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wizards4for20 · 1 year ago

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Healthy coping mechanisms 😀👍

#will wood #in case i make it #against the kitchen floor #my comfort song #will wood understands me in a way no one else ever will #it hits me right in the autism #and the aroacespec #feeling unable of loving someone in the way they should be loved #feeling inhuman because of it #‘I just haven’t learned how to be human as you are yet’#‘I’m not a real person just the shot you can’t make up’#‘I will die trying’#‘I’m not a good person I’m barely a person at all’#‘you gave me your heart I only gave you my body’#like shit man #right in the failure to feel like a normal human person #straight through the ‘I don’t know how to love’#ven diaries

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tremendously-crazy · 11 months ago

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"Do you want a boyfriend/girlfriend?" no i want a best friend/roommate/soulmate that I can go on silly adventures with and hang out with and have deep intellectual discussions with and we can be life partners without any of the romance stuff

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scribbyz · 24 days ago

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it feels like everyone either thinks this aroace flag is either the ugliest fucking flag to ever exist or the most beautiful flag of them all

me personally i love it to death

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #arospec #acespec #aroacespec #pride #pride flag

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sunbloomdew · 2 years ago

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do you ever see a person and you are overcome with incredible fondness? and you just think "oh." but not in a romantic or sexual way you are just filled with warmth and it makes you happy, it just does. and you think "i'm so happy you exist. i'm happy you are somewhere out there in the world, doing your thing". it's love but also not entirely

like people are lovely and i feel it in my entire chest like a burning candle that smells like roses and a sunny day

#on love #aroace experiences #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aspec #aroacespec #sunbloom talks #<3 #just late night revelations #i like love and i love people :)#edit: loveless aros friendly btw #i think that's what i meant when i said love but not really all those months ago #“incredible fondness” is the phrase i really like instead of love #people need to stop coming onto this post being like “nO!! this IS love!!!” shut up you dont know me. maybe it is maybe its not #this was about personal experiences and it blew up somehow unfortunately lol

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morally-earl-gray · 4 months ago

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part of being aroace is going "we're too young to date, we're just kids" for most of your life because it was true. and then you're in high school and suddenly everyone is dating, and you're still going "we're too young to date, we're just kids". and then your classmates are fucking in the school bathrooms and your friends are coming to school covered in hickeys and your best friend has a boyfriend that she plans to marry, and you're still going "we're too young for this, we're just kids." And then you realize that you're not a kid anymore, you're not too young for this, and that you're just... different

#I don't mean to generalize the community or anything #this is entirely based off of my own experiences #aroace #asexual #aromantic #asexual aromantic #aromantic asexual #aro #ace #aroacespec #aspec #lgbtq

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denerturee · 22 days ago

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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!!

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lgbtqtext · 29 days ago

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Requested by narratornarrations

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aspec-mafia-official · 20 days ago

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I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again;

YES 👏 ARO/ACE 👏 PEOPLE 👏 EXIST 👏 ON 👏 A 👏 SPECTRUM 👏 BUT 👏 YOU 👏 ARE 👏 STILL 👏 ERASING 👏 OUR 👏 TINY 👏 BITS 👏 OF 👏 REPERSENTATION 👏 BY 👏 USING 👏 THAT 👏 AS 👏 AN 👏 EXCUSE 👏 TO 👏 SHIP 👏 AROACESPEC 👏 CHARACTERS 👏

IF YOU WANT TO SHIP SOMETHING THAT BAD QPRS EXIST

LEARN ABOUT A NEW RELATIONSHIP TYPE OR JUST STOP SHIPPING ARO/ACESPECS FUCKHEADS

#mod dread #aroace #aroacespec #aspec mafia

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newttxt · 1 month ago

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my may fanart for fanfic is from

morning dew by zhelaniye

i loved the writing style from the very first paragraph, and the balance of hope and melancholy that they give law is perfect to me!! plus its cute to see the crew watch law fall hard

#one piece #luffy #trafalgar law #franky #robin #nico robin #lulaw #2025fanartforfanfic #obsessed with this ace luffy interpretation #i LOVE and believe in aroacespec luffy of course #also aughhhhhh this is the most atmospheric fic i swear. im a sucker for ‘missing scene’ canonverse and this rly delivered #oh ride to zou… my beloved #idk this authors socials tho… so now i gotta awkwardly self-plug in their comments bc i do want them to see it 😅#thank u author… if ur out there #ur works all seem beautifully self indulgent and i think that gives them an extra passionate quality. also ur narrative voice is fun

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nonconformityhub · 1 year ago

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Aroace Experiences We Don't Talk About Enough (Infographic)

(If you're interested in a blog where aspecs can talk about experiences like this, I've since made an aspec venting space!)

Icon Credits: hands with hearts - @blackholemojis face holding flag - @sammywammyclone paw - @paw-pride hug - @eldritch-emojis gem - @genderdoomed

Some @'s for reach: @our-aroace-experience @gray-ace-space @aroaceculture @acespec-ed @acexualien @cordwaner @asexualadvice @aromantic-diaries @aroacespecsafeplace @arospec-daybook

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tremendously-crazy · 7 months ago

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"it's ok for labels to change as you learn more about yourself" and "i hope with every fiber of my being that I'm right about being aroace and nobody will come along to change my mind because I hate the idea of being in a romantic relationship or conforming to gender roles or heteronormativity" are two sentences that can and should coexist.

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aroacearchangel · 2 years ago

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hey. do whatever you want btw. it’s your identity. kiss people for fun. enjoy sex. nobody’s stopping you. being aro and/or ace doesn’t mean you have to be repulsed by romantic or sexual activities if you don’t want to.

and also! things only mean what you meant them to mean. you can have platonic sex and platonically make out with your friends. it’s true. just be sure to communicate so that everyone involved understands and you’re good.