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thepeacefulgarden · 3 months ago
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aventurineswife · 17 days ago
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Can we have the Wuwa men of your choice in a platonic familial relationship with a Collei-like reader who's power tends to go out of control and hugs end up being the main way they calm them down even if they end up getting hurt
A Heart Beneath the Storm
Tags: Jiyan x Reader, Yuanwu x Reader, Collei like Reader, Platonic Relationship, Familial Bond, Comfort, Mentor-mentee Dynamic, Emotional Support, Healing, Character Development, Protective, Trauma, Trust Building, Support System, Gentle Touch, Mutual Care.
Warnings: Mentions of trauma, Fear of touch, Emotional instability, Power struggles, Past abuse, Emotional breakdowns.
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You had never known a home full of warmth—at least not until Jiyan came into your life.
The wind seemed to carry whispers of ancient winds whenever you stepped into the stronghold of the Midnight Rangers. It was a place of strict discipline and unwavering resolve, but there, amid the fortifications and stoic faces of soldiers, you found peace. Jiyan's leadership was beyond measure, and his calm was a fortress for everyone, especially you.
Having been an outcast for most of your life, your control over your powers had always been a volatile thing. Your resonance abilities were like the unpredictable storm—one second calm, the next surging with energy you couldn't manage. You’d learned to brace yourself and keep others at a distance. Touch was the most dangerous trigger, yet the one thing that soothed your soul was a simple embrace.
It was an afternoon, like any other, that Jiyan had found you in one of your more unstable states, the storm of power surging just beneath the surface. You knew it wasn’t safe for anyone to come near you; the air crackled with tension, and everything around you seemed to hum and vibrate in response to your emotions.
“Stay back, Jiyan,” you gasped, hands trembling as you tried to hold yourself steady. “I can’t control it!”
But Jiyan, in his calm and unyielding manner, was already stepping closer. His gaze was unwavering, his resolve even more so.
“You are not alone,” he said softly. “I am here.”
His hands reached out, and even as you recoiled instinctively, the intensity of your storm only grew. The emotions, the chaos—they threatened to overwhelm you, like a wave crashing on a shore.
But Jiyan didn’t stop. He gathered you in his arms, strong and warm, offering you the one thing you had been afraid of—touch. His embrace was steady, his presence grounding. Slowly, the energy within you settled. The electric crackle that had surged so wildly faded, and you could feel your breath steadying, the storm inside you dissipating.
“Shh… I’m here,” Jiyan whispered, his voice a steady, comforting rhythm. “You are safe now.”
The hug was not a simple act—it was a promise. A promise that even though the world might be full of unpredictability, you would always have a place in his arms, where you could find peace.
You, who had been cast aside, who feared the touch of others, found solace in Jiyan's quiet strength. In his embrace, you knew you had found a home, a family, in a place where your powers were not a burden but part of the bond you shared with him and the Rangers.
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Training under Yuanwu was like stepping into the calm eye of a storm. Though his martial art was steeped in the fierce power of thunder and lightning, his demeanor was always composed, soft-spoken, and patient. You had come to his gym seeking guidance for your powers, powers that, like yours, often raged out of control when left unchecked.
Yuanwu had seen many people with volatile abilities before, but you were different. Your powers had a certain wild energy to them, like a fire too close to an explosive device. You feared losing control, as you had in the past, and pushing others away was your only defense. Yet Yuanwu never let you withdraw entirely. He would watch you with those wise eyes of his, always gentle, never hurried, allowing you to unravel your frustration with nothing but patience.
One day, after a particularly challenging training session, you were on the verge of collapse. Your power had flared out of control, and though you had tried to subdue it, it only seemed to spiral more. Yuanwu noticed this immediately.
Without a word, he approached you calmly, his arms extending as though they were a shield.
“You don’t have to fight this alone,” Yuanwu said, his voice carrying the same soothing cadence as a thunderstorm’s distant rumble.
