#acespec reblogs

[bananapudding752]

reblog if you’re one of them queers 💪💪💪

[peach-pot]

(if you don’t mind reblogging this post, that would be groovy ^_^)

[transonlyspace]

reblog to jumpscare an exclusionist

(note: i found this on pinterest and its probably really old ant i didnt notice that some of the flags are wrong sry)

[wazzuppy]

actually hey btw, reminder that aromantic men and asexual men, like,,,, exist? and that just bc theyre men doesnt make their lack of romantic and/or sexual feelings "shallow" or "fake." i promise that men aren't always trying to trick you or lie to you or whatever, and denying aro/ace men's existence and validity only continues to hurt the entirety of the queer community.

[miitopia-cake]

I wish some aces would stop excluding other aces with complex sexual experiences. like I get why but you have to realize that being ace does not mean they don't enjoy sexual experiences and it's weird when you complain about allo people and boil it down to "people who have sexual experiences" and also shame people for their sex life and kinks as if your own community doesnt INCLUDE those people. because there are other aces out there who still masturbate, who feel sexually attracted to their own body, who barely experiences sexual attraction but still enjoys sex, who like consuming sexual media, who like sfw kink. being ace is so so much more complex than just "disliking sex". and also aromantic exclusionism in the same genre of posts is something i see a lot. especially aro allos. I hate hate hate seeing a community that SHOULD be inclusive boil down sexuality and exclude people.

[klavierpanda]

Don't forget to leave a plate of garlic bread out for the asexuals tonight. Also remember to put out an alternative snack for the ace vampires

[scn-thedog]

reblog if being single forever worked for you

reblog this version instead

[kindlyanni]

🌈 Happy Pride Month! 🌈

May I interest you with some light queer reading in the form of a PDF comic zine? It's an autobiographical comic about living by myself, partner-free, with posi vibes! 24 pages!

PDF available in my ITCH.io shop in English and in Finnish!

[apple-eating-goat]

@staff Ban the bots in the asexual and trans tags maybe? Y'know, the thing that is your fucking job.

[whatisgoingoninmyhead]

saw an anti ace-spec people post on the asexual tag today so I wanted to make a post:

for anyone who fits anywhere on the ace spectrum, no matter how you define sexual attraction and how often you feel it, no matter your past, no matter your other orientations, and no matter how confident you are in it. Have a happy international asexuality day, this day is for you :)

[gigglingauspice]

was having a conversation with a friend about what a “normal” amount of partners to have is. This is about any kind of committed partner— not just romantic or queer platonic, but sexual, alterous, wavership, and “undefined but my partner regardless.”

If you have more than nine partners, good god do I respect your time management.

[sylveon-and-velveon]

Daily reminder to report and block EVERY SINGLE BOT in the ace tags

The bots don't care about you, they WILL show off their ass/pussy/tits in every fucking tag they can think of.

REPORT THEM

[shmaroace]

OKAY I FIXED IT. SORRY.

aspec refers to identifying under the ace or aro spectrum at all with at least one identity (can also include being queer)

[queerplatonic-msr]

It's ok to not feel sexual attraction! It's ok to not want sex! It's ok to not enjoy sex! It's ok to want a relationship that sex isn't a part of! It's ok to dislike sex! It's ok to be repulsed by sex! This one goes out to the sex-repulsed aces that need to feel more love and support!

[demisexual-in-distress]

Husk is demisexual I've decided thank u very much

[klavierpanda]

It is really important that as acespecs you do not mistag posts that are explicitly about aromanticism. Primarily this means don't tag them as "ace" or "asexual" etc but also if asexuality isn't mentioned it's probably a good idea not to tag it as "aroace" either. That doesn't mean as an aroace person you can't feel like the person resonates with you but that op might be a non-ace aro (e.g. aroallo or non-sam aro, etc) and having their experiences associated with being acespec can upset and/or annoy some people.

Simply put, if a post is about aromanticism only tag it as "aro" or "aromantic". That way no one gets upset or annoyed