journal #2
I recognize that I feel guilty for being angry
I believe I shouldn't
I recognize that there are many dangerous ways to express anger
I will identify which ways of expressing anger are helpful and acceptable. (because I want to)
I recognize that what I may consider helpful can and have previously been influenced by my guilt over the anger
I will pause when angry and separate the guilt from the anger
and here's the part where I'm a bit lost. I am unsure whether I should ignore the excessive guilt. I wonder if there is a better way to deal with it. I desire to stop feeling guilty about my anger. I question whether I should spend some time contemplating how my anger has negatively affected myself and others.
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i have been reading through the diary I kept from ages 14-17 and realising how helpful it can be to keep a record of how you're feeling at different moments.
not only is it helpful to write down and process how your feeling and give yourself time to truly think about it, it's nice to have something to look back on. to not just remember how you felt about a certain situation but to actually have yourself from that time tell you.
and also, from an adhd perspective, it's really lovely to have reminders of things I'd almost entirely forgotten. it's easy to think that your life right now isn't interesting, but in 5 years time? to know what songs you were listening to or book you were reading or even that Thing that you were so worried about but now you can't even remember the details. it's nice to have a physical reminder that time passes and things really can get better.
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30 journaling prompts for thinking deeper about love
What does love mean to you, and how has your understanding of it evolved over time?
Reflect on a past experience where you felt deeply loved. What made that experience special?
Describe your ideal vision of a loving relationship. How does it differ from your current situation, if at all?
What are the biggest barriers to experiencing love fully in your life?
How do you express love to others, and how do you prefer to receive it?
Explore the role of self-love in your life. What practices help you cultivate love for yourself?
Have you ever experienced unrequited love? How did it shape your perspective on love?
Consider the idea of unconditional love. Do you believe it's achievable, or is it merely an ideal?
Reflect on a time when you had to choose between love and something else. What did you choose, and why?
How does societal and cultural conditioning influence our perceptions and experiences of love?
Explore the connection between vulnerability and love. How do they intersect in your life?
Have you ever had to let go of someone you loved? What did you learn from that experience?
Reflect on the concept of forgiveness in the context of love. How does it contribute to healing and growth?
Consider the role of communication in nurturing love. What communication patterns enhance or hinder love in relationships?
How do you navigate conflicts and disagreements in your relationships? Are there healthier ways you could approach them?
Reflect on the balance between independence and interdependence in love. How do you maintain your autonomy while being in a loving relationship?
Explore the influence of past traumas on your capacity to love and trust others.
How do you differentiate between infatuation and genuine love?
Reflect on the love languages theory. Which love languages resonate most with you, and how do you incorporate them into your relationships?
Consider the idea of soulmates. Do you believe in soulmates, or do you think love is more about compatibility and effort?
Explore the impact of technology and social media on modern-day relationships and expressions of love.
Reflect on the role of passion and intimacy in sustaining long-term love.
How do you maintain a sense of individual identity while being part of a couple?
Consider the influence of family dynamics and upbringing on your views and experiences of love.
Reflect on the concept of eternal love. Do you believe love can last a lifetime, or is it subject to change and evolution?
Explore the connection between gratitude and love. How does expressing gratitude enhance your relationships?
Reflect on the significance of rituals and traditions in expressing and deepening love within relationships.
How do you support your loved ones during challenging times? Reflect on moments of showing up for each other.
Consider the concept of self-sacrifice in the context of love. When is it healthy, and when does it become detrimental?
Reflect on your fears and insecurities related to love. How do they influence your behaviour and choices in relationships?
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