#self love rituals

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self love rituals

Introduction: Hello friends welcome to our blog. We will tell you self love rituals. Self love is the practice of  worth yourself and your own wellness. It is about accepting yourself for who you are, and being kind and compassionate to yourself. When you practice self love, you are more likely to feel happier. There is no one right way to love yourself, but there are a few simple rituals that…

[honeytonedhottie]

general hygiene secrets + tips⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍦

while u upgrade in other areas of ur life, its important to upgrade ur hygiene and self care game too ✨ and this post can help u do that

DOUBLE CLEANSING ;

not only for ur face but also for ur body, doing so makes me feel a million times cleaner. when i double cleanse my face i go in with an oil based cleanser then a water based cleanser.

my double cleansing body recommendations are the dove bar soap, african black soap or the soaps from the doctor bronners brand

for double cleansing my body i'll use an unscented/anti bacterial bar soap and after rinsing that off i'll use a liquid body gel or body wash that has the scent that i wanna smell like

MY TAKE ON UNSCENTED BODY PRODUCTS ;

i think that unscented body products r lowkey slept on but in that same breath i can kinda see why. personally, i like to use an unscented soap sometimes and then make my body smell even better by using a body butter or a lotion but thats SOMETIMES.

TAKE CARE OF UR FEET ;

use a foot file/foot scrub to ensure baby soft, barbie-esque feet. before bed time make sure to moisturize ur feet with a body butter ro vaseline and sleep with fuzzy socks on.

also keep ur toes clipped, filed, and preferably painted. personally i like to go for white toes cuz i just think its classic, but in general do NOT neglect ur feet.

ALL ABOUT FRAGRANCE ;

i love to collect different fragrances and buy a lot of perfumes bcuz i just love the variety, i love the adorable packaging i just LOVE perfume. dont be afraid to blend perfumes together and experiment with how different notes in different perfumes can work together and give u ur own unique scent.

dont sleep on oil perfumes either, personally i find them to be very rich and SO LONG LASTING?? they're absolutely amazing. when u apply the perfume try not to rub, instead press and apply it to ur pulse points.

HOT TIP - when spraying perfume on ur body, make sure to apply some onto the insides of ur knees + ankles bcuz smell travels upwards so when u walk by, the air will smell yummy 🎀

SLUGGING SECRETS ;

slugging urself before bed ensures that when u wake up ur body will be SOFT and SMOOTH and glowy. the basic before bed slugging routine is to go in with a deeply moisturizing body lotion/butter. ur gonna wanna lather urself completely (from the neck down to ur ankles) then use a body oil.

things to look for in a body lotion or body butter - helps with properties like firming and tightening of the skin. aids in deep moisture if ur someone who has dull or dry skin.

its important to find a body butter + oil combination that works well with ur skin and doesn't break u out (plus smells good)

[faybelinesworld]

[lotuslate]

everyday gestures of intimacy!!

[paintme-gold]

Morning Routine

There's been a lot of big changes in my life these past two weeks and the biggest thing that always keeps me sane during big changes is dialing in on the things that are in my control, such as my routines and daily rituals. I want to share these here to help keep myself accountable :)

Wake-up early

Wake-up time really just depends on my sleep the night before. Unfortunately I struggle with pretty intense Night Terrors so occasionally I am unable to sleep at all, or I get too exhausted and sleep in super late. My IDEAL and most consistent wake-up time is 5:30am.

HYDRATE

I am actually not a functional human being if I don't down a whole bottle of water as soon as I wake up. I keep a full bottle on my nightstand so I can grab it first thing. Then I get up and fill a 40oz tumbler with cold water to keep me hydrated throughout the day.

Yoga/Movement

Moving my body in the morning is sososo important. I tend to slack on this occasionally if I don't sleep or have bad sleep, but I try to follow along with either a 20-minute morning yoga video or a morning stress video. I'd like to get into Pilates too, and add it to the rotation.

Shower

I typically just take a quick shower in the morning to wash off any sweat from my morning movement and get reset for the day. I do a full shower with exfoliation and shaving and all that stuff at night.

Skincare

I'm planning on making a full post about my skincare routine. Once I make that post I'll link it here :)

Make-up/Dress for the Day

Again, will more than likely post my make-up routine at some point. But typically I just wear winged liner, mascara, blush, highlight, and lipgloss.

Supplements

So I have an irrational fear of aging as well as a fear of illness, so I've been pretty strict on my supplement regimen for like 3 years now lol.

Multivitamin

Vitamin C

Iron

Magnesium

Collagen

Breakfast

I always start with Greens mixed with fruit juice so that I'm starting my day with some veggies. Then I have either a Matcha with oat milk and honey or a sugar-free Monster. I usually like to have a light breakfast, so I'll typically have a soft-boiled egg with salt and pepper, a light Baybel cheese, and a Yoplait yogurt. Diet Coke with Lime is a necessity.

I'd like to add some morning journaling into my routine as well as some outside time once we're done moving.

