#aspd system

[mogainnercircle]

✵ Our enemies believe that they alone dictate the course of history ┈

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ASPD system - ASPD-exclusive term for any system that has ASPD.

Regardless of diagnosis status. Does not include transID. Could apply to subsystems as well.

┈ but all it takes is the will of a single man. ✵

Colors based on the ASPD awareness flag (I love that flag a lot, sorry </3)

I really want to coin more ASPD-related terms, since I think it's heavily underrepresented, unlike BPD and NPD. We'll see if there's gonna be need for more. (on that note, I should open requests one of these days...)

tagging // @radiomogai (should i tag @pdsarchive instead? i think y'all reblog on both, you'll see it either way) @obscurian

[pride-stars]

ASPD System : a system created by, affected by, or influenced by Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD).

[eclipsesociety]

being aspd means i don't care about anyone. i can't feel empathy, guilt, remorse, compassion, or sympathy for people. i've gotten so convincing over the years pretending that i do, that i convinced everyone around me that my cd and odd were grown out of until my aspd diagnosis came in.

my family knows, my partner knows, my friends know. it explains so much about me, and i feel better finally knowing what's going on in my head.

no matter how close to me you are, i still can't feel empathy or remorse. i can learn to care about you.

[unknownmothergoose]

ASPD by npdsafe + CDD SYSTEM by unknownmothergoose

for CDD systems that also have ASPD

please credit if using. i do not allow reuploads of my content to pinterest, wikias, or archives.

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the right image is a six stripe flag. The stripes are even and in the colours purple, burnt orange, pink, burgundy, pale blue, and lilac. END ID]

[asherwentinsanelol]

yknow qhat i love seeing? people with the "scary" or "mean" or "evil" disorders getting silly with it. thats definitely destigmatizing it /srs

like, if audhd people get to joke around about their disorders, not always treat it with an absurd amount of weight, so does everyone else. i love you aspd people who make jokes about your disorder, you deserve to do that without being called an edgy teen. i love you npd people make memes about it. i love you scary people who get to destigmatize your disorders by laughing.

[necroticcadaver]

Do not claim to be a mental health advocate or a safe space for the mentally ill if you demonise systems, cluster B personality disorders and/or psychotic disorders.

[definitelynotaweirdo]

[lemony-ink]

having low/no empathy doesn't make you evil or less-than someone else

you don't owe empathy to anyone

having NPD or ASPD doesn't make you a bad person

[thehellsaint]

being an endo is some of the most white ppl shit I've ever heard 💀

wdym you're so privileged with spare time and energy that you roleplay being disabled to get chronically online social credit

[librariumconsortium]

Redid this long ass post 😂

💫 Starfall Collective 💫

🌟 Collective Information:

Comet | It/They | Bodily 24 | taken

^ Use these if you are unsure who is fronting ^

💫 Fronters, DNI, Interaction permissions, etc. under the cut! 💫

🌟 Common Fronters:

Theo / Veil | ❤️ or 🌟 | 24 | Host | he/she/it

Ko | 🖤 or 🥀 | adult, appears 26 | he/him & she/her

Ginkgo | 💜 or ♍️ | adult, appears 20-30 | he/him

Champion | 💙 or 🍃 | 122 | BOTW/TOTK fictive | he/him

Amadeus | 🩵 or 🪶 | adult, appears 35-40 | he/him

Absinthe (Apple) | 🍏 | adult, appears 30 | he/him

Absinthe (Pear) | 🍐 | adult, appears 25 | he/she

Other alters will tag themselves accordingly or use the 💫 emoji to denote a group effort post, or will use ⭐️ to denote an anonymous alter.

We are a traumagenic system of many, and don’t always know if we’re alone, together, blended, etc. posts may be tagged with multiple alters if we can’t narrow it down. We use singular and plural pronouns interchangeably, so do keep that in mind when interacting.

⭐️ DNI:

Pro-Contact Para

Trans/Homophobes, racists, etc.

Under 16 bodily age

Radqueers, TERFs, etc.

