#tips for success in life

[tia-222]

An instant technique for the void state 𖤐⭒๋࣭

So if you looking to bypass the relaxation stage and end up straight into the void state, then I got you <3. I found this technique on shiftyourreality on reddit and while reading some comments, I saw a quite few number of people astral projected on their first try, I MEAN FIRST TRY COME ON!! This method is easy and does not require anything like meditating whatsoever.

Instructions for this technique :

☯︎ Set an intention. Before falling asleep, say something like "when I wake up, I will remember not to move or open my eyes ". Now this will remind your subconscious what you're doing, because when we wake up sometimes we fall back asleep😭 or forget what we're trying to do. If you remember the technique, you can skip this step <3

☯︎ The second you find yourself awake, before moving or opening your eyes, immediately start affirming for the void state. And you'll enter it instantly.

BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT STEP IS THAT YOUR MIND WAKES UP BEFORE YOUR BODY, WHICH PUTS YOU INTO A SUPER SUGGESTIBLE STATE WHERE YOU ENTER THE VOID, ASTRAL PROJECT OR EVEN SHIFT!!

Why does this technique work?

" This method allows you to skip sleep paralysis and the vibrational state and move straight to the exit. You exit your body before you realize your body is paralyzed. " So basically it helps you skip all the needed steps to relax or enter sleep paralysis. "

This technique basically wakes up your energy body/astral body which is your consciousness, instead of meditating to reach deeper consciousness, just wake your energy body up and direct it into the void state by affirming.

I know this technique is short and simple, byeee because entering the void state is meant to be simple and easy. A lot of people succeeded with this on their first and second try and so will you!!!

𖤐⭒๋࣭ ⭑𖤐⭒๋࣭ ⭑𖤐⭒๋࣭ ⭑𖤐⭒๋࣭ ⭑𖤐⭒๋࣭ ⭑𖤐⭒๋࣭ ⭑𖤐⭒๋࣭ ⭑𖤐⭒๋࣭ ⭑𖤐⭒๋࣭ ⭑𖤐⭒๋࣭

[sp0iledprincess55]

IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU REACT TO 3D ALL THAT MATTERS IS THAT YOU KNOW ITS YOURS AND NOTHING CAN RUIN YOUR MANIFESTATIONS UNLESS YOU ASSUME IT DOES 🎀😭

[thatsbelievable]

[honeytonedhottie]

for when u think you “failed” at manifesting⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🎀

the beautiful thing about manifesting is that you CANNOT fail. its literally impossible. you get what u manifested/persisted in, and thats it. so if u have a belief or a thought that "i failed to manifest this or that" ur literally sabotaging urself and affirming in the opposite of what u want.

you're doing everything perfectly, youre doing everything right. just persist.

continue to ignore, brush off, and be indifferent to the old story and old thoughts. literally REJECT the thoughts that are contradicting what you want. all u need to do is keep going. so take a deep breath and remind urself that your desire is GUARANTEED.

[universalitgirlsblog2]

🍥💗EDWARD ART SERIES💗🍥

(1) NO ONE TO CHANGE BUT SELF. 🍥Change your attitude towards the past which inevitably changes future towards that event .

💗It's not about that event. It's not about changing the past or the future, there's no one to change but self and self is simply your mind.

🍥When you experience something you disliked and it happened a years ago . Where do you think this experience is taking place? If you fear future, where do you think it is taking place ?It's all happening within your mind.

🍥Past and future only exist in the mind and you have the luxury to change what you wish in the mind.

💗The way you change self is to imagine with feeling anything you want,it must be something you want, not something you think you should want , something you have to want or else.

🍥Remove consequences from the mind, remove all punishments , impart yourself from guilt. Remove having to get things. Remove that stress. You do this by simply imagining what you want with the feeling of actual freedom to do so. A memory bothering you ? You find yourself cringing when you remember those memories?

