#non binary is a spectrum

[brew-berry-a-trash-artist]

[yournonbinarypal]

[dhddmods]

Acknowledging that certain traits are commonly desired by feminine or masculine genders isn't exorsexist & intersexist...but treating them as always feminine or masculine is.

If a perisex trans woman desires estrogenizing HRT because they desire breasts & widened hips, which are commonly associated with femininity, that isn't exorsexist & intersexist. However, it is exorsexist & intersexist to say that estrogenizing HRT, breasts, and widened hips are inherently feminine.

If a perisex trans man desires androgenizing HRT because they desire a beard and bottom growth + metoidioplasty, which are commonly associated with masculinity, that isn't exorsexist & intersexist. However, it is exorsexist & intersexist to say that androgenizing HRT, a beard, and a penis are inherently masculine.

Feminine-associated traits aren't inherently feminine. Masculine-associated traits aren't inherently masculine. It just depends on who has them.

Keep non-binary and intersex people in mind. Remember not to gender HRT, top surgery, or bottom surgery.

Remember that not all transfems and intersex fems want to look or function like perisex cis women. Remember that not all transmascs and intersex mascs want to look or function like perisex cis men.

Remember that transandrogynous, transneutral, transnull, transgenderless, transxenine, transoutherine, transaporine, multigender, and mixed gender people exist.

[bisexualsafespace]

We don’t owe you simplicity.

Good.

[genderqueerdykes]

i want to see more asexual, aromantic & aspectrum representation this year during pride month 2024. we've been made to feel like we're not queer at all, and when we are seen as queer, we are pushed to the VERY bottom of the priority list, seen as not as queer as others, or not a priority because we do not suffer from any kind of oppression.

i want to break the silence on this matter this year. even if an aspectrum person isn't affected by any sort of societal oppression, they still deserve to have a space to talk about how they experience their identity. having a complicated relationship or no relationship at all with romantic feelings and relationships in a society that guilt trips people into developing romantic relationships starting in their teens is not in line with our societal view of what is "normal" and "correct". constantly being told that you "haven't found the right one" is harassment.

Not experiencing sexual attraction, refusing to have sex, or having a complicated relationship with sexual feelings is 100% queer and outside of the norm in a sex-obsessed society that guilt and mocks people for not having experienced it, and at the worst of time, forces it on people, telling them that they'll have a changed opinion of they just experienced it for themselves. being guilted or forced into interacting with sexual media or having friends try to force you into sleeping with someone is harassment and assault.

having a complicated relationship with gender that results in someone feeling agender, whether they have no gender at all, or have a gender that feels partially agender and partially another gender often results in someone being told they're confused, or have no idea what they're talking about. many people refuse to acknowledge someone who totally lacks a gender identity, or identifies with gender neutrality.

aplatonic people are frequently told they are losers, or just have anxiety or are experiencing their feelings due to depression or something similar. aplatonic people are told they do not understand their own feelings, when it is a very valid experience to not experience platonic feelings or have a very complicated relationship with them that leads one to feel happier not engaging in those relationships.

these are very real issues aspectrum people face. even if an aspec person doesn't face these problems, they are still queer. they are still aromantic, asexual, agender, aplatonic, or some other like of aspec. you don't get to tell them how they experience their identity, and you don't get to tell them they're not queer or don't experience hardships and denial of their identity. i want to see more people talking about and accepting these identities in 2024. no more pushing aspectrum people to the back, we are here in the front with everyone else, shouting alongside you. we all deserve to be heard- including asexuals, aromantics, agender people, aplatonic people and other aspectrum folks. we are all shouting for our rights together. let's shout for each other, too.

[justdavina]

SEXY HOT Cross-Dresser! Her outfit is PURRR fect! I just love leopard skin dresses!

[tremendously-crazy]

welcome to another day of, "am I aromantic or do I just hate the idea of being someone's girlfriend/wife because of my detachment to femininity?"

[bubblegumbirbe]

Lol . Lmao even .

[super-ace]

On this last day of Pride Month I just wanna say that I’m so glad you’re here and I’m so glad you’re queer 🌈

[just--a--random--human--being]

[nenoname]

What are the things you want to see the most if Alex ever releases the Stan o war stories?? Or maybe even some that are so important that you'd be upset not to see them included or mentioned?

let's see.... i do want to have stan be shown as explicitly bi cos urgh actually seeing folks in 2025 say that he has "homophobic straight maga vibes" was rancid-- altho i'll be kinda disinterested/zoned out if its a full blown romance so eh maybe him having a nice time flirting or a fling might be nice (but knowing him, it'd probably turn out like another darlene situation)

i always wanna see the stan bros getting to bond with the rest of the mystery shack fam via video calls or letters (honestly even stan was lacking direct bonding moments with soos and wendy in the show)

as for an actual story plot, i'm craving a good ol' horror (especially with them being free from kids tv constraints so it can show stuff being a bit darker), although them solving an actual mystery would be fun too

and of course i wanna see ford learning how messed up stan's actual mindscape is, and him getting to support stan through his issues too (.....if he ever learns how to pry them from the guy)

[zestythewitch]

Helloooooooo!

For all of my fellow fellow witches who fall under the non-binary spectrum how do you guys explore your gender identity through witchcraft? What are some ways you incorporate witchcraft with your gender identity journey?

Often times it feels like witchcraft is seen as very feminine but I want to see more witchcraft whether it be spells, rituals or experiences that aren't necessarily feminine.

[fuckingmentallyilly]

Hey @staff , feel free and do your job and hunt down the fucking sex bots on the #asexual and #transgender tags!!

[dhddmods]

Can ya'll please stop saying "feminizing" and "masculinizing" for HRT (or bottom surgery, for that matter?)

Call it androgenizing HRT. Call it estrogenizing HRT. But please stop applying femininity and masculinity to it as an inherent trait.

It's really invalidating for transandrogynous, transneutral, transnull, transgenderless, transxenine, transoutherine, transaporine, and some multigender or mixed gender people who want to transition, and are being grouped into "feminizing" and "masculinizing" categories.

Not to mention intersex people with hormonal variations who need to use HRT. Or altersex/transsex people whose desired sex does not reflect their gender.

Transmasculine and transfeminine people aren't the only ones in this community. Please stop treating transitioning as strictly masculine or feminine.

[a-flaming-idiot]

Marinette discovers something important about herself. We're all very proud of them!

Maybe a little too early for pride month but it's whatever.

[justdavina]

I just love fashion with the dark feeling to it! It's even more sexy when done well by a sexy transgender girl! I have to admit I'm very much attacked to females but, some transgender woman are so incredible it's hard not to love them!