#queerplatonic gender

[catgendermikus]

❣︎ aroweirdo / queerplatonicweirdo ❣︎

[ aro - weirdo ] / [ queer - platonic - weirdo ]

genders under the genderweirdo system coined by @donniesbf-terms !! 4 when ur gender is connected 2 being aromantic / queerplatonic && a weirdo, an aromantic weirdo / queerplatonic weirdo !! may b connected 2 being seen as / feeling “weird” due 2 being aromantic / in a queerplatonic relationship, being weird && being aromantic / queerplatonic, embracing ur weirdness as connected 2 ur aromanticism / queerplatonic relationship(s), etc !!

ఌ — wisdom’s daughter did not find this gender in previous coining posts, but please let sol know if it already exists !! — ఌ

[PT: aroweirdo / queerplatonicweirdo [aro-weirdo] / [queer-platonic-weirdo]: genders under the genderweirdo system coined by @ donniesbf-terms !! for when your gender is connected to being aromantic/queerplatonic and a weirdo, an aromantic weirdo/queerplatonic weirdo!! may be connected to being seen as/feeling “weird” due to being aromantic/in a queerplatonic relationship, being weird and being aromantic/queerplatonic. embracing your weirdness as connected to your aromanticism/queerplatonic relationship(s), etc!! wisdom’s daughter did not find this gender in previous coining posts, but please let sol know if it already exists!! END PT]

[velvet-games]

[oodlesofowls]

[redactedx3]

Love me a man who’s fucked up in the gender. Absolutely phenomenal, 19/10.

[qpr-cupid]

You Are My Squishies Pt. 1

A Two Shot Based on one of my Imagines:

((part two here))

You don't know what to make of him at first and the feeling was mutual but when you get comfortable enough to be in each other's presence he pop's the question: 'Why haven't you confessed to Wade yet?' After your initial shock you take the time to explain your identity and feelings and he just listens: no arguments, no opinions, just an open ear, as you talked about this vulnerable part of yourself. After you're done, there was a beat of silence before he whispered a respectful "Okay". It was then you felt a shift in your feelings. You still had a squash on Wade, yes, but the focus had changed... ...to Logan. After you had a small crisis about being polyaffectionate, you begin noticing things about him: his jawline, his muscles, his eyes, his reflex of pushing people away, how much he drank... Your nurturing nature kicked in. You'd make him cups of coffee in the morning, give him some extra bacon with his breakfast, put a blanket on him when he passed out on the couch. You even hid his alcohol from him (that was the only thing that ticked him off, but you knew he'd never hurt you on purpose, just glare heatedly and grouch more than usual). The treatment was foreign to Logan; years of self loathing and hatred convinced him that he was a worthless, murderous piece of shit that didn't deserve basic human decency let alone kindness. Admittedly, major progress was made on that front with his adventure with Wade but you were just so...bright and genuine. He found himself thinking about what you had told him, about aromanticism, about how you viewed relationships, about qprs. Most of his life, the only labels he had just been romance, friendship, and sex, but when he recalled the majority of friendships and even lovers, he found he related to what you had described. The type of relationship he wanted to have with you. Stiffening, he shook his head. Did he really just think that? Did he have a... what the fuck was it?... a squash on you? The twinge of revelation sent him into a panic (he couldn't lose you, not like them) and he found himself nursing a bottle of whiskey, quaking silently in the dark, eyes blown wide, ears ringing, and memories flashing by. He didn't know how long he was like this or when you got there but he remembers when you stood in front of him, movements slow and careful as not to startle, voice slightly muffled by the ringing. Gently, you remove the bottle from his grasp, before rubbing circles into the back of his hand and when he's finally able to hear you, you're soothing him. You ask if you can hug him and he nods, the feeling of every nerve scraped raw and slight drunken stupor overpowering the reflex to isolate himself. And so you do. It steals his breath away. Your scent, the warmth of your body seeping into him, the pressure of your hug ...sooths him in a way he can only describe as visceral. He didn't even know of his tears before you dabbed away at them, mouth still lulling him from his episode. Taking a shuddering breath, he looked down at you, your eyes so full of concern and care he nearly breaks down again. You both stay in each other's arms like that for a while before you pull him to his feet, wiping away at the last of his tears. "Do you want to talk about it?" You asked, voice barely above a whisper.

He paused, weighing his options. He could do the typical Logan thing and push you away, isolate... Or he could risk becoming attached and let you in.

Feeling something on his cheek, he looked down to see you cupping the side of his face, gaze so full of empathy and patience that the decision practically made itself.

He told you everything, his trauma, his regrets, how he lost his family, his rampage, all of it. You listened on, nodding when you needed to, squeezing his hand comfortingly when he got particularly emotional, and when he was done you wrapped him into an embrace and whispered "I'm so happy you're here."

From then on your dynamic changed rapidly: sure he was still a gruff grump, but you both initiated more casual contact, you joked and smiled with him more, and he drank less.

It was impossible for anyone not to notice...and oh boy did a certain merc with a mouth notice.

(( ...continued in part two ))

[bloggingboutburgers]

hi :) i see you have cool stuf about being aspec. I think you are knowledgable on qpr. I have a question about qprs.... can they be a guy and a girl? Or is it not queer enough to be considered a queerplatonic relationship? Idk, I am in situations and wanna know if it's valid

Thank you.❤️

Bruh I absolutely don't see why not.

