Ships where one is a sexual abuse victim and the other helps them recover by being super respectful and caring even in non-sexual situations as romance >>>>>>>> Hard kinks as 'coping' that has been proven by therapists dosen't actually work and only hurts other survivors
Speaking as someone who's been outed many, many times, by both "allies" and homo/transphobes, some of yall are way too comfortable sharing other peoples' queer identities.
"But what if I'm trying to be funny?" Doesn't matter.
"But what if I'm an ally?" Doesn't matter
"But what if the person I'm talking to is an ally?" Doesn't matter.
"But what if I'm queer?" Doesn't matter
"But what if the person I'm talking to is queer?" Doesn't matter.
"But what if the person I'm talking about is a stranger?" Doesn't matter.
"But what if it's really obvious?" First of all, ew. Second of all, Doesn't matter.
"But what if they didn't come out to me, I just figured it out on my own?" Doesn't matter.
"But what if they're getting misgendered?" It's just as easy to say 'actually she's a girl' as it is to say 'actually she's transgender and uses she/her'. If that person is pretransition, it's also easy to just bite your tongue and not say anything.
Unless that person has explicitly given you permission to share that information, you DON'T. No matter how certain you are that everyone is accepting, no matter how noble your intentions, it's not your information to share. Getting clocked sucks, getting outed sucks, and they're both an invasion of privacy no matter who's doing it.
Feeling extra subby today i just want someone to put me on my knees and maybe spread my legs open with their foot and put their fingers in my mouth i would do so much for fingers in my mouth
"Potraying Dick as a huge slut who's always getting put into fanservice is actually progressive because it normalizes casual sex and is gender equality because female characters get potrayed that way too!!!"I mean sure but i feel like we could prove those same points with a male character who's NOT a multiple time r*pe survivor of color that's gotten victim blamed for at least one his assault's and has been coded as demisexual with a discomfort towards sexual looseness for himself since the 80s anyway
it has occurred to me that this was supposed to be a parkner blog. so here’s some parkner thoughts.
fun fact- harley’s a little gay boy from tennessee who grew up hearing that the devil came for kids like him who wanted to kiss the wrong person. so when harley moves to new york, he’s not immediately waving a pride flag. instead, he has a beat up leather jacket, an old car, and a smirk that could cut glass. peter is sold and practically swooning because hello, gorgeous. but he’s also like,,, harley’s from tennessee. what if he’s like, homophobic??? and not an ✨ally✨??? and then harley full on outs himself to an asshole who harasses peter on the street with an ‘I’m gay, dickface’ and just. punches him hard enough to break his nose. (peter is THIS close to proposing okay)
harley forgets everything. out of sight, out of mind. keys? gone. phone? poof. jacket? who? and peter’s memory is kind of shit, too, honestly, but karen’s memory is fucking golden (perks of being a computer) and she’ll remind peter to remind harley to grab his stuff. harley still doesn’t know peter has karen do it, so he just thinks his boyfriend’s awesome. peter’s not gonna correct him.
peter doesn’t wear nail polish that often, but when harley casually (definitely not feeling casual internally, but that’s fine) mentioned that he was considering sometimes wearing it, peter went ALL OUT. like, he added color, he added glitter, he made his nails the biggest and brightest part of his being. harley called him an idiot, but he would always grin when he saw them, so peter considered it a win.
harley likes country music. but only the country music from 70s-90s. the rest is absolute slander to him.
(yes, I wrote a whole ass fic about that, and no, I’m not sorry.)
peter can’t draw for shit. he just can’t. harley swears by stick figures. (watch the insidious part two promo with ty. you’ll get what I mean.)
peter does unironically call himself biderman. harley calls him homophobic.
harley’s defining emotion is offense and/or what he calls his ‘bitch, fucking excuse you?’ emotion, and he’s very proud of this fact.
peter’s favorite color changes pretty consistently, but he’s really attached to his blue and red, especially when they’re together.
harley’s is dark red (darker than peter’s), and gold. he will deny to his denying breath that it’s tony’s colors, because ‘why would I care about the old man? fuck off’
they aren’t allowed to have a dog, because new york (peter is so sad about this, okay), so harley just brought home a pet lizard one day. no warning. no call. peter asked zero questions and named her mrs. cheeto.
- you can call me puppy/pup orrr if you really want to call me by a name you can call me bug!!!
- im 22 and i use she/they/dog pronouns (afab but NOT cis) !!
- im small (5'2), use this information how you will..... :3
- im a doggirl/puppygirl sub and also kind of a pillow princess !!
- im single but NOT looking for a relationship/committed master, just some funsies
- i might disappear for days or months at a time so if i do DONT WORRY. THATS NORMAL.
- pls dont talk to me sexually if you are over 30 or a cishet guy (queer men r ok)
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- horny replies/asks r always welcome as long as my bio says horny asks r currently open!!!
- i love attention, so please describe everything you want to do to me/make me do in detail 😵💫 especially if i am hornyposting in which case im pretty much always begging for someone to come use me
current anons: ⚠️, 😈, 💙, 🦌, 😼, 🍓
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DNI + BYF:
- TERFs, bi lesbians, minors, 40+ yr olds, z**philes, 4geplayers, pedo/map/nomaps, transphobes/homophobes etc., misogynists, raceplayers, HARD KINKS LIKE R@PE AND INC3ST. DO NOT INTERACT.
- sexual dms are off limit. normal dms are ok !!!
INTERESTS:
- puppyplay💞, knotting/ruts/heat💞, overstim, bd/sm, exhibitionism (specifically in front of groups of ppl like friends or ppl my dom knows)💞, degradation, praise, a LITTLE dumbification, orgasm denial and teasing, being used by friends💞/sharing/group sex, spit, breeding, humping, COLLARSSS, manhandling, size kink💞, cnc
LIMITS:
- anal (penetration OR oral, giving or recieving), vore, feet, puke, piss, and scat, noncon, forced detransitioning, misogynistic degradation, face slapping, being called "little girl", ageplay, inc3st, raceplay, diapers, mommy/daddy kink in any way other than just the title (and even then i sm uncomfortable actually calling people mommy/daddy), see dni for more
i will not call you master unless i want to. show some tact. you do not immediately own me.
IMAGE ID. 3 rectangular flags with 8 stripes that are, in order: light neon green, light turquoise, turquoise, blue, dark violet, magenta, redish orange, yellow. The first flag has a white triangle on the left, along with a heart, an autistic symbol and a boy (mars) symbol over it. END OF ID.
୨୧ • autistic polyamourous bigay trans guy
︵︵︵︵︵︵★ ꒱ explanations :
an hyperspecific flag for autistic polyam bigay trans guys!
PT. autistic polyamourous bigay trans guy. an hyperspecific flag for autistic polyam bigay trans guys. END OF PT.
The 'jaded older character who's been through tons of shit and copes by being snarky becomes found siblings with young kid character who has their own trauma but is a lot optimistic than them' trope never gets old
i want to give him 30 boyfriends. i want him to be aromantic. i want him to have the best sex of his life whenever he wants. i want him to never have to have sex again. i want him to be loved and love and never be unhappy again