#complex identity

[thescaryhyperfem]

Complex Queer Identity terms (SCP edition)

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Note: sorry if this doesnt make sense it really makes sense in my head

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Safe-Complex

A term for people who consider their queer identity to not be complex and easy to understand.

Euclid-Complex

A term for people who consider their queer identity to be a bit more complex, takes a bit of learning to understand it.

Keter-Complex

A term for people who consider their queer identity to be a lot more complex than others, takes a lot more time to understand it.

Joke-Complex

A term for people who consider their queer identity to be more of a joke than a serious thing, this may be complex or not.

Neutralized-Complex

A term for people who consider their identity where complexity is non existent. People who use this term may also not care about their queer identity at all (example: gender apathetic folk)

Decommissioned-Complex

A term for people who, due to a traumatic event, changed the complexity of their queer identity.

Thaumiel-Complex

A person who uses x-complex terms and helps other people discover their identity

[sapphic-boy]

lately ive discovered i much prefer calling my identity a "complex identity" or "complex labels" rather than a "contradictory identity" or "contradictory labels" because to me, being bi and a lesbian doesn't contradict each-other because im abro and i switch between the two, im not both at the same time but i identify with both labels, and me being a boy and a lesbian doesnt contradict each other either because im still also a girl, so yeah, no worries if you like "contradictory identity" but i just wanted to put it out there that there are other terms for this experience, in case "complex identity" resonates with some people more

[so-damn-pretty-howell]

As time goes on, I think my internal identity has become more complex but also, I feel free to just exist. Like as an AFAB teenager growing up during the truscum era of social media, I felt pressured to identify myself in a very binary way. I was a gay trans man, plain and simple. But now, I’m starting to feel that labels don’t matter as much as I used to think they did. Nowadays, I describe my sexuality and gender in multiple words. With my sexuality, I’m androsexual but I’ve recently come to realize that I’m probably bisexual. I still call myself gay though, since it took me such a long time to feel comfortable calling myself gay and trans. And for my gender identity, it’s just everywhere honestly. Like yeah, I’m a trans guy, but I’m also a butch woman, and I’m also transmasculine and nonbinary, and I’m also kind of a dyke but I’m also very much a fag. Also, I’m very much a masculine female/woman, and I’ve become more comfortable with calling myself that very recently. I’ve been wondering if the term boygirl may suit me as well, cuz I very much like the label of fagdyke since it kinda makes sense to my experience lol. This is mainly just a diary entry for myself, but I also wanted to share it with y’all since maybe some of you can relate! Being queer is fucking awesome, but it can be confusing at times, but for me, it’s fucking freeing as hell as an adult human weirdo.

[polygamousfistingchaos]

Roxxian

A label for genderfuck individuals who are exclusively attracted to other genderfuck individuals.

The genderfuck counterpart to vincian, lesbian, and enbian.

[spinobsessed]

Coming Out Again

After 4.5 hours of research, I have finally concluded what I am.

I am demiromantic, a chapstick femme lesbian, and cistrans. My genders are girl, boyish, pupgender, and autigender. I want to try binding and using they/he pronouns and just being more masculine in general; I’ve been assigned the girl gender and while I don’t mind nor have a desire to get rid of my girl identity, I want to explore my masc side

I will start femme flagging by having an accent nail, a carabiner on the right side (pink ofc), and finding someway to add a nautical star and labrys axe with a trans signal/flag so I’m not mistaken for a terf

I’m so happy also I like butches and lesboys of all kinds. I’m debating whether I want to call myself a lesboy or not bc Ik the connotation and I don’t want harassment on tiktok lol

Adding on that I’m also altersex and a pony and puppy therian :D

[vampjasper]

Having a fluctuating identity is so weird because wdym for quite a while I was super duper gay for women, the past few days I've been super gay for men, and now I'm just sad?