💗 Ask yourself. Where is this taking place? Within Me.Who was cringing? Me . Who was imagining this ? Me. Once you reassure yourself that it's all within you , you change it. Ask yourself again. Can I change my feeling ? YES! Can I change it this how I wanted it to go ?YES! . Can I let this go entirely if I wish to let it go ? YES!Can I imagine what I wish ? YES! then do it , don't wait. Even if it's nagging you , don't fight but change it to what you want.

🍥If I'm imagining exactly what I want , the feeling will happen naturally. It must be exactly what I want or else I struggle to feel.

💗CREATING MY OWN HEAVEN IN MY MIND IS MY GOAL.

🍥Neville tells us not to live in desire. The Bible tells us to stop sinning. William Blake tells us not to suppress our desire. Take these words very seriously. If you have any tiny bit of desire , no matter how small . Neville tells us to fulfill it mentally. Keep pruning each day . Remove all the rules and consequences. Remove the outer world when you imagine. Remove all ideas of what you should do or have to do. Do what you want.

💗Whenever I am not not feeling and imagining well , the answer is : " I am not imagining what I want ." This is always my answer. The moment I actually go towards exactly waht I want , I become fulfilled. The fears go alway and bliss comes. I do not care what fear pops up. None of that matters to me. All that matters is that I fulfill it within me. MAKE CONSCIOUSNESS MY ONLY REALITY.

🍥Neville said this " You want to be free of all embarassment? How would you feel this night If you were not embarrassed, that not a thing in this world could embarrass you ? How would you feel where it so?".

💗When I assume it , I do not care about how it will happen or when or even if it is possible . All I care about is changing my entire feeling to exactly what I want. Then it's my own strange way, it grows my world. This is what I mean by giving yourself what you truly want . Find something deep that you want , and dare to assume it. This is what truly changes the "self" and that " self " will be expressed.

(2) LET GO OF CONTROL AND CONTROL SELF. 🍥There is no objective reality. Meaning the idea of coward to one is different to another. Everyone perceives things different. You may be grand in ones eyes but evil in another. The trick is not care about either and go to what you want.

💗Neville forgot to exercise the law. But he did not blame himself, instead he went straight to the law. He let go of all the HOW'S and slept in the assumption that he was married with that woman. He fell asleep as the one he WANTED to be. It was what his hearts desired. " NEVER BLAME, ONLY RESOLVE" - Neville.

🍥Who else can fulfill the desires in your heart, other than you?

💗Neville imagined to change his MIND. TO CHANGE HIS FEELING OF "I". He imagined to change the only thing that is expressed himself. Neville, at this time, knew he can change reality, if he changes himself. Since he was solely imagining on changing the FEELING of himself,he was able to persist regardless of circumstances. He did not care what others said , where he was at this world or his rejection. He ONLY cared about IMAGINING what he wanted.

🍥He let go of controlling his outer world and controlled himself. The world is reflecting self. And " SELF" is everything you think you HAVE and ARE. He may have got rejected and thought, " I am stuck . I have to stay there ". Instead, he changed himself , he changed what he believed he was and had in his mind. Now he believed he was back in New York. He HAS his bed back , his wife back etc. He has what he wants in his mind.

💗"This is how I do it: When I close my eyes this world is shut out and I , like Isaac , am blind to the outer world. Then I feel myself into the state of my desire. With my inner eye I see it all around me , I sense it's solidity, and when my five senses are awakened I have the feeling of relief, knowing it's accomplished. - Neville,Wonder Working Power.

🍥Neville removes the idea or concept of there even being an " outer self " when he imagines. He then FEELS what he wishes,see's what he wishes.

💗The great secret is the most freeing. It is to do anything you wish in your mind. You truly are the most high in your mind. You are powerful in your mind that NOBODY can imprison you, you can only imprison yourself. Nobody can free you,you can only free yourself. You are the RULER in your mind. You can be the king or the peasant. It is the entirely up to you, to what you desire to be in your mind.

🍥Don't think in terms of things coming to you. Think in terms of things coming FROM you. This means it was within you along.

