#Disabled Blogger

[majaurukalo]

Disability benefits shouldn’t be tied to the income of a disabled person’s partner/spouse/parent.

Do you hear me?

DISABILITY BENEFITS SHOULDN’T BE TIED TO THE INCOME OF A DISABLED PERSON’S PARTNER/SPOUSE/PARENT.

This is the straight forward way to deprive a disabled person of their financial freedom and independence and trap them into possible abusive relationships.

[theoverstimulated]

"You might think that because you’ve had COVID-19 and lived through it that repeat infections will impact you similarly, but “reinfections aren't harmless. As cases continue to rise and more variants arrive on the scene, infectious-disease experts are warning that repeat infections could have cumulative, lasting effects.”

...If you want to maintain your current level of health and avoid potential damage to your body & organs (up to and including your brain & your heart) and/or want to live as long as possible, taking precautions to prevent COVID-19 infections is crucial."

[a-little-revolution]

♡ HAPPY DISABLED PRIDE MONTH!!!! ♡

Photo description: magemikoart's poster for disabled pride month. It is a high contrast art piece on a black background with yellow, red, blue, and green flowers that surround the disabled pride flag with text that reads "disability pride month"

[davidaster]

I’m just so frustrated with the pressure to find a job when I know I have such limitations.

[cpunkwitch]

Disability blog appreciation post

Because some of you need more recognition

@disabled-systems - a culture is blog for disabled systems run by a longtime follower of ours <3

@whos-that-demon - active in the cpunk community and reblogs plenty of interesting and silly things!

@disabledsysboxes - a userbox blog for systems focused on disabilities and disorders, we made this after finding out disabled-sysboxes was transandrophobic before they archived.

@cpunk-strabismus - good friend and mutual of ours, a fellow system in the disabled and cpunk communities. Absolutely worth checking out their cpunk blog !

@pixelated-blood-cells - yet another fellow system active in the cpunk community! Posts and reblogs some neat stuff!

I may make a part two if anyone else would like to be tagged for appreciation!

Be sure to check dnis before interacting/following people!

[melodymorningdew]

@doctordisco12

[i-identify-as-tired]

Welcome to my blog ✮⋆˙

Rebooted my main and am looking for community and a space to exist because my college is white gay liberal jail (I say this a white queer leftist, I can't stand it here).

18+ only please!! Not a horny blog exactly, just lots of adult topics

✮ Salem/Juno

✮ 19 (6 months til I'm 20)

✮ they/he/xe/vae + neos

✮ trans+agender+gnc

✮ greydemirose, sapphillean, queer, polyamorous, t4t

✮ partnered and NOT seeking

✮ otherkin/alterhuman

✮ plural/DID system (endo safe, y'all are chill)

✮ disabled (currently being evaluated for a progressing autoimmune disease)

✮ autism, adhd, ptsd, bipolar I, gad, ocd, arfid

✮ anarchist/leftist trying to foster community and connection but that's real tough rn due to my progressing illness and the very bigoted, purist, cliquey nature of my college

✮ lover of art, writing, poetry, fashion, diy, nature, music, film, crafts, alternative subcultures

[a-trace-of-lace]

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[scribloome]

✦・゜Hello & welcome to my little corner・゜✦

﹒✧ Amandine but i prefer Amy ┊ french ┊ she/her ┊ 26 y.o ┊ bi with a love for soft things 🌸

﹒✧ disabled dreamer crafting a life in pastel tones 🩷🦽

﹒✧ INFJ ☁︎ leo sun 🌻☁︎ hypersensitive heart

﹒✧ soft aesthetics / clay worlds / stimboards / cozy vibes 🌷

⋆｡˚☁︎ what you'll find here ⊹

﹒୨˚･ handmade clay creations

﹒୨˚･ stimboard collections & sensory joy

﹒୨˚･ thoughts & rambles from a cozy soul

﹒୨˚･ inspo, comfort & slow living energy

⋆｡˚✩ about me

﹒♡ obsessed with: strawberries, pastel colors, lemon pie, music, cozy games like Animal Crossing , Marvel , ....

