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catgendermikus · 9 months

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❣︎ aroweirdo / queerplatonicweirdo ❣︎

[ aro - weirdo ] / [ queer - platonic - weirdo ]

genders under the genderweirdo system coined by @donniesbf-terms !! 4 when ur gender is connected 2 being aromantic / queerplatonic && a weirdo, an aromantic weirdo / queerplatonic weirdo !! may b connected 2 being seen as / feeling “weird” due 2 being aromantic / in a queerplatonic relationship, being weird && being aromantic / queerplatonic, embracing ur weirdness as connected 2 ur aromanticism / queerplatonic relationship(s), etc !!

ఌ — wisdom’s daughter did not find this gender in previous coining posts, but please let sol know if it already exists !! — ఌ

[PT: aroweirdo / queerplatonicweirdo [aro-weirdo] / [queer-platonic-weirdo]: genders under the genderweirdo system coined by @ donniesbf-terms !! for when your gender is connected to being aromantic/queerplatonic and a weirdo, an aromantic weirdo/queerplatonic weirdo!! may be connected to being seen as/feeling “weird” due to being aromantic/in a queerplatonic relationship, being weird and being aromantic/queerplatonic. embracing your weirdness as connected to your aromanticism/queerplatonic relationship(s), etc!! wisdom’s daughter did not find this gender in previous coining posts, but please let sol know if it already exists!! END PT]

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estragonsgayass · 3 months

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#don't take that too seriously #i know some genders amd sexualities aren't really talk much about either #but it doesn't change that ace and aro are really too often forgotten #and when they are talk about its really either black or white when both ace and aro are spectrum and are really complexe #and i rarely see them well represented during pride month #pride month #asexual #aromantic #sorry for my bad English dogs it's not my first language o7

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dusk-the-cat · 2 months

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People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea that you can only have one partner

People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea of the gender binary.

People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea of the sex binary.

People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea that everyone feels some sort of attraction.

People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea that you have to be a certain age to be trans.

You can’t do shit like this and still support queer people. You either support all of us, or you support none of us.

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bul-ba-saurs · 2 months

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#This applies to gender too btw #aro postings #lgbt #trans #gay #bi #lesbian

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aroacesafeplaceforall · 4 months

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Spotted at my local market

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breaking-news-the-aroace-has · 6 months

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heartless-aro · 2 years

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For many girls and women, aromanticism is inherently a form of gender nonconformity, just as asexuality is for boys and men.

Romance novels are seen as being “feminine,” and romcoms are often derogatorily called “chick-flics,” for example. Women are expected to want flowers and chocolates and care about things like anniversaries and marriage to a greater extent than is expected of men. Even many of the things women are expected to do to conform to female gender roles are centered around looking attractive: having long well-styled hair, wearing makeup, shaving, wearing skirts and dresses, etc.

So shoutout to aro women and girls who want to be feminine but feel like their aromanticism makes them feel like an outsider to womanhood. Shout out to women and girls who feel left out of “girl talk” because they don’t have a crush or significant other to tell their friends about, or because they don’t think any of their classmates/coworkers/etc. are “cute.” Shout out to aro girls who are sick of being asked “who you’re dressing up for” any time they want to wear a bit of eyeliner and a pretty skirt. Your femininity is not made any less real or valid by your aromanticism.

And shoutout to gender nonconforming aro women and girls. Shoutout to aro women and girls whose aromanticism makes them feel disconnected from femininity. Shoutout to aro women and girls with short hair, and deep voices, and hair on their upper lips, chins, chests, stomachs, backs, armpits, arms, and legs that they choose not to shave off. Shoutout to aro women and girls who identify as both female and non-binary, who are both male and female, who use pronouns other than she/her. Shoutout to intersex aro girls and women. Y’all’re cool as hell and the aro community wouldn’t nearly as beautiful and vibrant without you.

