#panaroace

[urproblematicfav-arsonk]

pride moth

[manwhore4till]

Intro post/BYF

Fucked up bxy/xenoboy. Grayrose/angled panaroace for human beings, xeno-allo for ghosts and gods. (Spectrophilia and caetaphilia)

Submissive masochist. I want to be raped, killed, eaten (order is up to you).

Hybristophile with a hyperfixation on Jeffrey Dahmer. Obsessively in love with Till Lindemann (obviously).

Don't really have a DNI, just no minors, bigots, antis, or creeps (but welcoming of all freaks).

Accepting of most RQ identities, but I will block anyone who is pro abuse (such as xenosatanists).

[theweebsystem]

Is aroacefluid a thing? Like you're constantly shifting through different aspec labels? Or possibly a term for identifying as every/multiple aspec labels at once? Sort of like pangender/pansexual. Panaroace?

There's genderfluid, abrosexual (basically sexuality-fluid), so surely there's a complimentary term for aspecs? (This is related to our plurality btw)

[hewasaseidrbxy]

Introduction 😺

Nonbinary transmasc cat mom who hoards xenogender labels

Intersex

Angled panaroace

Alterhuman (otherkin, phytanthrope, archetrope, constellic)

Druid, seidrmann, Theistic Satanist

Devotee to Lucifer and Loki

Spirit spouse and medium

Jotun blooded

Adult (no NSFW content here, however)

Neurodivergent, physically disabled, chronically ill

Unapologetically fat

Mostly reblogs on here. Go here for my original content.

[catinasink]

heading to eep will finish later

@powercoreact what i have so far for the solar system ocs :3

also sigh if theyre bad ill fix em up tomorrrow im just eepy tonight

sun

it/its agender aroace

it is so tired. it wants a break. its so hard to stay bright. 

so much pressure is placed upon it by its parents

it just wants to run away some day. somewhere where no one knows who it is.

mercury

she/it transfem demigirl panaroace

she’s young, the youngest. tries its best to hide within sun’s shadow.

she was shoved back into the closet by her parents

it wants to follow sun wherever it goes. she doesn’t want to be alone.

venus

she/they/fae/it demigirl pan lithoromantic ace

fae tries and tries and tries. she doesnt want to be discarded. it is trying and trying and trying, yet still can’t be enough. they will never think theyre be enough. fae is somewhat jealous of saturn, and hates that she is. 

it wants to be enough for her parents

she just wants to be enough. enough for faerself, enough for its parents, enough for their friends, enough for her peers.

earth

she/he/it unlabeled aro reciprosexual

it gives too many second chances. she doesnt want to be left, so he stays and gives all it can. easily taken advantage of.

it feels like her issues don’t count, because his parents didnt do anything that it feels like qualifies as traumatic. still, they fucked her up

he wants someone to actually want her for once, for who it is, and not what she can give. he wants someone to care.

mars

he/it/they transmasc demiboy romance and sex repulsed aroace

it’s trying. they want to be nicer. he’s trying its best to be nicer, to be better, to be right for their peers. he doesn’t want to lose them. it doesnt want it to be their fault again. 

sometimes he worries itll end up like their parents - switching emotions at a pin’s drop, going from up to down and back up fast

he wants to smooth all their sharp edges. make themselves perfect for others. it doesnt want to lose people because of himself again.

jupiter

any agender pan aroflux

xe doesn’t want to be in the lead. he and sun both. after sun, they were appointed to help too so sun wouldn’t burn out. she wants a break. it doesnt want to lead. fae is tired. sure, ze can take control well, but he doesn’t want to. they’re so all so tired.

her parents avoid stating things out loud, but its clear they don’t like him much

ze wants to leave. he wants to not have to take charge, she wants to be able to follow for once. they want to be lead, but theres no good leaders, and sun has too much on its plate. it wants a break, to relax, to have a change for once.

saturn

they/it/xe non-binary pan aroaceflux

it is too much. they want to be less, xe doesnt want to overshine others. it wants everyone to get the amount of attention they want. xe hates the spotlight they were forced into. it and venus both. 

it wants to be less so their parents wont care

xe wants a break from the spotlight. it wants to leave, to become unknown, unremarkable, unnoticable. they’re so tired.

uranus

he/it transmasc uranic unlabeled aspec

he hates it. the gossip, the noise, how people talk about it. the rude comments, laughter. how it might seem like behind his back, but it can hear it all. he hates it. why did they choose it?