﹒♡ loves: making things with my hands, talking about passions, vibing with dreamy aesthetics

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⌗ interests & comfort content

⤷ series i love

› Bridgerton (especially season 2)

› Grey’s Anatomy

› Weightlifting Fairy Kim Bokjoo

› Goblin : The Lonely And Great God

› Strong Woman Do Bong Soon

› Marvel universe ( i'm currently watching Marvels Agent Carter and it's so good )

⤷ animés & mangas

› Jujutsu Kaisen

› Spy x Family

› Fruits Basket

› Tokyo Revengers

› Attack On Titan

› Naruto

› Demon Slayer

› Chainsaw Man

⤷ music & artists

› Sabrina Carpenter

› Ariana Grande

› Madison Beer

› Olivia Rodrigo

› Chappell Roan

› RAYE

› beabadoobee

› Laufey

› a chaotic mix of city pop, kpop, sad indie & 2000s vibes

› special mention: rainy day playlists and piano instrumentals ( everything that appease me )

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If you’ve read all this, thank you for stepping into my little cozy universe. I hope you’ll find here the same softness I’m constantly trying to surround myself with. Feel free to say hi, my inbox is a safe place — always.

/!\ Please don’t interact if you’re here with flirty intentions, especially if you're an older man. I want this blog to feel like a safe and cozy corner, not a weird inbox situation. Thank you for respecting that. /!\

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© credits to puppizai for the header

[fanciful-wonderland]

I've created my website! If you want to follow along with my creative projects, here it is:

Fancifulwonderland.com

[majaurukalo]

But the way we perceive health and ability is truly problematic. No, eating protein shakes, avoiding ultra processed food, training everyday, running on the treadmill, etc. don’t put you out of the “dangers” of disability and illness (if we want to call it that).

No one is immune to illness, bad genes, accidents or old age. And becoming disabled or ill isn’t synonym of failure or “bad behaviours”.

Our bodies are fragile. Human beings are fragile. That’s why disability needs to be taken into account more seriously and considered as a social issue. For you, your loved ones and all the people you don’t know of but who deserve to be treated with dignity and respect no matter the state of their health and abilities.

I didn’t get sick at one year of age because I deserved it or because I was morally corrupt. How could I be? I was 1. It just happened. It was an autoimmune disease. That’s it.

[theoverstimulated]

If you're interested in building community and acting in solidarity, this week's post is a short piece about an easy action you can take today.

[a-little-revolution]

A-Little-Revolution just surpassed 3,000 followers!!!

Thank you so much to everyone who's shown an interest in my Little blog, it's been such an amazing experience! I'm so glad I've been able to spread useful information to the tumblr community, I never expected to be so well received!! Thank you all so so much!!

Your Little blogger,

Elliot (they/them)

[waywardtyrantpirate]

Im...having mixed feelings about getting a cane. Ik I need one but I don't...I just....it will help me get better and stop the problem from getting worse. I fear that I'm not -disabled- enough even though my walking has been getting worse and worse lately. But it's it feels that I am now more permanently visibly disabled, my appreance is important to me, and I feel like I will be judged, as I have been in the past about my disability. I just want to disclaim that I don't see anything wrong w/ someone using a cane but I grew up in a household where if you used a mobility device it's bad. I'm in a place where I can get one and not be berated for it. I'm doing some cane shopping lately and feel a part of me healing.

Thx for reading !!!

[melodymorningdew]

I love being told that the help I'm given means I owe something to the person who helped me 🙃 Like don't help me, then.