Here's my chance to remind that queer doesn't have to equal same-sex by the way. Different-gender couples including at least one bisexual or pansexual individual are queer. Different-gender couples including at least one trans or nonbinary individual are queer. Different-gender couples including at least one asexual or aromantic individual are queer. Doesn't matter if they're "passing". The reality is that their experience is outside of the cishet/amato/allo norms, they've have to live through that, and that makes them queer. It's what they ARE, not what they SHOW.

And if due to what you are, a queerplatonic relationship is what would suit you best, who the hell would we be to gatekeep them based on gender? Idk, I think the most important thing about being in a QPR is understanding what it entails and being respectful of the nature of it, and respectful of your partner.

...Also QPRs are pretty freaking amazing so the more people who are interested in them get to experience them, the better imo

[7-ferrets-in-a-coat]

Per No one's request, more miraculous :3

Based on this post

Tagging @isabugs and @yamjamiam bcs u guys might enjoy :3

[mosspatchsys]

happy pride heres me projecting myself onto siffrin

[tangyyrine]

I want to talk about how I view Crowley and Aziraphale as aroace (completely romance/sex repulsed) but I think tumblr might shoot me and drag me into an alley

[seaglassdinosaur]

I know we collectively agree that Hiccup isn’t romantically inclined, and his getting married and having kids didn’t make sense in the epilogue, but consider: Hiccup getting married for political reasons.

It’s a marriage of alliance, which is recognized both by him and his partner, and they enter it without expectations of romantic involvement. Since they’re now married, they live in the same castle, spend time together, and Hiccup finds he really likes his spouse. They’re funny, get along with his friends, and has the same interests and values. They both probably speak multiple languages. She understands why Hiccup is so dedicated to making the Wilderwest better, and holds similar views. She’s a good politician (her job after all, was to be an ambassador). Hiccup likes spending time with them, and the feeling is mutual. They’re not in love, they have their own lives, but they’re dedicated to each other and eventually decide to raise children. They teach their kids how to train hawks and hunt with dragons, riding, history, the Languages, and all the necessary skills of their world. They’re not in love and they’re happy together.

[velvet-games]

gender is hard

[aro-culture-is]

Alloaro culture is wanting a similar word to qpr for a committed partner you have sex with sometimes that is not romantic: qpr isn’t right because it has the word platonic in it.

hi! in a very gentle way, i am vibrating to let you know this is incorrect :)

from the POV of someone who's been around the aro community since ~2013-2014 on tumblr, the only time i've seen folks start to say that qprs couldn't include sexual components has been when

they've learned an incorrect definition of QPRs, or

in one particularly notable case, the individual proposing it turned out to be quite sex negative and upset at the mere thought that people could think that qprs could include sexual activity. this individual suggested an alternative term for individuals desiring sex in QPRs in a rather explicitly alloarophobic measure. when gently called out from what had seemed to be a genuine attempt at coining a new term, the above came to light. smaller cases of this pop up every once in a while, but this one got some notoriety.

queerplatonic was always meant to mean "queering the idea of a platonic relationship", "queering the idea of what a relationship means", and by explicit definition, has always been broadly and radically inclusive. any relationship, so long as the partners involved agree it is a queerplatonic one, is queerplatonic. no exceptions. this can mean it involves romance, sex, traditionally platonic elements, and anything and everything those involved desire out of it.

tldr; the word platonic is in queerplatonic to say it is counter to the idea of a restricted "platonic" relationship.

[d1mndnthr0ugh]

honestly headcanoning Jessie and James Rocket as genderqueer aromantic pan fraysexuals in a queerplatonic relationship because it's easier than thinking about how lost I must be to be getting gender envy from Jessie's goofy ahh hair

[qprconcepts]

qpp polycule where it's a group of guys and their One Girl(all bigender and rotating who is the girl, she transitioned and they still love her, she's the cis protecting her trans qpps, yada yada it's just a qpp polycule I know that much,)

<3

[plagued-roses]

Cover of "Ready For This" from Hazbin Hotel but it's by a deranged autistic teenager! And yes, I did all the voices, every. single. one. :,) I'm no professional singer, never had a lesson in my life but I had fun with this! (And yes this is a repost :3 this video just has better audio and video quality to do myself justice so it doesn't sound like I'm WHISPERING 😞)

Anyways this is all Alastor's fault because he made me have a gender crisis and made me wanna sound like a man 😡😡😡 /hj (good thing I have a naturally deep singing voice LMAOO- though I'm definitely not gonna be Charlie's singing voice anytime soon 💀)

[mogai-headcanons]

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Cappuccino Cookie from Cookie Run: Ovenbreak is an autistic GNC ambiamorous T4T demisensual queerplatonic aroacespec gay transfeminine guy cafeaesic trans man genderqueer turigirl who uses he/him and she/her pronouns, and he's married to Almond and dating Langue de Chat!

Langue de Chat Cookie is an autistic T4T demisensual queerplatonic acespec bi straight transfeminine guy nonbinary guy who uses he/him pronouns!

Almond Cookie is an autistic ambiamorous T4T demisensual queerplatonic demiromantic gay trans man who uses he/him pronouns!

Walnut Cookie is an autistic mspec questioning trans girl who uses she/her pronouns and is experimenting with they/them!

Roguefort Cookie is an autistic GNC butch T4T demisensual queerplatonic objectum aroace gaybian transfemmasc ravencoric nonbinary genderqueer cookie who uses they/them pronouns!

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