#pro non binary

[mediocrephd]

We <3 the pro trans capybara :)

i updated it due to current happenings

edit: FUCKING REBLOG IT. LIKES DONT MEAN SHIT!

[transmasc-lesboy-ramblings]

Shoutout to cis women who are lesboys. Shoutout to transmascs who are lesboys. Shoutout to transfems who are lesboys. Shoutout to transneutral people who are lesboys. Shoutout to trans men who are lesboys. Shoutout to trans women who are lesboys. Shoutout to non-binary people who are lesboys. Shoutout to multigender people who are lesboys. Shoutout to intersex people who are lesboys. Shoutout to femmes who are lesboys. Shoutout to butches who are lesboys. Shoutout to mspec lesbians who are lesboys. Shoutout to gnc people who are lesboys. Shoutout to lesboys.

[jasmine670]

Looking for someone who truly understands how to love a tran its your favorite #transgirl

[fixing-bad-posts]

This should go without saying but this blog is welcoming towards trans/non-binary mspec lesbians. It is fucking Simple as that.

[thedawnofcrime]

[bigninasworld]

Facetime, Dropbox, Sexting, Custom offers all available send me a dm if you're interested

[anqueerism]

Good morning mspecs.

Good morning bigays, gaybis, lesgays and gaylesbians! Hetgays, gayhets, queerhets and hetqueers! I love you

Good morning to every single mspec or “contradictory” label-using person. I hope you’re all having a good morning or whatever time it is for you.

I hope nobody bothers you with stupid questions or stupider discourse. I hope you feel as loved and accepted as you deserve

This account will always be a safe space for any kind of queer, even the “contradictory” kinds.

This goes also to lesboys, trans male/man/masc lesbians. To multigender queers who feel excluded from their own communities. I love you all, and I hope you keep your heads up. You deserve to have pride and take up space. You deserve to be here too.

Take care today <3

[olympiabeanie5]

[katogarriguesart]

Mad King.

[selves-indulgent-coining]

rotated an idea in our heads

[pt: rotated an idea in our heads pt]

So...we're lesboys and non-binary lesbians. We're not even remotely women. We use the "queer attraction to women" definition of lesbian, but we don't like the common assumption that all lesbians are women/sapphic. Also, insert weird plural gender shenanigans here.

We also made a turian/veldian/vincian version!!

Faun Lesbian

[alt text: a flag with 7 equal horizontal stripes; the colors are, top to bottom: dark-ish red-orange, light-ish orange, light yellow, white, light-ish cyan-blue, blue-magenta, plum end alt text]

Faun Lesbian: A lesbian who is not a woman, girl, or anything similar. There is no wrong way to use this term.

This flag was made by adding yellow and blue to the orange/pink lesbian flag.

Fae Vincian, Fae Veldian, Fae Turian

[alt text: a flag with 7 equal horizontal stripes; the colors are, top to bottom: dark-ish green-cyan, yellow-green, yellow, white, light-ish magenta-pink, purple, dark blue end alt text]

Fae Vincian, Fae Veldian, or Fae Turian: A vincian/veldian/turian who is not a man, boy, or anything similar. There is no wrong way to use this term.

This flag was made by adding yellow and pink to the teal/blue vincian flag.

feel free to make alt flags of either of these :3

(hate comments will be deleted)

[deathtokillian]

Controversial take, but you should care about other people.”It doesn’t affect me” cool, but it affects other people and you should care about that!!

[transmasc-lesboy-ramblings]

I can't believe just how much of the lesboy discourse is just going back to these two simple question : ''Do multigender people exist?'' and ''Can non-binary people identify as men and/or women?''.

And obviously the answer to both of these questions is yes,but somehow It is still not understood in the majority of the online queer community,especially on tiktok.

They still believe multigender identities (and other enby identities) are just abinary genderless identities who can only be classified as ''feminine enough to be seen as a girl non-binary'' and ''masculine enough to be seen as boy non-binary''. They truly do not believe that we can identify as binary genders,they believe it even less if said binary gender is being a man. Their view of gender is not based on how multigender and non-binary identities in general actually work,it is based on an incorrect view of them only made to justify seeing non-binary people as ''woman-lite''.

