#cluster a culture

[cluster-a-culture-is]

cluster a culture is being extremely vague when someone asks you anything about yourself

"so what do you like to do in your free time?"

'I do like things'

"what is your favourite colour?"

'it is a colour'

[evilsystemm]

uhh???

[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

unfortunately for the both of us, i really like you

[unknowinglydeceasedlol]

I genuinely mourn the person I could have been.

[autopsyfreak]

i hate that BPD gives me such a lack of emotional permanence.

you can spend hours describing the ways in which you care about me, yet the moment you stop my brain will immediately decide you hate me and are destined to leave me.

[lpslove]

dear npd people with manipulative tendencies that theyre working on, i love you

dear npd people with manipulative tendencies that they can't work on, i love you

dear npd people with intrusive thoughts, i love you

dear npd people with a billion different blogs for all the possible attention, i love you

dear npd people with low or no empathy who dont try to mask it, i love you

dear npd people with low or no empathy who DO try to mask it, i love you

dear npd people who have been told they're wrong their whole lives, i love you

dear npd people, i love you

[stalekisses]

barely surviving this week <3

[adhdoofus69]

i have quiet bpd, ofc i'd rather hurt myself than others because i dont want to be selfish

[mirroringshards]

idk who needs to hear this but you CAN romanticize your own mental illness. you don't have to be miserable and in constant pain all the time if youre mentally ill. dont cater to the comfort of ableists

[cluster-a-culture-is]

cluster a culture is sending an anon ask and then worrying that tumblr magically glitched it to be off anon

🤝🏻 I have to check like 7 times if I did put anon on or off and even then I'm anxious forever

[narcitism]

my abuser had brown hair im a victim of brunette abuse :(

[hoagsobject]

Googles advice on how to write an apology

“Show empathy”

[raincamp]

its so humiliating having to admit to people that sometimes my only motivation for doing something is for validation or attention

[autopsyfreak]

hey (with the intention of cutting you open and living inside you so that we never have to part because you’re my fp and i love you and if you ever abandon me i’ll go insane)

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd traits/questioning npd lurker culture is making an npd creature like forever ago but never having a way to share it with anybody because you don’t have a proper social media presence anywhere

little guy for you :]

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[narcpixiedreamboy]

I wish people who believe in narcissistic abuse and act like people with NPD are so evil were not even human understood that having NPD can absolutely motivate people to do good things.

I have NPD and I work in education. At the school I work at, we have a couple Ukrainian kids who don’t speak English. I have begun learning Ukrainian (or well, trying to, this is my first time trying to learn a language that uses a different alphabet than English so progress is slow), specifically because I want to be the one to make these kiddos feel welcome. I want to be the one teacher who has put in effort to learn their language, rather than just trying to teach them ours. That’s a good thing to do, but if I didn’t have NPD I probably wouldn’t bother to do that and would just use google translate (like all the rest of the teachers).

I, like other narcissists, find that most of my motivation comes from looking for another narc high, and for me, I am much more likely to get a narc high from doing something good and feeling good about myself because I did something good, than I ever would from making someone else feel bad about themself. Why would I spend my time going around hurting other people for no reason when I could put my effort into doing something actually cool and then everyone will think I’m awesome because I actually did something awesome?

I know I’m not the only narcissist like this, but sure, let’s keep spreading the rhetoric that narcissists only exist to hurt people.