Instinctively, you flinched, fearing that his touch might be too much for you, but Yuanwu did not pull back. His embrace was strong yet gentle, the weight of it not smothering, but supportive. The warmth of his body against yours helped steady your heartbeat. With every passing second, the tremors that had wracked your form started to ebb.
“You’re not broken,” Yuanwu whispered, his hands rubbing your back comfortingly. “You just need time, patience. And the right people to be by your side.”
Your powers, like a wild storm, slowly receded. You felt calmness spread through you—not because of any magic or external force, but because of Yuanwu’s unwavering belief in you.
He didn’t need words of grandiose reassurance. His actions spoke volumes. The silent, supportive hug became your lifeline—a reminder that even in your moments of fear and doubt, you were never alone.
Yuanwu remained a constant, not as a teacher who demanded perfection, but as a mentor who offered the space to grow, not just in strength, but in trust. Through his example, you learned the most important lesson of all: sometimes, the greatest strength lies not in unleashing a storm, but in learning when to let go, to accept the quiet moments in life, and to allow yourself to be cared for.
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help-an-alter · 9 months ago
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INTRO
Hello! Welcome to our blog.
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blog is for fragments, by fragments.
THIS BLOG SUPPORTS PALESTINE!
THE MODS!
Creator (alters listed);
anything with a ".here" at the end of the name is the creator (the one who came up with this!!)
S (Any pronouns)
55 (Any xenos or he/it.)
RAINBOW (Any, preferably feminine but they dont mind)
Rs (He/him)
A (masculine pronouns of any sort.)
J (he/they)
Red (Any masculine pronouns)
Some have chosen to hide their real name, and instead use a code name. --------
Other mods here!!! (create a template of your own if you want)
mod cupid / mod 💘
Bitter (they/them)
Adorerine (she/he/they/it/love++)
Cherie (she/it/mew)
Mimi (she/needle)
(that's all the alters we know are gonna help sometimes)
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jinx / helena / mortuary [they/them]
sayona [she/they]
ven [he/him]
ari [it/she/glitch/pop+]
ithaca [fog/they] -----
Oz (they/them)
Lei (they/any)
Cog (he/him)
G (he/they)
Sol (he/they)
Boo (she/her)
On this blog we will collectively go by Shiver (they/them), some of the alters helping out have stayed anon with fake names! -------
Sprout (He/Him)
Mousey (She/They/Adore)
Other alters might pop in but it’s mainly these two!
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Hi, I'm Mod Celestia (System)! We use any pronouns (including neos and xenos) :3
I can't guarantee alters will do sign offs but they might, and if so they'll probably do their name then .cel
Some alters who will likely help this blog are
Anne Marie (she/ghost/blood/fire/wing/death)
Niki (she/they/it)
Row (they/it/he/xe/paw/fern/allium/hydrangea/hyacinth)
Draculaura (she/they/fang/bat/blood)
Collei (she/vi/bloom/pain)
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rapture/ajaw (he/rapture/it)
all alters from our system will have a .crow on the end of their name, but expect to see me more than anyone.
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Mod FireFly/Mod Lupin (it/fae/xe/they)
Zero/Oliver/Maveryck (he/it/creach)
Ronin/Butcher (he/it)
RagDoll/BabyDoll (he/she)
We most likely won't be specifying which alter is posting the requests!
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mod 💫 (hy/dae/they) we will mainly be posting as one on here, so no need to worry abt alter names or anything :)
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mod niki (they/them)
probably wont have alters do individual sign offs, but if they do, it will be “__ of niki” !
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↓ more under the cut! ↓
wowweeeee is that an anon list!?!!?
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DNI:
supporters of Endos or any non disordered 'systems'
any non disordered 'systems'
people who see this as build an alter. its different. read the FAQ
Pedos, zoophiles, anti furries, anti regression, anti system in general.
Syscourse
Racists, Zionists, pro-israel
Pro r/systemscringe
Sophieinwonderland (she cant follow dnis so thats why shes here)
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FAQ
"What is "Help an Alter?"
