#manifesting the confidence

[succulentsiren]

Things women should never feel ashamed of:

• Orgasms

• Receiving money

• Receiving compliments

• Pretty privilege

• Being smart

• Dressing up

• Menstrual cycles

• Emotions and being sensitive

• Expressing our sexuality

• Resting and relaxation

• Asserting our sexual needs

• Maintaining our standards

• Saying No

• Wanting or having children

• Choosing to be childfree

• Our body count

• Our nude body

• Wearing makeup or not wearing makeup

• Having boundaries and protecting ourselves

• Our spiritual practices

• Using witchcraft

• Being ambitious

• Going to college

• Being a housewife or stay at home mom

• Loving who and what we love

[adviceformefromme]

Stop ignoring your bodily signals that’s somethings not right. You get a bad stomach and need to run to the bathroom after the morning smoothie? It doesn’t agree with you. You get terrible anxiety and feel you need to perform on dates with the pretentious guy? He’s not your person. You feel shaky after the iced latte? It’s not for you sweetie. Your body is constantly sending signals, letting you know what feels good, and what doesn’t. Foods that don’t agree with you, people that cause you panic. Take inventory on what's causing dis-harmony in your life, and start editing ruthlessly. This is an act of self love. No more ignoring signs from your inner guidance system. Start heeding the call from your body. It’s speaking to you always. 

[malusokay]

Thewizardliz sayings to remember and repeat

It's about you; you are the main character of your life.

Sometimes you need to get uncomfortable to get comfortable.

People who get angry at you for putting yourself first are the same people who benefit from you putting yourself last

You are allowed to say, "Nah, that's not good enough."

Stop wasting energy that you can use to become your best version.

Becoming selfish is the best thing I ever did.

I can make myself fulfilled, and whatever he gives me is just an extra.

Start now with what you have.

Enough crying, enough being sad, enough saying "tomorrow".

Sometimes you lose people that are not meant to be with the highest version of yourself, and you have to let those people go.

You vs. you, honey.

Some people just don't deserve you. Not mentally, physically or spiritually.

I don't argue with people because most of them are stupid.

People don't really care what happened to you or what you went through. They really care about what you can do for them.

Only here to impress myself.

When a Queen does not like her situation, she plans her exit.

Manifesting is a lifestyle.

The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself.

I started prioritising my own needs and wants; whatever I want goes first. That's it; I do not care anymore.

I could honestly go on forever since Liz has so many great things to say, so let me know in the comments if I should make a part 2! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

[onehundredwishesss]

What every girl needs to know:

• Get that degree: no one can take education away from you.

• Get that bag: Whether it'a a full time job or a side hustle, always make some money.

• Get princess treatment: a man should make your life easier, not harder.

• Gain more knowledge: Read more books, get to know yourself, it will only make you smarter

• Gain more skills: cooking skills, makeup skills, communication skills.... always learn something new

[honeytonedhottie]

celebrity energy⋆.ೃ࿔*:･💅🏽

so i got an ask about this a while ago and i wanted to make a post about it but i went on hiatus 😭 so im making the post now. thank you to the anonie who asked the question that inspired this post and i hope you see this cuz it answers ur ask...💬🎀

THE TRIPLE C'S ;

while making the notes for celebrity energy (the big C) and i was able to umbrella it to three main points. those points being confidence, cuntiness, and charisma.

confidence ; celebrities need to have undeniable confidence in themselves and their abilities. they're famous for a reason and they know that. work on ur self concept and watch ur confidence sky rocket.

cuntiness ; to be cunty is to be feminine and aware of urself. be cunty in the things that u do and the way that u handle urself. to be cunty is to find the perfect balance of inner strength and delicateness. cunt = refined.

charisma ; authenticity is the heart of charisma. be authentic and dont be afraid to take up space.

ALL ABOUT IMAGE ;

to have celebrity you need an image to put forward. this is where the power of social media comes in. your social media is like your brand. in this day and age social media is such a powerful tool not only for networking but also for getting u into places that u wanna get to.

in order to do that though u need to learn how to formulate ur own distinct image and advertise it expertly on social media.

PERSONAL BRAND AND REPUTATION ;

to further touch on those points ur social media IS your brand. this section kind of ties in with the next but im trying to distinguish between the two. so ur personal brand is what u do. so lets say ur rly SUPER smart and ur known for getting A's on like everything.

that is ur personal brand and that comes with a reputation that u may or may not feel obligated to uphold. but its important to uphold a reputation of some sort. with that being said be careful of what u post on ur social media because DIGITAL FOOTPRINT IS REAL. and when people look at ur social media they're seeing a representation of what ur putting out to the world so always be mindful.

