#MainCharacterEnergy

[glowettee]

✧ if it doesn't align with the dream life, it's a distraction ✧

hey lovelies!! 🦢

omg, so, i was literally journaling last night & this phrase just hit me like… so hard. "if it doesn't align with the dream life, it's a distraction." i had to stop writing and just sit with that for a min.

because honestly? i've been feeling so scattered lately. like my energy is going in a million directions but none of them are taking me where i actually want to go. and i realized that's exactly what happens when we don't have clarity on our it-girl blueprint.

so what even is an it-girl blueprint? it's not just aesthetic or vibes (tho those matter too!!) but it's this deep knowing of who you're meant to become. it's that version of you who wakes up excited, who feels aligned, who's living in her dream apartment with her dream career and her dream people. she exists!! she's waiting for you to become her!!

this post is a bit different from my most recents, i wanted to take a little tinyyy break from my pop culture series', like the pll x glowettee and vampire diaries x glowettee series' and just focus more on self-improvement again. i also wanted to take a break from the overwhelming aesthetics i've been using in my posts, and justtttt write~~ (no small text, no crazy colors, just my thoughts) and i realized that distractions have been very prominent in my life lately... so i wanted to address it in this post, and some possible solutions <3

✧ what's actually distracting you? ✧

okay so grab your journal rn and let's get super real about what's pulling you away from your dream life, feel free to use these prompts:

that situationship that makes you feel anxious every time they text (you know the one)

the hours of scrolling that leave you feeling empty inside

saying yes to plans when your body is literally begging you to rest

the "friend" who always has drama and makes everything about them

that project you started because you thought you "should" but you actually hate

staying in that job/class/situation because you're scared to disappoint someone

comparing your chapter 1 to someone else's chapter 20 (guilty!!)

i've been doing this work myself and it's kinda scary how many things i was pouring energy into that weren't actually taking me anywhere i wanted to go??

✧ getting clear on your actual dream life ✧

before we can align with our dream life, we need to know what it actually looks like! not what instagram or your mom or society thinks it should look like, but what YOU want.

some journal prompts that helped me:

when do i feel most like myself?

what activities make me lose track of time?

who makes me feel seen, safe, and supported?

what would my perfect morning routine look like if i had zero obligations?

what kind of spaces make me feel calm and inspired?

what would i do with my time if money wasn't an issue?

what parts of my current life would i keep even if i could change everything?

i did this exercise last weekend and realized that so many things i was chasing weren't even in my dream life blueprint?? like i was stressing about getting into this super competitive program but when i really thought about it, it wasn't even aligned with what i actually want. wild.

✧ how to actually make decisions that align ✧

okay, so here's my little framework for making choices that actually build your dream life:

the body check: before saying yes to anything, check in with your body. does it feel expansive and light, or contracted and heavy? your body literally knows before your brain does!!

the future self question: what would the version of you who's already living your dream life do? she knows!! trust her!!

the energy audit: does this person/activity/commitment give you energy or drain it? only say yes to energy-givers (this one changed my life omg)

the alignment test: ask yourself "does this move me closer to or further from my dream life?" be brutally honest!!

the joy metric: if it doesn't bring you joy or lead to joy, why are you doing it?? (unless it's like… taxes or something lol)

✧ how to let go of the distractions ✧

this is the hardest part tbh. because we get attached to things even when they're not serving us! here's what's helping me:

remember that saying no to something is saying yes to your dream life

start with the easiest distractions first (for me it was unfollowing accounts that made me feel bad)

create little rituals around letting go (i write things down and then burn the paper)

remind yourself that outgrowing things is part of becoming

be gentle with yourself when you slip back into old patterns (we all do it!!)

i had to let go of a friendship a few months that was taking so much energy, and it was really hard but also?? i suddenly had all this space to focus on things that actually matter to me.

✧ your dream life alignment practice ✧

here's a little daily practice i've been doing:

morning: set an intention to notice what aligns and what distracts

throughout the day: when making choices, ask "dream life or distraction?"

evening: celebrate the aligned choices you made + gently note the distractions

it's not being perfect!! it's becoming more conscious of our choices. because every tiny decision is either building your dream life or… not.

i've been doing this for about three weeks now and i already feel so much clearer and more focused. like i'm finally moving in one direction instead of being pulled in a million different ones.

remember: you deserve your dream life. and it starts with choosing it, over and over, in all the tiny moments.

question from mindy:

what's one distraction you're ready to let go of? and one aligned action you're ready to take? (feel free to send me a message in my inbox, or just reblog answering this question.)

xoxo, mindy 🤍

[the-most-humble-blog]

🧠💥 Ladies, You Have No Idea What Men Are Holding Back.