(3)HE WHO WILL NOT LIVE BY LOVE MUST BE SUBDUED BY FEAR. 💗Fear will eventually , even if it is slow , conquer you, if and only if you are not filling your mind with what you love. If you do not choose LOVE you must be subdued by fear.

🍥The first manifestation of fear is withing the body. The body becomes afraid, the gut tightens and the muscles tense. Breathing becomes shallow and frustration start to form. These irritations then come back to the kind and the mind naturally starts to think of things it dislikes. Fear bears fruit of guilt, paranoia,uneasiness, sabotage, rage etc. But the ROOT is FEAR

💗The goal is to NOT change each and every fearful thought. It is not to argue and contemplate on the fear. However, doing that is not in itself harmful, but it is more of a detour. To get to the true heart of the issue, we must REMOVE FEAR ENTIRELY.The ONLY reason you are even thinking fearful things is because you FEEL fear. If you did not feel fear, you would not ever think fearful things.

🍥Do you fight them? Try to reason your way out of the feeling of fear? Try to force a good thought? This is the wrong approach. You still are not understanding who you are WITHIN if you do that. NEVER BLAME YOURSELF FOR FEARFUL THOUGHTS. Never blame, only resolve them within. You have the power to resolve to what you want. Don't waste that power on blaming yourself.

💗YOU ARE THE CREATOR. This means you are creating that fearful thought. When the fearful thought comes up, take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for it! See it as your creation! This means you are ALWAYS GREATER than what you are creating in your mind. The fearful thought is only there because you created it to be there. It has NO power of its own. It is truly all your dream.

🍥When you take responsibility for that fearful thought as your creation, ask yourself this simple question, "What is it that I would LOVE to think?" From here as the Creator, you can start to go towards LOVE. LOVE is the most powerful "thing" if you will, within you. Why? Because it never fails to TRANSFORM "SELF." Fear can be stagnant, but LOVE TRANSFORMS.

💗Your world is REFLECTING SELF. Since it is reflecting "SELF," then how can we transform "SELF" in the most efficient and best way possible? Through LOVE. By actually going within our minds and doing what we LOVE, having what we LOVE. This changes us at our very core.

🍥 From this new feeling of freedom and love, you will find it incredibly easy to think what you want. You will even find it harder to feel fear. This ease and love starts to become your natural State. People will start treating you in a better way. You won't even have to imagine every little thing going your way, it just will. Things you wanted months ago, start appearing in your world. Things that bothered you deeply, literally has no effect on you anymore. Why? Because you are no longer DESIRING, no longer FEARING. You are living in FULFILLMENT. Fulfillment in Love. You are actually living what you LOVE within, and this love expresses itself without.

(4)INNER MAN MUST BE EXALTED. 💗In order to feel completely free, you must identify yourself with the one within you.

🍥When Neville says "Leave the world just as it is and change self. No one to change but self," he means the self that is within, the only self there is. Why leave the world alone? Because it is only an expression of "SELF!" 💗That voice, the one in you that imagines, is YOU. THAT IS THE ONE WHO IS DESIRING. THAT IS THE ONE WANTS TO BE EXALTED. THAT IS THE ONE WHO WANTS TO HAVE THEIR DESIRES FULFILLED.

🍥You will identify yourself from within and you will grant your every wish from within. It does not matter if it is impossible, if your "SELF" wants it, grant it within. There are no rules for that "Self." If it wants guilt gone, then remove guilt in the mind. Feel forgiven and its all fine, that Self the true you, is desiring that. There are no rules that says you cant have. The beautiful thing is that the inner world can give you anything.

