#now i’m aromantic but.

[xocasper]

I mean I keep referring to ribs frank as an asshole but honestly it’s not his fault that he didn’t have feelings for them and he wasn’t particularly mean about it, and he really did try in ribs2. but like. Idk. He can still fuck off either way

seeee he does like them. i project on to both of them in this story. it’s very much, “you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone.” he’s conditioned, in a way. he’s always thought about the reader as his, but he can’t let himself belong to someone else. he’s scared and noncommittal. the one person he does truly love becomes out of reach because he refuses to let himself fall like that.

jamia is like a schoolgirl (schoolboy? 🤷) crush. she’s stable. she’s dateable. she is the college girlfriend. they can last a while. the reader was his first love though, and he can’t let them go. he keeps running back to them in the fic. he’s just very resistant to being in love and letting himself get hurt like that, and it’s not until he sees them with mikey that he realizes it.

also he becomes an asshole, keep calling him one.

[sillylilneurodivergent]

Guys, it happened. I’m an

AAAAAA (aromantic, asexual, agender, with autism, adhd, & anxiety)

[desperatecheesecubes]

Growing up asexual is actually so funny because all of a sudden people all around are like ‘oh my god what if I don’t know how to kiss??? I have to practice!’ And start doing unhinged things and the whole time you’re like

[dragengyrr]

OUT NOW only on Voxtek+ Premium: "The Rizz Demon strikes again!"

(…or "the moments from 666: Live On Air! by @prince-liest that had no reason being this funny.")

⚠️ Horny demons ahead (kinda) ⚠️

Anyway, excuse me if I mixed up the scenes where Alastor’s supposed to be more/less dressed, I can’t keep up with his undressing policy in the series, but I think it’s always funnier when he’s all buttoned up.

Edit: more Alastor in the dress! Yay!

[renthedevil]

the funniest thing i’ve done as an asexual is being born on national sex day

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

Something I never got when I was younger (and now tbh) is dating without the intent to marry? Like isn’t that the point of dating that you may one day marry them?

[professional-writher]

How life has felt after I got over my deeply internalized aphobia and allowed myself to finally be myself

[culssi]

It’s pride month wooo

Idk you probably know this, I’m aroace! I love being aroace :) to me it just doesn’t feel right to ever be in a sexual or romantic relationship but I love having friends and I love my best friend Gracie ( @llserenell . Celebrate this gay)₊˚⊹♡

Undercut for ugly ass Alastor drawing I did

Aroace king ᯓ ᡣ𐭩

[aroacearchangel]

i’m going to say something that might be controversial and i’m sorry if this is cringe or whatever but i can’t sleep:

dan and phil are like. the perfect example of my ideal qpr. have they kissed. maybe. irrelevant. did they form an almost instantaneous soul binding connection within days of meeting in person. yes . are they literally soulmates, as proclaimed by mr howell himself. also yes.

did they design a house to live in together and still have separate closets. also yes . when they’re apart for even a few weeks they are soooooooo sad. i’m just. hooollyyy shitt.

in response to the age old question “are they dating or are they friends?”: does it actually change anything? they’re dan and phil :]

[casukaga]

happy pride from my oc, cable 🫶✨

(he/they)

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[ween-kitchens]

romance repulsed people of tumblr, if people were to tag romance in the same way they would tag sex/nsfw stuff what would be the best tag?

please rb i’d like for a lot of people to see this so they start tagging stuff as romance if they otherwise don’t (the question and poll are mostly window dressing icl)

[r0semultiverse]

Hey Digital Extremes, why are you limiting our play style to only one romance? Thought this game was about player choice. Let us choose to have the gameplay option of polyamory! 💕

There should also be a platonic New Years night option too that involves no romance for those not comfortable with it!

[muscari-melpomene]

Aroace Sasha Rackett is so important to me send tweet

[changelingart]

Love is stored in listening to your friends for four hours straight. Love is stored in the joy of helping your friend. Love is stored in your friend allowing you to participate in the divine act of creation with them. Love is stored in texts sent back and forth, for four hours, over the distance of two states.

[sketchyface]

Friendly reminder that on AO3 ‘character A/character B’ is for ROMANTIC relationships and ‘character A & character B’ is for PLATONIC relationships, which includes QUEERPLATONIC ones cuz there’s no specific tag for it and is PLATONIC

Edit: Rule of thumb I use for tagging fics is if someone was looking through a specific tag, does your fic fulfil that? Like, if 1% of your fic is Angst and the rest of it is fluff you should not use the Angst tag, as someone looking through that tag probably doesn’t want to read your fic

Also, your tags NEED to be clear on what’s in the fic. So if anyone has blocked a certain tag, they won’t accidentally stumble into your fanfic

Using the character/character tag for queerplatonic relationships makes it hard for people who want to read your fanfics to know it’s queerplatonic and will immediately think it’s romantic and skip it

Like, I don’t want to read fanfics where Alastor is in romantic relationships. But because of how many people tag Alastor being in a queerplatonic relationship as character/character I can’t filter them out cuz I might miss some good misstagged fics. It makes finding fics I ACTUALLY want to read so fucking hard

Sincerely, an irritated AroAce person

[milo-the-professional-yapper]

Hello Hazbin community!

We need to talk about Alastor and aroace rep.

My qualifications: I’m an aroace who also, at times, feels attraction to others. I don’t know the specific name for it, but I like to think of it as my sexuality being in fluctuation. Sometimes romantic and/or sexual attraction is there, sometimes it isn’t and I’m completely repulsed by it all.

So, Alastor is canonically Asexual (and very much implied Aromantic via the VA and Viv, let’s be honest), and it seems the majority of you have taken that as a challenge of sorts? Like you see one off limits character and feel the need to ship him with everyone under the sun.

Don’t get me wrong, as long as you can separate fanon and canon- this isn’t really about you. But I am sick and tired of people drawing Fanart or writing FanFictions and excusing themselves by saying “Aroace is a spectrum!” Or “He’s in a QPR with so and so!” (let’s be so real, half of those ships I’m seeing are not anything close to a QPR). Please just say you did it because you wanted to- don’t try and make excuses to seem like an ally to the aroace community. I’d really much rather you draw it and not justify it than scramble to seem morally right. You’re not. Let’s all move on.

I would have no problem with this if it didn’t seem like such a big thing. Alastor is the ONE character who’s shipped THE MOST with every other character in Hazbin. That’s why this whole thing seems really icky to me. We don’t have much representation in media- I could count all the ace characters I know on one hand- and the one thing we have, no one seems to have any respect for.

I’m not really mad at anyone participating, I’m honestly just disappointed in a (mostly) queer community.

That’s all, you guys have a good night.