What Every Woman Should Know Before Throwing That Next Insult

ACT I — The Quiet Containment Zone You Mistake for Safety

There’s a terrible, unspoken truth in society:

Most women have absolutely no idea what men are capable of.

Not just “men with issues.” Not just “the violent ones.” Men. Period.

Even the average, passive, smiling dude next door is biologically capable of violence, strength, and emotional suppression that would terrify you if it ever stopped being filtered.

Not because he’s a monster. But because he’s built for it — and he’s been trained since birth to never show it.

ACT II — The Myth of Harmless Men Is a Lie of Comfort

Let’s be clear: The average healthy man — not a bodybuilder, not a psycho — can:

Break your wrist without trying.

Rip a door off the hinges in a blind rage.

Lift you off the ground and pin you before you can scream.

Shut you down mid-sentence with a look if he wanted to.

You think because he doesn’t, he can’t?

No.

It’s because he’s choosing not to.

That silence? That breath-holding when you say some slick feminist sh*t in his face? That’s not weakness. That’s containment.

ACT III — The Monster You Mock Is the Monster That Protects You

Every time a woman rants about “toxic masculinity,” you know who’s standing between her and actual danger?

Other men.

And news flash:

Some of those “men in uniform” you’re relying on? The ones with badges, guns, vests, and legal violence clearance? They're “incels” too.

They’re just the ones who passed the exam.

You think your sass is protected by some divine force of moral authority. In reality? You’re alive because the men you keep disrespecting have agreed — collectively — to stay calm.

For now.

ACT IV — Feminism Is Poking the Nuclear Core of the Male Psyche

Let’s talk incels for a second — because you bring them up a lot.

“Incels are dangerous.” “Incels are creepy.” “Incels are angry at women.”

You know what? You’re absolutely right.

But here’s the part no one wants to admit:

The only difference between an incel and a lot of regular men… is restraint.

Restraint isn’t innate. It’s taught. It’s fragile. It’s disrespected constantly.

And now you’ve built a culture that:

Mocks men who express pain

Calls men weak for needing connection

Labels them “dangerous” if they act too masculine

Labels them “worthless” if they don’t act masculine enough

You’ve built a mental pressure cooker and then laugh when the valve hisses.

What happens when men feel they have nothing to lose? What happens when they see no future, no respect, no intimacy?

They stop containing.

And you’re not ready for what that looks like.

ACT V — Biological Truth: Men Were Built to Kill, Conquer, and Withstand Horror

This is not a Marvel fantasy. This is evolutionary fact.

Men were:

Hunters

Soldiers

Builders

Destroyers

Their testosterone didn’t evolve to help them cry about tweets. It evolved to:

Run toward violence

Ignore pain

Rip flesh with their bare hands when cornered

You think that primal machinery just disappeared because he has a job at Google?

Nah.

It’s sleeping. It’s waiting. And it listens to the tone you use when you talk down to him.

ACT VI — The "Just Walk Away" Lie

You say:

“Real men walk away.” Yes. And they have.

And now you’re mad because they:

Don’t want to date you

Don’t want to protect you

Don’t want to engage

Don’t want to rescue

You called them weak, creepy, fragile, disposable — and now they believe you.

But here’s the problem:

The man who walks away… can also walk into the shadows and grow into something you’ll never be able to reach again.

Because once a man has no reason to behave?

He won’t.

ACT VII — The Psychological Trick (Let Me Flip the Script on You)

Imagine this:

There’s a world where women have superhuman strength. Can crush skulls. Can explode in unpredictable rage. Can kill a man with a coffee mug if pushed too far.

Now imagine every man in that world makes memes mocking those women, saying:

“You’ll die alone.” “You’re useless.” “You’re emotionally broken.” “No one wants you.”

How long until one of those women snaps?

Now flip it back.

That’s the world men are in. Right now. While you’re laughing at them online.

ACT VIII — The Embarrassing Little Checklist

Let’s check your feminism real quick:

Have you ever…

⬜ Mocked a man for being single? ⬜ Said “ew” when an average guy tried to flirt? ⬜ Laughed at a man’s height online? ⬜ Said “real men don’t cry” (ironically, of course)? ⬜ Used “incel” as an insult for any man who disagreed with you? ⬜ Called a man “creepy” just because you weren’t attracted to him? ⬜ Said “men are trash” and expected applause?

