#SELF HELP

[ruminate88]

I love this ❤️‍🩹 I know we often see a timeline as a straight line, but think about it… The world goes around in circles, and there are cycles to everything good and bad. Just look at the cycle of how rain is made; how it evaporates and goes up into the sky, forms as clouds, and then it rains down, then it repeats again. (History also repeats itself.)

So yes, healing is in circles. Healing is a very beautiful journey, if you allow it to be! I’m in it, but it’s messy and it’s hard, especially when the anger resurfaces… I promise you just when you think you’re over the anger, there might still be some anger left in you that you didn’t understand until it shows back up in situations where you’re triggered. Admitting you have anger is important so that you can feel it and release it and not hold onto it. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Holding onto the anger only separates you and isolates you from the rest of the world because I’ve been there. It’s easy to stay mad at people that hurt you, and it’s easy to hold a grudge against them and to call out all their sins and to say they’re a terrible person, but it doesn’t make you feel better.

5/12/25

healing happens in circles, not lines. you will return to old places with new eyes.

[4theitgirls]

🧸 may 12 - may 18

moodboard for the week:

workouts for the week:

monday: 30 minute mobility

tuesday: 10 minute cardio + 20 minute pilates

wednesday: 40 minute yoga

thursday: 15 minute hiit + 25 minute stretch

friday: 20 minute cardio/full body + 20 minute mobility

saturday: 30 minute stretch

sunday: 15 minute cardio + 15 minute stretch

books for the week:

lady killers: deadly women throughout history by tori telfer

project hail mary by andy weir

as nature made him: the boy who was raised as a girl by john colapinto

[fromheavensent]

Inner peace ˚ . ✧ I will stop worrying about everything, about things I have no control over. I will forgive myself and stop thinking about past events. I am becoming more at-ease with myself because I deserve it, I deserve peace.

[bexiescorner]

[haifaaziz98]

I am consumed by fear that my mother might die in Gaza while I am far away, unable to help her. The thought of her suffering alone in such a dangerous place breaks my heart. I feel so helpless and terrified, knowing I can't be there to protect her or bring her to safety. Every day is filled with anxiety and dread, as I hope and pray for her survival amidst the chaos.

[selfhealingmoments]

[annasanthology]

[girlwithrituals]

GLOW UP GUIDE FOR 2025⠀

READ: On average, it takes more than 2 months before a new behavior becomes automatic — 66 days to be exact. And considering that 2025 is precisely these many days away, why not start with our glow up plan already?

Physical Glow Up-

BODY

— 5-10K steps a day.

— 7-8 hours of sleep.

— workout everyday for 1 hr atleast- yoga/stretching/pilates/cardio/lifting weights. a workout may take one hour, but your mood will be boosted for the next 12 hours.

— posture training.

— sunlight exposure after waking up for at least 10 minutes.

NUTRITION

— 2-3 liters of water every day.

— limit your caffeine intake.

— avoid sugars as much as you can.

— high protein diet, pre and probiotics.

— more fruits and veggies (+ green smoothies if you like).

— no junk/processed food/trans fat.

— no eating after 8 pm.

SKINCARE

— be clear on your skin type (oily, dry, combination, sensitive).

— once you're clear, use these accordingly- cleanser, toner, targeted serum, eye cream, moisturizer, sunscreen (≥50 spf).

— keep your bedding clean as well.

— no picking of skin on your lips, cuticle etc.

— gua sha to help improve blood circulation and lessen toxins.

— cold therapy may take three to five minutes of being uncomfortable, but your energy levels will be boosted for the rest of the day.

— remove makeup before you go to bed.

BODY CARE

— shower every day.

— exfoliate 2x a week.

— use body lotion (shea butter/aloe vera gel/coconut oil).

HAIR CARE

— wash hair 2-3x a week

— oil your scalp 2x a week, at least 3 hours before shampoo.

— hair mask 1x per week.

— never brush wet hair.

— use silk pillow case.

HYGIENE

— brush your teeth 2x a day, clean tongue and the roof of the mouth daily.

— floss daily.

— cut your nails 1x a week, never remove the cuticles.

— glycolic acid under arm for odor and discoloration.

— never use soap on your coochie.

Mental Glow Up-

MINDSET

— set clear goals- define and breakdown your aspirations.

— start your mornings with positive affirmations.

— surround yourself with uplifting content and people.

— be shamelessly selfish to your career and mental health, remove anyone or anything that doesn't align with your priorities and wellbeing.

— boost your brain health by these 4 neuroscience tools:

difficult first: start your day with the most difficult task (cortisol and dopamine are high in the body meaning that your body/mind is primed to work).

rest your eyes: introduce a micro-pause after learning by resting/closing your eyes - will help retain information better.

tomorrow's worries: write tomorrow's to-do list before bed as it is proven to be effective in helping you fall asleep.

find time to play: engage in low-stake play. can be anything you find fun but where the outcome doesn't matter (induces neuroplasticity + reduces stress).

MIND

— meditation might take as low as ten minutes, but your focus will be improved for the rest of the day.

— no social media after waking up and at least an hour before bed.

— keep aside 1 hr of time to read daily! reading a new book may take five hours, but you will keep the knowledge forever.

— journaling, gratitude.

— digital detox once a week or for 12 hours.

— limit unnecessary screentime, unfollow or cut off people you don't want to see.

