not divide yourself from the community, please please please keep pushing. don't give up. that is exactly what they want. stop pitting aginst your own community. please. we need to work together.

[ih8cisgenders]

The pain of labor is misogynistic.

Men should have to give birth.

[sirenm3lody]

THIS POST IS FOR SEX EDUCATION AND HELPING TOO NORMALISE EXTREMELY REAL CIRCUMSTANCES!!!

Rilyn: he/she/xe/it

ok so I know I’ve spoken about erectile disfunction across all genitalia havers on my blog before but I feel I should go into more detail about specific aspects based on personal experience as someone with a vagina.

When I’m having having sex or masturbating yes there are times I end up finishing, but I also experience sudden flash backs and overthinking that cause my brain to try and stop focusing on sexual stimulation and instead trigger an anxiety attack, panic attack or depressive episode. This will lead me to push harder, to try harder, I will end up in pain because of how badly I just want to finish but physically can’t, in those moments it’s best for me to stop, but unfortunately you aren’t thinking of that when you’re telling yourself you aren’t worth love or affection if you don’t finish, something that should take a short amount of time alone for me takes me over an hour because I’m forcing myself to continue despite the end getting further and further away. I want to finish, but I can’t. I end up either finding something new to get me off or I give up, both options lead me to feel like shit if I am not reassured.

You don’t often see people talk about their personal experiences with their sexual life as it’s been made taboo, and embarrassing. But if you don’t know what’s happening in those moments and you see no one speaking about it you will feel so much more alone. These aren’t taboo subjects. They may feel awkward or scary but they’re important.

I’m hypersexual. My hypersexuality has been active since I was a kid and I have been living with it, and been getting affected by it for that whole time and still continue to struggle today, this affects how my body experiences sexual stimulation, whether it’s aimed at someone or not, masturbation for me is a tool to get rid of an inconvenient situation, but if I don’t finish in a specific time span when I’m thinking of it as a job or chore [I can’t decide if I do think of it that way, it’s just the context in the situation] then I will be in pain, I will feel like I’m not worth love, or like I need to work harder, push harder, think of something new and arousing, but even if I find something exciting to think about my body is still giving up, I want it, I want to finish but when my body is beginning to force that feeling away and I need to push harder to get off to finally finish so I can be done with it and get on with my life I feel awful.

It is ok if you experience this. It is ok if you need to stop. It’s ok that your body is stopping. It’s ok that no matter how much you want it your body simply won’t let you. That is ok. It will always be ok. No matter what anyone says it’s ok. If no one if validating you, let me. If that’s what you need that’s what I’m here for. Because I didn’t know what I was experiencing were the symptoms of ED until now, and it would’ve helped me through so much if I knew sooner. But I know now. And now I’m going to bring awareness to this.

If anyone has anything to add to this, please do, if you want to share your experiences and thoughts that’s also very helpful, bringing any sort of awareness to how different bodies can experience sexual feelings is important.

Remember! You are all amazing, perfect, worthy beings and I’m proud of you, even if I am some random person on the internet. I’m proud of you.

Use protection if you can, if you feel tingling or pain even with the right prepping, try a non silicone based lube or condoms, because it’s not normal to still feel pain even if it’s a little bit after all the correct steps. Make sure you don’t have your joints out of place for too long if you’re hyper mobile, drink plenty of water, eat food after sex even if’s a little bit, go pee, or you will get a UTI. That’s why you feel the need to pee after sex or sexual stimulation. Be safe. Be kind. If your partner says they’re experiencing anything I’ve mentioned in this post, stop. Tell them they are still amazing and assure them they are loved and cared about. If it’s a hookup situation, and they experience this depending on how close you are I still recommend comforting them, even a little bit, even if it’s a hug.

I hope everyone’s doing well, my asks are open for anything sex education related if needed :]

[destroy-the-binary]

Don’t apologize for being queer.

Don’t apologize for being Jewish, or aethiest, or Buddhist, or Hindu, or any other non-Christian religion.

Don’t apologize for not being from America.

Don’t apologize for being yourself.

Because you shouldn’t have to.

[innefableidiot]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE

I give to my fellow gays, this lil guy. They don’t have a name all I know is that they will chase, scratch, bite, and quack violently at all the homophobes.

[autisticrosewilson]

Trans fem Jaybin asking Bruce if she can visit Willis in prison because she wants to know what he would have named her if she was born a girl and that's how she finds out that Willis was murdered and despite knowing from day one Bruce just... didn't tell her.

[banquete-passageiro]

[xumoonhao]

sexuality & gender 88x31 web buttons / black & white border

[peteenne]

forsaken Noob doodle cuz they awesome and they're my main

[michax-forever]

Genderbent Kevin for the ladies 💗

Alt version that I also really liked

[gor3sigil]

I just remembered that the very first night after I blocked all of my family members and went no contact, I had a dream that fucking flabbergasted me.