💗If you embarrass yourself in your mind, or hurt yourself, spark fear into yourself, you are doing that to "Self" the true you which is expressed. You worry about what society thinks, what so-so might think? Who is worrying? SELF! It is ALL YOU. Then you feel hurt, scared and you feel you can have what you want but who is hurt and scared? Your body? No, it is the inner you, the true you. The one who can shed its skin (state) like a snake. When you are fearing, who is doing it? THAT "SELF!" YOU. IT IS IMAGINING IT! But that "Self" does not want to feel that fear anymore, it desires to imagine something new. But since you identify yourself with outer-world and outer-self instead of your True Self and inner-world where everything is possible, you remain stuck. "SELF" becomes irritated, fearful etc. You feel fear in your body, your irritations, that angst will forever remain until you fulfill it within.

🍥You want to change ? Then leave the fearful, embarrassing, irritating world just as it is. Do exactly what Neville says. Then identify yourself FULLY with your True Self, the one that is desiring within. Then fulfill all your dreams to its fullest. 💗Identify yourself, not with this world, but with the one within, the one who is truly desiring.

(5)IMAGINING IS FUN. 🍥 Thoughts come FROM your feeling.

💗All those thoughts of fear, all those thoughts of what bad thing could happen, all the thoughts of "what if it never happens?" Every one of them, comes FROM the FEELING.

🍥If is the FEELING that is the cause of the thought, then that means the thought HAS NO POWER OF ITS OWN. That means the thought HAS NO TRUTH IN ITSELF. That means the thought IS CREATED. It means that if you change your FEELING all the thoughts necessary for you to think for your bridge of incidents are ALREADY LAID OUT FOR YOU.

💗 Change the word "belief" to FEELING. Think only in terms of these: Creating, Feeling and Thinking. You create the feeling you want and from that thoughts come. That is a STATE.

🍥 Remove this idea that beliefs are hard to change and they are blockages in your subconscious.

💗Change the word "belief" to "feeling" because the word "belief" sounds too difficult to change. But once you understand a belief is merely a FEELING (just like desiring is just a feeling), the idea of "changing a feeling" sounds completely achievable.

🍥Fearful Feeling gives birth to Fearful Thoughts. If you change your feeling, you would simply see there is no truth in your fearful thoughts. The only reason why you "believe" them to be true is simply because you feel it.

💗Remember we think-FROM our feelings, this is how we KNOW if we are in a State. So, just FEEL and FEEL and FEEL. Give yourself entirely to the FEELING (because the FEELING is your "end"), then you will NATURALLY THINK-FROM that position. There is NO WORK ON YOUR PART.

🍥FREE YOURSELF IN YOUR MIND ENTIRELY. Stop caring if it will happen or what will happen, REALITY IS YOUR MIND. IT REFLECTS "SELF."

💗FEEL EVERYTHING YOU WANT AND THE THOUGHTS WILL COME. IT IS FUN!It is only fun if you imagine and feel what you want. It's not fun "trying to get" or "trying to manifest" or "checking the world to see if it is growing." Growth, getting what you want, experiencing what you want is WITHIN!

[luckykiwiii101]

If Jealousy Could Kill, You Would Be Ghostface, And No, That’s Not A Compliment. - XoXo

I’ve heard from a few Upper East Siders that things are getting out of hand. Red hands, covered in certain red substances. And no, that’s not a metaphor. I think you can take the hint.

If desires could kill, some would be ghost-face. Why? People have used their manifesting abilities to harm others. Physically and mentally. And it’s sickening.

Rumour has it, that someone has gone as far as manifesting death upon somebody. Well it’s only a rumour if it’s not confirmed to be true. And this i know, is true. What was the reason some of you may ask? Jealousy, Jealousy.

Jeez Louise! I know I told you to write your own book, but I didn’t mean a Death Note.

We don’t need an anonymous Ted Bundy on our hands.

But let’s get to the more common side of things.

Aw, want your Sp? Is he taken? Got a case of jealousy? Well save that for never because it’s not going to happen. Sorry to be harsh, but you will never be happy by taking happiness away from my precious upper east siders. No, that’s not a tear in my eye, it’s disappointment.