You know that really ableist "build an alter"? yea? its like THAT, but for fragmented alters with no sense of identity. We do not build alters, we help them find themself.
"I have a question!!"
Questions can be directed to our inbox.
"syscourse blah blah"
Syscourse is NOT welcome on this blog.
"Im an endo and..."
Endos are also not welcome.
"Whats your main blog?"
We aren't comfortable with sharing.
"Are you hiring?"
Not at the moment, we have enough mods :)
-- END OF QUESTIONS --
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Thanks for the questions !
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Special thank yous: @syscultureis and their followers for helping us find the name, @anti-endo-safe-space for being so comforting with your messages, @anti-endo-polyfragculture for being so epic and inspiring us, all of our main blog mutuals for supporting us (you know who you are!!), @systemterms for being so helpful, @syspport for the awesome userbox (shown at the end!!) and everyone else!
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audhd-space · 2 years ago
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[Alt text from image]
Screenshot of tweet from user @/hi_its_annaleah here :
less telling marginalized ppl to "Find your community"
more telling society in general to "Cultivate safe spaces"
less telling struggling ppl to "Reach out for help/support"
more telling society in general to "Provide meaningful, affordable, informed, accessible help/support"
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my-unsent-thoughts · 3 months ago
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You’re already doing so well. Let it hurt, let it heal, and let it go at your own pace. I’ll be here, holding your hand through it all.
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serenityquest · 1 year ago
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piratestent · 8 months ago
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SYSTEM SURVEY WILL BE CLOSED AT FRIDAY SEPTEMBER 13 AT 14:00PM MST!
Before you begin to interrogate us READ THE USERBOX! [Image id: NO SYSCOURSE, this anti endo system allows (pro) endos to interact!]
-- PEACEFUL INTERACTION ONLY --
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menopause-diary · 1 year ago
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Blog about the deeper reason behind my 'embrace the chaos' philosophy. You see, my mom passed away at 55, and my dad was only 56 when he left us, too. Way too young. It's a stark reminder that life doesn't come with guarantees.
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Vienna - Billy Joel
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youdontlookautistic · 7 months ago
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Would it make sense to try and create a system of support for neurodivergent people which is essentially a pay it forward system? I mean, I know there's a lot of plot holes here but when I think about the current structure of support for people with autism (specifically in the western world), we know we have to bind to our community because they don't understand. And that's just how humans are. If we don't understand, we judge and assume.
But if autistics created some sort of pay it forward system where all those who are happy to be out and about can use their special skills to help, while those who can't leave the house can offer their special skills to someone else.
We're a special skill hot house. We can't just let it sit there. We gotta tap into this shit.
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thepeacefulgarden · 3 months ago
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thepastisalreadywritten · 1 month ago
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𝗗𝗢𝗚𝗦 𝗔𝗥𝗘𝗡’𝗧 𝗥𝗘𝗣𝗟𝗔𝗖𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗕𝗔𝗕𝗜𝗘𝗦. 𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗬'𝗥𝗘 𝗙𝗜𝗟𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗩𝗢𝗜𝗗𝗦 𝗜𝗡 𝗔 𝗟𝗢𝗡𝗘𝗟𝗬 𝗦𝗢𝗖𝗜𝗘𝗧𝗬. 🐶
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In today���s increasingly isolated world, dogs are becoming more than just pets — they’re filling the emotional gaps left by fractured social networks.
A recent study by ethologist Enik Kubinyi reveals that while rising dog ownership coincides with declining birth rates, it doesn’t mean people are choosing pets over children.
Instead, both trends stem from the same cause: widespread social isolation.
Humans, wired for communal living, now find themselves in smaller, disconnected family units. With fewer support systems, many turn to dogs for companionship, emotional bonding, and even surrogate parenting.
However, Kubinyi warns that this trend reflects a deeper issue: a loss of human connection.