WHATS UR SIGNATURE ;

you need something about yourself that’s gonna set you apart. the way that you walk the way that you dress the way that you do ur makeup etc. decide what kind of energy u wanna serve, and SERVE IT. i choose to serve princess energy and i could write a whole separate post on that but find someone who serves that same energy so that u can learn from them.

remember, dont introduce urself as a vibe that u cannot maintain

but back to what we were talking about what is your SIGNATURE. what makes u or people think "yea thats so (insert ur name)" is the way that u talk or the way that u carry yourself. make sure to refine urself and be ur own distinct individual.

and dont be afraid to play around with signatures, ur allowed to have a few or one singular one, dont limit urself and keep trying until u can create the perfect one for you…💬🎀

while on the topic of signatures i wanna touch on STAR QUALITY. learn how to market urself not only as a person but as ur own brand. star quality is the perfect blend of (talent + training + confidence)

POLISH YOURSELF ;

refinement refinement refinement. u need to be studying yourself and you need to be able to see urself from other point of views. seeing urself from other point of views can be so refreshing and useful and it rly helps when ur trying to polish urself.

take impeccable care for urself and constantly show urself that u love urself. polish the way that u talk and the way that u carry yourself so that u can be exuding so much you-energy. its basically taking ur signature and the energy that u exude -> and refining it.

you have to create the energy before fame comes. if u wanna have celebrity energy u have to start getting comfortable with putting urself out there which leads me to my next point...💬🎀

KILL CRINGE ;

when people call u cringe thats like them exposing their fear of being seen and analyzed by the world. they're upset because ur putting urself out there and they're insecure, but thats for them to fix within themselves. so dont take it personally when someone calls u cringe.

furthermore ur fear of being cringe is holding u back because ur always overthinking everything and u won't let urself do anything even if it'll help you because ur worried it might be cringe or ur worried what other people think so nip that in the bud and let urself live! u might have haters but dont let urself be ur own hater.

SOME MORE SOURCES ;

THE IMPORTANCE OF BRANDING

MIRROR WORK + AFFIRMATIONS

[kofantasy]

REAL

[agirlwithglam]

I AM WORTHY OF ALL GOOD THINGS

Self worth affirmations!

I am worthy of all good things

I am worthy of the purest love

I am worthy of people with pure and good intentions

I am worthy of people who love me fully

I am worthy of all my dreams and goals

I am worthy of everything I work for

I am worthy for love and respect

I am worthy of admiration

I am worthy of forgiveness

I am worthy of peace

I am worthy of kindness

I am worthy of generosity

I am worthy of new opportunities and experiences

I am worthy of people who love me the way I love them

I am worthy of my dream body

I am worthy of expensive things

[wandoffire]

[bitchy-craft]

PICK A CARD: Why you are worthy of love

Hello and welcome to this new post of mine! In here I will give you a reading on why you are worthy of love. I hope you guys enjoy and find this useful!

Masterpost > Paid Readings > Subliminal Channel

~pick a card~

Pile 1:

You are worthy of love because you are you. You are unique, and there is no one else on the planet like you. You are special, and that is what makes you worthy.

You have good traits as well as bad traits, you make good decisions just like how you make bad decisions. You make mistakes as well as amazing discoveries. You cry and you laugh. You are human, and that is the only thing you need in order to be worthy of love. There is nothing else you need to do or be; you are you, and that is all that you have to be.

Pile 2:

You are beautiful, and I am not only speaking about your looks. I am speaking about you as a person; you are intricate, detailed. You are special and no one is able to compare to you. You are your own person, with your own interests, your own pet peeves as well as your own annoyances. You love just like how you hate, you feel sad just like how you feel happiness. You feel so much at all times of the day.

You feeling things, or your lack of feelings prove that you exist. Your existence is all that you need in order to be worthy of love. You exist, and that is all you need. You are beautiful inside and out, and that is all that you need.

Pile 3:

Remove those insane expectations of your shoulders; you are worthy of love whether you already believe so or not. There is nothing you need to achieve in order to be worthy of love, and you are the living existence of that. Whether you believe you have achieved things or not, you are worthy. Whether you believe you are a bad person, you are worthy.

You need to be proud of yourself, truly. You have accomplished so much already, and you will continue to do so. Whether you have done your best or not have done so at all; you need to be proud of yourself, you need to realise how amazing you are. You are worthy of love, truly, and there should be nothing and no one that makes you think otherwise. Look in the mirror and speak to yourself very clearly; tell yourself you love yourself and that you are amazing. Repeat yourself and do so until you convinced yourself.

