#cishet

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[celestialowlryxs]

"Time is a fast-flowing river. It spares no one. The bride awaits her bridegroom as she awaits her destiny. She is clad in white, as if dressed in a shroud. Eternal peace will come for her. The wedding bell tolls. Take her away! Take her away! Come! Come for her! The young maiden is yours for eternity."

Он – дракон / I am Dragon / He's a Dragon (2015) dir. Indar Dzhendubaev

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list of heterosexual couples that i support:

Laura Roslin and Bill Adama

Hanna Marin and Caleb Rivers

Betty Francis and Henry Francis

Joan Holloway and Roger Sterling

Aragorn and Arwen

[derangeddoodler]

Took WAYYYY tooooooo longggggggg, 300 layers and way too many sketches. Anyways, wanted to use this song because IT CAME OUT ON MY GRADUATION WOOOOOO. Also, the OCs have doomed romance 😝

[sanlamuertex8]

Hot take:

"Hormone therapy doesn't turn trans ppl into anime characters" is more of a reassurance to cis ppl than trans ppl.

Ofc not all the time and not a criticism, but in my personal and anecdotal experience, cis ppl are more mad when trans ppl are "ugly" or "average" post transition. They'll only support transitions that make the person beautiful in their eyes.

[lgbt-cishet-movie-tournament]

How is it cishet media?

VP: Cishet romance good vs evil plot AND the main character is a priest. The movie I'm talking about is The Velocipastor (2018) of course

PotCCoTBP: cishet bc it's abt elizabeth swann desperate for man ass

How is it lgbt?

VP: It's camp to me. The only sex scene is a montage of the main characters (a sex worker and titular velocipastor) bonding over the course of the movie. MAJOR FLASH WARNING but you can find it here https://youtu.be/Wp9hcCFEgOw . It's a low budget film (some of the FX is literally just text on a screen telling you what's there) where you can tell everyone involved is having fun with it and it's one of my favorite things ever. I've heard white gay people on tumblr love subverting christian imagery soooo there's that too

PotCCoTBP: pirates of the caribbean is lgbt bc elizabeth swann has genderful swag and will has beautiful puppydog eyes and jack sparrow for all his numerous flaws is getting real faggy with it

VP Propaganda:

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Queer cishets/allocishets exist.

Been seeing a lot of queer people be exclusionary lately towards cishet queers, not just here on Tumblr, but on other spaces (like Reddit) and we are getting tired of it.

Cishet isn't the opposite of queer. Neither is allocishet. The opposite of queer is conformant.

Being cisgender, allosexual, alloromantic, and heterosexual does not negate other queer identities/experiences that may be in place. Here are some examples of cishet/allocishet queers:

A person that is cishet asexual/greysexual/ace-spec.

A person that is cishet aromantic/greyromantic/aro-spec.

A person that is allocishet and on the auto spectrum.

A person is allocishet and intersex (PLEASE reblog the linked guide, by the way, it is SO IMPORTANT to share information about intersex health and bodies.)

A person that is allocishet and altersex.

A person that is allocishet and non-binary. Being cisgender & transgender are not mutually exclusive. If a person was unassigned at birth/UAB or assigned X at birth/AXAB, and later discover they are non-binary, they might consider themselves cisgender non-binary.

A person that is allocishet and gender non-conforming or pronoun non-conforming.

An allocishet person in a queer relationship with a person on the non-binary spectrum.

A person can be allocishet and in an alterous relationship, queerplatonic relationship, or wavership.

A allocishet person that personally feels as though their ambiamory/polyamory is queer.

A person that is allocishet cupiohex (meaning they engage in a sexual or romantic manner with the same/similar genders, despite experiencing no gay attraction.)

An allocishet sysmate within a queer shared-body (ie; a transgender body, an altersex body, an intersex body, etc).

When a person says "allocishets/cishets aren't welcome at pride", they end up excluding a large portion of our community. They often give off the same vibes as people who exclude queer people that are in straight-passing relationships (such as a bisexual in a "hetero" relationship, a woman dating a non-binary person that appears very masculinely, etc.)

Many people are well-meaning when they say these things, unaware of the implications and harm it can have on other queer people. But many people genuinely are exclusionists, and stand by it, despite all the examples we listed. And you never know which one you are going to get if you engage with someone who heavily monitors what people are/aren't welcome at pride.

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Anyone else have that one friend who’s just like the token straight, the honorary cis of the friend group? Completely cishet, but they’re apart of the lgbt friend group and just chill. It’s more than just being an ally. It’s like, they’re one of you. Maybe they grew up around queer people or they’ve just always been apart of the queer friend group so even though they’re not queer themselves, it sort of…feels like they are.

[totally-ikea]

Can cishet boys/men own Blajh sharks, or only trans girls?

everyone can own Blåhajs!!!! they just represent inclusivity in the trans community but that doesnt mean you can't own one! (coming from a cishet)

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LGBTQ+

It's finally come full circle.

Today I read a post that confirmed it for me, but first I'll need to give some language lessons, as the terminology used has gotten complicated and unnecessarily specific to the point (I think) of absurdity.

L=Lesbian G=Gay B=Bisexual T=TransVESTITE, and Transgender (later addition) Q=Queer (not fitting into any of the above) +=Something that does not fit into any of the above above ....there's more but that's already too much

Cis= Cis-gender = the gender you were born with Het=Heterosexual Cishet = Cis-gender, Heterosexual (i.e. most "normal" people)

Fluid = genderfluid = your feelings change from moment to moment Aro= Aromantic (i.e. not romantically inclined) Asexual= Not interested in sexual encounters Aspec= Not fitting neatly into any of the aforementioned "not fitting in" categories (so that's THREE "not fitting in" categories)

So here's what the post said (paraphrased):

"Aromantic and Asexual CisHet Men ARE LGBT!!!"

Okay, so let's unpack that: Aromantic - i.e. men who aren't romantically inclined, which describes most men I've met; Asexual - i.e. men who have no interest in sex (almost all men over 50, and any man directly after sex).....are LGBT.

So pretty much ALL straight men are LGBT.

You heard it on Tumblr first. The LGBT community have mainstreamed themselves so much it literally doesn't mean anything any more.

If you're human, you're LGBT. It's nothing special anymore.