Use your greed for good. And manifest better, instead of taking from others. Want a man? Manifest someone perfect for you. Not somebody who is already in a loving relationship with somebody else. Problem solved.

And of course you can just manifest for people to not be hurt by your devilish actions. So why don’t you just manifest no longer desiring your dream life? Does that make you feel better? No. Ofcourse it doesn’t.

And I know, I know. Some bloggers will tell you, “Don’t let them make you feel guilty.” Well, boy i’ve got news for you!

That guilt wouldn’t be there in the first place if you didn’t think it was wrong. But you clearly do. And your conscience knows it. You are human at the end of the day. And if you don’t identify with that, you can’t deny that you are currently in human form. And that comes with emotions and a conscience!

You can call yourself a satisfied God, but the whole point of the law is to feel satisfied, and you clearly don’t have that since you feel the need to take from others. I almost feel bad.

I might just have to banish some of you to the lower east side.

For your low behaviour, that is.

Don’t tempt me. No XoXo’s for you.

And if this makes you mad, it’s exactly what you needed to hear.

[oceane4loveu]

Dear diary 𓆩ꨄ︎𓆪

yesterday I manifested something I thought I would have next year!! I was so surprised! How did I do it? I started first by listening to my subliminal playlist to manifest a change in my life, I really wanted to manifest a well-paid job next year and then I meditated by visualizing myself doing this job and yesterday after noon my mother calls me to tell me that my uncle found me a job! I was shocked and happy at the same time. I'm going to start this job soon so I'm going to continue listening to my subliminal playlist and meditating.

subliminal and meditation that I used I listen to them in the evening before sleeping જ⁀➴

[olivianyx]

hii i had some questions for the void state

how did the void state feel like for you?

did u hear anything or were u able to feel your body?

did ur manifestation come instantly riight after going out of void

Hi! So you're basically asking for my void experience. Actually the void state felt real peaceful, like I needed that peace since 20 years of my life 💀 it's so quiet and peaceful and I didn't feel attached to anything or didn't worry about anything at all (like my dumbass will be searching for my blanket at night or my phone or something else 😭) it was like floating in the air literally. I actually perceived it as space, so I saw stars and galaxies all around and those stars were resembling so many colours. And I just affirmed that I had clear skin, and affirmed to exit the void and fell asleep. As the morning I woke up, I had clear skin (trust me when I say this, I had eczema, acne, redness and hyperpigmentation 😭 and all of it disappeared)

[bubblegum-gloss]

How to be beautiful ໒꒱

Just know I'm not expecting you and that you don't have to become a confident bad bitch out of sudden and it's okay feeling unmotivated. I know sometimes even getting out of bed it's exhausting, don't punish yourself and think you're doing it wrong. This is YOUR journey, everyone has different ones, no one can judge you. Besides, I believe in you <3

♡ Find your definition of beauty. I know the "beauty is in the inside" speech seems overused, but it's true! Beauty is spirit! It's everywhere! Find out what you find beautiful. Is it as simple as a child's laugh?or is it big noses or long hair? Animals and the sun light? Honesty and kindness? Find out what traits you want for yourself, what you find beautiful in other people, what makes you feel fulfilled and what you want in your life!

♡ Focus on what you like. Stop watching that TikToker you know you hate. Don't reply to that racist tweet, believe me, it won't change their mind. Instead, watch an old cartoon you used to love as a kid or read a cringy fanfic just for the laughs. Stop giving importance to the immature people calling you ugly for insignificant things like pimples or wrinkles. When I was feeling bad for not receive the approval that I wanted from certain people, it helped me a lot hearing Melanie Martinez say "Try not to expect shallow people to love you, they don't even have the capacity to understand how amazing you are"

♡ Appreciate and make other people feel good. This is just as simple as saying "thanks" to any person offering you a service (like a waiter, for example) or doing a nice detail for a friend just because. This also includes keeping a gratitude journal, or just think about all the good things that happened during the day before falling asleep.