[strawberryicedcookies]

HOW I MANIFESTED PRINCESS TREATMENT INSTANTLY 👸🏿🎀

recently i started manifesting respect and love, and basically the divine feminine mindset. When it comes to manifesting princess treatment, it all starts with MINDSET. I demanded respect, i only accepted respect, i affirmed femininity, i affirmed love.I made myself feel super good and, like a chain reaction, everyone treated me good. I had multiple people buy me drinks, i had people doing my work, i received compliments, i received an abundance of kindness, i was highly respected, i had people sending me messages just saying random positive shit. (i even posted some of the results i got JUST from switching my mindset). When you demand princess treatment, it has no choice but to flow to you. When you treat yourself as if you’re already a princess, everyone has NO choice but to treat you like a QUEEN.

If you’re sulking and feeling sorry and miserable, everyone will treat you as such. (IM NOT SAYING TO NOT FEEL YOUR EMOTIONS, THAT WILL DO YOU MORE HARM THAN GOOD.) Moral of the story, treat yourself good and affirm the love you deserve. Demand respect, don’t accept disrespect. Don’t accept anything thats even slightly below your standards. YOU ARE A QUEEN, only accept queen shit.

(p.s. im js rambling whats been on my mind for a minute, its like 11pm so if this doesn’t make any type of sense, you know why lmao)

[manifestmagnets]

𝗙𝗔𝗞𝗘 𝗶𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗠𝗔𝗞𝗘 𝗶𝘁 !! ✨🧿

Don't know where to start with manifesting ? start by being delusional. ˚ · .˚ ༘🦋⋆｡˚

Manifesting is so easy but some people like to complicate it so much ,i don't even know why. You just need to be delusional and have belief in the UNIVERSE you have to embody what you want. Act as if its already yours or it's true you ;you want a $10k , YOU HAVE $10K !! no doubt on that. And this way the universe has no option but to give you what want because you believe its going to happen for you. 🎀🎀🎀🎀

╰┈➤You want your dream job , you're already working your dream job.

╰┈➤You want your dream car , you're already driving your dream car.

╰┈➤You want your SP to like you back , you guys are already dating.

╰┈➤You want a glow up , what do you mean.. you're the most attractive person in your friend group.

''fake it till you make it ,'' but you've got to believe its already yours. Your mind and body and soul needs to believe its already yours and there is no there option.

this methods will also help you if you want to be confident BE DELUSIONAL !!

''delulu is the solulu'' - but it actually is!!

[universalitgirlsblog2]

🎀💖Y/N IS THAT YOU ? 🎀💖

-Kill your old self & create a better version who is free from negativity

🎀The old me who relied on others for validation is gone forever . The old me with self-destructive habits and negative thoughts will never be seen again

💖I love myself way too much , I'm immune to self-hatred or self-doubts . Being insecure is impossible for me

🎀I am not a victim of circumstances or 3D . I control them , not the other way around

💖 I prioritize myself . I put myself always .

🎀Im independent and don't depend on anyone or anything .

💖The old me is gone now ..and I will never go back to the toxic and unhealthy cycle of negativity

🎀I don't dwell on negativity

💖I don't spiral coz the circumstances or the 3d anymore

.🎀Jennie kim , wonyoung , Alexa , Zendaya , Jia , IU , nayeon ?????? Who are they ??? I'm the only IT girl .

💖I am always chosen no matter what . I'm loved and precious .

🎀I have healed from my past experiences .

💖I am capable of everything and anything

🎀I am a girls girl , I'm a boss in a man's world ( credits to destiny Rogers >3 )

💖I am so hot , I'm so cool

🎀I am a complete new person with a perfect self concept. I know what I want , I'm the girl / guy who has it all .

💖My subconscious has been reprogrammed

🎀I only entertain favorable thoughts

💖I am consistent with persisting.

🎀I don't get easily influenced by others and don't allow anything or anyone to get to me

💖I am not miserable or jealous, why would I be ?? I'm living my dream life and have everything that I want or need .

🎀No one can block my manifestations

💖My mental health is perfect just like me >33

🎀I don't settle for less .

💖I am the best of the best , I'm Y /N

🎀 Being the best at what I do , that's sounding on brand ( credits to typagirl )

💖I am completely renewed as a person . I let go of my old self

[adviceformefromme]

Cheat codes #1

Remove the idea that your value comes from your looks, your achievements, the clothes you wear, the car you drive, the Van Clef necklace. If you can remove all of those external factors, and look in the mirror and realise that you stripped down to your core is worthy, you without the mask is enough, from this place you will have a confidence that allows you to thrive in this world that leeches on women's insecurities. 