Then don’t talk to us about respect. Because you’re poking a bear you don’t actually want to wake up.

ACT IX — Why Men Say “STFU” Now

It’s not because they’re scared of you.

It’s because you don’t listen. You don’t want equality. You want control with none of the consequences.

But you’re not ready for what happens when even average men stop pretending.

You think power is a system?

Nah.

Power is what happens when a man stops giving a f*ck and remembers what he’s physically capable of.

And your favorite TikTok audio won’t save you when the polite mask drops.

🩸 FINAL VERDICT: RESPECT THE RESTRAINT.

Because once that’s gone? You’ll remember what a world without contained men actually feels like.

It won’t look like “toxic masculinity.” It’ll look like total collapse — roaming packs of unsupervised testosterone with nothing left to protect, love, or lose.

So maybe — and this is just spitballing here — maybe you should just STFU.

Y’know. For safety.

🔁 Reblog if you’ve seen the containment system fray and said nothing. 💬 Comment if you’re tired of watching men get mocked for holding back the apocalypse. 🔒 Follow if you know respect isn’t earned — it’s chosen.

⚖️ LEGAL DISCLAIMER: This post is written for the purpose of artistic expression, cultural commentary, and psychological exploration of social and gender dynamics. It does not condone or encourage violence, harassment, or discrimination of any kind. Any references to power, strength, restraint, or critique are metaphorical, symbolic, and rooted in historical and cultural analysis. This is not a call to action — it’s a cultural mirror. If you feel offended, ask yourself if it’s from actual harm — or from seeing something you hoped no one would say out loud.

✨ TL;DR: If you're mad, it’s probably not because it’s wrong — it’s because you know it’s true.

[browngirl9diary]

Women in STEM ~ before this, my girly lost her phone mid music festival mosh pit, which we found eventually ⋆₊ ⊹★ 🧪⭑⋆｡˚

[zoniteillusion-pyritedreams]

🦢✨ Digital Diary Entry No. 07 ✨🦢

“Insomnia, delusion, and divine timing walk into a bar…”

It’s currently 1:07 a.m. and once again, insomnia is sitting pretty beside me like an unwanted situationship I can’t ghost.

So naturally, I hit up one of my girlies (because of course I’m not the only night owl with main character syndrome in my circle), and we ended up spiraling in the best way possible.

Tonight’s unhinged yet spiritually enlightening topic?

Manifestation. Attraction. Delusion but make it divine delusion. ✨💋

Like yes, people love to throw around the word delusional like it’s an insult, but I genuinely think delulu is the gateway drug to the reality you actually want.

If you believe you're the baddest babe on Earth… guess what? The universe starts acting accordingly. 🌌💅🏽

And don’t roll your eyes at me there are receipts.

Take Joe Jonas’ wife (whose name escapes me but I love her energy). Sis was the head of a Jonas Brothers fan club. He wasn’t even her fave! And now look at her. Married. Babies. Living that fan-to-wife pipeline. Mother manifested.

Or Jason Momoa who straight up spoke Lisa Bonet into his life when he was still a literal child. He saw her on TV, said “that’s my wife,” and didn’t waver once. He didn’t care how the universe would work it out, he just knew. And the universe said “bet.” 🔮

Jim Carrey? Wrote himself a check for $10 million when he was broke and unknown. He imagined the calls, the chaos, the stardom. And what happened? Booked. Busy. Blockbusters. That man really said “I’m gonna live like I already got it” and then… he did. 🎭💼

And listen this isn’t just for celebs. I had a girl in high school (storytime pending 👀) who was OBSESSED with Justin Bieber. Her dad just so happened to be a Latin music producer, and this girl literally manifested herself into JB’s orbit three different times. First she was crushing, then she realized he wasn’t her type, and then she interviewed him twice more for funsies. If that’s not divine feminine energy in action, I don’t know what is.

So yeah… I fully believe that reality bends to belief.

Delusion isn’t the enemy. It’s the portal. And if I want to fall in love with someone who writes me poems on the back of receipts, or get flown to Paris just because I said I like croissants…

Well then guess what, babes?

It’s already mine. 💌🌷

Just waiting for divine timing to hit send.

XOXO, Lani

Your favorite midnight manifestation fairy 🧚🏽‍♀️💭

[juhnkit]

Guy pitched me "Kid Insurance" to cover all the chaos children create. Broken windows from baseball? Covered. Accidentally dyeing the neighbor's dog blue during an "art project"? Covered. Setting the garage on fire with a magnifying glass? That's where we draw the line.

