#heterosexual and cisgender

[horatiocomehome]

Heterosexual pride flag colorpicked from Siffrin from In Stars and Time!

Siffrin is canonically cisgender and heterosexual!

(submitted by anonymous user)

[warper-in-training]

Shout out to men who play Obey me!

Shout out to trans men who play Obey me!

Shout out to mascs who play Obey me!

Shout out to cisgender men who play Obey me!

Shout out to intersex men who play Obey me!

Shout out to men who play Obey me and selfship with the male characters!!

Shout out to men who play Obey me and selfship with the female characters!!

Shout out to men who play Obey me who don't ship with anyone at all!!

Shout out to all of us. we've seen some shit.

Terfs/radfems/"mEn DnI" gtfo.

[coldflash-corner]

There's something about both Barry Allen and Leonard Snart that gives me the vibe of "I never intended to be in the closet. I didn't even think I was being subtle. But somehow everyone here is completely convinced I DON'T like men"

That's it. That's the vibe.

Barry especially.

He's fully assumed everyone already knows he's queer and likes men because of His Everything, and hasn't considered anyone might Not know out of his friend group

Learning that they dont was... a surprise

Snart on the other hand, figured out this was happening quite quickly. Not exactly WHY it was happening, but definitely aware that is Was. So takes advantage of this by being fairly obviously into men but never actually addressing it, and letting the closet get built around him. Much safer for him to exist in his line of work if everyone already believes about him what they want to believe

Very much a "I didn't Try to make this happen but damn if I won't take advantage of it"

[david-goldrock]

Since this is tumblr, I just wanna check

Please reblog to enlarge the sample size

[our-alterous-experience]

i love you alterouses who are still in the egg. i love you alterous teens just figuring out yourself. i love you adults who are starting the process or have been in the process for years. i love you people who are confused as to what this feeling is and are trying to figure it out. i love people who have an alterous crush or squish or equivalent preferred descriptor and are falling for someone. I love you people who are so happy they aren’t dealing with alterous feelings rn bc they are happy where they are. I love you people with alterous feelings who can never tell the person /people you feel it for. I love you people who are figuring out how to tell the person/people they feel alterous care for. I love you people who are in a happily committed alterous relationship. I love you alterous monogamous people. i love you alterous polyamorous people. I love you aro alterous people. I love you allo alterous people. I love you relationship anarchy alterous people. I love you trans alterous people. I love you cis alterous people. i love you het alterous people. I love you the relationship between alterous feelings and adding that as the subtext to your sexuality (i.e. bialterous, homoalterous, etc). I love you allos happily breaking the cycle and destroying amatonormativity in their lives. I love you people of color who are coming to terms with how their culture was influenced or impacted by amatonormativity and patriarchy and trying to deconstruct their old thought processes. I love you people who have always known something was wrong but now you have the language. I love you people who are deconstructing what they’ve been taught a relationship is “supposed” to be. I love you allos who happily come and enjoy an aro spectrum term. I love you aro’s digging deep in our community finding new terms to understand their feelings by. I love you people who are in love, and I love you people who are so grateful for their life with their alterous partner. I love you people who relate alterous more towards platonic feelings. I love you people who have alterous sexual feelings. I love you people who relate alterous more towards romantic feelings. I love you people who don’t relate their alterous feelings to any platonic or romantic feeling. I love you people who experience this in a flux or fluid state. I love people who experience it in a specific grey area. I love you people who experience alterous attraction, who have had the confusion haunt and hurt other relationships before they found alterous, who have found so much honest joy in realizing these are their feelings. I love you the ups. I love you the downs. I love you the joys. I love you the happiness. I love you the sadness. I love you the loss. I love you for giving me something special. Something that’s sometimes temporary but beautiful. Sometimes dangerous but giving me the opportunity to stand up for myself and express myself. I love you feeling like icarus far too close to the sun. And the blush that comes when you don’t die immediately. First you hold the suns hand. I love the wide vast beautiful experiences so many people have, and all the kind souls that come together here during these trying times.

[netscapenavigator-official]

“Whose pussy wet???” “MINE.” “Right now???” “ALL THE TIME!”

Getting On The Same Wavelength (Angela Giarratana & Shayne Topp, 2024)

[otaku553]

Recent thoughts on my social relationships

[bizarreaizen]

"at least allocishet people don't make their sexuality/gender their entire personality" they do though.. what about the gender norms? the gender expectations for cis men and cis women like for example, the fact that men are expected to pay for dates or women are expected to be housewives? the mountain amount of gendered products they are like the pink razors for women or the "make up for men"? or the whole thing about alpha males and some cis women making their bad experiences being a woman a way to shame trans women? the people still pushing out traditional and ignorant beliefs about men and women? or the parents treating their sons and daughters differently just because of their assigned gender at birth like the dads saying "lock up your daughters" and the boymoms having an emotional incest bond and obsessive nature to their sons? /srs

[granddetectivedoggo]

I’m so done begging a hetero-cis-neurotypical person to pretty please give me a surgery I need.

