#xenogender woman

[ryanyflags]

xenoman (xenogender man), xenowoman (xenogender woman), & xenoenban/xenban (xenogender enban) flags :D

As far as I'm aware, there's nothing about the xenoboy, xenogirl, and xenby flags and definitions that couldn't be used by people who use man/woman/enban over boy/girl/enby. But the boy/girl/enby versions are the most popular / basically only what the terms are known by, and I feel like in general there's this tendency to more diminutive terms, so I thought it would be nice to have specific man/woman/enban varients. (I personally don't like calling myself a boy or an enby, and the fact that the majority of terms only have boy/girl/enby variants, or are most well know as that, can be a bit annoying. So I think alt man/woman/enban terms and flags are important.)

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I didn't come up with xenoman and xenowoman, but I think I'm the first one to use xenoenban/xenban.

As for the flags, I used dark blues to represent men, dark pinks to represent women, and yellow, purple, black for enben. The other colors are from the xenogender flag. The main blues, pinks and 3 nonbinary colors are also shifted a bit to fit with the color palette/style of the xenogender flag.

Each term/flag has 3 versions: 2 gradient symbol versions (the gradient colors of each are taken from their base flags, and the 2 variations have the gradient in a different color order), and plain stripe versions. They all mean the same thing, I just couldn't decide what looked prettier.

[paw-pride]

Xenoman, xenowoman, and xenoenban paws!

[castielfucks]

theres actually no rules to transitioning and youre allowed to want contradictory things for your transition. it's fine if you only want some of the changes that come with hrt and take preventative measures for the rest (like wanting bottom growth but not body hair or vice versa). you can want to have vagina AND a dick. you can be a woman and want top surgery, or wear a packer. you can be a man and want to have a pussy. you can change your transition goals one or a million times or not have any goals at all and just take things as they come or as they feel right.

there are no rules.

[genderqueerdykes]

you're allowed to love being trans if you:

just came out

havent transitioned and dont plan to

have known you are trans for years but kept it to yourself

don't want surgery or hormones

dont disclose your trans status or genders to other people

dont change your name

never have dysphoria

your transness is tied to your neurodivergence

your transness is tied to your nonhuman identity

dont feel like you have a gender or gendered experience

feel like gender isn't really that important

are intersex

are two-spirit, hijra, or have another cultural gender or expression identity, or "third gender"

are a person of color

are an afab demigirl

are an amab demiboy

have a complex identity

have a very simple identity

cant figure out your gender for the life of you

cross dress

do drag

present socially in ways that are "normal" for your agab

have crushing dysphoria

don't know how to pass

pass effortlessly

are a butch trans woman

are a femme trans man

are demigender

don't like to be reminded you're trans

have a very specific gender

have a gender that's specific to you and you alone

have hated being trans at one point

stopped transition and restarted it at some point

have had to change your gender, name, pronouns or presentation multiple times

change presentation a lot

have a gender that's hard or impossible to put into words

dont want to figure out what your gender is exactly

are plural/a system

are genderfluid, gnc, genderqueer, multigender, polygender, genderflux, neutrois, maverique or genderfuck

are xenogender

are a lesbian or gay

are transneutral

are transfemasc/transmascfem

..... are trans.

every trans person is allowed to love being trans. good day, love yourself today!

[morsobaby]

Actually trans people are allowed to call their body parts whatever they please. It's not "cringy" or "delusional" or "unrealistic". It's their damn bodies. If it gives them euphoria that's a good thing. It doesn't fucking hurt or bother anyone if a non op trans guy wants to say he's got a dick or if a flat chested trans girl refers to her tits or if any nonbinary or genderqueer person has weird or funny or made up terms for their body parts. It's not your damn business. Actually it's really dope and cool and also coming up with your own terms for your body to avoid dysphoria or cause euphoria? Fuckin awesome. Period.

[sharkboywrites]

I’m a trans man that has had dysphoria since I was a child. I am a trans man that was boyish growing up. I am a trans man in an unaccepting household. I am a trans man who strictly uses he/him. I am a trans man that is strictly masculine. I am a trans man that is gay because I am a man that likes men.

I am the “real trans person” that you people claim you are defending, but I really just want you to shut up.

When it comes down to it I will be discriminated against the same as a feminine trans man, masculine trans woman, anyone on the aromantic and/or asexual spectrum no matter their identity, someone who uses neopronouns or xenogenders, etc.

Coming from the trans/gay person you claim you’re defending: I don’t want you. You make things worse for all of us. My oppression is not “worse” than any other queer persons’s. Go do something actually meaningful with your time instead of trying to tear a community apart

[doctor-disc0]

"Oh, you're trans? Are you mtf, ftm, mtnb, or ftnb?" Actually, I'm ftmtnbtftnbtmtnbtmtftxtnbtmtqtmftnbtmtfnbtmtxtmtmnbtmtnbtmtxtqtnbtmtfmnbtm-

In other words, I'm genderfluid

[mechanicalfelix]

[thefishdeath]

Never feel more masc then the times I try to look fem

[genderstarbucks]

Transthing!!

Transthing | Transmanthing | Transwomanthing

Transboything | Transgirlthing

Transmascthing | Transfemthing | Transneuthing

Transthing is a term used to describe a transgender individual who identifies fully or partially as a thing. It can be considered an umbrella term for individuals who transition to a thing and/or a non-gendered identity. This term was made with nonhumans in mind, but anyone is welcome to use.

[actualalivecreature]

are you nice to the butch trans lesbian who isn’t out publicly? do you respect the visibly transsexual gender freak you see at the bar? will you get to know the local trans man crowdfunding for top surgery without being on hormones?

[annnathegayblogger]

Part 3

1. Asexual

2. xenogender

3. polyamorous

4. transfeminine

5. aromantic

6. pansexual

7. bigender

8. demigirl

9. unlabeled

10. agender girl

[azucar-skull]

"yOu cAn'T bE xEnOgEnDeR, tHaT iS mAdE uP"

Well uh. Yes.

Of course it's made up.

All genders are made up. It is a social construct, fuck face.

Xenogender is beautiful. It allows people to uniquely describe what their gender is to them. All identities aren't meant to be labels with rules, they are meant to be guides. They are the map, and you are the destination.

[the-delta-quadrant]

happy trans day of visibility 🏳️‍⚧️

here are some of the trans designs i sell in my shop! i have more too, and can get them here. they will all show up at the top. 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

[morsobaby]

You deserve to live. You deserve to love and be loved. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be you. You deserve better. You're here for a reason, your existence is not a mistake. You deserve to be safe. You exist. Thank you for that