Root yourself in spirituality. Because ultimately life is better with God than without. Knowing there is a love, protection and care that comes from this relationship and acknowledging and strengthening this bond is how you remain grounded in a world that can so easily have you lost in the darkness, when there is so much light waiting for you to feel. God is waiting for you. 

Daily exercise. Your body is your temple, treat it as such. The movement / stretches / cardio and weights in light moderation allow a layer of protection to your health and wellbeing. You feel energised, your energy is moving through your veins. It’s an act of self love and care that doesn’t require a fancy gym membership. Just commitment of 30 mins per day. 

Prioritise your gut health. Your gut is your second brain, it’s communicating with you always. Start listening, start noticing what foods it needs, what foods affect your energy levels, if carbs are making you sleepy, re-assess, if the coffee is giving you the jitters, reassess. Stop ignoring what your gut is telling you, notice your bowel movements. Keep getting the shits? Take fucking note. Read books, get tested, learn about your gut microbiome. Having excellent gut health is how you thrive in this life, unfortunately the western diet creates quite the opposite and so its on you to rise above the status quo.

[wisteriawhiskey]

Always a winner, never a loser.

♡ I'm always a winner

♡ I win in everything that's possible to win

♡ I achieve everything I put my mind to

♡ I achieve every goal I set

♡ Winning is as easy as breathing

♡ Winning is a regular thing for me

♡ Achieving great things is nothing out of the ordinary for me

♡ I get what I want, whenever I want

♡ I am able to prepare thoroughly and properly to win

♡ I am incapable of losing

♡ I know to celebrate my achievements, big or small

♡ Frequent success drives me to work even harder everyday

♡ Success is my motivation to get up in every day

♡ I am a winner through and through

♡ I am confident in myself and my abilities

[onehundredwishesss]

Things I'm not afraid to admit as a woman:

• I always get my own bag first (education, career, money)

• I only date a man who wants to provide for me and to protect me

• There's no 50/50 for me because women have been doing most of the work all the time (working full time, doing the household and giving birth to a child)

• I deserve to have a soft life and to be taken care of

[honeytonedhottie]

lessons in protecting ur peace⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🛍️

after reading the book pyscho cybernetics something that rly stuck out to me was that literally EVERYTHING IS UR MIND. and duh, thats what i've primarily based my blog on…💬🎀

but i wanted to talk about the idea that everything that u experience is because of ur mind and that goes into how you interpret things as well. so lets talk about how u can protect ur peace through ur reactions.

CAN WE NOT? ;

first, lets remember that everyone experiences the world differently and reacts to things differently from each other. based on subconscious belief, self concept, upbringing, trauma etc. therefore everyones perception of things is shaped by their own unique brain.

for example lets imagine that theres a rly pretty girl and shes rly sweet. the people around her have an idea in their mind that pretty girls are stuck up and mean, so they look for reasons to categorize her and prove themselves right. they look for ways to make her fit into the narrative that they've fed themselves…💬🎀

i give this example to show that peoples judgement of u is based more on them and their subconscious beliefs more then it is about you. period. someone else's problem with u isnt ur business. when u persist in a belief whether its consciously or subconsciously your reality will prove you right. your literally manifesting a belief that doesnt serve you so can we not?

PROTECT UR PEACE BY NOT TAKING THINGS PERSONALLY ;

taking things personally means, misinterpreting someone's thoughts/actions and believing them to be targeted toward us personally…💬🎀

this is particularly dangerous to our peace because when u take things personally you'll start to adopt what other people tell u about urself as fact. if someone calls u dumb then ur gonna believe them and think that something is wrong with you when that isnt the case.

if u know that ur actually rly intelligent and someone tells u that ur dumb, you won't care because you know that ur smart and you know that they're just projecting their beliefs unto you. you make the facts about you. not others.

YOU DECIDE THE FACTS ;

for a fun journal exercise i want you to write down the facts about yourself (u can also write down new traits that you'd like to manifest and make fact about urself) so open ur diary to a fresh page and write an about-me page. fill the page with positive facts about urself and who you are. these are the facts and if someone tells u otherwise, fact check em.

BE GENEROUS ;

people spew some crazy shit when they dont like you or are envious of you and the best way to respond is to first, not respond at all because they dont even deserve to get a reaction out of you. but if ur lowkey petty, add onto their accusations to make them look dumber.

like if they try to clock you about something and accuse u of something, make the accusation WORSE. ofc with nuance but have some fun with it sometimes.

people can't shame you for made up accusations if u dont care and if ur living in ur truth and therefore their agenda to try and bring u down to make themselves feel better is ultimately squashed. dont waste ur energy arguing with people and just keep that peace protected.