Endos that bark up the wrong tree

Systems that genuinely think you’re faking if you have fun sometimes

This list isn’t exhaustive, don’t make me add to it

⭐️ You May:

DM us

Ask us anything (within reason)

Ask for our SP

Use tone tags for jokes/sarcasm/criticism

⭐️ You May Not:

Flirt (r/pl)

Harass

Drag your syscourse into our DMs/Ask box

Block evade

Ask for any personal info

⭐️ We Have:

PF-DID, AuDHD, NPD, ASPD, BPD, OCD and possibly STPD

Chronic migraine disorder, chronic pain, Ednometriosis

⭐️ Cheers!

We follow from veiledcarrion

[thehorrorwood]

݁ᛪ༙ SIRENOSEXUAL  ༢ ㅤ𓈒

  ི 🂱  ──   Sirenosexual is a sexuality that can be described as only being sexually and romantically attracted to ones chosen person, favored person, favorite person, etc regardless of gender. This term is not fluid, is not a variant of demi, and is not a variant of pan. Alternatively called ‘Sirenorose’.

PERSONALITY DISORDER ONLY TERM

[traumagenic-positivity]

i love you systems :>

i love you npd systems

i love you bpd systems

i love you aspd systems

i love you ocd systems

i love you npd systems who participate in syscourse just for supply

i love you systems who don't interact with other systems at all

i love you symptom holders

i love you overworked hosts

i love you overwhelmed protectors

i love you systems who let themselves feel happy about being a system

i love you systems who think being a system is miserable

i love you systems

i love you systems

[eclipsesociety]

any other ASPDers never understand psychological horror movies? I'm always left confused as to why it's supposed to be scary

[divinerapturesys]

Welcome to my Ted Talk about AsPD, or Antisocial Personality Disorder, which the internet likes to coin as sociopath 👌🏻 if you don’t like long infodumps about stigmatized mental disorders from someone who is diagnosed, move on.

Quick toxic rundown: People with AsPD are generally characterized as emotionless, violent, manipulative abusers who kill animals and like to make other people their bitches. The biggest pet peeve we have is the emotionless, sadistic and abusive generalization.

Personally, we are highly neurotic, with highs and lows of: depression, frantic drive, self abuse tactics, chronic fear, lapses of rejection, overwhelming over-analyzation, grey area thinking, false goods and false bads, ultimatums, obsessive compulsive behavior, harsh self demands, and irritability.

AsPD is a disorder that is caused primarily (according to current research) by trauma and abuse in childhood; most notably being emotional neglect and absent caregivers that cause a child to have emotional shutdowns and repression episodes in an attempt to self soothe. Primary caregivers who do not bond with their children are also a factor. Children learn how to behave from those around them. If a primary caregiver is emotionally distant and unavailable, children will learn that is normal behavior and that’s how people are. If a primary caregiver does not provide empathy and sympathy during moments of distress and fear, children will learn that aloofness and disregard of others feelings is normal behavior. If a primary caregiver does not keep a child safe, children will learn that they should not prioritize their own safety or the safety of others. You can find my follow up post regarding this here.

Neglected and abused children often act out trying to get attention and help, often acting out in bad ways because they lack the ability to articulate what they’re feeling and what is happening to them. The pipeline for AsPD typically is: Oppositional Defiance Disorder as a child, Conduct Disorder as a teen, AsPD as an adult. There are a lot of warning signs cueing that AsPD is becoming a risk for development, but often kids do not have a support system to help negate it as it’s their support system that is usually a factor in its creation.

Being AsPD is like being an emotional La Croix 70% of the time. If you’re depressed, then it’s like someone in the other room has depression and is telling you about it. The other 30% of the time, if you’re depressed, your brain doesn’t understand how to handle it so it’s an ultimatum between doing something drastic to remove the Trigger or ignoring and dissociating for days on end.

People with AsPD are very good at ignoring things. Honestly it’s problematic as fuck but it’s not hard to ignore major issues when you just, don’t care. It’s not in the terms of being cruel or making ourselves not care, but the fact that finding the emotional willpower is so far out of our feasible reach we don’t do it. This causes us to piss people off because we don’t have the capacity to care as much as they want us to, even if we can and do to an extent.