it wants to love his parents, but sometimes he doesn’t, usually when they yell

it wants to be someone else. someone with a different name, someone who doesn’t get made fun of, someone who’s perfect, someone who’s better.

neptune

she/it transfem neptunic unlabeled acespec

she wants to feel included more. it feels like shes always at the edge; her and pluto both. it wants to be closer to sun. she wants to be seen by the others, maybe just a little bit more.

she wants to love its parents too

it wants to be brighter. she wants to be more. it wants to be closer to the others. she wants for both herself and pluto to be there. 

pluto

it/its agender aroace

it feels lonely. it wants more. it wants to be closer to the others. neptune is the closest to it. it wants to be closer, it wants more so badly.

it always feels so small around its parents

it wants to be closer, to be brighter, to be better, to be more. it yearns for that.

haumea

she/it transfem lesbian aro

she thinks its going too fast. she wants to slow down, but it cannot. she wants to rethink its actions, it doesnt like how fast everything is going. she knows its her fault anyway.

it was forced to grow up too fast

it wants to go slower, to take her time, to take a break. she just wants time.

ceres

[thistuesdaynight]

My Headcanons of the Marauders' Sexualities and Neurodivergence bc why not:

James Potter: pansexual, autism and adhd

Sirius Black: asexual, demi homoromantic, adhd and bpd (uses he/they pronouns)

Remus Lupin: aromantic, pansexual (but if you asked him he'd just shrug and say he didn't give a fuck about labels), cptsd

Peter Pettigrew: likes women, agender, autism (uses any pronouns)

Lily Evans: bisexual, neurotypical (we love a neurotypical ally)

Marlene McKinnon: lesbian, adhd and cptsd (uses she/they pronouns)

Mary McDonald: bisexual, depression

Dorcas Meadowes: demisexual lesbian, social anxiety

Pandora Lovegood: panaroace, autism and adhd

Regulus Black: panromantic demisexual, autism and cptsd

[glitchylaptop]

Redoing my smg4 gender and sexuality headcanons

Smg4: transmasc, bisexual, greysexual (he/him)

Smg3: genderqueer, demiromantic, demisexual, rosboy, and pansexual (he/it)

Meggy: bigender, lesbian (he/she)

Tari: demigirl, bisexual (she/they)

Melony: aromantic after axol died but abroromantic and asexual (she/her)

Maryo: boygirl, panaroace (he/she/they/it)

Luigi: bisexual (he/him)

Bob: intersex but doesn’t really know, he doesn’t give a shit about sexuality or pronouns, just use whatever on him

Axol: non binary, lesbian (they/them)

Desti: trans girl, asexual, lesbian (she/it)

Saiko: bisexual (she/her)

Cool

[hero-of-the-depths]

🐕 PINNED 🏍️

🧡Steele🧡

♐ 27

♊ hi/hirs, he/they

♓ panaroace, polyam, mech.

gonna stop telling people so much ab myself lol

[genderstarbucks]

Hello, how are you?, Could you do these following combinations?

Omnisexual+Aroace

Pansexual+Aroace

Pan/Omni + Aroace!!

Might be kinda hard to tell which is which so the first one is the panaroace one and the second one is the omniaroace one

[aroaceconfessions]

even tho i'm aroace, i DO experience aesthetic/alterous attraction, and ive long since noticed that i get it for all genders. is the right terminology for that pan-oriented aroace? or is it something else?

[alexanderreynard]

Women...beautiful!!

Men...handsome!!

Intersex people...incredible!!

Trans people...Terrific!!

Enbies...gorgeous!!

Agender peeps...Awesome!!!

People are gorgeous and I love looking at them.

[goofygargoyle]

btw just for fun i made this pan aro ace flag, with the old aro colors

it’s way too many colors

[palatteflags]

Aro/Ace/Pan pride flag combo! I made up my own aro/ace flag, on top, before putting the pan flag in! :D For an anon~ Hope this is good!

Want one? Message me or send an ask~

[sig-got-a-gun]

btw, lady is pan, thin and mono are acebiro, six is aroace, rk is token straight, rcg is lesaro, and pretender is panaroace

Gender is a lie and nobody has one except lady

Everyone else is just, okay cool, use those pronouns ig

[the-val-in-valhalla]

I just want to get this off my chest in regards to the salty ass bullshit I witnessed tonight:

Please stop trying to "cancel" cishet people in fandom communities. Please stop.

Yes, it is problematic that some cishet people fetishize queer relationships, and yes it is valid to be frustrated and upset by that. But there is a difference between writing stories about characters who are queer and fetishizing characters who are queer. Please learn that difference.

