#Trans adhd

[felixs-infodump]

how does one wear noise canceling headphones comfortably? I own a pair of bose headphones and I’ve had to stop wearing them because they’re giving me intense headaches and idk what to do

does anyone have any tips to prevent that? I’ve already tried adjusting them

[t0ta1-w31rd0]

(transid safe. you can be yourself here./srs)

transadhd tips as a cisadhd:

☆ constantly fidget. anything and everything can be used as a fidget, not even just toys. click pens, play with your necklace, anything.

☆ if you’re in school, forget to do the occasional assignment. space out during class. think that you’re listening, but then realize later you were daydreaming the entire time. anything to get unfocused.

☆ mishear people. it’s not about not hearing what they say, it’s about hearing or interpreting it incorrectly. you have a much different understanding of what people mean when they say things vs what they actually mean when they say them.

☆ talk to yourself, and don’t realize you’re doing so. Just little whispers, possibly about your special interest or hyperfixation, and act confused when people point it out. it’s not even like you’re expecting anyone to reply.

reminder: this is only coming from my experience as someone with cisadhd, and this may not be what you have in mind.

[mikehasfleas]

Most annoying thing to remember is that you're litterally just a homosapien. You're just a very smart animal. If you feel like shit, imagine you're an exotic pet for some alien species and do what they'd do to keep you healthy. You gotta be well cared for. Animal abuse is a crime for a reason

"My pet human, Greg, hasn't left his bed in a long time. He's just scrolling his phone all day" Greg needs enrichment. Add enrichment in his enclosure and take him on walks

"Greg has been super lethargic and sad recently for seemingly no reason" Greg need vitamins, take him outside for some vitamin D and fresh air. Perhaps a picnic

"Greg won't sleep even though he's been super lethargic" Greg needs a schedule, especially for the lights in his enclosure.

"Greg has been super distant recently and keeps crying to sad music" Humans are pack animals, he needs to hug another human and hang out. Perhaps pack bond with a rock together

"Greg has been flailing around and panicking, his breathing is way faster than it should be" Greg is overwhelmed. Take Greg out of the situation and give him time to calm down. Perhaps somewhere cozy with tea and a movie

"Greg won't do what he needs to do" Train him. Humans do great with positive reinforcement, give him little treats when he's doing good

"Greg he's been super anxious and tired, he can't seem to enjoy his days" Humans needs to move around. Give Greg something to exercise with. Things like stretching, weight lifting, walking, or even dancing will help

"Even though I've taken really good care of Greg, he still has been having issues" Greg is ill, take him to the doctor. You might need a specialist (therapist, optometrist, oncologist, etc)

I know it feels patronizing, and I know it feels embarrassing or that you're "just giving into the clichés", but you are literally just a creature. You need to sleep/eat on time, you need enrichment, and you need to take care of your social needs. Humans are complicated animals, but they are also beautiful and all deserve proper care. This obviously isn't a perfect analogy, nothing is, but if you saw your friend taking care of their pet the way you take care of yourself, would you be concerned?

[unitedfrontvarietyhour]

The Ruling Class wants to speed run history. So let's teach them some history.

(Pt.1)

[ponikopuffy]

DON'T SKIP THIS POST AND READ THIS

THEY PUT THE KOSA BILL IN THE FAA

THIS IS TERRIBLE NEWS, AND THE REASON WHY THIS IS HAPPENING IT'S BECUESE SOME OF YOU YALL STAY SILENT BECUESE YOU GUYS GIVE UP

IF YALL DON'T WANNA LET THE KOSA BILL PASS THEN DONT STAY IN LISENT AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT

https://www.stopkosa.com/

https://www.woodhullfoundation.org/get-involved/stop-kosa/

https://www.change.org/p/stop-the-kosa

https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2024/02/dont-fall-latest-changes-dangerous-kids-online-safety-act

AND REMENBER, DONT LET THEM WIN, BECUESE WE NEED TO STILL FIGHT.

[cerebral-starleigh]

did you know you could stay up all night with your girlfriend cuddling naked and watching ManlyBadassHero letsplays did you know that did you did you

did you know lesbians are awesome and cuddly and love you and will hear you out on almost any stupid idea did you know that did you did you did you

did you know when you yawn and its late at night your girlfriend will say "awwh, well someone sounds tired" and you can go "nyouu im nyot tireeeedd :<" and then they'll pet you did you know that

did you know she'll stay up all night with you while you slowly drift asleep and take cute selfies of the two of you while you struggle to keep your little eyes open did you know that did you know??????

[etherealspacejelly]

its so funny looking back on my 'not like other girls' phase now as an adult, knowing im audhd, aroace, and transmasc

like. honey. you dont like makeup because of sensory issues. you dont like dresses because of dysphoria. you dont care about boys because you're not attracted to them in that way. of Course you dont fit in with the other girls, a) you're not a girl and b) you're autistic as fuck dumbass

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

Trans Prom! Oh dear, Blob Moth had a bit much to drink...

Thasnks to @zaigg for starting this wonderful trend! I'm so glad to be able to participate this year.

[ashes2caches]

transfem with adhd who can’t stop talking about that new show she started watching even when her girlfriend’s dick is shoved inside her.

[anarchistfrogposting]

“The bullying will go away if you just handle it with enough grace and kindness” is a disgusting lie that could only ever be perpetuated by someone who has never been bullied before. Anyone who has ever experienced real bullying knows that bullied respond to one thing and one thing only; consequences.

[felixs-infodump]

being trans is crazy, like what do you mean listening to olivia rodrigo makes me dysphoric??

[anameistoohard]

*Instantly Dies*

"We need to drink water."

"Nahhh lets make a comic about needing to drink water instead."

🙃

[cryptid-tyson]

*Paws at you* give me attention

*Paws at you* give me attention

*Paws at you* . . .

*Sad creature noises*

[enbycrip]

ID: a tweet by mythical @mitskileaks

“I used to rebel by destroying myself, but realized that's awfully convenient to the world.for some of us our best revolt is self-preservation,”

[raineofthedragons]

Maturing is understanding the dozen or so reasons as to why Mulan (1998) spoke to you on a spiritual level despite being a five year old

[jack-in-the-pantry]

a summary of Digestivo -

save/share GIFs from Tenor:

Will // Hannibal