Let’s cherish our furry friends but also work to rebuild stronger, family-based support networks and foster meaningful human relationships.
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explore4adventures · 3 months ago
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S O U L M A T E S ❤️♾️
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Beauty Of A Strong Foundation ❤️
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Heal on your own time. There is not one correct and particular way of healing from pain. We all go down different paths, it doesn’t mean it’s wrong or something to frown upon. All we need is a little hope, self-care, and a support system that never judges and gives up on us.
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khofiecloud · 7 months ago
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how to preserve your mental health at school
School is probably one of the most mentally taxing things a teen can go through. It certainly is mine. With the pressure to be the best, to get ahead, and to generally succeed, it's hard to not be affected. The mental strain is unavoidable, and I struggled with it for most of my school years, but over time that has led me to find tips that could help anyone going through this cope.
There are a few signs that can tell you whether or not you are being severely affected. You might be unmotivated and apathetic throughout the school day, and just because of school itself. You might feel like crying in school during the whole day and every day. Reasons can range from academic pressure to bullying and social ostracization to feeling inferior to your over achieving classmates.(If it's bullying, please tell someone who can help you) But here's some tips that might help based on what I learned from experience:
Find a piece of comfort (that you can come back to whenever you feel bad) .It can be a show, anime, song , movie, fanfic, manga , book, food, piece of clothing, or really just about anything (my recs are saiki k, ghibli songs and movies) . It’s best to have multiple just in case you get too used to 1 of them.
Get a support system: the way you can get this may differ based on your specific problem but here’s some ideas : make new friends offline or online (best app is slowly) and strengthen your existing relationships with friends and family.
Find a 3rd place which is not electronic: A third place is any public area away from homes and school/work ,where people meet and interact in an open environment. But the real challenge is not making your 3rd place your device .It's hard but here are some ideas for a 3rd place : libraries, arcades, gym, yoga place, sport club, skateparks, playgrounds, parks, coffee shops and cafes, bodegas. Make sure to choose a place where you feel comfortable. 
Get enough sleep: being tired will just make you feel so much worse. Never underestimate the power of a good night's sleep. Just to make it extra too, listen to some calming music, light candles and wear your fanciest sleepwear.
Put your mind on other things and focus on finding things that'll make you proud of yourself: You could get new hobbies, especially creative ones since those allow you to express yourself easily. Some examples are crocheting, embroidery, drawing, painting, sculpting, pottery, dancing, writing music, performance art and writing (stories, poetry, essays)
Take a leap of faith: create or design something based on your interests and skills and share it with the world. This can develop into being your own personal extracurricular activity. It might be scary but that's what makes it so rewarding in the end.
1) Video editing : post videos on your favorite subject and post on tiktok or youtube 2) Fashion and Photography : take pictures of yourself wearing cute clothes (or just your fav ones) and post them on your social media 3) Painting and Sustainability : paint an exhibit and display it in public 4) Volunteering and Social Media: make and run the official Instagram account of a local business 5) Gaming : make a game on roblox 6) Reading: start a book review blog These are just a few pretty ambitious ideas. You don’t have to follow these. Create your own project, it all depends on who you are. Take the best out of all of you (pieces of your soul) and create a masterpiece. If you don't have any interests (post on tips coming soon) just make something out of your skills . Make sure to only take on a project if you have time and resources.
Lastly, this is a tip I got from Quora. It’s to make a slow nights document. You can write this down on paper or open a doc and write down your comforts, favorite movie, favorite art pieces, places you’d like to go in the future, what you think your life will be in 10 years and so on. Just write things that will make you you.
School can make you feel drained, insecure and hurt for so many reasons. It may end up in you being numb and apathetic. In most cases, the problems you have can’t be solved by just forcing yourself to look at the bright side or forcing yourself to avoid or ignore them. They are real issues. And when asking for tips on the internet isn’t enough, I hope this post will help you. It probably didn’t solve all your problems, but I hope it showed you a way to go. Thank you for reading and Good Luck 
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