Tbh I’m not even surprised at this point that Seph lied (or just didn’t tell the whole story in his post). I’m so sorry Ceci
Thank you, nonny. I wasn't going to answer this until I saw the response (I guess) that said he stuck by everything he said bc it was in defense of his friends somehow and to keep himself happy, and that he could've gone harder on me and run me off the site if he wanted to but didn't find it "necessary". I suppose that being brought up alone confirms what I've always thought about the vague posts, the misrepresentations, and the waves of anon hate having an actual purpose. The amount of people that have blocked me over a post that was completely untrue but taken as fact just because he said it, the sheer number of gross asks I've gotten in his name since I posted a response just clarifying what actually happened & what didn't, and his response more addressing anons than the actual issue says a lot. Most of the people that saw his post will never know my side of it or what really happened because I was instantly blocked and that's extremely frustrating. Not to mention just morally wrong. It would've cost absolutely nothing to clear things up and stop this from happening (I wouldn't even have blamed him for saying that he misremembered the order of things or just got misleading info secondhand or something) but I guess even that was too much for me to expect. Doubling down on misinformation and ignoring the uncomfortable effects is more acceptable. And it's very easy for people to sit there and tell me to let it go when they're not the ones dealing with it... yet.
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Not At Odds
Ceasefire Now + Bring Them Home Now
Jewish & Palestinian safety & freedom are not at odds with each other; they are interconnected. These things can must coexist.
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can we talk about how much queer and trans joy was this season? maggie and nina. they/them muriel, saraquel, beelzebub, even GOD. "you're a good lad" "im not actually, either". that one shopkeeper and his non binary spouse, played by a non binary actor. beelzebub and gabriel. shax, nina and maggie all thinking azi and crowley were together. also yes i'm gonna mention: crowley and aziraphale's kiss. it's just, i get that everyone's hurt and so am i but can we please focus on how beautiful this season was to us? we got so much and i'm so happy, despite the ending.
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Jason comes back from the dead and, as he's still a bit out of it, heads to the manor.
Crawling straight up through six feet of compacted earth is hard, especially after waking up suddenly in a coffin, so after he makes it inside, he sits down to rest on the couch.
And immediately falls asleep.
Hours later, Bruce returns home to find Jason's body, covered in dirt, dug up from the grave and left on his couch.
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chess is fun until the pieces start running around and flipping you off right Leona
finished the cloudcalling event yesterday! the best one for me so far, i haven't laughed so much at any other.
da bonus scribble! the chess pieces in question. not gonna finish this one but look at these sillies
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one of the things about being an educator is that you hear what parents want their kids to be able to do a lot. they want their kid to be an astronaut or a ballerina or a politician. they want them to get off that damn phone. be better about socializing. stop spending so much time indoors. learn to control their own temper. to just "fucking listen", which means to be obedient.
one of the things i learned in my pedagogy classes is that it's almost always easier to roleplay how you want someone to act. it's almost always easier to explain why a rule exists, rather than simply setting the rule and demanding adherence.
i want my kids to be kind. i want them to ask me what book they should read next, and i want to read that book with them so we can discuss it. i want my kid to be able to tell me hey that hurt my feelings without worrying i'll punish them. i want my kid to be proud of small things and come running up to me to tell me about them. i want them to say "nah, i get why this rule exists, but i get to hate it" and know that i don't need them to be grateful-for-the-roof-overhead while washing the dishes. i want them to teach me things. i want them to say - this isn't safe. i'm calling my mom and getting out of this. i want them to hear me apologize when i do fuck up; and i want them to want to come home.
the other day a parent was telling me she didn't understand why her kid "just got so angry." this woman had flown off the handle at me.
my dad - traditional catholic that he is - resents my sentiment of "gentle parenting". he says they'll grow up spoiled, horrible, pretentious. granola, he spits.
i am going to be kind to them. i am going to set the example, i think. and whatever they choose become in the meantime - i'm going to love them for it.
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Care for a dip in the pool? The lifeguards may be marketable plushies, but they're 100% reliable!
(Scarabia lifeguard AU belongs to @natsukishinomiyaswife, you can check out the tsum post here!)
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