#plural...? yeah?

[tumatawa]

[sunmoonclouds]

my contribution to getting shadowpeach bio parents au trending @kyri45

[kazeh1k1]

Plural people with an anxiety disorder call that nervous system

[sovereignsystem]

non disorder systems aren’t going into cdd spaces. We have shared spaces. Also we’re going to use the terms that describe our experience. We’re systems, and we have alters.

(EXTREMELY LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER)

Try again, mate. You and your ntg buddies are ableist. If you can't handle being labeled as that, don't label yourselves as something you're not.

You are not systems, you do not have alters because those are medical terms used to describe disorders caused by trauma. Which you claim you don't have.

You ARE invading our spaces, otherwise we wouldn't have to deal with the headache of seeing your uneducated, toxic-positivity, misinformation bullshit. We never consented to shared spaces!!!! You just keep coming back!!!

But unfortunately for all of us, you lot can't have the common sense and decency to respect the boundaries of literal trauma survivors, so yeah.

"We're going to use the terms that describe our experience" I'm going to dislocate your wrist when I say this; make new fucking terms! Literally no would would care if you used non-medical terms as long as you stayed in your own spaces and didn't constantly imply that your experiences and ours are the same.

- 🧟‍♂️ (he/him)

- 🐙 (he/krak/voi)

[the-lightbulb-network]

My question isn't "how chill are your parents?" It is infact "what kind of chill are your parents?"

Example:

My parents let me get whatever haircut, watch whatever shows, listen to any music, have any hobbies, and discuss any kind of career... BUT the idea that their perfect, amazing, totally not traumatized (thanks bio father) child could ever be disabled, neurodivergent, mentally ill, etc. NO WAY IN HELL! HOW DARE YOU EVEN THINK THAT! YOU'RE PERFECTLY NORMAL! NEVER TALK TO ME ABOUT THAT AGAIN OR YOU'RE GROUNDED! DO YOU WANT TO GO BACK TO IN PATIENT?! (Yes, they've actually threatened me with this)

[thecreepycrawlersss]

it is genuinely the funniest fucking shit when a sysmed comes onto OUR posts, fakeclaiming us, being a giant piece of shit, and then we reply with literal PARAGRAPHS of proof that endogenic plurality is real, and then they block us 💀💀 like aww, did da wittle swysmwed weawize tat they hav no pwoof ?? awwwww 🥺🥺🥺

[plain text : aww, did the little sysmed realize that they have no proof ?? awwwww 🥺🥺]

like im sorry do NOT be commenting on our posts if you dont wanna catch these hands (and by hands, we mean peer reviewed, published papers about non disordered plurality from respected doctors that specialize in dissociation, OSDDID, and trauma)

so uhhh,,,, if you wanna get a sysmed to leave you alone, just tell them about dr. eric yarbrough, or dr's nijenhuis and van der hart, or the ICD-11, or the DSM-V-TR, or dr richard loewenstein, or a paper published by zarah eve, kim heyes, and sarah party called "Conceptualizing multiplicity spectrum experiences: A systematic review and thematic synthesis" ( https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/cpp.2910 ) or the acedemic article dating all the way back to 1991 that talks about non-disordered plurality (ross. 1991), or like. just reference the lived experiences of hundreds of people and ask them why they think their opinion is more valid then peoples lived experiences

if anyone wants us to make a post compiling all the sources we can find that prove endogenic plurality exists just let us know and we'll try !!! it'll definitely take us a while though lol

[starfilled-galaxy]

Guys.... we.... we have 198 alters.... oh my god

I remember when we only had 18... that was nice... What Do You Mean We Almost Have 200

[ro-bottt]

whuhh..

[farshootergotme]

Started thinking about how Dick lost the two most important people in his life at the age of 8 and since then death has never left him. It's just so heartbreaking because it will never stop affecting him. He can't stop caring, he can't possibly stop loving the people who enter his life no matter how high the chances he'll lose them too are. He could lose his whole family, all his friends ('s been close both, even if some eventually came back) and yet he would never stop welcoming people in his life because his heart is just so big and he has so much love to give.

[light-alexandria]

hello, system community!

i’m trying to find information/hear personal experiences of systemhood from others, if any of you would be so kind as to help me!

particularly, i would like to hear from those who identify as endogenic or otherwise non-trauma formed systems. of course, i would love to hear from trauma-formed systems as well! it’s just that i am one, and so that’s the community i have been most involved with & heard from already.

feel free to DM me anonymously if you don’t want to share publicly. i won’t post anything. my aim is to hear from others so that i can form my own opinions, figure out the right direction to go for independent research, and to simply understand others more.

thank you very much in advance, and i hope you all are having a wonderful day 💙

(please be mindful & respectful with what is said if you reply publicly. i am looking for open discussion, not arguments or hate.)

[wampisblossoms]

okay. this is going to sound like i'm insane but Brook, literally Brook from One Piece, is helping me with my psychosis.

so i have multiple psychosis monsters. sometimes they just stand there menacingly, sometimes i can hear or feel them moving, but i know their presence. one of them is this ridiculously tall thing, he's extremely skinny that it looks like he's a skeleton. literally.

lately i've been trying to think about how to make myself feel more at ease despite the psychosis. and i just realized. i can just think ahout them as other things.

now whenever i feel this fella's presence i think of him as Brook and i suddenly feel safe. i can hear the 'YOHOHOHOHO' there. like he's protecting me from the rest

thank you silly skeleton man. i am safe from the monsters

[pluralhottakes]

sometimes pro endos and anti endos should just. chill. interact. don't limit yourself to only interacting with people with morals that are 100% the same as yours. everyone's all "no one is perfect" until the imperfection is that they don't agree with you on something. like no actually flaws aren't just skills people aren't good at, they're also moral things

tl;dr just chatting with people who disagree with you is ok and not everything is about syscourse

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[russ14n-r0ul3tt3]

these lyrics of cotard's solution are sooo system coded to me and I have no idea why

like ESPECIALLY the "so, how many people am i?" and "who's looking back? that's not me" parts. they're a little TOO relatable for my tastes

[dizzydoctor]

IM NOT THE ONLY PERSON IN MY SOUL

[cedarspiced]

guy who discovers they're plural but the other known alter is just some guy from new york

[startagainaprologue]

i keep. debating on making system bonnie canon to irar in someee form and then i remember. the power of. right its my au i can just do that