JOURNALING

— choose a regular time each day to journal, making it a part of your routine.

— find a quiet, comfortable place free from distractions. light a candle if you want.

— allow your thoughts to flow without censoring or editing.

— write about your feelings and emotions to understand them better. write about things you are thankful for to boost your mood. write about your short-term and long-term goals. identify what triggers certain emotions or reactions

— set a timer for 5-10 minutes and write continuously during that time.

— reflect on both positive experiences and challenges.

— make lists, journal your thoughts on these questions.

— journal at night to clear your mind before bedtime, because emotions and thoughts lose their power once we acknowledge them.

— a gratitude practice may take five minutes, but your mindset will be shifted for the rest of the day.

AFFIRMATIONS

— customise affirmations to your needs.

Personal Life-

WEEKLY TASKS

— initiate small changes: begin with small, manageable tasks such as making your bed or cleaning your room every sunday.

— celebrate your success: reward yourself when you achieve your goals or have a consistently productive week. consider treats like buying flowers for yourself or watching your favorite show.

DAILY WORK

— set achievable goals: establish realistic goals for the day, week, or month ahead.

— track your progress.

— organise your work space, declutter your shelves etc.

— embrace the power of lists: keep a list of tasks to be done and their deadlines. this way, you start each day with a clear plan. to make it visually appealing and motivating, consider using productivity apps like evernote, habit tracker, or notion.

PRODUCTIVITY TIPS

— wake up early.

— plan ahead everything, do scheduling. you can use:

google calendar / notion / tasks .

— if the task takes less than 2 minutes to finish, do it immediately.

— countdown rule, if you are procrastinating, count 1-2-3-4-5 and jump.

— start slow, don't rush and try to do everything at one time.

— follow a proper routine, use app locks based on screentime.

— pomodoro technique, 25 min work, and 5 min break.

— schedule longer break times as well e.g 30 min nap.

[ahmad-gaza]

🇵🇸 Very important ‼️

Please don’t skip 🙏

I’m Ayoosh-gaza brother 🧑

Ayoosh vatted by gaza-evacuation-funds click here

Please listen me💔

Hello, I am Ahmed, 20 years old, studying computer engineering. I had big dreams and ambitions, but because of the war, I lost everything 💔😭

I was exposed to many dangers 💔

Last January, the occupation ordered us to evacuate our house, and I am the sole breadwinner for my family. We were displaced on foot for a long distance under the showers of bullets and rain. From that day until today, I have been homeless, without shelter, and without work. Our house was demolished, I lost my car, and my university was bombed by the occupation, so I want to complete my studies and education and build my dreams again 🥹😭

Please donate and help me

https://gofund.me/8d28e7d4

[4theitgirls]

youtube videos to help you with your glow up (pt. 2)

how i’m using notion to achieve all my goals in 2025 by anna lenkovska

7am morning routine by annika

intense life reset by annika

how to make 2025 your best year yet by breanna quan

10 healthy habits i am implementing in 2025 by clarisseintheclouds

how to actually lose weight for good by dear peachie

how to look expensive without being rich by dear peachie

complete hair care guide for healthy hair and scalp by dear peachie

healing era: how i’m practicing self love and raising my vibe by fernanda ramirez

6am self care morning routine by fernanda ramirez

how to be more attractive and confident by fernanda ramirez

5am that girl morning routine by gigimw

how to plan your exam study schedule by ginny

daily rituals to cope with anxiety by hitomi mochizuki

always look good (without going broke) by jasmine le

feminine hygiene girl talk by jasmine le

20+ ways to actually glow up by jasmine le

how to be feminine even if you aren’t naturally girly by julianna lee

low maintenance ways to look polished by julianna lee

[hopeformusab]

**"I am Musab. The war has returned—stronger and more brutal than before. I was injured in the bombing, underwent surgery, and need another… but there is no time to heal. We were forced to flee—my three daughters and I—leaving everything behind. No home, no shelter, no safety. My daughter Lama was also injured, her little hand now trembling from the trauma. We carry fear instead of belongings, searching for a place to hide from this nightmare. The pain in my body is nothing compared to my fear for them. I don’t know where to go or how to protect them. All I have left is my voice… will anyone hear me?

Please, share my story, donate, and help us in any way you can."**

My campaign vatted by @gazavetters in line(#520)

#free palestine

[fromheavensent]

Reminder: your anxiety is lying to you, you are so gorgeous, loved and everything is going to be okay !

[blisswithin]

[wael-86]

🛑 stop

Help My Family Escape the War and Start a New Life

I am searching for an opportunity to live safely, far from the relentless war. Our three children, Rahaf, Leen, and Aseel, are in desperate need of healthcare and a stable, secure environment.

The life we live now is filled with fear and suffering. We cannot provide our children with the necessary care or the safety they deserve. We aspire to move to a country where we can start a new life, where our children can enjoy education and healthcare, and grow up in an environment full of hope and optimism.

We understand that life is challenging for everyone, but we are asking for your help during this difficult time. Your donations will help us cover travel expenses, and provide housing and necessary healthcare for our children upon arrival.

GoFundMe Campaign Link ♥️ :

Every contribution, no matter how small, brings us closer to achieving this dream. We are grateful to everyone who supports us or shares our campaign.

Help us save our children's lives 🙏

✅️Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is ( #372 )✅️

best wishes:

Wael

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[selfhealingmoments]