"I often wonder if my diagnosis makes sense. Female to male transsexual is not a very good description of what is going on. It's too neat, too chronological. Too trapped between two states, man and woman. I find neither of these possible or desirable. I need the diagnosis for the surgery but I question the link between the two. I refuse the social construct of gender and desire a flat chest. I am forced to advocate that which is arbitrary and false. If I were to diagnose myself, I often think essay would be the better term. I am a piece of writing that I want to look and sound a certain way. I have this deep impulse to sculpt and shape my body. I think of the surgeon's scalpel like the squat nib of a fountain pen, marking up and crossing out. When I write, I am trying to say something true about the world. I am trying to polish language until it vanishes, becomes a window. I am not writing for the sake of writing, I am writing to bring the world into being. Living seems to be much the same process; I am not living for the sake of living, I live in order to carve, and sculpt and incise, wax/buff/burnish, weather/age/distill myself. To do this until I am a walking transparency, making the whole world visible. And people say I am an idiot for doing this, for carving up my body. I have two long scars where my breasts have been. Two dry rivers or else a tightrope with a gap. Maybe they agree with me about the fallacious sculpting of the fallen branch. Maybe the art was done when two fatty protrusions emerged, hanging from my sternum. Maybe nothing will be as masterfully mound as the glands I excised. Nothing as masterful as my big, fat areolas, my moving, hanging milk-works. If the artist is wrong-headed, then so am I."
— Jay Bernard, 'Idiot', 2021 Edinburgh International Festival
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poem #24 - mountain
we see the light
even in the darkest night
we won’t surrender –
as long as we believe in us.
they keep us small,
contained and lonely
break out, break free
too late tomorrow.
and we’ll keep up the fight
no matter how or what or when
just like those who came before us
if we stop, there’s no new dawn.
wait, they say,
wait for a new day
they try to keep us small, divided
we’ll come together anyway.
we climb the mountain, all alone
the legacy, it weights us down
we struggle, stumble, fall and hurt
the choice is ours, will we get up?
this night is ours
the fate will change
we’ll beat the odds
and win the war.
we see the light
even in the darkest night
we won’t surrender –
as long as we believe in us.
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“I like you” he said, almost blurting it out.
“I like you too,” Regulus replied looking out the window, “I think I could learn to love you”. If James was surprised he doesn’t show it.
“We can’t be together can we?” James asked.
“Is that a question or a statement? Because i think you know the answer” he’s watching the rain fall
“I’m not sure”
“Whether its a question or statement? Because your grammar is terrible-“
“What the answer is”, James sighed, “im not sure what the answer is”
“James”
“Reg” after hours of talking, he finally looks over to James where he is sitting on the other side of the tower. He was begging. Begging not to say anything. Begging to let it be. Begging not to tell his brother. Begging to keep going on with what they had, risky as it might be.
James looked into his eyes and he was begging. He looked away, watching rain turn into hail.
“Why is my answer”
“You know why.”
“Tell me anyways”
“Why?”
“Otherwise I would love you” there’s a stifled silence, it’s loudness amplified by the storm.
“I’m your best friends brother. You are my brothers best friend. More importantly I am a Death Eater”
“ Not yet”
“You can hold on to empty hopes if you’d like but the truth is there James”, Regulus sighed again before continuing on, getting ready to leave the tower if needed.
“ I attend meetings, I have talked with the Dark Lord himself,” James flinches at the use of the ‘Dark Lord’, “I have go too far to back out, which I would never have done anyways no matter what could’ve happened in the past”
“Why?”
“Is that your answer for everything?”
“Can you truly understand something if you can’t understand the reasoning behind it?”
“You sound like me”
“You sound smart”, Regulus lets out a small laugh, a huff at most.
“You can’t tell Sirius this,”
“I know”
“I’m the spare. That was always how it was meant to go, the Heir and the spare. Sirius and I, the Charisma and the coward. When he left, I became the shoddy replacement, the one we all knew wasn’t meant to be there. If he came back after all this time they would still take him back in a heartbeat.” Regulus takes a breath before continuing,
“But he won’t and I don’t blame him. However If I left with him, they would come looking for an heir, their biggest priority being the child who could play the part.”
“They would try to get back Sirius before you,” James understands
“Correct, and they would try their hardest for him, because in some fucked up twisted way, they love him, much much more”
“So you stay so they won’t go after him”
“you’re getting it now”
“I thought they hated him.”
“Hate and love are not opposites, in fact they are very similar. It means you still care,”
“So indifference is the opposite?”
“I would say so, yes” they sit there for hours, days, minutes, a lifetime, stumbling through memories of past lives.
Lives where they lived, lives where they died, lives where none of this existed, lives where they never met, lives where they hated each other, lives where they loved each other.
“What you do if it wasn’t here?” James asked
“What wasn’t here?”
“What would the answer be, if there wasn’t a war on, if Sirius was okay with it, if none of this,” James gestures around them, “if none of this ever happened”
“I’m not sure”
“You’re not sure you would want that?”
“Of course I would want it, I want it now, but we don’t always get what we want, do we?”
“Suppose we dont”
“I think I would refuse, at first” Regulus looks up the roof, leaning against the wall. James looks over at him, just watching.
”I think you’d then try to persuade me, ask me if that’s what I really wanted. Then you’d pull me into a room and try to snog the living daylights out of me” James lets out a laugh
“And why’s that?”
“You love that question don’t you,”
“Just tell me”
“I think you would snog me to prove that I did want to date you, because I would kiss you right back.”
“Aw”
“It’s gross, too happy”
“You just love depressing shit”
“I won’t lie about it”
“Why?”
Regulus looks over at him, hanging his head at an angle to see him. His eyes wander over James’s body for a moment before continuing on.
“Sadness, bitterness, anger, they’ve all been there throughout my life. Happiness is rare, rare enough that it feels slightly off and creepy when I am happy, like it’s unwelcome. Like something bad is about to happen. “ James goes to speak but Regulus cuts him off before he can say anything. He goes to stand up near the door, ready to leave,
“Sadness becomes comforting after a time, like a chance to rest. If it isn’t there I will probably miss it and long for it because it is the only thing i know”
“Thank you”
“For what?”
“Answering”
“I always will, if you call”, Regulus slips out the door, leaving James to watch the rain turn into snow.
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When You Know You Know - a poem in which a lesbian falls in love
the smile that wears you
the prickling thrill of your heart
the twin moons of their eyes in your mind
sunbathing in gold
a stormless ocean; a rainless storm
lightning lashing over a lake of ice
the sigh of retreating tides over stones
the good ache after its over
the pressure of unkissed lips left longing
the tentative almost touch of fingertips, and the gravity between them
the dizzying
the softening of hours into a river of glowing laughter
the quiet between the world
the warm darkness cradling endless starlight
by violottie
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