[jadeannbyrne]

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[caintooth]

seeing people my age talk about how scared they are of memory loss, which they only associate with old age, is so surreal to see as a 24 year old who has actively experienced memory loss for a long time now

there are causes for memory loss besides dementia and alzheimer’s, i hope y’all know that. dissociative disorders, trauma, brain injuries, thyroid problems, even just stress and lack of sleep can fuck up your ability to store, process, and access memory. and that’s just a few of the many causes i can think of off the top of my head right now.

please stop treating disabled people like some scary “other” that you might become only in the distant, decades-away future. we are your age, too. you may become one of us sooner than you know. stop acting like memory loss marks the end of a life, when so many of us have so much living left to do!

[indisputablypercy]

Long post incoming but i’m overthinking my aromantic-ness

so yeah i am aromantic (asexual too but that’s less relevant to the post at hand)

i also want to be in a romantic relationship.

these don’t need to contradict. but it always feels like they must in some way

like. i guess the More Appropriate word for what i am would be greyromantic. or lithromantic. or demiromantic of these words apply to me in a way. i only feel romantic attraction very rarely, usually it disappears if they show interest back, and if it doesn’t disappear if interest is shown back to me it’s because i already have a deep connection with them. so if i really wanted to i could say i was grey-demi-lith-romantic

but i really. don’t wanna say that. like at all. and there is no hate here to people who use microlabels for themselves like genuinely the most power to you. i just don’t wanna do that for myself

so that just leaves me here still calling myself aromantic because it’s Close Enough. but close enough sucks. i just feel like i always have to qualify my identity.

but fuck that. i dont gotta over explain myself to anyone. i’m me, i’m aromantic in my own way, and i am more than happy with myself.

[dead-inside-demiboy]

Im sorry but being aromantic and/or asexual is such a beautiful, complex identity that opens up almost endless possibilities and interpretations about sex and romance and relationships and struggles within those,

and i will always absolutely LOATHE how both the outside and the aro/ace community itself have boiled these identities down to just "doesnt have sex" and "doesnt date"

[rustybutterknife]

Microdosing polyamory by dating a system

[ahkaraii]

Thinking about the early days of Robotnik and Stone... They're both orphans with a dislike of humanity and a fascination with machines of mass destruction, so I wonder if they ever talked about their personal lives and private traumas.

...Probably not. But maybe they came close?

[zan0tix]

Assorted homestucks number 72382683

[intersexuai]

FUCK YEAHHH 💃

Complexpunk

For anyone who has a complex identity and thinks anyone who doesn't support them can fuck off.

This includes:

- M-spec gays, lesbians, enbians, etc

- Xenogender users

- Gaybians

- Lesboys/Turigirls

- Label and gender hoarders

- Cuspers (people who are between cis and trans)

- Gendered agender people

- Transfemmasc people

and more!

This does NOT include:

- Transid people

- "System origins" other than traumagenic/non-disordered "systems"

- Anyone who doesn't support any of the labels this includes

Other variations + symbol

[vampjasper]

Random but... looking more into contradictory/ complex labels and becoming more accepting of them has allowed me to come out of my shell more to myself and be more accepting of myself.

I think I've known deep down for years that I was some form of transmasc yet was just ignoring or outright denying it, and it wasn't until recently that I started identifying as a lesbian again and specifically a lesboy that I began my journey to accept my transmascness.

I've come quite far compared to how I identified years ago. My labels and identity itself have become more fleshed out and complex and I love it. I love knowing who I am and what I am.

A few years ago my identity could be summed up as aromantic asexual agender (which I still identify with). There was nothing else to it because all I knew was that there was a sort of void or abyss somewhere within me and it wasn't until I really started exploring that void that I started to find myself.

I've gone through many identities and labels over the years. Some I still identify with and some I don't, I don't regret any of it and quite frankly I believe it will continue to happen for possibly my whole life. My identity is fluid and fluctuating, as many things are, and that's ok.

While my queer journey technically began 6 or more years ago, it feels like it's only just started (and I suppose it has considering I'm still young), and I can't wait to find out what awaits me.

[transonlyspace]

"queer identities are getting too complex" good. be complex. confuse cis people. confuse straight people. aim to be what cishets call cringe. be incomprehensible. be unfathomable.