If anyone has any comments or tips on how to improve my routine please let me know! :)

[baddiesofluxury]

[pastel-charm-14]

gentle reminder

start your day right

journal or meditate for a couple minutes

eat a healthy breakfast

[antichristual]

sounds stupid but ever since i went to my first ghost ritual, i’ve been looking prettier and feeling more myself ever since because it taught me that there are so many people in the world, and in my place, that are similar to me; taught me that i should express myself however i want to, because i will find the right people and the right people will find me.

[melitheoidevotion]

💕Aphrodite's Water 💕

This is a fruit-infused water recipe that I have affectionally coined Aphrodite water because of my personal associations with her and how I use this water. This is my UPG.

This is a simple recipe you probably already make, so why not add it to your magical and devotional routine; its ease of access, easiness to make, and versatility make it a powerful potion, great for spells, or an offering.

How it is Used:

As a potion: tailor the fruits to taste and desired magical & health properties. I drink this to connect with Aphrodite and increase my feelings of beauty, self-love, and increase my libido. I am also actively trying to be healthier and it's a good replacement for unhealthy beverages. I often combine drinking this with self-care and self-love rituals dedicated to Aphrodite. It creates an atmosphere.

As an offering: say a prayer to Aphrodite as you prepare it and offer it to her. I will typically keep this on my altar and pair it with rose quartz and sea shells.

Spells: when using for spells, I especially like to use rose petals as a garnish because I feel like it pleases Aphrodite (and me) but it's optional.

Best used in spells for abundance, fertility, self-love, romantic love, and attraction.

Use it to create a spell jar; in this case, I often add flower petals and herbs. I will often also add incense ashes or essential oils in scents associated with Aphrodite such as sandalwood. Depending on the spell, I may write something on a piece of paper and have it dissolve in the water.

Use it to extinguish spells involving fire: when burning bay leaves, or other ingredients for spells as mentioned above, I will extinguish the fire with this water.

Fruits To Use:

*many fruits/plants can be associated, but not all "infuse" the water well enough for it to taste good if you're drinking it.

Pomegranate: said to be first planted by Aphrodite herself.

Strawberries

Raspberries

Blackberries

Figs

Apples: we all know that famous story

Watermelon

What's needed:

Water

Ice (optional, but recommended if you're drinking it)

Lemon, lime, or oranges

Your choice of fresh or frozen fruit that is associated with love, lust, beauty, or sex

Reusable straw (optional, but recommended if you're drinking it)

Rose petals for garnish (optional)

Instructions:

Mix a generous amount of freshly squeezed lemon, lime, or orange with water as a base. Add your fruit and ice, shake/stir, then done. For some fruit choices, you may have to allow it some time to infuse. I recommend using a straw as citrus can be hard on your teeth if you're drinking it.

[honeytonedhottie]

beauty maintenance tips⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

FROM THE INSIDE OUT ;

get a necessary amount of sleep (8 hours or more) drink enough water for ur body and ur amount of movement that u do on a daily basis

take supplements that are good and nourishing for ur body and focus on ur intake of fresh fruits and veggies and find a way to incorporate it into a balanced diet.

SKINCARE ;

when using ur gua sha make sure to use a facial oil, i add a couple drops of facial oil into moisturizer OR i'll use the gua sha while i have an oil cleanser on my skin.

deep moisture overnight on ur lips, face, hands and feet.

use SPF on ur facial and body skin

use a sheet mask 1-2x a week

for the skin on ur hands, i recommend dry brushing ur hands and using some leftover facial serum or oils on ur hands, keep ur cuticles moisturized and moisturize ur hands also.

MAKEUP TIPS ;

i apply my mascara in a wiggling motion, in a kind of horizontal motion (->) like that.

coat lashes with mascara vertically before horizontally 

let that layer dry 

and do two layers

UNSORTED TIPS ;

use a body scrub before u shave and when ur out of the shower moisturize with a body oil before u use a cream/body butter. use lip scrubs and lip masks for softer and smoother lips.

[httpcottagewitch]

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[skitskatdacat63]

I don't know how I'd ever convey this in art but. Thinking very deeply about how in boy king au, a very crucial part of characterization is that Seb is a wolf in sheep(or lamb more specifically)'s clothing and Fernando is a sheep in wolf's clothing.

Seb is very unassuming, very delicate, seemingly very vulnerable and malleable. But, deep down, he can be very ruthless. It's in the the way he hesitantly declares war, with a spark in his eye and a suppressed smirk. In the way he challenges someone to a card game or a horse race, proclaiming that he's not great, but winning every round and prancing around the room and mentioning it ad infinitum. The way he's able to instantly turn the tide in a debate in one fell swoop. By showing all his cards constantly and letting himself be vulnerable, he's making himself invulnerable. No one would ever consider him to be able to make big moves, so he wins every single time, because no one even thinks to expect it from him.