See, I was born very sick and they weren't sure if I'd make it, for the first two weeks after my birth. I went into cardiac arrest 3 times and it's a miracle I haven't suffered worse consequences for that.

It was very traumatizing for my mother, understandably, but me, I was like "oh wow, close call uh" and never thought too deeply about it.

But this night, for the first time in my life, I dreamt that I was this dying baby, and that I had actually died. I was allowed to do one last trip to see my family before going to whatever you go after you die, so I went to my childhood home and tried looking everywhere for my family. Nobody was home, and it made my baby soul very sad. My last stop was my childhood bedroom, and low and behold: everything was cleared. No traces of toys, no craddle, nothing to remember that I was supposed to be, to live, everything had already been thrown away and it was just the white bare walls and the weird green floor, empty.

And my soul went up, not having seen its family one last time, not having any closure, but it was time to go. I, sincerely, wholeheartedly believe that my family and I will not reconnect. I don't want to, I've made peace with that, and with the dissociative disorder and other conditions plus having fully transitioned without anyone in my "old life" knowing and living totally removed from who I was before, as unsettling as it seems sometimes, is what brought me the most peace. I think a lot of trans people feel that in one point or another, and I'm still not coping the best way with this feeling of: there's no traces of her. The girl and young woman I used to be only exists in the memories of people who don't even know my name anymore. And this dream, it felt like a part of me was gone for good. I still grieve it sometimes, but for the most part, I'm okay. It's like an old wound that scarred but still itches when your skin's dry or when it's hot outside. You live with it. I'm not sure I'll ever grow old. But this makes me feel like I've already lived too much.

[littleluscinia]

how do I explain to people in a non-cringe way that I would literally need superpowers in order to have maximum gender euphoria. like what do you mean I can't have a magical mask that can change me into different gendered personas without having to medically change myself and transition socially.

why can't I be alice gehabich and transmasquerade or whatever.

[destroy-the-binary]

Dear Trans Youth,

It’s not your job to grow up fast.

It’s not your responsibility to teach the adults around you.

It’s not your fault people don’t understand you.

You are being out through things nobody should ever be put through, especially not kids.

You are doing so, so well.

I’m proud of you.

[stupidlittlequeer]

Trans tips #9!

Dont be embarrassed of yourself!

Somewhat story time, but it has a lesson, I promise!

I'm no longer sick! And I went out to dinner with some friends, my fiancé, and my younger sibling (NB) Whom knows about my transness

Well, we were at a Mexican restaurant when the manager walked up and was making conversation with the table. Eventually, he asked how we all knew eachother.

Now, some information about me, I still have long, blue hair that I am finally growing out after years of cutting it, and I'm pre-t. For the most part, not passing at all.

But my sibling introduced me as their brother

I felt super embarrassed

The manager asked "Brother? Who's your brother?"

Sibling points at me again, very casually, "yeah, so, my brother, his fiancé, (their) friends, ect..."

Manager starts pointing around the table, asking again "who is your brother?"

Sibling points to me again and very dismissively calls me their brother again

Now, overall, very proud of my sibling for sticking to their guns and not backing down

But in that moment I was so beyond embarrassed!

At the end I just wanted to tell them so let it go and let the manager call me their sister or something, anything to end the conversation, get me out of this mess, stop everyone from staring at me, I want a molcajete and a margarita at this point, thank you, yeah I'll pay let's just wrap this up please sibling shut UP

I was so annoyed with them

But, that was a few days ago, and I've since calmed down and I've been thinking about it all

I was the first in my family to ever come out. I've expressed my gender and sexuality differently for the last couple of years, and when my sibling came out as Nonbianary, I got them their first flag, and I walked them through coming out, and I showed them their options and their resources

And they received backlash

Because people (especially our family) weren't used to the idea of Nonbianary

My sibling considered de-transitioning

Going back to "normal"

Hiding in the closet

But I told them No! If someone doesn't refer to you by your chosen name, don't respond! I won't! I don't know who [deadname] is! I only know the name You told me! Fuck anyone who says otherwise!

Do you think I'm able to date and be engaged to the most wonderful and beautiful person in all of existence by hiding in the closet when people are mean to me? FUCK NO!

Stand up, say it with your chest, own it, and you'll be so much happier! So much more free!

They're just doing what I thought them to do

Dont be ashamed of who you are, and when you are ashamed, I won't be ashamed of you.

I can't hide in the closet, I am Valid

I may not pass, I am Valid

I may not be able to medically transition, I am Valid

I may like my hair longer, I am Valid

My voice isn't as deep as I want it to be, I am Valid

I am Valid, and You are Too

As long as you are safe to do so, don't be ashamed or afraid to come out;

And when you are, have someone else who can speak up for you!

[demonnstein]

Frankie Stein G3 cosplay they/them Sabaku con 2024 WINNER !!!