Your parents are not "narcissists". They're typical authoritarian assholes who treat you like their property because society allows them to.
Your ex boyfriend is not a "narcissist". He's a typical misogynistic douchebag who treats women like shit because society allows him to.
Your boss is not a "narcissist". They're a typical classist dipshit who thinks workers' entire purpose in life is to generate profit because society allows them to.
And even if they happen to be a "narcissist", that's not what gave them the power to get away with abuse.
So stop blaming mental illness and start blaming society's normalization of abuse. Stop acting like someone has to have a mental illness in order to do something cruel when ordinary people have been doing atrocious things since forever.
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*mom voice* You can get these words back when you know what they mean
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i just read about the "narcissism of small differences," aka the idea that the more a community has in common, the more likely the people in it are to engage in interpersonal feuds and mutual ridicule because of hypersensitivity to minor differences perceived in each other, and i knew there was a reason my time in academia and fandom felt oddly similar lmao
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I love Diet Coke and cock!!!
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STEVE LUND
Reign 4.12 "The Shakedown"
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hey btw u arent a mental health advocate if you use the term narcissist to describe people who were mean to you.
can narcs be abusers? yes.
can their symptoms be a driving force in their abusive behaviors? yes.
however it is absolutely unnacceptable and stigmatizing to further push the association that a TRAUMA disorder is inherently abusive.
i have worked so hard, and i am working so hard, to cope with my npd. i have improved a lot, and healed a lot, and still have a long way to go.
it hurts more than anything to hear my own friends call bad people narcissists solely because they're bad people.
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I picked things up and put them down
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