[itsgivingautism]

01/18/24 — Zia rants about being autistic & physically disabled & chronically ill in a fucked ableist society & having to be dependent on their partner

Started to have meltdown over this & other stuff to my partner before he left for work…. I didn’t meant to have a morning meltdown. I found myself shutting down and feeling guilty before he left bc I can recognize it’s hard on him even when he doesn’t wanna show it. But needed a place to rant and ended up going off down below for a like an hour. I don’t want to open up but I made tumblr after not being on here since high school for an outlet for a lot of reasons, with support & encouragement from therapists to do so. But I also hate being perceived. I’m just so fucking annoying tho I somehow always bring attention to myself that I never want….. but I’m also learning to tell my story & share my experiences. As an autistic person late diagnosed who was severely abused throughout my entire childhood opening up, learning to unmask & not shutdown, understanding my own thoughts, feelings, & experiences is so fucking hard.

I am so grateful for my partner but god I wish I was independent. I wish I had the ability to take care of myself. I wish I wasn’t so fucking dependent on his love and support. I wish I wasn’t so needy, or clingy. I wish I wasn’t disabled physically and mentally. I wish I wasn’t so wounded & traumatized. I wish I wasn’t so chronically ill. I wish I wasn’t in autistic burnout, a state of prolonged cognitive decline that one average can last 2-10 years.

I wish I could get a job. Even working from home but my mind can’t even. I’m constantly age regressing and going across different timelines of my mind and getting trapped, constantly disconnecting from this current physical reality even when I seem like a part of it to others - but it’s just automatic masking as a trauma response. All a result of my CPTSD+autism+adhd

I haven’t been able to work a real job since 2020. I’ve been fighting to get the support & benefits I need but constantly being shit on. Having to go thru constant channels to prove how severe my issues are and then being told try this treatment first and when it doesn’t work its still somehow my fault. I’m sick of having to prove my disabilities & illnesses and then when I show how bad they are I’m being dramatic. But when I mask & show strength, I must be making it up. How could you be so strong about then? There’s no winning. Only losing. I don’t see a point in showing weakness or asking for help. But then refusing to and bottling it all up, that has lead me to deeply problematic bad spirals. I just want to be taken seriously by doctors & medical professionals. I hate this country.

I wish I was normal. I hate burdening my partner. Although I know he doesn’t want me to feel like one and he genuinely wants to help me, I also know I stress him out….

I am dependent on him financially while his job is fucking over their contracts, refusing to give him & his coworkers the raises they were supposed to get a year ago. Him and his coworkers have collectively trying to unionize for months (which is the only reason they actually didn’t get a pay cut which the company was tryna do even tho they were supposed to give raises last year) and ofc my partner has been the one leading the unionizing. (We joke about my radicalism really rubbing off on him)

I’m constantly trying to find ways to make money, which end up doing more damage to my body. He hate what it does to me. He wishes he could do more while stuck in his work contract. it’s a lot on him. And I feel like his life would be so much less stressful without me tho….. or at least if I could just be normal & healthy….

Even my friends point out that unless I’m talking about my emotions & trauma I don’t make any sense talking…. like burnout really shows…. It’s embarrassing constantly. I sound like a so clearly disabled most of the time. I used to exceptionally smart & articulate before this burnout. Ik they mean it accepting my but it’s hard when 90% of what I say comes out wrong. It’s hard when I’m trying to be supportive and it sounds like asshole shit bc my issues with speech & cognition. I want to be a lovely validating friend. Not the one they have to dissect my word vomit to find the love & support in foolish clumsily words. I’m technically hyperlexic so I can keep creating words but my other learning disabilities downgrade the quality & meaning of those words.

But I also only make sense when talking about my looping emotions & trauma is bc I only share what I can (the deeper stuff is vaulted by selective mutism & shutdowns). This is the shit going thru my brain, talking to myself about and looping constantly. Ofc it’s the only thing I can talk about. But even most the time I’m still not making sense entirely. But it’s all I can think about, talk to myself about, and it’s all the my brain is giving me permission to share about myself.