Fernando on the other hand, is constantly committed to having a looming presence and harsh reputation, but deep down, he's soft. He knows what happens to people when they're vulnerable, and he's not going to let himself be taken advantage of. The way he keeps a brave face when being informed of the marriage proposal, but goes back to his room and cries. The way he proclaims that he was always going to be the rightful ruler of Spain, but confides to Flavio that he never thought there was any real chance of it ever happening. The way he takes himself so seriously in public, but inside feels so giddy whenever he can make someone laugh. Everything to him always feels unstable and ready to crumble at any moment, and he's not willing to contribute to that by letting himself relax.

I think thats why it's very difficult for them to get along at first, because they have completely different approaches to how they carry themselves and make their way through life. Seb is confused at Fernando because he feels that he's very bland and overly serious at first, but truthfully he's not really seeing the actual Fernando. And Fernando finds Seb to be naive and easily taken advantage of, but that's because he's never seen Seb at his most cruel. Seb really loves when he eventually gets to see Fernando being vulnerable, and Fernando really admires and respects Seb when he sees him being serious. I think it just takes a while for them to show the other their full and complete selves, even the parts they can sometimes be ashamed of. There's this very compelling dichotomy in Seb laying out all his cards, but still being very difficult to read, and Fernando keeping his cards to his chest, but his intentions often being easily seen through.

[friendlyneighborhoodshark]

⪩⪨How to deal with⪩⪨

Duck Syndrome

What is Duck Syndrome ?

It is when one pretends they look like they have it together but underneath they're struggling and distressed with balancing academics or work, social expectations and responsibilities.

How do I know if I'm struggling with one?

• You often compares yourself with others

• You feel inferior to others

• You fear criticism and failure

• You see your progress as irrelevant

• You feel like a failure and unable to keep up.

How to deal and cope with it?

• Set realistic and reasonable expectations towards yourself

• When you start to compare yourself to others

Remember people often filter what they show in public. They only choose to show the good moments.

People only show the end result. Remember they also struggled and made efforts to get where they are now.

• Have a good support system and practice being vocal of your difficulties.

• Understand you have limits and can't do everything.

• Set boundaries and learn how to say no.

• Be confident in sharing unfiltered moments.

• Make time for self-care and do mental health check-ins.

What can I do to help others who are struggling?

• Be a support system to them. Remind them it's okay to not be okay.

• Normalize and show unfiltered moments in your life.

• Help them remove the filter they put onto others.

• Let them see their progress and their own strength

[baddiesofluxury]

French Tips For Baddies

[pastel-charm-14]

how to create your own morning/night routines

hey there, lovelies! people are always talking about their 'daily routines' and what they do in the mornings/nights to take care of themselves. so how do you create ones that cater to your unique needs and preferences? here's a simple guide to help you get started:

assess your needs

take some time to reflect on what you need and want out of your morning and night routines. do you crave a slow, peaceful start to your day, or do you prefer to hit the ground running? do you need help winding down and relaxing in the evening, or do you thrive on productivity until bedtime? understanding your needs will help you create routines that work for you.

prioritize self-care

no matter what your morning and night routines look like, be sure to prioritize self-care. this could include activities like meditation, journaling, skincare, exercise, or simply enjoying a cup of tea or coffee. find activities that nourish your body, mind, and soul, and incorporate them into your routines.

establish a consistent schedule

consistency is key when it comes to morning and night routines. try to wake up and go to bed at the same time each day, and aim to start and end your routines around the same time as well. this will help regulate your body's internal clock and make it easier to stick to your routines over time.

tailor your routines to your goals

think about your goals and priorities, both short-term and long-term, and tailor your routines accordingly. if you're working towards a fitness goal, for example, you might want to incorporate exercise into your morning routine. if you're trying to improve your sleep quality, you might focus on relaxation techniques in the evening.

be flexible

while consistency is important, it's also important to be flexible and adaptable with your routines. life can be unpredictable, and there will inevitably be days when your routines don't go as planned. instead of getting discouraged, try to go with the flow and adjust your routines as needed.

listen to your body

above all, listen to your body and honor its needs. if you're feeling tired and sluggish in the morning, give yourself permission to take it easy and ease into your day. if you're feeling restless and wired at night, try incorporating calming activities to help you unwind and relax.

[thefuturewithoutus]

mag 176.01 - 'the magnus archives liveshow' x mag 11 'dreamer' x mag 50 'foundations' x mag 161 'dwelling'

[ID: A collection of excerpts from the Magnus Archives transcripts that read:

1. Archivist: Uh - yes - who - who is it? Oh. Tim, yes, good. Good, ah.

2.

Archivist (cont’d): Come on, let’s - (inhale) Let’s deal with this before it escalates.

Tim: Yeah, right.

3. Archivist: I had Tim look into it, as I don’t entirely trust the others not to have written it as a practical joke and slipped it into the archives.

4.

Archivist: You don’t have a problem with the police, do you, Tim?

Tim: Well, you do know I’m the finest cat burglar in all of Bromley.

Archivist: Tim.

5.

Tim: A source of ignition? In the Archives? [SASHA LAUGHS.] Uh-oh.

Archivist: Tim.

6.

Archivist: Oh. Right, yes, (unconvincing) I - I remember.

TIM: (smiling) Liar. End ID]