♡ Culture yourself. Something that always defined me is my curiosity, my hunger to be better and become even more knowledgeable. It's something I'm proud of and I wanna popularize. Learning for fun! Don't read a large, boring and complex book that doesn't interest you because you think you have to. Reading a short book, that may not be as "intellectual" for others but that you find interesting is valid! And learning whatever makes you happy it's also valid!

♡ You may also learn about your hair type and skin type (it's okay if you can't afford expensive products, you may just avoid bad habits) and about nutrition and exercise. (I personally exercise to show love to my body and keep it healthy, not entirely for my physical appearance or weight)

♡ Don't limit yourself. It makes me so sad when I look at comments of girls saying that they can't use the makeup or wear clothes they like because of their body, acne or even SKIN COLOR (I'll never understand why dark skin would be a disadvantage, believe me: your skin is beautiful and it's not a obstacles for anything) Please, your body is not a problem. People who tell you you can't wear crop tops because of your belly are not worth it! And don't put yourself into a box. I'm not someone who complains about aesthetics (most cases they are subcultures, which are not dumb and they should be respected) but it's a problem if you're turning yourself into an stereotype, like the whole bimbo "feminism" thing (that I'll keep repeating: ITS NOT EMPOWERING)

That's all I have to say for now! I really hope this contributes something for you and I hope you do great. Sending blessings for you all! ♡

[tia-222]

YOGA NIDRA AND KRIYA YOGA - ENTER THE VOID STATE EASILY WITH THESE ANCIENT MEDITATION PRACTICES

Credits : Erosvortex💌

As you can see from the above success story of how easily and attainable the void becomes when you do a yoga nidra or a kriya guided meditation, it's so easy loves.

There's some posts on yoga nidra :

❀ yoga nidra to enter the void within minutes

❀ how to get into the void after yoga nidra cr konnie

❀ everything about down about yoga nidra cr Gorgeouslypink

⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ Basically, the second meditation she talked about " Kriya yoga " there's not much guided meditations on yt as yet. I think she practices it by herself. Anyways, there's an alternative which Isha kriya, idk if you guys probably heard about it before but there's void success stories from it :-). I'll link the meditation below and the success stories for everyone to read. ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆

❀ Isha kriya guided meditation

Success stories from Isha kriya :

Void success 1 , Void success 2 .

[agirlwithglam]

hey pookies, if you have exams coming up I very very highly recommend watching this video by study to success on youtube:

[saiorrr]

realizing your worth/expanding your worth

Not to sound vulnerable or anything, but do not let other people, no matter who they are, they can be a parent, a sibling, a friend or a stranger, do not let ANYONE define what you are worthy of.

insecure people will try to do anything to bring you down. curse you, tell you something you have been getting comments about for a lifetime, or even simply tries to define your worth for you. this is TOXICITY, and its making me wanna throw up at this point. how low can someone be to "define" who you are??

Please my loves, realize that no one has the power over you in this world, only YOU decide your strengths,vulnerabilities and your value. Only you know yourself more than anyone in this world. how do you let outside world define you when no one in this world is fighting for you like you are fighting for yourself? Get this straight, you are trying to keep yourself alive, healthy, beautiful and in harmony and someone who NEVER really understood you or knew you for who you actually are is suddenly putting a definition on your worth? How thoughtful of them.

GUYS, you have the whole UNIVERSE inside of you. WE ALL DO. once you are aware of the fact that you have the whole universe inside your heart and mind, it is a game changer because it is (atleast for me) is truly healing. because the universe is beautiful, it is full of galaxies and stars and beauty scattered everywhere, and I AM the UNIVERSE. i am a divine being i shine my way through every bit of darkness there is. and that is only defined by ME and no one else has the power. How emotionally fulfilling does that sound? Don't let mean b*tches get to you. who are they to humble you? when they are the one insulting themselves with their words and actions it's truly humiliating

instead of crying about that, decide that you are truly worthy, you are worthy of life, and all the beautiful things it has to offer, expand our worth for your sake, because no one else is gonna do it for you, self conceptualize yourself so much to the point that their words mean nothing to you.