#aro #aromantic #feminism #gender noncomformity

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acexualien · 5 months

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sad-leon · 4 months

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(good future) Finding Home Pride edition <3

Trans Leo pride is something I see a lot, but personally, FH Leo wouldn't celebrate his gender. He grew up around Gali, who went through a lot of gender struggles, especially in his younger years, and with the brothers being so accepting, it's just another part of his life

But his lack of romantic attraction? That's something that stands out to him. He sees the brothers with their own attractions and crushes and such and realizes he stands out. He's different. But that's okay because he's still him and he's still valid

anyways~ it's pride month, which means i get to be even more annoying about aro pride ^-^

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#sad•leonart #rottmnt #rise of the tmnt #rottmnt leo #rise leo #rottmnt leonardo #rise leonardo #finding home au #aromantic #aromantism #aro pride #featuring future fh designs to give me more motivation to sketch the next update #might do something for agender pride later #gender is hard a system and we think its a fitting label for our system rather than just wren #cuz 'bana isnt a demiboy #but its a good flag so we usually just use that #although fh probably settles more on a demiboy label #he doesn think much of gender #but he prefers when people view him as something mroe masculine #<- a little bit of big mama trauma in that decision #as a treat <3 #shoutout to csp for currupting this whole file when my laptop crashed #and recovering it yeeted a lot of progress #but hey #its done now :D #and i do like how it turned out #even if a few scars are missing but im tired and dont have the energy to fix it rn #tag wall oops #if you read this far down.. hello :D

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redysetdare · 1 year

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A character looks straight into the camera and says "I'm not interested in romance" and people will still say "No, it's not confirmed they're aromantic!!!" "They could change their mind!!!" "it's a challenge for them to overcome!!!" "They'll have character development that makes them fall in love"

It's like they are given the most blatant answer to a character romantic orientation and they actively ignore it. all the while all it takes is subtext for people to speak as if it is fact for a character to be any other sexuality.

#text #yes I'm calling out the hypocrisy within queer readings of a text and how often people dont see aromanticism as queer #and thus they will hear a blatant omission that a character is aromantic and still say it is not enough #mean while a character saying 'im not interested in the opposite gender' is rightfully taken as the character being queer #the queer community hates aspec characters because they don't match their perfect idea of sex sex relationships as being peak queerness #aphobia #aro #aromantic #aspec #aroace #im sorry but n oit isn't a difference of opinion if you blatantly ignore a character outright saying 'im not into this'#like y'all complain abt ppl turning gay ppl straight but will defend ppl erasing aro identities all the time #fandoms will throw a fit if you ship gay characters in straight relationships but ppl shit aro characters and we r told to shut up #im so fucking tired of this bs #I will keep complaining and keep calling this shit out #until it is drilled into ur skulls that you are being APHOBIC becaue WHAT? You want to REALLLLLY SHIP a character?#Because you'll die if you dont???#fuck man just say you hate aspec ppl and move on #it's easier than dealing with your 'im not aphobic ur being unfair i supposed aspec people really' bs

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rancid-men-stimboards · 6 months

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A stimboard

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catgendermikus · 1 year

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❣︎ aroactor ❣︎

[ ay - roh - ack - tor ]

a gender under the genderactor system (coined by @moondrizzled ) !!

a gender related 2 being aromantic && an actor !! ur aromanticism && acting r intertwined, or being aromantic && being an actor each have a deep connection 2 ur gender !!

ఌ -- sweet clementine did not find this gender in previous coining posts, but please let fai know if it already exists !! -- ఌ

[PT: aroactor [ay-roh-ack-tor]: a gender under the genderactor system (coined by @/moondrizzled)! a gender related to being aromantic and an actor! your aromanticism and acting are intertwined, or being aromantic and being an actor each have a deep connection to your gender! sweet clementine did not find this gender in previous coining posts, but please let fai know if it already exists! END PT]

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chrishangry · 6 months

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Let me just say as someone who hides a lot of myself in public how nice it is to see aroace and gender flux folks like me being unapologetically proud of expressing their nonbinary attraction and identity. I’m proud of you and I want to be like you when I grow up….even though I’m 35

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elliottnotyet · 7 months

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More crows for Marchirp

[Image ID: 8 crows on power line each hold a different pride flag on a partly cloudy day. End ID]

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npdghost · 5 months

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Cluster-B attraction flags

(transabled DNI)

FPattraction - BPD exclusive

An aro/ace (depending on how it is used) label where an individual only or mostly feels (romantic/sexual/etc) attraction towards their favorite person.

ATPattraction - HPD exclusive

An aro/ace (depending on how it is used) label where an individual only or mostly feels (romantic/sexual/etc) attraction towards their attention person.

EPattraction / CHPattraction - NPD exclusive

An aro/ace (depending on how it is used) label where an individual only or mostly feels (romantic/sexual/etc) attraction towards their equal person and/or chosen person.

EXPattraction / PICattraction - ASPD exclusive

An aro/ace (depending on how it is used) label where an individual only or mostly feels (romantic/sexual/etc) attraction towards their exception person and/or partner in crime.