[viviennemaeve]

okay so i finally made an instagram

think of it as my digital scrapbook—part glam diary, part chaotic renaissance

send a follow request and drop your insta username in my inbox (dw, I won’t post it)

if u came from Tumblr, say hi in the DMs so i know who my real ones are

expect:

self-glow chronicles, soft life logs, delulu diaries, breakdowns in a silk robe

and of course—hot takes, heartbreak glam, and healing in aesthetic lighting

[ariaxco]

how to find your summer style in 3 steps⋆.ೃ࿔*:･ 🌸

finding your summer style isn't about copying a pinterest board or shopping every trend you see. it’s about tuning in to you — what you feel best in, what you actually reach for, not what looks good only on some influencer with a different life and different body.

start by paying attention to what you already love wearing when you feel most confident. not the outfit you think you should like, but the one you always end up choosing. if you’re always reaching for flowy dresses or oversized linen shirts — that’s a sign. your style is already talking to you. you just have to listen.

summer isn’t about being uncomfortable just to chase aesthetics. if you hate tight shorts or loud colors, stop forcing them. real style is about ease. it should feel like a second skin — effortless, like you’re not even trying but somehow still look put together.

inspo? sure, get it. but use pinterest or ig as a guide, not a manual. collect images that spark something in you. colors you keep saving. silhouettes you can't stop looking at. patterns that lowkey feel like they belong in your closet already. when you see a pattern, trust it.

build your summer closet around those feelings, not trends. lightweight fabrics, shades that flatter your skin under the sun, pieces that make you wanna romanticize every iced coffee run or evening walk. you don’t need 20 new outfits — you need five you love and can rotate endlessly.

real summer style feels like you, just more sunlit, more carefree, more alive.

[neonshe]

Surprised with the No. 1 spot on Sandcastle Radio with Jaymze for my brand new single 'It Girl'!

[xoxomonryyyy]

This Is My Bubble

hey. i’m monry — yes, with two y’s. not because it makes sense. because it feels right.

this blog? it’s my bubble. my dreamy lil space to exist, feel too much, disappear when i need to, and come back like nothing ever happened.

i post what i love. i post when i feel like no one else gets it — but someone out there might.

✨ this is for the girls who romanticize their headphones, who write poems in the notes app and never show anyone, who crave connection but are scared to ask for it. this is for you. for us. for me.

scroll slow. stay soft. leave a 💗 if you feel seen.

this is just the beginning.

[glowettee]

✧˖° how to stop self-sabotaging your success (and finally commit to doing the work)

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hi angel, mindy here. let’s talk. because i know you want this. you want to be that student who shows up for herself/himself. you want to stop making excuses. you want to feel proud of yourself when this is all over. so why do you keep putting up roadblocks in your own way? why do you keep pulling yourself away from the very thing you know you need to do?

self-sabotage is not laziness. it’s fear, it’s perfectionism, it’s comfort, it’s this deep, quiet resistance that whispers, what if i try and fail? so you never fully try.

but guess what? we’re breaking that cycle today. right now.

✧˖° the illusion of "i’ll do it later"

procrastination is a liar with a pretty voice. it tells you that you’ll do it when you feel more ready, when you’re in a better mood, when the circumstances are just right. but the truth? later is just a hiding place.

so next time you catch yourself saying “i’ll do it tonight” or “tomorrow is better,” stop. ask yourself: what makes later better than now? if you don’t have a solid answer, it’s just fear talking.

✧˖° you’re scared of what happens when you actually succeed

self-sabotage isn’t just about the fear of failure. sometimes, it’s the fear of what happens when you actually get what you’ve been working toward.

because success? means expectations. it means proving that you can do it again. it means stepping into a version of yourself that no longer has excuses. and that can be terrifying.

but here’s the truth: the version of you that’s waiting on the other side of this work? she’s not a stranger. she’s still you, just with more proof of what you’re capable of.

✧˖° your study habits are built around guilt, not discipline

if studying always feels like punishment, if your entire academic routine is built around the feeling of “i should be doing more,” of course you’re going to resist it.

so let’s shift this. instead of studying because you have to, start studying because you deserve to succeed. because you want to feel prepared. because the version of you who walks into that exam room with confidence? deserves to exist.

make studying feel like an investment, not a punishment. romanticize it. find ways to make it an experience you don’t want to run from. pinterest is your best friend, studytok is your motivator and me (@glowettee is your mentor 😉)

✧˖° you wait for motivation instead of creating discipline

motivation is like a guest who shows up unannounced. sometimes, she arrives when you least expect it, and sometimes, she ghosts you for weeks.

discipline, though? discipline is the friend who always shows up. she’s reliable. she doesn’t wait until she “feels like it.” she just does it, because that’s who she is.

so stop waiting for motivation to hit like some kind of magical burst of energy. instead, set up routines that make studying non-negotiable. that make it feel natural. like brushing your teeth, like making your bed, like second nature.