Think of it this way: empathy/sympathy is a deep tub of water that everyone has. They can easily fill their measuring cup for the needed amount of empathy without any issues and it’s easy for them. People with AsPD don’t have a tub of water. We have shallow skillet. When we try to dip our cup to fill it, we can’t, it always comes up short and it is difficult to get any water in it as there is no room for the cup to dive. Our ability to care is limited because we do not have the same emotional resources everyone else does.

❌ False Positives & False Negatives ❌

I operate on what I’ve learned are called false positives and false negatives. These are things that are trained into the brain from an early age based off of childhood trauma and other factors. False positives are a distorted version of why we do something to help ourself and for our own good, meanwhile a false negative is something we do because it’s a threat, or based out of fear.

❌ Some of my false positives:

- It is good to be afraid of nothing

- It is good to adapt to someone’s personality if they are stronger than you

- It is good to isolate yourself

- It is good to be a silver tongue because you can get into any place you want

- It is good to become a social chameleon and shape yourself to whatever those around you need/want most, because then you have no chance of being abandoned

❌ Some of my false negatives, which can explain the false positives as well as core beliefs:

- it is bad to be afraid, if I am afraid then I am vulnerable and it can be used against me

- It is bad to be emotional or show concern for others emotions because they do not care for mine

- It is bad to be able to be exploited, because I believe it is everywhere

- It is bad to allow myself to be bored, because boredom begets bad thoughts and no one can or wants to help me when I spiral

- It is bad to not shape yourself to the social circle, because people quickly grow tired of those who do not match them perfectly and being discarded means I failed

My core beliefs can be viewed as the root for the false positives and negatives, because they are based on the core of trauma, abuse and neglect. They come from patterns and instances that make someone with AsPD become the opposite of what they experienced:

- eat or be eaten

- If I don’t show that my bite is worse than my bark, I will be taken advantage of and I must remain on top because the ones on top are safe

- I must look out for myself because nobody will do it for me

- It doesn’t matter what happens to me, therefore it doesn’t matter what people think of me

- If I cannot do something well, then I should not do it at all

- If you are dependent on others for emotional and mental well being, you are weak, therefore I must isolate myself to avoid becoming codependent and a burden and useless

- If I can handle the stress of a situation better than everyone else, therefore I will keep the problem (financial, emotional, mental, etc) to myself to reduce chances of being abandoned due to failure of perfection

People with AsPD are hard to get along with. We often:

- are always anticipating a fight

- lack respect for authority

- ignore social structures to an extent

- tendency to lie if it’ll lessen punishment or if we feel the lie is more acceptable than our actions

- limit social support because it’s wrong to be dependent on others

- have an inflated view of our own importance — which turns into a self ridicule for believing someome like me could be found important to others —

- can be rude and inconsiderate of others feelings somewhat unintentionally

- are unable to read the correct social cues in relation to empathy towards people and animals

- am constantly confused by others dependence upon empathy and inability to make desicions from logic based standpoints

We can’t speak for everyone who has AsPD, nor are we saying that no one with AsPD is capable of being a murderer/abuser etc. but we are saying that y’all need to stop automatically classifying someone as a certain “type” as soon as you know about their disorder.

One last thing I do want to point out is that it is not uncommon for people with AsPD to derive some sort of enjoyment in causing harm, doing something illegal, hurting someone or animals, etc. This entirely stems from lack of environmental control as a child. Being able to control what happens to others or being able to control the things you say or do that hurts someone else is a hefty high to get addicted to; it soothes the underlying itch of not being able to control your own trauma and abuse, so in turn you push these behaviors onto others and enjoy it because it gives you a sense of power and control. Some people with AsPD do genuinely love hurting others, and some enjoy hurting others when they believe it’s deserved or their ire has been stoked. Some enjoy causing pain to those they think deserve it, and others don’t care who they hurt as long as they feel like they’re in control of the situation.

Hope this have some insight into AsPD 🤙🏻 if y’all have any questions, shoot.

[love-me-love-my-weirdness]

People when I have the “leave you before you leave me” abandonment issues and not the people pleasing abandonment issues

[theswiftheartsystem]

I did the meme right? Right? I’m not hit with the memes, sorry if it’s not right, I thought it was funny 😔