cyboystuff

[a-homiesexual-book-boi]

I don’t wanna be abandoned. I don’t want to be alone again. I was alone for so long. I’ve found true friends. Im so afraid I’m going to lose them, or drive them away because of my anxious attachment.

[pokituu]

HITO!!! [she/he] the purple sketches were some of the first I did of him. Every drawing since I'm slowly figuring her out :3

[cryptcatz]

question: do ppl ACTUALLY say things they don’t mean when they’re angry? or is that just an excuse after letting something true slip? i wouldn’t ever say something i don’t mean in anger, so the concept confuses me.

but something was said to me that is bothering me, though apparently was said in an argument and wasn’t meant. but i don’t rlly believe it wasn’t like, deep down true thoughts/feelings??? anyone have any insight? anyone say things they don’t mean in anger?

EDIT: this was a hastily worded post that i didn’t expect to get notes. this is a genuine question asked in good faith that i got a lot of amazing answers to!

also re: the many ppl saying “OP is lying about not saying things they don’t mean in anger because everyone does it”— i genuinely have never done that. if i say something mean while angry, i meant it. that’s literally why i asked this question and why the concept confuses me, because i wouldn’t do something like that so i wanted perspective from people who do it. idk why y’all can’t believe that lmao not everyone is as prone to anger and outbursts

[finnbin]

Alpha wolf energy (actually golden retriever energy but who's checking)

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Advice From Non-Autistic People Which Confuses Me as an Autistic Person

Neurodivergent_lou

[yetrop]

Thought you all might find this funnier than my mother did.

[dewsgremlin]

- Phantom and Rain meeting for the first time after Phantom is summoned -

Rain: I'm Rain, hi.

Phantom, remembering that Aether told him about the waterghoul: Oh, i've heard your name before!

Rain: Pretty sure you have. Most people have, since it's also a noun.

[flowersandfashion]

The opposite of a haunting is something very lonely, Katie Maria /// there's a little girl in my head, @heavensickness /// Little Girl Looking Downstairs at Christmas Party (1964) by Norman Rockwell /// Changing, Liv Ullmann /// found photograph with my words /// what they don't tell you, @tryworks /// Anne with an E, A Strong Effort of the Spirit of Good (3x07) /// Time Travel by Emhahee /// Second Wave (2023) by Amy Dury /// Katie Maria

[taro-pdf]

HaSO: Not all humans are the same Humanity, neurodiversity, and connection in space

[Fern (human) walks through the break room of a spaceship. Two minutes later, she passes through again.] Egor [bromid]: what is the human doing? Vuna [bromid]: I do not know. We are just transporting her. Human Jeffery? Jeffery [human]: I don’t know either, Vuna; we call that pacing, but who knows why she’s doing it. 

V: but you’re a human. J [shrugs]: I’m not a human expert. [Fern enters the room] V: Fern? F [not stopping]: Vuna? V: Where are you walking? F [at the door]: Just walking. E: I’m going to join her! [F and E exit. Two minutes later, they walk through again, giggling together] V: Well, whatever floats their ship, to use the human phrase. J: Boat. But yeah, happy to see them happy.

[awetistic-things]

i think the thing that sets autism social anxiety apart from general social anxiety is that it’s not “anxiety” or nervousness, it’s genuine paralyzing fear

[fanvoidkeith]

sometimes being aroacespec is confusing. what do you mean, most people can tell the difference between platonic and romantic and sexual attraction? what do you mean people don't "choose" crushes? what do you mean that people can imagine themselves in a physical situation with someone else?? isn't dating just Friendship Plus??? hell, isn't marriage just Friendship Plus?????????

what do they mean??????????? what are feelings???? why am i so confused????????

*edit: changed "aroace" to "aroacespec", since several aromantic people felt that this was not an Aromantic Feeling. i see you, i hear you, and so i changed it to be more accurate to me personally, since i am Confused About Feelings Always

[a-homiesexual-book-boi]

Wait what the fuck help, is god fearing supposed to be a good thing in religion? If so, that’s fucked up

[lunar-wandering]

THIS FUCKING EXPRESSIONNNNN

[starflungwaddledee]

Who wins starstruck or a aroace guy

both of them, because she's also aroace just like me!

actually while i'm at it, here's the little animation i was working on for pride month but never got around to posting!

in my self indulgent aroace worldbuilding i like to imagine that labels for orientations and genders are just kind of... not that much of a thing on popstar, because it doesn't matter at all to anyone. nobody has ever cared about stuff like who or how you love, and 90% of them are picking their own pronouns anyway.

that said, it's still nice to have a little self representation here on our primitive earth internet, where this kind of thing very much does need to exist and we deserve to be proud of it!

[thebookishwitch]

Being overstimulated is so weird with both ADHD and Autism.

Do even the slightest sounds make me wanna scream and cry? Yes.

Does listening to some intense dubstep on max volume in my earbuds immediately ground me and help? Also yes.

[dailytogachako]

I have a feeling that deep down toga just wanted to be like the other kids and act ""normally"". I don't think many people believe or like the HC that she's autistic, but the way her past is shown and how she talks about her world view seems to a lot like someone who is neurodivergent and tries to perform some """normality""" (in this case, tries to act like someone who is neurotypical)

Also the way they treat her and talk about her, also seems very similar to the way someone talk about people who have some neurodivergence (be it autism, ADHD or any other type)