But why would they try to actually listen to non-binary and multigender people for a change? It would mean that they will have to reconize that the non-men/men binary is complete horseshit because it would be incorrect to treat ''man'' and ''woman'' as identities who can ever intersect..and even worse...they will have to admit that men can in fact identify as lesbians !! The horror !!! /s

[heavens-roses]

Being complex doesn't make you any less valid. Let me say that again, being complex in your identity does. not. make. you. any. less. valid. You are allowed to go by multiple names, as many pronouns as you like, collect as many genders, sexualities, terms, and identities as you want. You are allowed to be complex just as much as you are allowed to be simplistic.

I'm a transneutral, transfemflux, intersex, non binary, xenogender, gay, grey romantic, ace spec person. I use multiple names outside of being plural, my pronouns are it/its, they/them, kit/kits, shi/hir or she/her. I use to be a transmasculine, non binary, pansexual, who used all pronouns. My labels changed because I changed, grew as a person I learned more about myself. That does not make me any less valid then someone who's used the same label for their whole queer journey.

I use to flatten my (barely existent) chest, I'd hide my long hair, and attempt to deepen my voice. Then I began to feel less comfortable with masculinity yet at that same time being intersex caused me to be misgendered often. I'd be asked if I was a man dressing up as a girl, if i was a cross dresser by strangers. I'd be laughed at for wearing feminine clothes. But I didn't let that stop me from exploring my identity.

I let myself find new labels, it was scary trying to figure out who I was. I felt wrong being complex, I thought that I should be as "normal" as I could be. To many I'll still be a "cis straight girl" who's attention seeking but that's not who I am. I'm a complex indavidual whos selfhood can't be put into a nice little box with a red ribbon wrapped around it. I won't ever fit into western, perisex, cis, allorose, hetrosexual norms, or in many queer boxes either.

I can't say I don't struggle to feel valid or seen because that would be a lie. I won't lie about how hard it can be to find a place in a world that sees even the simplist differences as "wrong" or "unnatural". What I can tell you is it's never worth giving up on your own selfhood because it doesn't fit in. You are allowed to use 20 names, use 80 different sets of pronouns, collect 100 different genders, use 40 sexuality labels and modifiers, find 70 terms/identities you feel fit you.

Be as complex as you want, embrace the fact you are who you are and not someone else. You don't need to hate yourself not fitting into labels that might change their meaning in another 50 years. Just as you are allowed to be complex you are allowed to also keep things simple. Only you are allowed to dictate your own selfhood. As long as you are not actively harming yourself, those around you, or claiming cultural/medical identities that don't fit you who fucking cares. Be a cistrans, bigaybian, catdoggender, who uses kit/kits, pup/pups, and he/her pronouns! Be a bearbutch, who doesn't fit into the trans cis binary and considers themselves queer in every direction. Be a cisgirl transmasc woman who's Achillean and dates butchboys.

Remember that our complex siblings are just as worthy of calling themselves queer as our siblings who prefer to use simplistic terms for themselves. We are a diverse group of people and we should love each other for that. You are loved, you are seen, you deserve to be celebrated at pride and enjoy it just as much as the next queer individual.

[gifsbysimplysonia]

[imoga-pride]

Just because some identity is contradictory to you doesn't mean it can't make sense. Actually, nuanced identities are often contradictory when you know the basics of it, ignoring all details and complexity a multilabeled or combined identity can be.

If you think cisgender nonbinary people can't have a definition bc then it would describe someone who is not cis, then you're in the wrong bc just cause something describes you it doesn't mean it applies or include you bc the identity requires self-identification as well.

Same goes for bi lesbian, demisexual, or lesboy, you 'are technically lesboy' (/demi/lunian) but refuses to label yourself as such? Cool then you're not/don't experience that identity 🤯 and that's okay. But to imply anyone with such identity are not that thing bc it can't exist, then you're being a reality denier, bc ppl with such identities exist regardless if you recognize them or not. For instance, just bc someone uses ungrammatical conlangs doesn't mean that language can't exist. In fact, it's written already and it's on you if you're gonna cry or ignore.

Also transhet people are allowed to be nonbinary; binaryn't transfems/transmascs are allowed to be hetero due to their alignment, presentation, AGAB, or any other typical reason.

[umbrecrunch]

LUPUS NON-BINARY

a non-binary person with Systemic Lupus Erythematosus / SLE / Lupus!