Just because a story has sex in it and the characters are queer does NOT make it fetishistic. Now please follow along with me here, because this is key: IF YOU REGARD STORIES ABOUT QUEER CHARACTERS WHO HAPPEN TO HAVE SEX TO BE AUTOMATICALLY FETISHISTIC JUST BECAUSE A CISHET PERSON WROTE THEM, YOU ARE PUTTING THOSE QUEER CHARACTERS IN THE POSITION OF SEXUAL "SUBJECT" AS THOUGH IT IS NORMAL TO VIEW THEM THROUGH A LENS OF HETERONORMATIVE OBJECTIVITY. Let's please not other ourselves.

Let me repeat: please understand the difference between a person writing stories about queer characters in which eroticism is involved and a person writing the stories to make queer characters THE OBJECT OF HETEROSEXUAL FETISHISM.

Imagine how ridiculous it would be if a straight person told me I shouldn't write about straight characters. Because here's the thing: the reverse argument DOES apply to me. Some straight person could say to me "hey, you can't write an authentic male or female character because you believe that gender is inherently performative and socially constructed. You don't have the perspective of either a male or female person so you can't write about them." They could also say "hey, you can't write a love story because you're aromantic and you have no frame of reference for it." They could tell me "oh, you don't know what its like to experience sexual attraction the way an allosexual person does." They could say "well you're panlithrosexual- if you do experience sexual attraction, it happens regardless of your partner's gender. So you wouldn't know what its like to look at an opposite-gendered person and be unable to connect with them sexually."

All of these statements would be valid. But you know what? No one says that shit to me. And here's why. Now hang in here with me, because this is important: OUR ARTISTIC PRODUCTION, FANFICTION OR NOT, IS INEVITABILITY INFLUENCED BY OUR LIVED EXPERIENCES. And part of those lived experiences include interpersonal interactions with people of gender identities contrary to our own.

I may not experience romantic attraction, but that does NOT mean I can't write it authentically. Because I grew up with two allo friends who fell in love with each other folding fortune-tellers on our grammar school playground and have been in love ever since. I watched them survive together through hell after hell after hell, and I may not EXPERIENCE the same kind of love, but that doesn't mean I don't know what it is.

I may never look at another person and say to myself "she has just the right amount of muscle, or the sun catches in his hair just perfectly," but I know what the air feels like in the space between two people who want each other, because I have lived with two people who want each other.

When I write characters, I don't write agender, panaroace-spectrum carbon copies of myself. My lived experiences GO INTO those characters. I may have never cried over a breakup, but I've sobbed until I choked over losing a best friend. I won't even notice a person's gender when I meet them, but I'll notice the old Chuck hightops they hand-painted sunflowers onto, or the location of all their freckles, or whether they pick at their fingernails when they're nervous.

So when I write fanfic, some of my characters may look and act like me. But most of them won't. Most of my characters will fall in love the way my friends did, hard and stubbornly, bickering over each other one minute and sneaking off into the kitchen to make out the next. Most of my characters will have at least one gender. Most of my characters will want to fuck each other, and sometimes it will be because they're in love. I often write stories about characters whose identities are completely separate from my own.

I have said all that to say this: no one knows, unless we go and ask, what those individual characters mean to their authors, and no one knows where the inspiration for those characters came from.

Saying a cishet person can't understand what it is like to be queer is accurate. Saying a cishet person can't write a story about characters that are queer is not accurate. If queer people are part of a cishet author's lived experiences, then queer people belong in that cishet author's stories. Period.

You want more representation by queer authors? So does everyone else. Write some fic and throw it out there. When you find queer authors, go hype up their fics. Share that shit all over Tumblr. Start a fucking queer book club. Get shit done.

But gatekeeping cishet authors is not acceptable- your lived experiences don't take precedence over anyone else's. And as far as fetishism goes, when you see that shit, call it the fuck out. But understand that eroticism in stories with queer characters does not automatically imply fetishism. Learn the difference before jumping on people. Seriously.

And if you are a cishet person who has poured your heart into crafting a world for your characters because you love them, understand that what you have created is not fetishism, and you belong in this community. Please do not be discouraged by queer people who let their frustration with this heteronotmative world get misdirected at people who are genuinely living alongside them.

[pansapphicpositivity]

Pans who use the split attraction model are so valid. Not just panaces, panaros, and panaroaces, tho they are also valid. BiPans, pan lesbians, pan gays etc. I love all of you.