Anyone else ever wonder why there are so many cis ppl telling us what we can and can’t get? Like how would they know whether we r trans or not? It’s kinda creepy as well that so many of em aren’t trans or queer in any way but still get the power to decide over our bodies and the power to say “nope ur not trans enough”.

My “gender psychologist” asked me to bring a piece of art that represents my trans experience to our next session. I’m gonna draw her standing in front of a gate telling trans people whether or not they can pass the gate. And she will be wearing a board saying “not trans, not queer, not neurodivergent”

Let’s see what she says to that.

[maybeophe]

i think perhaps you are stupid to think JKR gets to decide that cishet people who dont feel sexual attraction are LGBT like please shut up

Omg my first hate ask 🥹 ... I'm gonna frame this and hang it above my fireplace.

Anyway, terrible take to have about asexual people, please try to find happiness in your own life instead of dragging down other people for being themselves! 🫶

[mogai-headcanons]

icon id: 8 icons in 4 pairs. in each pair, both icons have the listed flags in order in the background and the left icon has an image of the listed character with a white outline and a black shadow. below that is a single image edited from a distinguished/functional/disaster gay/bi/lesbian meme using 'victorious' characters, which showed rex the puppet in a lone box labeled 'straight' and 'homophobic'; the listed character has been placed in that box. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

Anya from Mouthwashing is a straight asexual woman with PTSD who uses she/her and medi/medical pronouns, is a nurse, is like a sister to Daisuke, and feels as though Curly is her dad!

Daisuke is a heterosexual transmasculine guy with BPD, general anxiety, and social anxiety who uses he/him pronouns, and he's like a son to Curly!

Captain Curly is a straight cisgender man and ally who uses he/him pronouns, and everyone sees him as a father figure!

Swansea is a gay cisgender man who uses he/him and they/them, but honestly doesn't care about pronouns, and he treats everyone, including Curly, like his kids even if he's a little mean to them!

Jimmy is a homophobic straight man.

dni link

[movedtonewblogcheckpinnedpost]

Need someone to explain to me like I'm a five, how not loving Nick Blaine makes me, an actual trans person, a TERF. I want to know what was the thought process for such a statement.

[cripplingparanoia]

Apparently everyone is valid unless it's a aro het cis male but y'all aren't ever NEAR close to ready for that conversation so..

[weedfoxesandfuckery]

I truly believe a cis person put a curse on me to give me a tummy ache today, WHICH ONE OF YOU FOXERS (fuckers but fox themed) DID IT!!! Reveal yourselves and I'll show mercy on you.

[dhddmods]

Queer cishets/allocishets exist.

Been seeing a lot of queer people be exclusionary lately towards cishet queers, not just here on Tumblr, but on other spaces (like Reddit) and we are getting tired of it.

Cishet isn't the opposite of queer. Neither is allocishet. The opposite of queer is conformant.

Being cisgender, allosexual, alloromantic, and heterosexual does not negate other queer identities/experiences that may be in place. Here are some examples of cishet/allocishet queers:

A person that is cishet asexual/greysexual/ace-spec.

A person that is cishet aromantic/greyromantic/aro-spec.

A person that is allocishet and on the auto spectrum.

A person is allocishet and intersex (PLEASE reblog the linked guide, by the way, it is SO IMPORTANT to share information about intersex health and bodies.)

A person that is allocishet and altersex.

A person that is allocishet and non-binary. Being cisgender & transgender are not mutually exclusive. If a person was unassigned at birth/UAB or assigned X at birth/AXAB, and later discover they are non-binary, they might consider themselves cisgender non-binary.

A person that is allocishet and gender non-conforming or pronoun non-conforming.

An allocishet person in a queer relationship with a person on the non-binary spectrum.

A person can be allocishet and in an alterous relationship, queerplatonic relationship, or wavership.

A allocishet person that personally feels as though their ambiamory/polyamory is queer.

A person that is allocishet cupiohex (meaning they engage in a sexual or romantic manner with the same/similar genders, despite experiencing no gay attraction.)

An allocishet sysmate within a queer shared-body (ie; a transgender body, an altersex body, an intersex body, etc).

When a person says "allocishets/cishets aren't welcome at pride", they end up excluding a large portion of our community. They often give off the same vibes as people who exclude queer people that are in straight-passing relationships (such as a bisexual in a "hetero" relationship, a woman dating a non-binary person that appears very masculinely, etc.)

Many people are well-meaning when they say these things, unaware of the implications and harm it can have on other queer people. But many people genuinely are exclusionists, and stand by it, despite all the examples we listed. And you never know which one you are going to get if you engage with someone who heavily monitors what people are/aren't welcome at pride.

[moldonacorpse]

In honor of The Final Eggcrack 🏳️‍⚧️

Flag explanation ⤵️

in order from left to right, top to bottom

1

Cisgender

Heterosexual

2

Agender

Transmasc

Nonbinary

Aroace

3

Aroaceagender

Alterhuman

Otherhearted

Fictionhearted

Genderflux

Transneutral

Pupgender

Vampirehearted

Xenogender

(cancegender and neogedner were supposed to be here too btw)

4

Alterhuman

Transmasc

Luneboy

Aroaceagender

(I still go by all my alterhuman and xeno identities there's just too many of them to fit in one picture😞)