✧˖° self-sabotage is a pattern. patterns can be broken.

if you’ve spent years avoiding hard work, of course your brain is going to resist when you suddenly decide to commit. your instincts are wired to avoid discomfort.

but the good news? self-sabotage is a learned habit. which means you can unlearn it. every time you choose to sit down and do the work, even when you don’t want to, you are rewriting your patterns. you are proving to yourself that you are not the same person who gives up.

and eventually? showing up for yourself won’t feel like a battle anymore. it will feel normal. it will feel like who you are.

✧˖° this is the moment you choose differently

look, you can close this post and keep doing what you’ve always done. you can keep waiting for some magical day when it all feels easy. or you can make a decision, right here, right now.

you can decide that you are done getting in your own way. that you are done letting fear win. that you are done delaying your own success.

because the version of you who is already succeeding? she is not far away. she is right there, waiting for you to step into her shoes.

it’s time, angel. show up.

love you all sooo much <3 i hope this post can help you understand; self-discipline > motivation

with love, mindy

[the-most-humble-blog]

Reblogged me. Tried to “own” me. Then deleted faster than their mom’s Venus razor when she visits me wearing a Chewbacca filter on her pits.

Next time you wanna throw shade — maybe wait until I’m done rearranging your mother’s estrogen levels.

💻 Screenshot preserved. 🤡 Clown badge issued. 🧠 Therapy bill rising.

[sancharim]

🎒✨ Main Character Bag Energy Unlocked Not to be dramatic, but this bag just changed my whole aura.

I wasn’t even trying to be that girl… but then this maroon croco-textured vegan leather bag from Richborn decided I had no choice but to serve main character energy. Like—imagine a bag that screams elegance but whispers “Don’t mess with me.” That’s her.

It’s the structure for me. The gold hardware? Iconic. The rich maroon? She’s giving “I drink red wine and ignore texts.” And best part? It’s vegan leather, so I can look expensive and ethically smug at brunch.

I’ve worn it with oversized blazers, cute sarees, even PJs on a coffee run (don’t judge) — and somehow, it always makes the fit look intentional.

And no, this isn’t a sponsored thing. Just a genuine “I found her and she found me” moment. If you know, you know. 💁‍♀️

[thequirkytradesco]

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[thelueurgirl]

Episode One: The Breakup

Meet Aria.

I bet you’re wondering how she got here.

Three years ago, at an exclusive gala in Monte Carlo’s most decadent hotel, Aria met him — a tall, devastatingly polished man born into a lineage of legacy bankers, European estates, and old-money diplomacy.

He swept her off her feet with weekends in Santorini, couture fittings in Paris, and long nights that felt like fairytales retold.

Two years in, he flew her and her closest friends to St. Barts. He had an award-winning restaurant shut down for the night, filled it with white orchids, candlelight, and the sound of her favorite composer playing live under the moonlight.

That’s where he dropped to one knee with a flawless 8-carat diamond. She said yes. The room glowed. Her world shifted.

But tonight…

She sits across from him at one of Dubai’s most exclusive rooftop restaurants. The Burj Khalifa glows behind her, candlelight flickers across crystal glasses, and the city hums beneath her like a secret.

She looks breathtaking — sleek, radiant, and untouchable in a blush pink halter gown inspired by the aurèa halter gown from LUÈUR PARIS. The fabric drapes like liquid across her skin. Her décolletage, framed by a deep neckline. Her heels — pointed, poised, and unapologetic. A matte nude lip, soft sculpting, and a gaze that doesn’t flinch.

But then... the truth unravels.

And no — it wasn’t an affair. It was something worse.

Before she can process the words, her hand finds the glass. And the drink finds his face. The engagement shatters with it.

And just like that, Aria walks out — not just from a relationship, but from his empire.

Now? It’s her turn to build her own.

Welcome to the first chapter of the woman you’re about to know.

[expelliarmyoooo]

just got called gay for listening to Chapell roan, wtf ppl ?

[lovingthelooking]

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