#nonbinary Bigender

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

I don't care if I look like a transphobic stereotype wojack when I'm older cause I'm getting a fuckin beard and piercings.

[genderqueerdykes]

i don't care how uncomfortable you are around cis men, queer cis men still need places to go, and sometimes, those spaces will be shared with yours. disabled and neurodivergent queer men and queer men of color especially need a place to go. the queer community isn't the "fuck cis men" community. that is the rad fem community. if you think cis men and people who read as cis men are inherently "too scary" or shouldn't be allowed in queer spaces, you joined the wrong community.

[supernovasolace]

I'm not okay. Took a mental health day to do my part and make some art about it. No matter the opposition, we won't be erased. A world without trans people has never existed, and it never will! 🏳️‍⚧️

May this piece be a small light in the darkness for those in need of comfort and hope. Feel free to share/re-post elsewhere if this resonates with you. Just please make sure you include the alt text!

[rottingwithers]

I wish boobs were detachable. Because sometimes I want to look like a genderless being, other times the outfit needs boobs.

[castielfucks]

theres actually no rules to transitioning and youre allowed to want contradictory things for your transition. it's fine if you only want some of the changes that come with hrt and take preventative measures for the rest (like wanting bottom growth but not body hair or vice versa). you can want to have vagina AND a dick. you can be a woman and want top surgery, or wear a packer. you can be a man and want to have a pussy. you can change your transition goals one or a million times or not have any goals at all and just take things as they come or as they feel right.

there are no rules.

[radiomogai]

[PT: Bigender (nonbinary-leaning) Pride Flag. end PT]

Bigender (nonbinary-leaning) Pride Flag

[Image: 7 stripes colored with darkish yellow, lightish yellow, violetish grey, white, violet-ish gray, light-ish yellow and dark-ish yellow]

Bigender: having two distinct gender identities, either at the same time, or at different times. Not necessarily ambigender.

- Ap

[asymmetricalbeefcurtains]

[halestonehyena]

why have us queer people as a community normalized terms like "boygirl" or "girlboy" or other things like that but not like. the actual experience of being multigender. i swear some people will be like "ahaha its so cool and swag to be a #girlboy #boygirl" then turn around and be like "MEN DNI THIS POST IS ABOUT WOMEN" "MEN CANT BE LESBIANS (because no man is ever a woman too)" etc etc like come on guys

EDIT: i added an entire rant about this here

[womanman]

“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities

[m-to-z-andbackto-m]

Very important question for my fellow rainbow people!!!

Why do queer people exist?

Wrong answers only, go!

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

Maybe I should've known I was nonbinary/multigender from getting gender euphoria from both wearing a witch dress and putting marker on my face to look like I had a beard.

(and like gender dysphoria from wearing those stranded flower dresses that trad wives wear)

[genderqueerdykes]

I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.

[our-demigirl-experience]

hey you!

yea you!!

your gender’s looking great today!!

whatever you identify as

however you prefer to present yourself

however you look

it looks great on you!!!!

[bored-boring-and-tired]

[allthegaynamesaretaken]

Edit for those confused:

TL;DR People usually want you to use all the pronouns in their pronouns set.

People who have a pronoun set (more than one pronoun) typically want you to use all of the pronouns in that set. Often the pronouns are arranged for preference, but in this post I did not include that in this post (eg they/he they/she) for simplicity. If you are confused about how someone wants you to use their pronouns: ask! :)

[rottingwithers]

Yes, my appearance has nothing to do with my gender identity. Yes, I use my appearance to express my gender identity. And no, I don’t give a shit if that makes sense to you or not.