[lilislevelingup]

My morning affirmations renewed 💕

I like to share my affirmations because I materialize what I want with them, and I want to share them because if I made them or I embrace them, they are going to work for me and for everybody if I want it that way, I know.

I covered three aspects: self love, money and success.

💗 I deserve love, respect and be taken care of

💗 I love what I am

💗 I am deserving of all the good that this life can offer me or give me.

💗 Every action and circumstance in my life brings me money

💗 Money loves me and loves my company

💗 The money I have, multiplies every second

💗 I am an example of greatness, success and personal growth to everybody

💗 From this day forward, all fear or doubt is permanently removed from my mind.

💗 Every day I get closer to the greatness of my soul.

So be it, so be it, so be it / or you can say amen as well.

Some of them are actually created by Pilar Sousa, she has an amazing YouTube Channel with videos of affirmations. Some of them are created by me.

[honeytonedhottie]

RANDOM SUCCESS STORY⋆.ೃ࿔*:･✨

TODAY I MANIFESTED SOMETHING WITHOUT EVEN REALIZING IT. so i realized that i hadn't seen one of my best friends for a couple weeks and i missed her SOSO much. so in our group chat i texted and told her how much i miss her + i wanna see her today. the text was ; "we should hang out babe, when are you free" and "i miss u so much baby" 💀 and GUYS.

TODAY ON MY WAY HOME FROM A REHEARSAL, WE STOPPED BY HER SCHOOL AND I DIDNT KNOW IF SHE WAS THERE CUZ SHE HAD CHEER THAT DAY, AND EVEN THOUGH SHE HAD CHEERLEADING, SHE WAS THERE AT THAT MOMENT. i got to see her and another friend of ours and we got yummy snacks at a food truck at her school. the food was so yummy and i was super happy ✨

[crystalandbow]

DAY 3 ⚠️

Of Manifestation challenge

Visualize your desired outcomes and affirm them regularly. Surround yourself with positive influences and take actionable steps towards your dreams. Remember, consistency and belief in yourself are key ingredients for manifestation success!

[femmefatalevibe]

Femme Fatale Guide: How To Reset From A Toxic Work Environment

Give yourself ample time to reset and indulge in basic self-care. Get a full night's sleep every night, eat a balanced & nutritious diet (most of the time) with meals you enjoy, incorporate daily movement & a consistent exercise routine into your week, read books, listen to music and podcasts that inspire you, hang out with loved ones/people who energize you, indulge in beauty routines/"spa" days and movies/TV shows you love

Once you feel recharged/not burned out anymore, take a step back and reflect on what your values are, your interests, desired lifestyle/workplace environment that best suits your personality and work style. Consider what you want out of your next opportunity instead of letting hiring managers decide for you once your interviewing processes begin. Remember, a job at a company should feel like a mutual fit. Decide to work as an employee, not a corporate slave.

Reassess and decide on your future workplace boundaries ahead of time. Once you're more emotionally distant from your current toxic work environment, allow yourself to act as a neutral observer of the interpersonal dynamics that played out while you were working in your (soon-to-be previous) toxic work environment. Consider any warning signs/red flags you might've ignored early on or certain ways you allowed yourself to be a pushover/people-pleaser to keep the peace while getting to know your co-workers. Looking back, how would you have handled these situations if you had the clarity and self-confidence you have now? Use your answer to this question as a roadmap to decide how you can show up as your best self before/while working in your next role.

Determine ways you can forge workplace connections early on in your next role. Embrace the "new job, new you" mentality here and decide how you want to show up as a sociable co-worker from your first week onward. Greet your team in the morning, engage in some small talk over a break to get to know each other better – try to find mutual interest/express interest in what they're saying, make it a priority to schedule one-on-ones with all team members/close collaborators within your company over the first month, invite co-workers to get coffee/lunch with you a couple of days per week, etc.